Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I. It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section. So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties. My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation. Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing. Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD. So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect. Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me. During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.
The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.
I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out. Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.
I said it earlier on not everything can be solve with peace bcus some people are toxic,it is only aggressive way to outride them,congratulation bro TEAM NO NONSENSE,had'nt being you beg him he would still do worse. once again congratulation on your freedom.
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Yankeeboy02: I just want to share my story to the world. When I graduated, I was so blessed that I didn’t hurt for job, before I got one. I was working in the bank and was paid well, within a year I rented an apartment and got married, things was falling in place and I felt on top of the world before I started gambling, how I started it, I can’t explain. I lost all my resources and money within two years, I was sacked eventually and life became worst for me. I got another job and promised my wife, family and kids to be a responsible father, but the urge for gambling keep coming, I couldn’t control the urge, I lost the job again. My wife believed am a good man, but I see myself like am cursed and it is not that am getting money from the gambling. I am sick and tired of life, I am a failure, sometimes I feel like committing suicide, I have brought shame to my family and kids. Please I need help, am jobless, money can’t stay in my hand, I will go to gambling shop and lavish it. Am I cursed, I need help
forgive yourself and forge ahead bro you are not cursed just change your mindset for good bro.
WillyWonda1: I really don't know what I did to my immediate boss since I got promoted earlier this year. Ever since I got my promotion letter, my boss changed to me abruptly. He suddenly finds everything I do useless.
When I noticed the change, I went to him and begged him to tell me what I had done wrong so we could settle everything and get back along. But he said I did nothing wrong and I shouldn't worry about anything. So I locked up and was doing my job to the best of my ability. So he did something that sparked my madness and anger.
I got an email that I was to go on board our vessel to go and load from Lagos cos our mother vessel berthed in Lagos. And cos of my promotion, I'm not supposed to be a crew member anymore. But I was surprised to see the mail and went to his office to address the issue, next thing he said was 'IF YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR DUTY, YOU CAN RESIGN'.
That statement really sent chills down my spine and I sparked and told him really derogatory words. I don't even feel anyhow about my reacton. I'm happy I told him his life history. I'm very excited to have poured my mind out to him. If I get sacked, I won't feel bad, rather I'll be glad I told him what I told him. #Peace
Everybody suggestion is highly welcome,but one thing about life is that not everything that peace can solve,sometimes you need to be aggressive and take the bull by the horn,some people are too toxic.I support your plight bro.quote me,he is going to be your best friend now because he knows he has pushed you beyond the limits. CHEERS TEAM NO DULLING