 Family › Re: Man Takes His Grandmother Out For A Christmas Date - Pictures by merits(m): 9:40pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
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| Politics › Re: Prominent Nigerians Who Died In 2020 by merits(m): 9:33pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Jeeeez 
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| Crime › Re: Lagos OPC Members Kill Man For Breaking Into Hotel Room During Lovers' Sex Romp by merits(m): 9:20pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
#endopc 
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| Politics › Re: How Christmas Was Celebrated In GOMBE by merits(m): 3:49pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
jared007:
Christmas sleep dey sweet live Lol... sweet no be small. |
| Politics › Re: How Christmas Was Celebrated In GOMBE by merits(m): 3:48pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
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| Politics › Re: How Christmas Was Celebrated In GOMBE by merits(m): 3:47pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Mummymahdi:
Just like my husband , no occassions in his life. Real introvert Na so madam wetin man go do?na today rest dey go na. |
| Politics › Re: How Christmas Was Celebrated In GOMBE by merits(m): 3:45pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
gwinaB:
Seems sleeping is your primary talent Lol.... because i can not come and kill myself na  |
| Politics › Re: How Christmas Was Celebrated In GOMBE by merits(m): 10:02am On Dec 26, 2020 |
This how celebrate mine below 
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| Politics › Re: Obasanjo: The Man, The General, The President By Femmy Carrena Set T Be Launched by merits(m): 9:58am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Enough of this abeg,who he epp seff? 
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| Education › Re: Why We Sacked 2,414 Teachers Employed By Ex-gov Ahmed –kwara Govt by merits(m): 9:54am On Dec 26, 2020 |
May almighty Allah judge you according to your intentions.ameena ya Allah. 
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| Education › Re: NUC Directs Universities To Suspend Academic Activities by merits(m): 9:53am On Dec 26, 2020 |
bluefilm:
#COVIDIOTS 
Just because Europe said they are experiencing the second wave of the Scamdemic, our copy copy NCDC decides to activate their own Scamdemic second wave version.
Nonsense  Exactly all what they know na copy copy no single initiative atall. But I still don't blame them,cuz when they were in school na by giraffe copy copy dey take pass.so the attitude as already be embedded in them follow come character. |
| Politics › Re: Senator Ike Ekweremadu Spends Christmas With NYSC Corps Members In His Home by merits(m): 6:38am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Baba stop this show off abeg,find them job not food. 
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| Foreign Affairs › Re: Explosion In Nashville, USA; FBI Calls It Intentional by merits(m): 6:37am On Dec 26, 2020 |
White with their lie-lie attitude,they must get excuse to defend their fault.nonsense. 
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| Politics › Re: Kukah: There Could've Been Coup If A Non-Northern Practised Nepotism Like Buhari by merits(m): 6:10am On Dec 26, 2020 |
God dey. |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Explosion In Nashville, USA; FBI Calls It Intentional by merits(m): 6:08am On Dec 26, 2020 |
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| Politics › Re: Bandits Kill Two Senior Police Officers, Injure One In Jigawa by merits(m): 6:07am On Dec 26, 2020 |
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| Food › Re: Post Your Christmas Food Here by merits(m): 12:22am On Dec 26, 2020 |
See mine 
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| Health › Re: COVID-19 Update For December 25 2020 In Nigeria by merits(m): 12:05am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Abeg they should stop this nonsense,coro no dey naija na poverty they kill people. |
| Food › Re: Christmas Snake Is Here: Python Killed By Hunter, Sold by merits(m): 12:04am On Dec 26, 2020 |
CalliDora1:
Looks dirty and I'm sure it stinks. It looks dirty, you for carry sponch and soap with water to go wash am clean na. |
| Celebrities › Re: Dorathy Bachor And Family Share Christmas Pictures by merits(m): 11:37pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
The machester |
| Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe And Family Share Lovely Christmas Pictures by merits(m): 11:35pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Yemi Alade Shares Lovely Christmas Pictures by merits(m): 11:27pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija: Tacha Shares Lovely Christmas Pictures by merits(m): 11:24pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Checkout Mercy Eke's 2020 Christmas Pictures by merits(m): 11:21pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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| Family › Re: Lady Appreciates The Christmas Chicken Her Husband Bought But Gets Slammed by merits(m): 10:53pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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| Christianity Etc › Re: The Heroes Of Christmas by merits(m): 11:32am On Dec 25, 2020 |
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| Family › Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by merits(m): 11:31am On Dec 25, 2020 |
authority2006:
No, he should rather keep quiet and die in silence. Na your type would rather die in silence or make silly mistake instead of seeking help. Mumu too dey give advice. No need to even talk to you cuz I can see that your medulla oblongata is very weak to reason for you.you must support it with others ewuuuuu. |
| Family › Re: Lady Appreciates The Christmas Chicken Her Husband Bought But Gets Slammed by merits(m): 11:27am On Dec 25, 2020 |
StagethemTVee:
Lady Comes Under Fire For Appreciating The Christmas Chicken Her Husband Bought
A Nigerian lady who took to twitter to appreciate her husband for buying her a live Chicken for their first Christmas together has come under intense fire from twitter users who felt the Husband should have killed and defeathered the chicken instead of making her go through the stress of doing it herself. However a lot of others took her side and defended her.
Source: https://twitter.com/ADEBLESS2020/status/1342029503376330753 If you tell them to stop carrying their matrimonial issues come on social media,they won't listen.authority2006 is one of them mumu guy there type have weak medulla oblongata to reason. |
| Politics › Re: FG Sets Up Committee To Fight Hunger In Nigeria by merits(m): 11:13am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Useless committee, embezzlement , failure and greedy committee. |
| Islam › Re: How To Raise Children Into Responsible Adults by merits(m): 11:11am On Dec 25, 2020 |
Realismailakabir:
Prophet (s) said: “Allah (SWT) will ask every caretaker about the people under his care, and the man will be asked about the people of his household” (Nasa’i, Abu Da’ud).
Allah (SWT) states in the Quran about the need to raise families in the light of their end destination, which may be translated in the following words:
“O you who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families against a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded” (Tahrim 66:6).
The following are some of the critical areas related to raising children into responsible Muslim adults:
(1)Give the child a good name
Parents have the responsibility to provide the child with a good name which is in accordance with Islamic traditions. One of the hadith in this context is the one narrated by Naafi’ that Ibn ‘Umar said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “The most beloved of your names to Allah are ‘Abd-Allah and ‘Abd al-Rahmaan” (Narrated by Muslim, 2132).
(2) Inculcating The concept of “La Ilaha Illa-Allah” and Huquq Allah (Rights of Allah)
Parents should inculcate in their children the correct ‘aqeedah of the oneness of Allah followed by all religious acts of worship that are needed for them to get close to Allah. The principles of Tawheed should never be taken lightly because they mark the boundaries of entering Islam. Mu`âdh bin Jabal relates that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said to him: “O Mu`âdh! Do you know what is Allah’s right over His servants and what their right is over Him?” I said: “Allah and His Messenger know best.” He said: “Allah’s right over His servants is that they worship Him without associating any partner with Him in worship, and their right over Him is that He does not punish anyone who worships Him without associating any partner with Him in worship” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim].
(3) Spend appropriately on your children
Parents, and especially fathers, have the responsibility to spend on their children in ways that can help their proper upbringing. It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Amr said: The Messenger of Allah (s) said: “It is sufficient sin for a man if he neglects those on whom he is obliged to spend” (Narrated by Abu Dawood, 1692; classed as sahan by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 4481)
(4) Your children deserve the right to proper education and upbringing
One of the most important facets of raising children is for the parents to provide them with the right training. According to Islamic traditions, the best gift that parents can provide to their children is training that can help them live as responsible Muslim adults fulfilling the rights of Allah and others. This, then, can lead them to succeed in the hereafter as well. The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi va sallam) said, “The best gift to children from parents is their correct training” (Tirmizi).
(5) Treat your children fairly
All children within a family have their own rights to be treated fairly. This right was referred to by the Prophet (s) in the saheeh hadeeth: “Fear Allah and treat your children fairly” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2447; Muslim, 1623).
Parents should not show undue preference to their children based on their gender or other criteria.
(6)Helping children to choose their role models
Role models help people to model their behavior and character after those personalities. Parents should, therefore, help their children choose their role models wisely. When teaching about Islam and its teachings, parents should help their children learn about the lives of the prophets, especially Prophet Muhammad (s), sahaba (prophet’s companions such as Abu Bakar, Umar, and so on), tabieen (the ones who followed the sahaba), other salaf (the likes of Hassan al-Basri, Muhammad ibn Sirin, Umar Ibn Abdul-Aziz, Ahmad bin Hanbal, etc.), and early Islamic scholars such as Ibne-Taymiyyah, Ibn Al-Qayyim, Ibn Katheer, and so on.
(7) Teaching children knowledge of the Quran
In addition to teaching your children recitation of the Quran, knowledge of the Quran will help your children to think beyond the mundane matters of this life and instead develop elevated thinking that can enable them to ponder about critical issues that can help them reconcile the many confusing ideologies that the world will throw at them as they grow up. Getting them to start thinking about the reasons of their existence, their day to day struggles, and where the world is heading to will make them become more prudent in terms of their life’s priorities.
( Teach your children skills that lead to earning only Halal (legal)
Parents should spend their time, effort, and resources to help their children make the right choices for earning a living. In doing so, parents should stress the need for their children to pursue career paths that can provide them solely with Halal (legal) living. Islam places enormous emphasis on this subject and these teachings are clearly stated both in the Quran and hadith. In one case, the prophet (s) said:
“…Purify your food, your supplication will be accepted. By the one in whose hand lays the life of Muhammad, verily a servant places a morsel of Haram in his stomach (and as a result) forty days of worship will not be accepted from him.” (Recorded by Imam Tabrani).
to read more on this topic - source https://www.iqrasense.com/muslim-character/raising-children-in-islam-how-to-raise-children-into-responsible-muslim-adults.html MonshaAllah |
| Family › Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by merits(m): 11:00am On Dec 25, 2020 |
authority2006:
No, he should rather keep quiet and die in silence. Na your type would rather die in silence or make silly mistake instead of seeking help. Mumu too dey give advice. Ode you be.see bird of the same feather,so na people like you can't reason on yourself until you call on social media kids to come and settle your matrimonial home.i don't blame you na people like normally break last last fool. |
| Family › Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by merits(m): 10:50pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
T817:
I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.
My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to
drain me.
Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.
What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.
My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.
Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.
What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please Kill her na must you carry everything come to nairaland to judge for you.mumu man. 
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