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Politics › Re: Senators Threaten Impeachment, Budget Delay To Force Security Action by merits(m): 9:15am On Dec 16, 2020
Islie:
*Reps demand implementation of ‘Safe Schools declaration’

*Zamfara closes boarding schools to avert attacks

*PDP condemns Buhari’s visit to cattle ranch

*Sultan seeks greater commitment from FG, govs





https://m.guardian.ng/news/senators-threaten-impeachment-budget-delay-to-force-security-action/



Lalasticlala
Hopeless leader

Celebrities › Re: Belinda Effah Celebrates Her 31st Birthday With Stunning Photos by merits(m): 10:13pm On Dec 15, 2020
Beckysexy:
Wow, she looks younger than her age.
Just like me
Continue attention seeker.
Family › Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by merits(m): 10:01pm On Dec 15, 2020
willingheart:
I'm truly in love with this guy. We are happy together, We understand each other perfectly. With him I'm � myself, No pretence. Same with him. He's everything I want in a man, but the problem is that: he doesn't have money. He keeps trying, but things are not working. no job and he's from a family where everyone are on their own facing their challenges, no support.


He's 35yrs this yr and I'm 30 already. He wants to get married, but he can't afford it.

Lately, I buy almost everything for him, to support him.

Age is not on my side, yet the only man I love and that loves me can't afford to marry me. If we're married, it will be easy for me to share everything with him without my family members putting eyes.

My Aunt called me stu.pid that i should accept a financially stable man instead of being with a man who can not afford to take care of me.
I have little money I saved to support my wedding as well, but he have nothing.

Married people in the house please help.
I want to have direction plan for my life coming year.

Marrying the one you love or the one that's financially stable. What's your advice and opinion?
Marry the one you love, with love everything will fall into place.

Celebrities › Re: Omah Lay And Tems Have Been Freed And Handed Over To Nigerian Mission In Uganda by merits(m): 9:55pm On Dec 15, 2020
sewaqueen:
Welcome Omah Lay,

Uganda taught you a lesson! wink


Anyway just in case you're reading this, I'm here to take your order, I have pen!s enlargement gel for the men wey sabi,
Go from 1min to 30mins no stop with harder and bigger 'gbola'...
Not expensive, its just 5k only.

Lagos clients only pls, my WhatsApp number is in my signature/bio/profile for a chat on how to place order kiss kiss kiss
sewaqueen abi waiting be your name.
Who large, and strong penls help? with all this rise in cost of every commodities,how penls wan take rise seff? flaccid till end of Buhari regime.
Politics › Re: FG Approves Five-Year Plan To Reduce Hunger, Malnutrition by merits(m): 9:25pm On Dec 15, 2020
Another nonsense lieing.
Health › Re: 26 Soldiers Test Positive For COVID-19 As Army Fumigates Headquarters by merits(m):
All this rubbish should stop abeg, which convid -19 they worry them this is just a plan to cover up major general irvin death.we are not fool anymore.
Investment › Re: Crowd Besiege Makurdi Stadium For Ponzi Scheme Reward, Left Disappointed by merits(m): 9:59am On Dec 15, 2020
Travel › Re: Man Climbs Onto Wing Of Airplane Before Takeoff In Las Vegas by merits(m): 11:28pm On Dec 14, 2020
If it where to be Nigeria ipob will still blame Buhari

Romance › Re: Relationships are Overrated by merits(m): 11:24pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etchuh

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman
Shut up,is not everybody that have miserable and frustrated life like yours even the two holy books supports marriage.
Who beg you to marry seff?your old age will tell mumu.in your old age you will be taking to psychiatric hospital to give up the ghost ewuuuu
Romance › Re: Why Our Kids Should Enroll In Technical School Before Going To University by merits(m): 11:00pm On Dec 14, 2020
Not only technical na mechanic.smoke.
Politics › Re: Delta State Government Ban The Use Of Fireworks During Festive Season by merits(m): 10:55pm On Dec 14, 2020
Why how would I make my jealous neighbor knows that I have money more than him?

Fire work is use to intimidate jealous neighbor. grin it sweet die.
Politics › Re: Senators, Reps Query NCC Over Secret Recruitment Of 300 Staff by merits(m): 9:59pm On Dec 14, 2020
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Foreign Affairs › Re: U.S. Electoral College Begins Voting by merits(m): 9:19pm On Dec 14, 2020
Biden is leading for now.




Meanwhile like for Biden share for Trump.let see your opinion.
Sports › Re: Nigeria's Football is set for total blackout In The Year 2021... by merits(m): 9:03pm On Dec 14, 2020
If they like make den turn from blackout to knockout,I don't give a Bleep.who they epp?
Politics › Re: Asiwaju Bola Tinubu Visits Maiduguri (photos) by merits(m): 8:58pm On Dec 14, 2020
OLAADEX:
The All Progressives Congress National leader Asiwaju Bola Tinubu today Visits Maiduguri Borno State and pay Courtesy Visit to Gov. Babagana zullum and other party Chieftains
Why is he going up and down?AREWA will betray you...the way they betrayed mko Abiola.stop wasting your time to appeal to them.
Celebrities › Re: Wedding Ceremony Of 23-year-old Suleiman Isah & His 46 Year Old White Lover by merits(m): 5:49pm On Dec 13, 2020
Netanya:
Sadly , there will be a time when whites will stop having anything to do with Nigerians . I hope he's not doing this 'cos of the Green card .
Jealousy just shut your smelling mouth.
Politics › Re: GSS Kaduna Kidnap: Military In Firefight With Gang Who Kidnapped Students by merits(m): 9:43pm On Dec 12, 2020
Romance › Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by merits(m): 6:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.
It's possible to do so, because I took the risk from my house wife,I sponsored her for school and waited for seven years before sex.it is not easy sha, but if the guy truly love her he would stay no matter what.tell her never to compromise her virginity for gifts from someone.it as a reward if she can let her husband be the lucky guy.i am living witness InshaAllah.
Politics › Re: COVID-19: Kaduna Govt May Impose Lockdown – Commissioner by merits(m): 6:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
saaphiere:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/12/covid-19-kaduna-govt-may-impose-lockdown-commissioner/
Useless another way of stealing palliative.billion will be budgeted for palliative the governors will still keep it in the warehouse for their future generations.
Politics › Re: Terrorism: Account For Kidnapped Katsina Students - PDP Tells Buhari by merits(m): 5:14pm On Dec 12, 2020
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Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye: Naira Will Be Powerful Again by merits(m): 5:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
They have come again ooo,lie lie prophecy,"naira will be strong again"?if i hear.

Family › Re: How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man by merits(m): 5:08pm On Dec 12, 2020
Heartbrokengirl:
I have always hated the idea of dating married people, but here I am...the ex-girlfriend of a married man.

It started sometime during the lockdown, I went somewhere to get groceries and ran into this man. Let’s call him Mr X. His smile and sense of humour was the attraction. He was putting on a nice senator material and when I stood for us to leave, he towered above me. I am a 6ft tall lady and ladies with my height can tell the happiness when you meet a taller man.

We started chatting regularly and we were in a competition to give ourselves treats. On our second date which I initiated, I asked his age and he replied 36, he asked mine and I told him. He expressed his doubts and I showed him my drivers license. Started asking many questions about my background and I answered all of them. I asked about him too, including his marital status.

I had just gotten out of a relationship, his father said he wouldn’t marry outside the Catholic church and he started drifting, I had to let him go. It was tough for me, but after months of keeping to myself, my friend encouraged me to go on dates and give another man a chance. I decided to give Mr X a chance.

It was beautiful. We were in a competition to please ourselves, take ourselves out and we both had a healthy sense of humour...chatting was fun!!! Everywhere we went, people stared. We were all over ourselves even in public and till date I wonder how he pulled that off.

One day his office had a party and he asked if I could come, I said yes. Got there and the guys were looking at me with lust, the ladies were looking at me with pity. He said the ladies were jealous of my looks and some of them have been crushing on him. If you see him and see me, you’ll understand why this explanation made little sense.

After the party that day, it was late to go back to my house and his house was farther, so we decided to book a hotel around. That night was our most intimate night. We kissed, he gave me leg massages, a head and said he is ready when I am ready. I was blown away. Could this be real?

I always noticed he would be lost in thoughts whenever we are together and blame it on work. Other times he will start feeling sick and I would have to close earlier to go give him food and drugs. This became a regular occurence until one day…

He had fallen sick as usual. I made him promise to take pain relievers and we should consider going to the hospital. He didn’t do this and I had to make out time within the week to go check on him. He said it is because he was missing me, how sweet!

He didn’t get better, it was obvious something was bothering him. I decided I will take him for lunch so we can talk about it, but he couldn’t wait. That night he said he has something to tell me, he kept apologizing but still couldn’t say it. He asked if he could send a voice note and I told him to go ahead.

At about 3mins into the voice note, I felt my world crumbling. He told me he was married and has been married for almost 10years with kids. His family was not in the country, that is why I never saw traces of them. He said he had been battling with the guilt and was scared to tell me because some other girl left when she found out and the last was with him for money. He knew I would leave and was scared, his best friend told him to give it time, another told him to ghost me but I have been good to him and his conscience won’t let him. Other friends said he should never mention it to me.


When my friend saw him, she told me he was going to hurt me. I asked her how and she said I was too innocent for him. She didn’t say further not to be termed hater, but since he made me happy again...she wished me well.

I kept replaying the audio while he kept asking me to say something. I wondered if he treated his wife the way he treated me. He was such a gentleman. Held my hands when I had to walk in heels, opened the car door for me, checked on me at work, gave me handmade customized gifts...he made them himself. He said his wife is bad and he wants divorce her, lolz. I told him they all say that. I told him how much he has hurt me, but I forgive him and appreciate him telling me when he did.

It has been almost 3months but the pain lingers. I know I will be fine…
With the way you write your fallacy nollywood script you are too cheap.who tall, care and handsome good looking epp?

Crime › Re: Local Govt Staff In Benue Burns Himself To Death Over Unpaid 3 Years Allowance by merits(m): 11:08pm On Dec 11, 2020
Mokason288:
embarassed
RIP BRO

I don’t understand unpaid allowance

Is allowance different from salary ?

I will teach my children never to work in Nigeria

Handwork/ Business still remains the best

I HOPE I MADE SENSE
capital NO, because you make no sense atall.
Health › Re: What Can I Do About My Body Odour? by merits(m): 11:03pm On Dec 11, 2020
Garbage in garbage out arrest, it's just by luck.
Health › Re: What Can I Do About My Body Odour? by merits(m): 11:00pm On Dec 11, 2020
Reachable:
Hi all, I noticed I started developing body ordour under armpit in particular.
First time I noticed it was like more than a decade ago, then was in my 20s.
So I started using medicated soaps and deodorants, at first it was a big challenge getting the one that worked for me because once I start sweating I notice that it will overpower most deodorants I used but one worked for me which is (sure for men the long one).
After some years I noticed I always have boils under my armpits as a result of high usage until a nurse adviced to stop using deodorants that it can lead to skin cancer, at first I didn't knew the cause of my constant boils was the deodorant until she told me and I stopped I noticed the boils just died off.
So I started using them again but this time sparingly, until I stopped using them like some years ago.
I was fine especially if I didn't sweat much during the day, the only thing I noticed was that if I don't shave on time I will have armpit odour or after shaving my armpits the odour will come again for some days then stop.
I was managing it like that, but was making sure I bath at least twice a day or as much I can in a day.

Recently, I was more of staying at home these days unless I have job to do outside.
Only for me to start noticing the armpit odour again, shaved and bath as much as I can yet it won't stop.

My armpits always smell like a per boiled onions some moments after bathing, I have been managing it with explorer sometimes it works depending on my activities for the day.
But it's peeling the skin under my armpits and it's hurting besides it give me boils.
Please help, what can I do?
Stop masturbating it causes body odour.
TV/Movies › Re: First Nigerian Animated Feature Film Debuts December 11 by merits(m): 8:46pm On Dec 11, 2020
Extrim:
The first-ever Nigerian animated feature film Lady Buckit and the Motley Mopsters is set for its release on the 11th of December.

Hot Ticket Productions stated that the movie is valued at $1 million and will serve as an escape for families.

In the statement made by Blessing Amidu, the Chief Executive Officer of Hot Ticket Productions, she said;


"As we approach the end of the year, it is important to provide some succor and means of escape and release for children and the entire family.

"We strongly believe that entertainment is a powerful tool for this.

"We hope the fantastic universe of Ladybuckit and the Motley Mopsters will serve as a source of joy for and laughter for Nigerian families.

"And millions of people around the world during the festive season and for many years to come.

"This year has been a tough one for the world. Families have had to deal with a global pandemic, economic challenges, and civil unrest."


It stars some of Nigeria's finest actors including Bimbo Akintola, Bola Edwards, Patrick Doyle, and a host of others.

She also stated that a lot of interest has been shown since the release of its teaser in August 2020.

"With scenes showing notable Nigerian landmarks and historical places such as Oloibiri, a community in Bayelsa State, where crude oil was first discovered in commercial quantity in 1956.

"It is expected that parts of the movie will serve as a flashback to Nigeria's early years."


Lady Buckit and the Motley Mopsters will have its debut locally and internationally on December 11th.



[url]=https://the96illusion.com/2020/11/03/first-nigerian-animated-feature-film-debuts-december-11/[/url]
God bless Nigeria, this is good.

TV/Movies › Re: First Nigerian Animated Feature Film Debuts December 11 by merits(m): 8:43pm On Dec 11, 2020
Extrim:
The first-ever Nigerian animated feature film Lady Buckit and the Motley Mopsters is set for its release on the 11th of December.

Hot Ticket Productions stated that the movie is valued at $1 million and will serve as an escape for families.

In the statement made by Blessing Amidu, the Chief Executive Officer of Hot Ticket Productions, she said;


"As we approach the end of the year, it is important to provide some succor and means of escape and release for children and the entire family.

"We strongly believe that entertainment is a powerful tool for this.

"We hope the fantastic universe of Ladybuckit and the Motley Mopsters will serve as a source of joy for and laughter for Nigerian families.

"And millions of people around the world during the festive season and for many years to come.

"This year has been a tough one for the world. Families have had to deal with a global pandemic, economic challenges, and civil unrest."


It stars some of Nigeria's finest actors including Bimbo Akintola, Bola Edwards, Patrick Doyle, and a host of others.

She also stated that a lot of interest has been shown since the release of its teaser in August 2020.

"With scenes showing notable Nigerian landmarks and historical places such as Oloibiri, a community in Bayelsa State, where crude oil was first discovered in commercial quantity in 1956.

"It is expected that parts of the movie will serve as a flashback to Nigeria's early years."


Lady Buckit and the Motley Mopsters will have its debut locally and internationally on December 11th.



[url]=https://the96illusion.com/2020/11/03/first-nigerian-animated-feature-film-debuts-december-11/[/url]
This is good,God bless Nigeria.

Phones › Re: What Are Your Three Most Used Mobile Phone Apps? by merits(m): 2:31pm On Dec 11, 2020
Facebook, twitter,whatsapp, instagram, phoenix browser and nairaland.
Health › Re: COVID-19: FG Orders Closed Isolation Centres To Prepare For Re-Opening by merits(m): 2:17pm On Dec 11, 2020
Open ko open ni, which isolation center as genuinely work through out the covid-19? thief and criminal leaders.
Islam › Re: The Number Of Angels With Each Person by merits(m): 1:44pm On Dec 11, 2020
MonshaAllah
Romance › Re: What's The Craziest Thing You've Ever Done For Love? by merits(m): 5:09pm On Dec 10, 2020
I have carry over and extra years in school for love because I gave my school fees to my girl friend to pay and settled for her project.











Poor me by then.

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