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Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Bring Strange Pregnancies To Their Husbands? by Merry100: 7:22pm On Apr 22
bukkiexchange01:


Hence, we say those ladies lack morality. They open and close at the name of milky doughnuts.
Hence, we say both those guys and those ladies lack morality. Those ladies open and close at the name of milky doughnuts and those men dig into anything in skirt.

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Romance / Re: Girlfriend slapped me by Merry100: 6:52pm On Apr 22
Mastermindfixu:
My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year, and it's always been rocky. We've broken up many times (almost always me with her) but then we end up back together in a few days.
She has never hit me until today, and then suddenly slapped me after she held my shirt and pinned me against the wall. FYI - I did nothing to her in retaliation . However, I feel pained and disappointed by her action.

Reason - she saw me with a lady who was supposed to apply for the post of a chef at our residence and thought I was having an affair .

I explained myself and next best thing she said to me was that she is done with the relationship.

What do I do?
In this case, she is wrong. If she had caught you cheating red-handed, I would have said you deserved the slap.
Romance / Re: Should I break up because she is still a minor? by Merry100: 12:26pm On Apr 07
Bradford111:
Hello fellas good day I will make this brief I need your sincere advice on something

I’m dating this girl, we started dating in the latter part of January, she is 16 years old while I’m 22.
I know some people will say why I’m I dating a minor I swear I didn’t know she was 16 cuz she looks older not until when she told me just recently..

So last week her phone got spoiled and she said I should get her a new one I’m contemplating on getting it I asked her if her mom won’t get mad at her for using a phone that she doesn’t know where she got it from, she told me she has talked to her mom already that is not an issue


Please guys should I go ahead and get the phone or quit the relationship since she is a minor cuz I’m also scared of the fact if she might mistakenly get pregnant one day it might put me in a deep shit…
Please your advice is needed here 🙏
No, don't break up with her, go and introduce yourself to her mum as her boyfriend.
Romance / Re: A Man Accused Mercy Chinwo Of Paternity Fraud. by Merry100: 12:19pm On Apr 07
Dyfynezz12:

In what way 're u confused?
The resemblance is just much nd Nathaniel Bassey is a family friend,when there is more than one coincidence it becomes an evidence
You are spitting rubbish.
Romance / Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Merry100: 11:54am On Apr 07
Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.
You did not mention any tangible thing that qualify him as a good guy. Even if the guy in question is actually a devout Christian and a virgin, as you have portrayed him to be, that alone does not make him a good guy. Virginity is not even a character trait.

Anyway, there is no harm in trying. Shoot your shot, but if he eventually gives in, don't be too quick to make a decision. First, examine him properly; focus more on his personality rather than his spiritual life. In fact, trigger his reaction to understand his true personality.
Romance / Re: I Discovered My Wife's Cheating On Me by Merry100: 9:36am On Apr 07
Nairaland guys and hypocrisy, I have seen several posts on nairaland where guys advise women to stay with their cheating husbands even after they have impregnated another lady.

Anyway, whether it is a man or a woman who cheated, cheating is a logical ground for divorce. If you can't stand her anymore, it's best to just get a divorce.
Romance / Re: Can You Leave Your Phone Unlocked With Your Partner by Merry100: 10:00pm On Apr 06
In a normal relationship where there is trust it should be the norm.

The only time I experienced issues with that was when I befriended a religious extremist. He blocked and deleted several numbers from my phone. Even mere compliments was a big problem.
Romance / Re: What Is One Thing That Makes You Feels Happy � by Merry100: 9:00pm On Apr 06
Ballzproblem2:
who is bankrolling you?
Calm down, read the post properly or put on your glasses.

coachprecious:
To me, it is traveling round the world and making money even as a lady😅🥰

And you?
Romance / Re: How To Easily Get A Nigerian Girl To Sleep With You by Merry100: 8:44pm On Apr 06
Guys and the way they hype sex. If they sleep get to have sex with two ladies it would be as if they have won a trophy.

For you to convince those ladies to have sex with you, it means they already felt your vibe to an extent. If you like try game A to Z, any lady that does not feel your vibe at all will not give in.
Romance / Re: People In Their 30s With No Kids And Single, How Do Y’all Feel by Merry100: 7:12pm On Apr 06
chuksbobby12:

Happiness You say?? If you have kids, you earn enough to comfortably pay all the bills , even without luxury , you will realize that nothing makes a responsible man happy more than his children .
Having kids doesn't result to more money or comfort. A responsible father would prioritize the comfort and happiness of his children also. What kind of father would even be happy when his children are sad and uncomfortable?

You might be able to pay your own bills and manage to be happy but what is the purpose of having kids if you cannot provide them with basic necessities? They did not ask to be born.

Luxuries may not be essential, but basic necessities are. There are many sad-looking children on the streets today, thanks to unplanned parents. Many of these children later resort to crime to survive.

A lot of broke people have even refused to cut their coat according to their size and they end up becoming unreliable parents. While many wealthy people are only having just two or three children, many broke people are having six or seven children, instead of one or two that they can manage to take care of.

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Romance / Re: Road To Love Of A Nairalander . by Merry100: 5:31pm On Apr 06
Congratulations

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Politics / Re: Sunday Igboho Lands In London-pictures by Merry100: 4:22pm On Mar 02
Pristine664:


Lol Igboho is Tinubu's boy..... b.. b.. but don't loud it.
E be like say u know him personally.
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 10-15m by Merry100: 5:09pm On Feb 23
Love800:
Tank so much.
Tank God i met u.
I have gotten top notch information about dis business from u.
I appreciate.
You're welcome! I'm glad you found the information I provided helpful.
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 10-15m by Merry100: 1:30pm On Feb 23
Love800:
See please am confused.
This estate you are talking about, is it the normal estate that have many houses in it and the houses usually look similar to each other. People live in it and the estate is fenced. Is this what u refering to? Or u you are talking about a plaza(shopping complex)?
Yes, when I mentioned "estate," I was referring to a residential area with multiple houses that often have similar appearances and are enclosed by fences.
Romance / Re: Am I wrong for refusing marriage counseling when my husband suddenly wants anoth by Merry100: 2:20pm On Feb 21
People leaving hateful comments here are either hypocritical or ignorant. What she is experiencing could be psychological and possibly indicative of a medical condition.

Love is not solely expressed through words, and it is not a selfish act. Therefore, her husband is also at fault; he exacerbated her emotional distress by distrusting her and still refused to support her when she reached out to him for help.

I cannot understand why some people are praising him, whitewashing, and excusing his selfish behaviour. He seems to want her to be nothing more than a baby factory, which is likely why he now sees the counseling she requested five years ago as an option now that he wants another baby.

Many women suffer in silence because their emotions are not acknowledged. Childbearing alone can have adverse effects on women's health. Please ignore the hateful comments and prioritize your well-being. By the grace God, the phrase "that quiet, kind woman is dead" will not be your portion.

Love, happiness, and joy are psychological states that cannot be forced. You cannot give to others what you do not possess. If you don't love yourself, it will be difficult to love others. Take care of yourself first; seek therapy and medical attention if necessary. You can consider following your husband to counseling later if you wish. You deserve all the love and attention in the world, and I wish you the very best!
Romance / Re: Am I wrong for refusing marriage counseling when my husband suddenly wants anoth by Merry100: 1:21pm On Feb 21
DeathToSimps:


You are a wicked woman and God will judge you.
Satan wife.
And if He doesn't, go and hit your head on the wall.
Romance / Re: Ladies, Are Looking To Marry, Stay Away From Men Without Any Job Or Handwork” by Merry100: 10:49am On Feb 21
tochez24:


98% of Nigerian men are married to jobless and unproductive wives⚠️
What is this one saying?

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Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 10-15m by Merry100: 8:55am On Feb 21
Love800:
Are they retailers or wholesalers?
They are retailers. Keep in mind that your brand is still new in the market and that you have competitors. While retail outlets may occasionally sell new brands and products, most of the time retailer outlets primarily sell what is in demand, and consumers mainly purchase products that are available in nearby retailer outlets.

Estates are residential areas, and there are quite a number of snack lovers residing in estates. It might be a good option to consider providing your products to grocery sellers in estates on credit because, initially, to gain potential customers, you have to put in some effort to make your product visible.

As your brand gains popularity, retailers will proactively seek out your product in the market, and distributors and wholesalers will reach out to you directly to request your products.
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 10-15m by Merry100: 1:40pm On Feb 20
Love800:
Okay.

Ur last paragraph, i didnt quite get what u trying to say there. Am confused.
Who are estate shoppers?
I was referring to people that have grocery shop in Estates, it is just an additional option it is not necessary you sell to them.
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 10-15m by Merry100: 5:44pm On Feb 19
Love800:
So how do one market or get customers for it?
Will i open a shop?
You don't need a shop, once you have secured potential distributors, they can either pick up the products from your production site or you can deliver the products to them.

Since the product is not yet known in the market, start by selling to wholesalers. Wholesalers are easy to find; you can locate some in the market or shopping complexes, you can also ask women who sell provisions in various locations, as they buy their goods from wholesalers and can direct you to them. Working with wholesalers will help expand the reach of your products. You will sell to them in large quantities and they will sell to retailers in smaller quantities.

Also consider distributing your goods to estate shops at retailer price, you can offer the estate provision sellers the option to purchase your goods on credit. You shouldn't sell to wholesalers at the same rate as retailers, you would have to set different pricing structures for each category of buyer.
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 10-15m by Merry100: 5:01pm On Feb 16
Love800:
What kind of snack?
Peanut, chips, chin-chin, cake or donut, you can even create your own snack.
Religion / Re: When the Qur'an is misinterpretated : Did Jesus Die On The Cross? by Merry100: 8:05am On Feb 16
Lawag3:


Is that what your Quran tells you'd? In the Bible both Rachel and Rebecca are said to be women. The Bible's doesn't call little girls women.

So what happened to Jesus is Muslim that's what your Quran says right? You now insults your second greatest prophet 😁. One who is going to judge the Jews and Christian.

When you throw insults instead of giving answers you know you've lost the argument.

You're not even a devote Muslim. Your islam is lacking but it doesn't matter either way there's is non that won't pass through it right?
It is just as if you took words out of my mouth.

He stated that Rebekah was thirteen years and Rachel was three years, I don't see that anywhere in the Bible he was probably trying to create confusion.
Religion / Re: What Does The Quran Say About Jesus Christ? by Merry100: 12:44am On Feb 16
MightySparrow:
All is correct except that Allah blew into Mary's Virginia ( farjaha)
Don't mind him. Why did he add that Allah breathed into the virginia of Maryam? Maryam is the greatest woman to have ever existed according to the Quran. She is the daughter of al-Tabari and the mother of Isa.

Do not confuse Isa, Maryam, and al-Tabari with Jesus, Mary, and Hannah. Mary, the mother of Jesus, is not the daughter of Hannah or the sister of Aaron. Jesus Christ of Nazareth was not even related to Hannah, let alone being her grandson. Hannah was also barren like al-Tabari but when God opened her womb she gave birth to a son called Samuel, not a daughter called Mary. Hannah existed many years before Jesus came into the world, Miriam also existed years before Jesus came to the world and she was not even related to Hannah, she was related to Moses and Aaron.
Religion / Re: When the Qur'an is misinterpretated : Did Jesus Die On The Cross? by Merry100: 8:37pm On Feb 15
Jesus is the way, the life, and the truth; no one comes to the Father except through the Son.
Religion / Re: When the Qur'an is misinterpretated : Did Jesus Die On The Cross? by Merry100: 8:12pm On Feb 15
Dsimmer:


Ode, Jesus is referred to as God because Jesus is the Word of God. That was why I said if you understood Yoruba, it wouldn't be difficult for you to understand.
Exactly. The simple explanation is Jesus Christ is the Word of God.

Religion / Re: When the Qur'an is misinterpretated : Did Jesus Die On The Cross? by Merry100: 5:21pm On Feb 15
ahmedio2017:




All this are just off point you kept saying the same thing, no wonder you are failing in life, simple question you cannot answer.

Despite the fact I told you the meaning of a MUSLIM you are still saying trash nawa for you o, God is English language, olohun is Yoruba Allah is Arabic, Chineke is igbo etc

The word “Islam” means “submission to the will of God.” Followers of Islam are called Muslims. Muslims are monotheistic and worship one, all-knowing God, who in Arabic is known as Allah. Followers of Islam aim to live a life of complete submission to Allah.


Didn't Jesus Christ PBUH submitted to the will of God? Nor Adam, Abraham, Aaron, Moses ?

Now if Jesus Christ PBUH not a Muslim then tell us his religion

2. How does Jesus Christ PBUH worship his God

3. Did he believed in trinity or oneness of God?


You this hypocrite you know nothing, you have been brainwashed, you don't know and you don't want to know the truth.
😂 This is funny; you want to know the religion of God. The plain truth is that Jesus is God. Jesus is the Lord of the Sabbath, and He is the true God of Heaven. He frequently visited His temple while He was on earth and He attended Jewish Passovers.

Matthew 12:8
For the Son of man is Lord even of the sabbath day.

My muslims friends also had this assumptions but when I break down the truth to them logically they were speechless.

Christians worship one God. The concept of God, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit is logical; you simply haven't thought about it in a logical manner.

Religion / Re: What Does The Quran Say About Jesus Christ? by Merry100: 2:00pm On Feb 15
Saidfx:
Please let's read with an open and unbiased mind


1. He is not the God

2. He is not a part of the Trinity. (Islam utterly and unequivocally rejects the doctrine of the Trinity.)

3. He is a prophet

4. He is one of the most important prophets

5. He came to warn about the overly legalistic understanding of the religion by the Jews

6. He is the Word of the God (the relevant verses: "O Mary! Allah giveth thee glad tidings of a Word from Him" and "We breathed into her (body) Our Spirit

7. He is born of Virgin Mary, who is considered the most holy woman among the mankind.

8. He was a carpenter or handyman

8b. He performed miracles (speaking as an infant, making a clay bird come alive, healing the blind and the lepers, etc.)

9. He was betrayed by one of his disciples

10. He was sentenced to death for his alleged crimes

11. He was not crucified in actuality. It was made to appear that he was crucified.

11b. He did not die (in the usual sense). Thus, he did not atone for our sins.

11c. There are also alternative exegeses of the related verses in the Quran about Jesus’ death, for they are open to different interpretations.

12. He was raised up to a heavenly realm

12b. He was not resurrected, because he did not die. However, he was raised up

13. He is still alive in some sense in that heavenly realm

14. He was/is the (promised) messiah

14b. He did not consider himself divine in the commonly understood sense, nor did his disciples.

14c. Early Christian theology (when Christianity movement is headed by James) and Islamic theology are more in common. Islam rejects the Pauline affirmations.

15. He will return back from the heavenly realm to ours at the end times

16. There will a fierce competition between the believers and the non-believers. In this struggle, non-believers, headed by the anti-Christ (Masih ad-Dajjal), will make significant headway initially. However, Mahdi, supported and strengthened by Jesus, will defeat the non-believers in this struggle.

17. Having been on the same side in the above struggle, Muslims and Christians will unite and have friendly relations. Good times will follow briefly on Earth before the end.

18. Jesus will correct the errors in current Christian understandings of him or his nature. Christianity will become similar to Islam. Both will unite in the sentence "There is no God but The God"

19. Jesus will die naturally (in his second coming), just like any other prophet of the God.

Thank you


I just seen this after my tweet on Twitter about God.

Politics / Re: Even If 1 Dollar Is Exchanged For 5000 Naira .Tinubu Would Still Win In 2027 .. by Merry100: 12:32pm On Feb 04
Either the person who posted this rubbish is not normal or he is simply a billionaire who cares less about others. I might prefer a particular candidate, but if he is unable to perform, it would be complete foolishness to vote for him. Why would you vow your loyalty to people who have nothing to suffer? Tinubu, Peter Obi, and Atiku are all billionaires, and it is the masses that will face the consequences. I doubt a dollar can become five thousand naira, but if that happens, it is best to prioritize yourself and vote wisely. Stop all this tribal nonsense.
Romance / Re: Women Cheating Is The End Of The Relationship. Why ? by Merry100: 9:43pm On Feb 03
MissKudoswrite:
Because they are the mother kkkk
But the joy of a mother is to see all the children God has given her, alive, healthy, and successful. If a man is cheating, it is best to focus more on being a better mother. You can't stop a man from cheating, but you can prevent his actions from negatively affecting your children. Time is too precious; don't waste it fighting unnecessary battles. Spend more time building your childen's future. The end will justify the means.

If a man cheats and he is remorsefully seeking his wife's forgiveness, it is okay if she decides to forgive him. She can even go the extra mile by attending counseling with him to discover what went wrong and what needs to be changed in order to fix the marriage. If he is an unrepentant cheater who shows no remorse or willingness to change, it shouldn't be the woman's problem.
Romance / Re: Women Cheating Is The End Of The Relationship. Why ? by Merry100: 7:11pm On Feb 03
talented321:
Ladies cheating is an insult to the husband and his family..
Men cheating bring shame to the woman..
But the most important thing concerning cheating in men and women is;
1. Men have the right to take another wife, and this may come up as a result of cheating..
2. Either you like it or not men and women are difference in many areas concerning life..
3. Men hardly accept a cheating wife back because he is the head of the family and most importantly controlling the financial aspect..
4. Women accept their cheating husbands back because they don't have any choice, imagine starting life again after 5kids with fallen breast...
5. Look at the few female celebrities, they always have issue with their husbands because they also have the cash...
6. The bitter truth is women can't compete with men when it come to marriage except a broke man...
Cheating men bring shame to themselves and themselves alone.
But the most important thing concerning cheating in both men and women is:
1. Women have the right to say no to polygamy.
2. Whether you like it or not, two can play the game.
3. Women don't have to accept a cheating husband, even if he is the one controlling the financial aspect. Good health and peace of mind is better than wealth.
4. Imagine a man starting a life after five kids with his pot belly.
5. There are famous female celebrities with healthy homes, and a woman doesn't have to be broke before she can build a healthy relationship.
6. Men and women don't have to compete; marriage is not a competition, it is a partnership.
Politics / Re: Femi Otedola Donates ₦‎1 Billion To Lagos State Security Trust Fund by Merry100: 2:18pm On Jan 22
Davida33:
It's a waste of funds, money that he should have donated to a better cause
Enemy of progress.
Religion / Re: Tb Joshua's Secret Exposed by Ex-Muslim (Bisola Johnson). Watch Video by Merry100: 11:50am On Jan 09
Sweetnecta:
Lanatullahi alal zhulimuun, alal mushrikuun, alal kafiruun.


you people outside Islam are sick. The cure is Islam.


See the evil of former Muslims in their new religion?

The yorubas, especially the former muslims who are now christians should be ashamed.

No wonder your god, the man called Jesus will reject all of you.

Pitiful people and am a muslim, and definitely ashamed of you people.
If this really occurred, it is not unexpected, the Bible already told us about false prophets.

We judge by what is in the Bible, surah 5:47 in your quran even encourages this.

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