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I think Nairaland should remove this post it’s disgusting and has to do with abuse to women

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

Well well. The truth is that you are actually a loser who is beginning to enjoy the evil thrills of beating your wife. You are lucky that she probably don’t strong brothers who will come to your place and beat the crap out of you.

Mine dey too much for you people but I shouldn’t have spent so much money on many extended family members after I left Nigeria more than a decade and half ago. I had five of them on monthly payroll, paid yearly rent for 3 of them, paid school fees for two useless nephews I have not even heard from in three years. Well, in hindsight, I could have used most of those money to buy landed properties especially in Lagos when they were so affordable.
Everything changed after I got married. It’s like the losers didn’t even want me marry and have my family.
The extended family stuff is a sham from my personal experience. I now see my family in those who are good with me and thank God there are I have a couple of good ones around me now, many of whom are not even from my tribe.

They allegedly got a former Nigerian President with APPLES.

They could have set a trap for OBJ with women. At his age, anytime he’s around women, if he’s not holding them by the waist, he will be blushing and smiling from ear to ear.

Well. Thank God he didn’t sell Nigeria to women.

Well, I thought the so called James Brown was going to tell us he’s pregnant for Bobrisky

Tinubu should run. He has every fundamental rights as a Nigerian citizen to do so. The problem is: can he win if he run?

That’s a different ball game because Northerners are looking elsewhere. I hope Jagaban has the fortitude to even dream of how to deal with this coming loss.

EcoBrick:
Ohanaeze Secretary To Tinubu: Shelve Your Presidential Bid To Preserve Nigeria’s Corporate Existence



https://tribuneonlineng.com/ohanaeze-secretary-to-tinubu-shelve-your-presidential-bid-to-preserve-nigerias-corporate-existence/

Ohana wetin?

Well. It looks bad but it’s time for wealthy Nigerians to stop running to Dubai anytime they wake up. Spend your money in Nigeria and grow your own economy.
The truth is that Dubai has absolutely nothing to lose in this fight.

damilola4162:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2021/12/sokoto-killings-find-bello-turji-dead.html?m=1

Dead or Alive my foot.
Let your state govt politicians continue to share their security votes and spend the money on weddings parties. This is your cup of burukutu, not mine.

DennisEche:

Nigerian Artistes should stop mixing up been a Musician and Artist management. They fail when they mix up the two which are two different thing.
Where is wande Coal, Where is Dbanj, where is Run town, Where is Ricardo Banks, Where is Koredo Bello, where is Lil Kesh, where is Iyanya,where is Mayorku, where is Tiwa Savage( she even had to release her sex tape to trend, where is Cynthia Morgan etc. stay and grow under a good management

You know the deal. TY!

74 Million Naira you made from where and for selling what?
This is how our money is wasted by those closeted Nigerian politicians who married for fancy.

I have been told many lies by women to the point that I even considered dating lies instead of women.
But the one that really got me sick was when she took me to her uncle’s house and told me that’s her father’s house.

He looks like Kim Jung-un in the first picture

Prophetess and pastors springing up everywhere in Nigeria and some of them talking rubbish that’s not even in the Bible.

Olaoluwa112:
Maga don pay.

Clito currency hitting big.

Correct Guy

onthehill:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CXX_jyuNr6i/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

They should bring the useless Pastor out, strip him down, bring the damn priick, cut it off and throw it to hungry dogs.

KiNg0G:
I didn't know it was hard to pray, untill I was given microphone today unexpectedly.

I wouldn't say I disgraced myself, but bro you supposed know how that kind thing dey be.

Elders are there, deacons and deaconess are there ever ready to be called at any giving opportunity, na me when sit down my own jejely for congregation dey look time...na pastor see call.

The full church was just observing as the usher was bringing the mic to where I stood.

I fumbled, even my voice for the speaker echo, the way my voice sounded in the speaker, some people Burst laugh.

Where I want start from,

My buddie that came with me to the church.(guy man just smiling sheepishly)

I just had to coordinate myself a little, I kept it short and simple.

Well, na small thing dey disgrace person.

A young man like myself go come dey fool myself say I nor sabi pray.. thank jah for how it played out.
It wasn't really that bad... he's not supposed to Take me unaware.

Because it was just as if the pastor get me for mind before.

Ever since have been attending that church it's elders, deacons, evangelist he normally calls to give closing prayer... and I know he normally informs them down.

As for my pastor am thinking about having a chat with him, I really didn't like it.

He can't just take me unaware like that.
if he wanted me to pray the closing prayer, he should. Have sent the usher with a piece of note to come inform me.
That would have been better, not calling me unexpectedly.

Well, I think the devil overpowered you and succeeded in taking advantage of one rare moment you had to shine. Some of you go to church just for going sake. Kpele.

You’re lucky you’re not my son and I wasn’t in that church. You would be putting cold water on your buttocks after my usual 24 lashes.

You should have reported this to the police before doing it here. Good luck

Ask them the capital of Delta State and they will all scream Mc Oulmo. Empty brains talking about good priicks

I don’t like this kind of topic in Sunday’s

Wow. So touching!
Hope he learned from this one

Okpari. Akande. is still singing like a kennery oo
They should get him to put on his shoes before he starts talking about people he killed ooo

Anyone who believes that Buhari knows a single thing he is doing about Nigeria should be ready to buy the Surulere National stadium from my Igbo Family

Na today?

Some women do stupid things only to apologize thereafter. Her case would be different if her boyfriend didn’t warn her.
No pity at all.

Chochovini:
. About the claimed kidnap of Gumi‘s brother?

You think it’s fake news?
Well, you may be right but we’ll see.

There are laws against this in Normal Countries. But there’s nothing normal about Nigeria

Opeyemiextra:
We know that traditionally, women are saddled with the responsibility of running and taking care of the home hence the title home makers while their male counterparts provide what is needed to run the home, hence the title, providers. These roles are taken seriously and failures by either party would be termed as irresponsibility.

But in recent times, we have seen an unprecedented shift and fluidity in these roles and how they are played. Women are now providers and sometimes even breadwinners while men have also been involved in running the home especially with child care. This has generated debates with some still holding on to the traditional role division.

To the reason for this post:
So, most men, at least on this platform, complain of women only wanting them because of what they can bring to the table. If the tables are turned, as a man, would you be a househusband while your wife provides?

There’s nothing like househusband. If you’re looking to confuse a man to stay home so you will go out and service other men, Good For You

Chochovini:
. Do you mean to tell me you believe that CRAP?

What CRAP?

Every winner has scars. Congrats to him