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Romance › Re: Am I The Only One Who Doesn't Like Kissing? by midnighter(f): 11:09pm On Oct 26, 2019

TheGenius001:
Very true. Kissing should be done in other parts of the body and not the mouth. Its even more arousing when its done in other places asides the mouth.

Oh, so you like it? You're just irritated by other people's mouths?

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Romance › Re: Am I The Only One Who Doesn't Like Kissing? by midnighter(f): 11:01pm On Oct 26, 2019

No, youre not the only one. Some people genuinely dislike it or find it disgusting

The lips are an erogenous zone, rubbing them against another person's is part of sexual intimacy

The sensation triggers release of some feel-good chemicals in your brain

Deep french kissing is a cultural phenomenon that only reached some civilisations recently. If you have a certain orientation or mentality, or if you were shielded from certain forms of media growing up, you may not see it positively

Maybe you havent found the right person to do it with yet. Plus you dont necessarily need to kiss another person on their own mouth. Kissing can be done on any other part of the body

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Family › Re: Is Deliberately Trying To Catch Someone In The Wrong Good by midnighter(f): 10:50pm On Oct 26, 2019

Hahaha

my dad used to do something like this

You just made me remember it...

Well it didnt do us any harm because we would all just be parked in front of the tv, in the same place where he left us cheesy

The situation you outlined has its advantages and disadvantages though it never really bothered me

Romance › Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 10:03pm On Oct 26, 2019

Depressed101:
you are a smart axx you are a smart axx

Celebrities › Re: Etinosa Idemudia Sitting In The Toilet With Her Au Naturel Bum (Photo) by midnighter(f): 9:58pm On Oct 26, 2019

bizzibodi:
Would has that her kponmo video? I need it.

Truly that video was nasty lipsrsealed

it makes me feel nauseous thinking back to it

Crime › Re: Mad Man Caught Picking Used Sanitary Pads In Enugu by midnighter(f): 9:42pm On Oct 26, 2019

Halo22:
The way mad people flood Enugu these days.....Are u sure most of them are really mad?

So many of them, you wont believe their daily activities

There was one that took his bath in the gutter every day but i dont know if he's still there

Crime › Re: Mad Man Caught Picking Used Sanitary Pads In Enugu by midnighter(f): 9:39pm On Oct 26, 2019

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
Nigerian women and their period is just like 5 and 6. They do not hide it they disclose it to everybody they see. Even if you have not seen a Nigerian girl before in your life she can walk up to you and tell you to buy her Cemetery pad or always

Cemetary pad! Autocorrect na bastard

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Romance › Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 9:35pm On Oct 26, 2019

Depressed101:
This is peculiar with girls without father figures all through their growing up.

I can imagine. There must be all sorts of complex psycho-sexual reasons for peculiar mentalities such as that.

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Crime › Re: Deborah Onwu Stabbed To Death In Canada By Her Client by midnighter(f): 9:32pm On Oct 26, 2019

sonnie10:
What self defensive training did the facility offer to staff?
What is the patients history?
Has there been any case of violence by the patient?
Is the patient supposed to be keep in such facility?
Which other staff was there with the victim?
Was the victim supposed to be there by herself?
How long did it take for help to come?

Exactly! Why did they let her go into a violent patient without proper controls or back-up staff

Romance › Re: What Exactly Do Couples Do During Honeymoon? by midnighter(f): 9:28pm On Oct 26, 2019

Starz825:
God forbid this ooo...I love sincerity so much that I will like to tell you Everything Abt me and I will definitely like u do that in same fashion...

As in sincerity is key for me...show me ur strength and weakness...so I can evaluate and conclude if I had found the love of my life or not....
I just love open-minded pple....

Lol, well that means your own honeymoon will be very sweet cheesy

congratulations in advance

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Romance › Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 9:27pm On Oct 26, 2019

Depressed101:
I've met people like this, they believe a boyfriend who doesn't beat them once in a while, doesn't trully love them..

Yeah, exactly. Its like a warped kind of affection to them. If he doesnt beat her she thinks hes no longer interested

Some girls sha

Celebrities › Re: Etinosa Idemudia Sitting In The Toilet With Her Au Naturel Bum (Photo) by midnighter(f): 9:24pm On Oct 26, 2019

JizzyB:
I don't see anything wrong with this na
I don't mind bleeping her *sshole with those shit
It would be very sweet bleeping her shitty anal doggily

You are crazy lipsrsealed

Romance › Re: What Exactly Do Couples Do During Honeymoon? by midnighter(f): 9:15pm On Oct 26, 2019

Starz825:
But this should have been known before marriage precisely during courtship....because at the stage of Honey moon no going back o....
Going back just shows both of u aren't intelligent not to have known that u aren't meant for each other

Its not really to do with intelligence... a lot of people start showing their hidden character soon after the wedding. I have heard stories of guys beating the woman up on honeymoon or women turning crazy as soon as the plane takes off

Or some details start to emerge like cheating, lying about finances, trying to get your partner to surrender their job/money, lying about the school you went to and stuff like that

You dont know some people are just waiting for the wedding to be over so that they will unleash their demons

Family › Re: My Life Or My Family? by midnighter(f): 8:56pm On Oct 26, 2019

kneehighbootz:
Please don't take it the wrong way. I'm sure he didn't mean to castigate the entire Igbo tribe. Some Igbo people are good while some are greedy. That's the truth.
No tribe is perfect not even the Igbos. He was only talking about his experience with the Igbo people in his area.
Please let's learn to not see tribe in innocuous comments. Thank you.
@sassysure.

What!

You just reminded me of this guy now. The problem is that I dont know how to condense my posts and people think Im just vomiting grammar over nothing

What exactly is innocuous about what he said huh

Why wont we see tribe when he just mentioned it, for absolutely no reason? Why are you quoting me when you can't even caution him for what he said? You're "sure he didnt mean" to do what? His parents who finished his life, what tribe are they huh

Instead of him to apologise, he even replied back that he doesnt have strength for tribal problem early in the morning. It must be a tribal problem oh

Since you want to advocate for him you can kindly explain why somebody will be talking like a tout in public. No decorum whatsoever, even where he came to seek advice from people who wish him well. Total Rubbish.

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Fashion › Re: 6 Common Fashion Faux Pas Women Make by midnighter(f): 8:44pm On Oct 26, 2019

ngwababe:
I asked from what you wrote oo. But then when there no strapless bra, what do we do?

Lol I didnt write it but I agree... showing bra straps is not nice

The person should go and buy strapless or look for nipple covers online and be using

In some western countries they are protesting against bra and refusing to wear...you can try that one too if youre brave cheesy

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Fashion › Re: 6 Common Fashion Faux Pas Women Make by midnighter(f): 8:38pm On Oct 26, 2019

ngwababe:
Are you saying it's better to go out without a bra than seeing a bra straps?

Strapless bra should be okay

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Romance › Re: Can Postpill Still Work In This Condition? by midnighter(f): 8:34pm On Oct 26, 2019

Smh...dont time her ovulation just keep filling her with pills

Romance › Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 8:23pm On Oct 26, 2019

Alexaonfleek:
at the bolded.i know that some women get turned on by BDSM,but BDSM is consensual.both the lady and the guy are in agreemet,and besides there is also the safe word too.but what about women who aren't into BDSM but still stay in abusive relationships?

When I said a "turn-on", I wasnt necessarily talking about BDSM but you're right, thats one part of it and it will probably be consensual. I meant more that some women take an violent man to be more "manly" or "able to handle himself"

There are many reasons for women staying in (violently) abusive relationships. Social, psychological, emotional

Some women feel like beating means that the guy loves them and takes them seriously. In fact some purposely annoy their man just to see if he will get angry and beat her. They get some satisfaction out of being able to stir that kind of emotion in him

Some women dont have the self-confidence to leave or rely on the abusive partner for finances or some social status

Some just love the guy and choose to overlook the violent part of his character

Family › Re: What Can My Sister Do? by midnighter(f): 8:11pm On Oct 26, 2019

Train her in a skill and let her be earning some money

Maybe further along the line you can combine some earnings and get her into a school with a low fee

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Family › Re: Money Given To A Wife By Her Husband Is Called What.. by midnighter(f): 8:02pm On Oct 26, 2019

Crypto money

Romance › Re: Really Missing Former First Lady Of Nigeria by midnighter(f): 7:59pm On Oct 26, 2019*

But this woman has education up to Bachelor's degree level so what could possibly be the problem huh

Why was she sounding like that

Even up till now I have never met anybody from PH or Bayelsa that sounds like that

She just has a whole language of her own

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Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by midnighter(f): 7:16pm On Oct 26, 2019*

Thermal:
I don't think I'm wrong. saying that they were deluded into voting for brexit, is same as them being ignorant in their voting decision. that's why I cited immigration, lack of economic competition and EU single market as some of the things that affected them directly, and informed their decision.
Seem like you've little knowledge on some of what necessitated brexit, and how strongly binding EU diktats are. Sovereignty of EU member states is just a mirage.

Other European country immigrants were just a side issue. immigrants from Muslim countries were one of the major reason why there were revolt against EU, because of Angela Merkel's stupidity in assimilating millions of immigrants from those country, and EU mandatory policy for other member states to follow suit or face sanction. A lot of those immigrants turned out to be terrorist sleeper cell who struck terror in the mind of UK citizens.
that was one of the live issue that precipitated brexit. So your claim on UK turning to them as replacement for EU immigrants is false.

Being fed wrong information by politicians, biased newspaper publications, government agencies and social media algorithms is not the same as being wilfully ignorant, so stop putting words into my mouth.

You have little knowledge yourself of what necessitated it if you cant understand the North-South power dynamic and how disconnected the political ruling class in Britain is from the electorate. Old mining and manufacturing towns being left to fester for decades and then being flooded with cheap labour. Working class kids being shafted into carrying out apprenticeships for £3.00 p/h and not being able to afford a house because of so-called "migrants" taking up all the space and driving prices up.

What exactly are you saying huh

The UK is not in the Schengen agreement, they have been policing their own borders since and they have only taken on a particular quota of vulnerable Syrian refugees. Migrants will still make the dangerous journey between Calais and Dover whether anyone is in the EU or not.

That people are afraid of terrorists and Islamists that bombard their news outlets every day does not mean they are correct in their information. The majority of recent terrorism offences have been committed by British-born kids with parents who flew there straight from their country. The ones happening in Paris were because the authorities were slow to act on intelligence that was already available on file. In fact there is a Schengen data agreement in which countries, including the UK, share intelligence on the movement of criminals. So its the EUs fault that people dont police their country well huh

Besides it was the UK government under Cameron that went and started disturbing all the muslim countries in the first place! Why dont they stop looking for ways to mess presidents up, sell weapons to their dissidents and gain control over their oil fields and mind their own business? Then they wont get all those people coming to their door

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Crime › Re: Deborah Onwu Stabbed To Death In Canada By Her Client by midnighter(f): 6:28pm On Oct 26, 2019

iammo:
Medical Doctor, a Pschologist, Author or a Programmer... you have a very active brain and that means you have a mental tasking job

Crime › Re: Deborah Onwu Stabbed To Death In Canada By Her Client by midnighter(f): 6:17pm On Oct 26, 2019

iammo:
just few days you have schooled me on Bi-Polar,Schizophrenia
Unilag "harrasment"
and personalty that always argue(forgot what you called that) whats your discipline, you are quite cerebral and vast in knowledge

Lol thank you. What do you think my discipline is cheesy

Fashion › Re: 6 Common Fashion Faux Pas Women Make by midnighter(f): 6:00pm On Oct 26, 2019

Wearing coloured bra under a white shirt/ wearing lace outfits that expose underwear

Wearing clothes that are too short to the wrong occasion and then not being able to sit properly without looking uncomfortable

Nails that are like claws. I saw a lady giving an interview on the television about something serious and I couldnt understand why she would be gesticulating everywhere with pink 2-inch nails and still think its normal

Prioritising fashion over being warm! And then not being able to concentrate when somebody is talking because youre trying not to shiver (I am guilty of this)

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Romance › Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 5:42pm On Oct 26, 2019

Violence and (excess) aggression is a turn-on for some women. It means "love" to them. Some women respect them more.

Some women grew up with this kind of person at home so they take it as a good thing

Aggression is a desirable male trait if it is expressed correctly. Most men express some form of aggression to an extent due to their high testosterone level

Being broke is a source of frustration...the guy will be aggressive to everyone but will have a perception that a woman will disrespect him (as some women would) for his low financial status. So they start acting up

In fact they dont have to be broke...if some certain guys perceive that you are superior to them in any way they can become very nasty to try to overcompensate

You see that a lot even in this forum

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Crime › Re: Deborah Onwu Stabbed To Death In Canada By Her Client by midnighter(f): 4:58pm On Oct 26, 2019

Ekpekus:
It's a one-on-one client to staff ratio..
However you have a valid point.. funding suppose to be made for more than one staff seeing the client's behavior. Unfortunately it has led to this sad tale. Work place safety board is investigating the case separately from the police to see if all safety precautions were put in place
I just hope they have a CCTV within or around the house.

Hm. Terrible!

Im sure they were just trying to avoid staffing that place, thereby putting workers at risk.

And because the client wasnt being attended to properly because everybody is busy he will lash out and attack somebody.

The government always tries to cut corners when it comes to mental health facilities until a tragedy like this happens

Workplace safety will find out who left the kitchen open but wont agree to hire 2 or 3 extra ad-hoc staff to make the workload manageable.

Kai!

Education › Re: My Medical School Experience- The Fighting Spirit by midnighter(f): 4:49pm On Oct 26, 2019

To an extent here is nothing like "tougher" because they are testing different types of skill. You may be a chemistry whizz but still cannot make head or tail of the most basic philosophical theory

Number of places available on a course depends on demand for that course and departmental resources. It has nothing to do with whether the field of study is "difficult" or not

What you will talk about is the amount of material that one needs to grasp within the timeframe

How much of the material is conceptual and how much is rote-learning

How knowledge is tested. Practical, written exams, presentations, written assignments

Real objective comparison and not vain quasi-realistic posturing

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Family › Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by midnighter(f): 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2019*

This is a common occurrence in families with many siblings. At least one person becomes angry or resentful and begins to withdraw from the others

You have to sit down with him one-to-one and open up to him about the distance you are perceiving

You might have to do this more than 2 or 3 times before he will open up.

If you guys are the type of family with a hierarchy then get the ones closer to his age to do it. Be prepared to face some harsh truths from him too about the way he perceives you guys' relationship

By the way just because he's your brother it doesnt mean he cant be arrogant or conceited. To an extent if somebody looks down on you then you have to leave them to themselves, even if that person is your own brother

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Romance › Re: She Wants Her Name To Be Uppercase During An 'informal' Chat! by midnighter(f): 4:02pm On Oct 26, 2019

Octopusssy:
Preach. He is just there arguing nonsense. So because you're having an informal conversation you will not respect someone's wishes on how they want to be addressed?

Lol I dont know what he was trying to say but Ive washed my hands of his matter. Dude wasnt making any sense

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