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Not only in this part of the world but all around it, no lady follows a loser, a failure or one with no better future in sight. Losers have no girlfriends nor concubines. Even the gentlest and nicest of girls ignore them.

I came across this thread which graced the front page recently.

https://www.nairaland.com/6459224/insinuation-everything-money/1

It entailed a lady who sought to try make some specific set of guys understand that a lady isn't really all about money, that there are other things which they (the ladies) consider before deeming a guy good enough for a relationship, perhaps something more emotional.

I agree it's true mostly when it comes to youthful romance fantasy but isn't really true for majority of ladies who seek a partner to be with forever or to submit to.

As men are to lead and women are to follow submissively, they seek someone worth submitting to and that person is only someone who gives or assures them of comfort and not the one who always give excuses.

Most ladies if not all, both pretty and ugly will rather choose a man of substance over a man with lesser amount of substance in order to secure him to secure their future. This is required for their survival and easy sailing ahead through future issues like pregnancy, child upbringing, their maintenance and so on.

They might consider lesser men for fun, attention or backup plans whatever but wouldn't place them before the man of substance - as choosing a loser with no hope in sight as a husband will greatly affect their survival and this they consider important and marshall themselves to try secure the successful man.

They might have all the fun with low value men but they don't nurse the thought of taking them home - that is, unless they are left with no choice.

This choice of rich men they make is logical and less emotional for their own good and the women who are overwhelmed by emotions or illogical reasoning due to poor enlightenment, who scorn men of substance and choose losers or low value men mostly pay dearly for it after some period of maturity, constant discomfort, stress and anxiety which predated their will to fulfill a female fantasy.

We see this in our hoods where some homes of married lovers where the man is unable to render comfort is mostly filled with strife, arguments and lamentations from the woman. Homes where the woman isn't comfortable and see no sign of betterment in the future are usually absent of submissiveness and appreciation from her - except of course the ones touched by God Almighty.

Most men might cling to a woman because she is beautiful and all but if a woman is to cling to any man at all, he should either be successful or have a comfortable future in sight, the very reason why some ladies stick to broke men with intelligence and ambition because they are assured of comfort in the future and feeling of security which in other words means enough money to preserve her and her children.


Thereby in a nutshell, majority of women consciously or unconsciously consider money a factor in any man they intend to follow and this is enough to label women as money seekers amongst others. Money is important to every woman and will take you a long way with them.


Thus yes, with women, it is highly about money.

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The whole thing is messed up right from the time you moved in. You for some reason didn't realize or perhaps accept that sooner. Sorry but I'll just advise you try litigating this issue to get some refunds and then move out as soon as possible for your peace of mind.

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Iniobong34:
And if you eventualy evacuate him forcefully and in the future he has becomes rich, how will he sees u?

Keep on dreaming

Wizseyi4u:
I said 80k naw

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Couldn't agree more Crossalpha. Nigerian ladies are far more preferable romantically than their foreign counterparts, especially the likes of the western societies.

Here is the thing

Nigerian ladies are more feminine, attractive and are less strenuous in relationships. They scarcely outshine their partners, are easier to bend, vet and are more likely to remain in marriages through thick or thin.

A reasonable amount of them are also hardworking, sacrificial and respectful towards their husbands, a feminine virtue most foreign women do not have.

Plainly speaking, if you want to witness real uselessness, injustice and wickedness towards men from the feminine, then try the western societies.

Congrats in advance. Keep making him happy

No pictures?

TheGidRedpiller:
It is. what else do you have for me tonight

My silence

Don't you feel this is becoming an obsession?

Boy named Daniel has been rescued from his madam after he was subjected to horrific physical abuse just one month into his stay with the woman.

The boy, from Jos, said his mother is dead and his father is in the village, so he was brought from the North to Lagos and handed over to a woman named Onyebuchi in Surulere, Lagos, so that he can work for her and get sent to school in return.

However, the boy was reportedly subjected to abuse and wasn’t enrolled in school.

Concerned neighbours got involved when they saw the boy eating from a maggot infested dustbin in the compound. They noticed the boy has cuts and bruises all over his body and his fingers were also bent and bruised.

The neighbours did a video, asking the boy what happened to him and he said his “Aunty” was responsible for hitting him.

Reports about the abuse were shared online and human rights activist went to the given address in Surulere. There, they met the boy and his madam.

The boy was so battered that he showed signs of extreme pain when asked to sit, because of bruises on his bum.

The madam insisted she wasn’t responsible when confronted by human rights activist. She added that she feeds the boy and doesn’t maltreat him.

However, the activists told her that they have videos of the boy carrying heavy things on his head and eating from the dustbin.

Asked why she hasn’t enrolled the boy in school, the woman explained that he has been with her for only one month and she was making efforts to do so. Also, most schools closed for the term a week ago so it wouldn’t have been possible to get him enrolled at the end of the school term.

It was also alleged that the madam got her children to abuse Daniel. She reportedly asked one of her children to hit Daniel’s head on the wall and the child did.

Despite the madam’s denials, the activist, @auntlanda promised to ensure she faces the law.

A police officer who followed the activists to the scene took the madam to the police station in a bus. The madam’s child who hit Daniel’s head on the wall was also taken to the station.

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Watch video here

https://youtu.be/0NOaFni0aFs

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That price is a bit much for that phone. Seriously, buying a 2gb fairly used phone in that price range is far more preferable than this pop.

pocohantas:
I don’t agree.

The only man I can’t forget in this life is a generous man. A man with a HUGE SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY. An intuitive man. A man that thinks ahead. A man that you can always trust to have your back.

You know those men that before you talk/ask, they have done it. Doesn’t matter how little, but they always do as a man should do. The beauty of a man is his money.

Anything else and I would forget you!

Smart lady

chatinent:
True.

Believe me, the gluttonous people in the world aren't the fat ones. They are so criminally thin that you won't believe that at the mention of their names, seven wraps of Jericho has already fallen.

Just like the two of us

You forgot to add these ones -

THE GLUTTONS

Are there to eat their tomorrow and next tomorrow's meal at your wedding. They are mostly uninvited and look gentle until the food is being shared.

and less I forget, THE DRUNKARDS

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The phone was delivered to me yesterday 22/07/2021 in perfect condition. The seal was intact. All the accessories were completed ( Charger USB C, earphone, Case, SIM tray tool and a quick start guide)

I was mandated to update the phone which amount to about 1.6GB. I have to wait for night subscription to do that.

The specifications matched the descriptions
4 /64GB

Do share pictures later.

In that case, congrats to you both. May happiness and comfort never cease in your home. Just keep supporting him and the family and pls ignore the detractors above.

Casalindal:
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We have that in common

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Lizzyangel:
Thanks for your contribution, I'll work towards it when I'm still alive to fight all along.

@ mekusmanuel

Greet, esteem and obey him when necessary but don't try to bond emotionally more with him. You may eventually end up irritating him the more and you'll get more insults and ridicule.

Just give him a little space emotionally for some weeks. This would likely make him realise and reference your importantance to him sooner or later.

Sometimes to draw people closer, you have to give them a little distance.

Hmm Nice family. Congrats on the newborn. More blessings.

You may get more depressed being a single mom after divorce. Would you condemn the marriage you knowingly entered into to justify yourself?

You have the influence to spice up the marriage for your sake and your child's sake within you. Pay attention to your attitude and reactions to matters.

Roughly speaking, you need a listening ear and not necessarily separation. Brace yourself and try harder.

The headaches and troubles that may arise after separation predates your imagination.

Are you sure? He seems more like a wimp than a true alpha.

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Wow

He should have braced himself up like a man and break up with her before the wedding. This act he performed don't even speak well of him at all.

But who am I to judge?

Casalindal dear, I understand being under someone especially being a woman married to someone who doesn't understand or regard you isn't easy but I'm gonna advice you to persist; though you're partly to be blamed for your situation as the marriage was founded on deception (your deception) which is a bad start.

You chose to get married to him, why separate from him now?

Have you considered how you would live after divorce?
Which man will marry you later?
What about your child? Have you considered the emotional and physical effects that will surface from your choosing to leave?
Who would you look to for sexual gratification? Young and low-life guys on the streets?
How will you feel living that way years from now?

Do not be a willing party to your home wreckage. Try to work on your marriage and build up the home through communication with your husband and attention to your child. Esteem your husband and he will bond more emotionally with you.

Shameful

Tell the lady that if her subconscious points to just graduating to be a housewife, then she has lesser reasons not getting married to him now.

Women were and are primarily married to support the family with love and care and not necessarily career proceeds. That is where their core happiness lies.

Furthermore, what I see the family has to understand is that she at that age is at her prime and is a perfect fit for the man of that age; one who of course has a prospective future and a reasonable level of comfort.

Her degrees and certificates in the university doesn't make her a better wife or mother, her understanding and fulfillment of her purpose does; being a family creature and not necessarily a success one. Ignore that feminism teaches.


It takes a high level of knowledge, discretion or experience to understand this.

It is definitely not what you're thinking.

Richy4:
Ok..The way u denied it with hundred NOs' shows that it was not what I was thinking ....