₦airaland Forum

donbachi:
Divorce is the only option.Cos if She dies in the man's hand.the man will end up in jail.ifShe kills the man,she too will go to jail.then,one will begin to think of wat will become of their kids..any man dat is married to a contentious woman,should Let het go.

Richy4:
Oh!!!!! I want to ask you since you have done it before.... what kind of sink is the OP talking about... is it the one in the kitchen or the one in the toilet where people brush their teeth?.....If it's the one that people brush their teeth, then you must have been extremely tall to do that... considering the height of the toilet sink...

thinkmoney:
Tell me first, if that date is at ur house or away. I will really know ur mind after this

damorikoko:
There are no rules to dressing.

Once you are successful and have MONEY...You can choose to wear jalamia to any event.

pocohantas:
The question isn’t a one-size-fits-all.

It would depend on the kind of date. Is it a movie date, dinner date, after work date, church date, picnic, poolside date…etc. Dress appropriately and neatly for the date.

Most importantly, wear brown shoes. Thank you.

NwaIgboBoy:
Just G-string

meobizy:
Another stupid jambite thread.

sapphiere:
Not suit. He is not going for Shell interview.
Something simple and smart.

ashewoboy:
Kimberlywest, put on a gown without panties. you could wear a lingerie to make it classy. also don't forget to wear waist bead.

Angelacruz:
Staff not staffs

Lol, thanks

Ishilove:
This lady lives above her means and is notorious for borrowing, so I have no pity for her. She borrowed money to pay the sharks back yesterday. Now I'm wondering how she will pay back. Very shameless person

Ishilove:
This past Wednesday, they embarrassed the hell out of my colleague who was owing them 40k. They sent this text message below to all her contacts, myself included. In an instant her phone started ringing as all her contacts reached out to her to know what happened. Some of them even called me and the other staff to hear gist.

By the end of the day she was an emotional wreck. The embarrassment was something else.

Xenry:
Poverty catch fire!

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Poverty is a sin abeg.

NotFair2:
It's shameful, for REAL. I feel so useless everyday.

Lemme brief this:

I'm a school dropout; stopped at JSS 3. I was 17yrs and naive. I couldn't even write my Junior WAEC, even though I tried so much to, but couldn't due to lack of finance.

My Mom was very sick at the time and my Dad wasn't doing well in his business, the little he gets, he spends on my Mom. So I was left with no choice but to stop schooling so that my Junior ones could continue.

To cut the story short, I've been working from one company to another. I also taught myself some online skills which has been helpful.
Even with the Job and Skill, I still couldn't have any savings.

For more than a week now, I've been sick, and spent all my money on drugs. I've been hiding it from my parents because, at 24yrs I'm already a big liability living with them.
My Mom knew I was sick because it became obvious at some point. When she noticed I had no more cash, she gave me 3k to buy drugs. At that moment I felt so ashamed, and felt like I've not done enough to better myself.

They say men don't cry...., but I went to the bathroom and cried like a baby.

This life...



You think I'm that type of person??
Think again...

I'm not calling for help on here.
The encouraging words though, from well meaning persons is good enough.
Now stop being a typical Nigerian

NotFair2:
It's shameful, for REAL. I feel so useless everyday.

Lemme brief this:

I'm a school dropout; stopped at JSS 3. I was 17yrs and naive. I couldn't even write my Junior WAEC, even though I tried so much to, but couldn't due to lack of finance.

My Mom was very sick at the time and my Dad wasn't doing well in his business, the little he gets, he spends on my Mom. So I was left with no choice but to stop schooling so that my Junior ones could continue.

To cut the story short, I've been working from one company to another. I also taught myself some online skills which has been helpful.
Even with the Job and Skill, I still couldn't have any savings.

For more than a week now, I've been sick, and spent all my money on drugs. I've been hiding it from my parents because, at 24yrs I'm already a big liability living with them.
My Mom knew I was sick because it became obvious at some point. When she noticed I had no more cash, she gave me 3k to buy drugs. At that moment I felt so ashamed, and felt like I've not done enough to better myself.

They say men don't cry...., but I went to the bathroom and cried like a baby.

This life...



You think I'm that type of person??
Think again...

I'm not calling for help on here.
The encouraging words though, from well meaning persons is good enough.
Now stop being a typical Nigerian

Gisbourne44:
Hello guys.. good morning.. I met this girl in a cab, I got her contact but it took us about 3 weeks before we met and discussed. I liked her and Wanted to date her. I asked her out and she replied she was in a relationship. I said okay. She went on to further tell me that it shouldn’t matter to me that 95% of ladies are in relationships. Which is something I kinda understood too as well. Two weeks later she said she had broken up with her boyfriend. I said okay. I asked her out she said she just came out of one an not really ready to enter another. I left it at that. But after about a week we both just settled into been in a relationship because she would call and get angry that what kind of boyfriend am I that can’t call his girlfriend in the morning etc... that was how things were and we were until about two months after our dating she told me she was pregnant. I told her to keep the pregnancy(cos personally I won’t have sex without protection if I don’t have intentions to marry the person).

I told my mum about it and she was like I should prepare and do her introduction. I was preparing towards that when I found out that she cheated on me with a married man the same period she got pregnant (from calculation of the pregnancy) we slept together on the 31st of April, she slept with the said married man on the 8th and 10th of May with and without condom respectively.(the worst part was I found out myself, she didn’t tell me out of remorse)

That realization was what cancelled all plans I had for her. While we were together I give her 35k monthly because she wasn’t working(she had lost her jobs some weeks before we started seeing each other) she begged and begged that I should forgive her that it would not happen again. But to be honest I only saw tears and no remorse. Because I didn’t want her to do anything stupid that would be on me(I had gone to see her mother and we discussed before I found out she cheated) I even told the mum she cheated. I still went ahead and Moved her to my place but for The first three months the relationship wasn’t good at all. She was always crying and saying she is sorry. I most times tell her it’s okay so nothing happens to the baby not because it’s actually okay. Cos till date if I see the type of car the person she cheated with drives. I get angry as well. I wasn’t doing so badly. At least I had a car my dad gave to me to use in Abuja after he retired to his house in Lagos. Now sha she has given birth to a boy and dna confirms its mine.

Three months to the time she was to give birth

Doctors kinda adviced me that her condition wasn’t good and that she was thinking too much that I should forget any issues we have and pretend so everything goes fine when it’s time for labour. So I changed at that point for the sake of the pregnancy and her health.

But now that everything is clear. Would it be adviseable to go on and marry her?

The trust is actually not there

Cos most times she goes out I always feel she is going to see someone or she would give out her number. I always want her to be indoor. But it’s not healthy and that’s not how it’s supposed to be. I intend to train her in school for the fact that she is my baby’s mother. So that in the event that anything happens to me (unforeseen circumstances) she should be able to stand and carry on with the training of the baby)

My parents don’t even want me and her staying together (but I fear for her choices in men) let her not go and date one yahoo boy that’s would end up using my son for ritual. That’s my fear ��‍♂️��‍♂️

Her mother has told her there is only a 5% chance the relationship would work out.

Then based on her past(she has actually cheated on everyone she has dated) reasons been that most of them were stingy and she had needs. That’s why I gave her 35k monthly so she stays faithful to me. But she still cheated on me as well for money ( she kissed and had sex with the married man

Lilpen3758:
the woman self go dey frustrated
The love no go dey sweet both of them again

emmaodet:
Uwc.
About your disagreement, do you care to explain? We all are here to learn. I am open to learning

Lilpen3758:
hehehehehe dey don't know

I wonder o and how can the love between them even survive without money? People say love is all that matters but can they pay their bills with a hug especially in a country like Nigeria?