₦airaland Forum

wizzyrich:
What is this one saying self ? Are you sure you read my post thoroughly ?

jara:
At least you are honest! People like politicians bite and blow. Corporate bums beat their chests and hide money outside the reach of taxman.

wizzyrich:
I'm sure we have lots of economist who has in one way or the other provided ideas to end this recession. Many are still doing it on programmes organised by TV stations.

But I'm still sure that even if we apply all the ideas from our economists, they might not work because our system is faulty. People continue to talk and talk and no one is ready to take practical steps towards ending this recession(the government is mostly guilty of this).

ificatchmodeh:
Every sane nigerian must speak against thid impunity.

Democracy is being rape and. Your here taking tribe..

What's wrong with you..if this jonathan's government or wike..you willgladly scream against it..

See there are things you don't play. Politics with. And. This. Situation is one of them

Nigerians should speak out..
NBA
NJC
INTERNATIONAL BODIES
UN
All should. Speak before its late..
Impeach buhari now..
Democracy must be preserved and due process followed..
The laws provides. Meansand au to punish pffending judges while the commando. Style..

If we don't speak..this impunity will cage. Us all irrespective of affiliation or. Tribe.

lacasera14:
There are over a 100 universities in Nigeria with
doctors and professors of economics in them,
does it mean that none of them could come up
with a panacea or therapy for our ailing
economy? none can come up with possible
solutions to proffer to this plague called
"recession "? All we do is involve in blame
games, citizens blaming the Government,
Government blaming predecessors nobody is
talking of solutions. Is Buhari really our problem?
Is the previous Government our problem? It's
time to brainstorm rather than wail.

It's a shame to all the Professors and Doctors of Economics and other relevant fields in this context here both Home and in diaspora, can't they think? can't they do some research? are they all happy about the recession?
It's high time we rise up to the call of duty, even undergraduates too should wake up and think.
It's a clarion call.

vanbonattel:
We should keep reminding them not to make this sort of blunder again. We warned them but hate blinded them from seeing the big picture.

vanbonattel:
Is is "herd mentality" in action in a particular region. Follow follow people.

agabusta:
What now happens to all the efforts to stimulate local production of rice??

Nigeria and policy somersaults eh.

Well, some short term advantage will accrue from this:
-cheaper rice


Long term disadvantages
-pressures on naira will continue as people continue sourcing for scarce foreign exchange for rice imports.
-if the local production is not well protected and nourished, this new directive can kill off the production.

Savigne:
Hah hahaha... Leave oooo, some people here just dey blow hot air we all know the reality is quite different....How many feminists you don see for Nigeria?... Not online ooo in real life.

Amelian:
Keep waiting for epp.. U hear?

Amelian:
Keep waiting for epp.. U hear?

Savigne:
As a woman I have no issue with doing all the house work as long as you're ready to play your role as a man and provide all the kids and I need.... But then again that doesn't stop me from helping out financially when you're low on cash and nothing should stop you also from helping out with chores.... Let's leave culture and religion out of this and use our conscience... If you claim you love someone you would help out when the need arises.

brainpulse:
Good enough. But what shall it profit you to be given a car and yet have to borrow money to fuel and maintain it. It's better to change their status to value the gift not a gift that will later devalue their status. Give them good health care scheme, accommodation, equipped training facilities etc.

Genius100:
Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown. If dem ban importation now, the price of locally made tomato paste will much higher compared to the imported products.. Masses have suffered enough

Laveda:


HML to them!

All these pre-wedding photos seff baba pick my calls.

Dyt:
Everyone likes to be the saint
Like someone I knoe
The husband and his family claimed she left cos he had nothing
But when he had
Different women, don't sleep home weekends, partying and what not
He became broke
Wife stood by him and even gave him money but he preferred to give the gfs that was still with him
She got fed up and left

Now when you hear the husbands side, you think the woman is evil
But when you hear the wife's side, would you still say what she did was wrong?
Oh you would have said she shouldn't give him money again but stayed


We all have a limit we can take
Be it woman/man

Drabeey:

“But we don’t want investors to
come to Africa to sell us iPhones and
many expensive suits.
“We want to become productive, so
we want this investment to come
into infrastructure that will enable us to compete and really enable
Africans to stay in Africa.”


I dont know why i just like this statement.
This people will just be bringing ephemeral things to us. They still have that believe that we are baboons. Thunder fire them


Anyways


Drabeey was Here

Toks2008:
The primary duty of the man in marriage is to provide the basic needs of his family talking about the wife and the children while the primary role of the wife is to nurture the husband and the children which is the perfect definition of help mate.

Now it is important to note that no two marriages are the same and what works for you may not work for the other person and the fact that a man provides all the needs of the family does not mean that he can't assist the wife to do some of her primary duties if needs be and a wife who has become the breadwinner may also not mind playing her primary duties without any support from the husband .

But nevertheless i sincerely believe that every man whose wife have become the main bread winner or a co-bread winner to realize that it is very expedient for him to be ready to also be a co-nurturer of the family and also perform the primary duties of the woman such as cleaning the house,cooking,taking care of the children and helping the wife to do things that will ease off the stress from her.

I have heard of several cases where a man who is fully financially dependent on the wife still expects her to do all the domestic activities and prepares all three course meals and some men even get so angry with the wife because she complains of tiredness.

It is very wicked and uncaring for a man whose wife is also a partaker of his primary duties to still expect the lady to fully take care of the home front and this does not make you less a man but will rather encourage the woman and not make her look like a slave in the house.

I know some men will say it is not in our tradition as Africans to do domestic chores and I sincerely agree but we must also understand that it is also not an Africa tradition for a woman to be a breadwinner.

I don't know if this makes sense.

psucc:
So na the clerk go now be their sacrificial lambs?

Govt of back and fro.

Benita27:
Try that nonsense with me and see if i won't slap your ears deaf.

Height of stup!d!ty on the part of the ladies.

Those of you disturbing my mentions with all sort should better stop it. what happened to searching them with devices like this, or even doing it in a reasonable manner?.

napa:
@5minsmadness, there are no kids yet, sex life is ok and both of us know I'm good looking because he knows i still get constant compliments for my good looks. I sincerely don't know what the issue is. I just feel he wants to explore and satisfy some fantasies but I'm getting emotionally hurt. I pity myself most times. It's only my mom that knows what is happening and she's been praying with me. I'm a woman of few words, i hardly discuss my affairs with people.
@veave, no he doesn't beat me. There's no reason why he would do that. Our marriage is really somehow (i don't know if that's how other marriages are). I rarely ask him for money because i work in a well paid organisation, i don't disturb him for nothing. All i want is care and love, nothing more.
there it is
You're forming roommate
That's why he goes out
The other ladies make him feel needed
You don't
Everyman wants to be his woman's hero
Even if it small errands
That's what those girls do that makes him feel like a man
I'm from an average family of 3 children , he doesn't have any pressure from any members of my family and i definitely know it's not about the children that have not come, we've been on it from the first year of our marriage. This is really getting at me. I just felt like pouring out my mind.

sisisioge:
Baby, I was just about to call you so you could advise her correctly. Thank you!

I actually have no words for her...don't know what to say. However, I remember a story of a family. The story is really real...

The husband was a serial cheat who defiled all reasons and interventions. Guy eventually got aids. He infected the wife and all the kids! That part of the lineage is no more now. I wish he had listened or she had divorced him eventually. Oloshilawonokunrin...them be SOB!

Dyt:
I can't believe what I am reading on this threwad
This is most ridiculous


For five years?
Different women?
Your husband is a serial killer ma'am

And you are being adviced to pray, check yourself and ask questions?


Oh God have mercy

A CHEAT IS ALWAYS A CHEAT
THAT MAN WONT FECKING CHANGE
CHOOSE TO DEAL WITH DISEASES, EMOTIONAL TORTURE, MENTAL INSTABILITY, AND WHAT NOTS OR THE HECK LEAVE


Hypocrites will flood me with mentions now
Awon oloriburuku
As if they can take it

jeff1607:
have you tried sitting him down and having a heart2heart discussion with him?

Try making him tell you what he fancies about other women that he can't see in you, probably he likes the hunt( chasing ladies) or they are more adventurous and you are more laid back or think back to those times where he couldn't do without you, what fascinated him about you that made himdecide to choose you only as a life partner and leave the rest.

Remember no one is perfect and there might be something you now do that isn't giving him that thrill with you, he is your partner, friend and confidante let him open up to you. He will understand that you are trying to help him, but don't go pretending you don't care or you no send or threatening him with doing the same thing.

#nuffsaid

Amelian:
Smmhhh.. No shame again. No wonder he doesn't have a gf, he's linked with.

Sugarmummies ti take over...make he dey there, warming their beds.. What a shame.

Thisis2raw:
Why sleep with a married woman, while there's 1 billion girls out there?

seguno2:
The depreciation of teaching and teachers is because we don't value education. We value politicians who steal our money despite that we already allow them to pay themselves multiple millions for doing nothing.