VULCAN:
Some people will defend any evil as long as it serves them.
You went ahead to make an assumption as if you were there to counter my own assumption and being a hypocrite you said I should not make an assumption.

First, you ignored the FACT that his wife received such a text now you're justifying it by assuming the husband is a fool that he does not know what that text means. Perhaps you send such and receive such texts from people that you are platonic or related to; but that is not the norm.

P.S. Pls tell us what facts were made available to you that you can authoritatively claim she is not cheating.

VULCAN:
Any Dr. That gives prescription without correct diagnosis may kill the patient. You ignored his revelation that he discovered a text on his wife's phone saying "call me back, I love you".

You dont need to be Sherlock Holmes to know that she has found a richer man. The man has also promised to take care of the kids and that is why she has the guts to abscond with them.

emusmithy:

"Some Men" so hush it!!!
Hush it!
"We say things, not the way they are but the way we are"...That's an epitome of you. Your last paragraph: You think everyone who writes is like you, not meaning what they say...
You for all ladies, are BOSSY, RUDE, UNCOUTH. Do you see an iota of submission in yourself?...I see the way you quote thread creators here as though you are one...pfft.
Get off my way and mention please, young lady. With all due respect.

emusmithy:

Hey Grammarian;
I never said there was something wrong with expecting a your wife to be submissive.
Some men, like you stated from your third paragraph or so, do so for the wrong reasons.

Which you concurred to, which is "Bangladesh" again?

emusmithy:
Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Women.

Ironical it's coming from a guy. Yeah.
Heard too many brag on their 'right' on their being the Head and all.
When these set of guys find a truly self-confident woman, they put their self-defense mask on and go all, "she's too full of herself..."
They want a submissive lady who pretend to be what she's not and later it backfires...They want a submissive lady for the wrong reasons. See some of them below:

1. They are plain egoistic.

If he's got ego in him, that "beast" will once in a while need to feed on some blood. It sure will be yours.
He needs you to bow and say, 'Yes Sir" as he does this. What a life! You're doubtlessly married to a dummy!

2. They're plain ill-trained.

The truth is, men who take want submissive girls often have wrong motives. They say, "I'm hot, she should be humble...to take my shyytes". For the most part, this was passed on from their roots. They were taught that way; either at home or in church that women are kinda inferior. This is wrong and abysmal! It's erroneous and degrading! Women are help-meets, not housemaids.


3. They're plain selfish.

He wants a submissive lady because he is only considering his own self/ 'temperament'. She's got weaknesses too and she wants you to understand when she's being extra loud also.

4. They're plain lazy

"Marriage is hard work and getting a humble lady makes it easy", he says. He doesn't want stress. The girl who poses to be humble before marriage might end up breaking your heart in marriage. Go for a Real Lady who isn't sorry for being herself always.


5. They're plain autocratic

Some men are naturally power-freak. They hold on the Bible passage that says, "Wife, submit to your husbands..." They ignore the part that says, "Men, do not be BITTER against your wives or Men love your wives."
Bitter o? Don't be mad at her. They are not only bitter; they're also wife beaters. Smh!

6. They're plain ignorant

For those guys seeking 'humble' girls who are like 'humble pies in the sky', it's complete ignorance. The fact is: No woman is humble for nothing. Don't let her calling you "Sir" today fool you into thinking she's humble. You might be wrong. Selah!


7. They're plain unwise

I believe it's wise to like a lady for who she is than who she decorates herself to be. With the increase in rate of single ladies from 27-35, they can even "wash your feet" just to bear your name.
It's thereby silly to judge a wife material by mere display of cheap humility.

Tgif! Happy Independence in advance, Nigerians!

Xiadnat:
Oh he is for real. You are asking the wrong question tho.

He is a man on a mission: operation " leave naija to better pasture". Lol

The real issue is if he's mission is of noble and pure motives. Only you can answer that. And oh yes! TIME. If you ask me: a year or so is too soon.


Good luck

encrypt:

Babe how far na...is it everytime you are creating and encrypting path

chronique:
Read through a couple of your posts,and I thnk you're intelligent. I like ladies with brains.

Joel3:



you must still be a child to comprehend my write up. I didn't state that it’s a must to live in the BQ. that is only a backup. choice of work always come to play. what if everything failed? like he lost his job? where will he go to? from house to village? there are people in the city of lagos who live in rents but they put tenants in their houses outside the city.

that house will always remain a backup when everything failed.

Joel3:
it's advising you build your house first. even if its BQ. then you can complete the main flat or duplex later.

because when bills start to surface then you will know 70k is chicken change. except you want to suffer. my friend who had a wife and one child stock his fridge every week with meat 10k only. other food items is not among. just imagine that your money for food, rent, change of clothes at least 2 clothes a month u and kid each.

I spent more than that amount a month. I don't know how I do it but I don't have a family.

not forgetting that I relax always with few drink daily. life is too short bro. so decide for yourself.

lalasticlala, seun.

HERSLEY:
so sayeth a riffraff who reaches orgasm by insulting people. Iranu... Dimwit lowlife silly ass hole. Omo ale jati jati. Nkita racha gi anya

HERSLEY:
oh plsssss save me dat crap

ValentineMary:

Let's make something clear here. Personal experience is not proof. It can't be replicated or analysed critically and can be distorted by the individual to fit what he/she wants to be true and not what reality is.


I honestly think science has done a good job ans this. We now know it is density following law of floatation.


We all have dreams. It's just an interaction between our conscious, unconscious and sub conscious mind. If u dream manifest in real life, yipee!!! but it's not proof. It's just coincidence. Even dogs dream.



I have also had a similar experience when once I was choking to death and an inner burst of energy saved me. That inner energy is just our will to survive.

ValentineMary:

What makes u think there has to be a creator deity who makes stuffs what's ur evidence

Johnsinia:
where are the gods when Jesus drove them out of the entire Africa continent (their initial host community, where they are in region) and make them useless and extinct. Jesus defeated all the African gods put together. Up Up Jesus

WorldRichest:


My friend said that you are a witch and that you are defending a fellow witch. Na my friend talk so oo, no be me oo. So, if you want to attack anyone this night it should be my friend not me. That my friend's father is the leader of the Ifa followers in my village,while his mother is the head of the Celestial Church down my street so be very prepared for a tough fight.

gentlelarry:
He is not a pastor to start with and even he is then he is not a carrier of divine power... This story has given you people freedom to feed you mediocrity but either you like it or not God power remain supreme and those that carry it know what they carry. I won't expect someone that does see beyond his nose to accept the supreme divinity of God's power but either you accept or not it doesn't change who God his... His power his can give Life and he can shut it down and no one will ask him how... Only one fellow out of thousands of this case will have is making you laugh if only you know how much more of shrines and evil locations crusade evangelist are destroying everyday. This story reminds me of a similar experience at Ilu tuntun somewhere in the southern part of Ondo state when a powerful evangelist went there for crusade and he was directed by God to cut down a tree somewhere in the town and in the process of cutting it the chief priest of the town was running to the venue with charm and as he attempt to hit the evangelist with it he fell down and started folding like tyre... all his fellow occult came there and say many incantation all to no avail until the man of God pleaded for mercy on his behalf. If u doubt me, contact me personally and I will get d tape accross to you... Stop deceiving yourself if you think there is no power and believe me there are powers and there is Power when powers meet Power, powers dey always pick who born Devil to make sound when the Almighty is operating.