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Like Vanguardngr like nairaland; always modifying and recycling old tales.

his mom. lol[/quote]Hahaha! Of course I'm not referring to you, because you're not the character in the story.

Meaningless story. Your hatred towards Comfort, which was obviously because you had an entitled complex attitude - while she's a self-willed lady and her resolved not to allowed you carry out your acts of manipulation - was the root cause of your spitefulness towards her. Thus, the witch label you gave her.

And your spitefulness coupled with the nursed envy Ngozi (her frenemy co-maid) had against her too - because she was more beautiful and loved by many (according to you) - made you and Ngozi to became a stronger united force that influenced opinions in that house.

Your mother only fell for the evil force (you and Ngozi) and that made her to became prejudicial towards Comfort also, thus the hallucination she (your mother) experienced.

party:
Wow!.
I'm impressed.

Thanks for your compliment.

motherfucker:
Girl, you are too smart. Just too smart for your kind. Unfortunately, man girls do not have as much reasoning capacity like you. Keep it up.

Thanks for your compliment.

@OP

I hope you know that prior to early 90s, typewriters not computers were in vogue, thus its manufacturers made a lot of money then. But now, computers has taken over. Just imagine if those typewriter manufacturing companies of the old failed to divest; Nigeria recession would be a child's play compared to what such a companies would be passing through by now.

Tell me what job you have been doing since the past two years and I'll tell you the reason why you have not recorded a good financial success as you'd wished to. Many a time, the pastors and their ilks speaks out of ignorance/conceit/deceit.

The poor lady in your life wasn't the cause of your financial retrogression.

SA rep!

hajeebolla:
Uw...my thought exactly. So which school?

LSE

hajeebolla:
u just hit d nail on d head. Are u a law student ?

Thanks for your compliment. Meanwhile, yes I'm a law student.

The OP is to be blamed and disparaged. He's the one that asked the girl how much her supposed training would cost. Also, he initiated talk about wishing the girl to visit him. And I neither see where the girl initiated/made request for a call credit nor where the OP sent same to her as he claimed.

From my observations above, I can conclude that the OP was firstly prejudicial from the inception and later on he exhibited too clever by half attitude, too.

emydot:
Well... She stays with us. She did something wrong and on realizing that her secret is almost exposed, she ran way.

Well, my unfailing intuition told me almost exactly the same thing, thus the reason why I asked. Please next time don't allow her or anyone of her age bracket, under your custody, the oppportunity to flee, no matter the cause. She'll be found, but...

Did she left on errand and has not returned or did the household she was staying with chased/scolded her away?

One of my friends that schools there confirmed the ugly news.

I never knew she's this much beautiful.

Abuse of any type, emotional seems even worse since it will be hard for the outsiders to notice it least of intervening, should be abhorred by any sane people. So, either separation or outright divorce should be applied whenever it becomes a regular occurrence because life has no duplicate. relationship/association should be enjoyed not endured.

To the question, when you hear most people say they are divorcing due to some irreconcilable differences, abuse, especially emotional type, is usually that unspoken word.

Whenever two conceited people meet, the result is always exactly the happenstance between these two.

hUmaneOne:
Yes..that's why you voted the certificateless dullard who is now a top performer..

Your pettiness is irredeemable. Even though I'm not a fan of the president political-wise, yet I know - just like any other informed and unbiased person out there - that in any organization (country) where outflows of cash supersedes cash inflows that economic crisis is bound to take place. I will only join the bandwagon of you critics against his mandate, if after 3 years in power he fails to make the country better than it's today. Until then, I will continue to wish him well.

The funny thing with most of you critiques is that , within this same period the president has been in power, non of you has recorded any meaningful growth in your personal lives. PMB is to blamed also, I guess.

Ghost447:
You think you're exuding your intellectual perspicacity? No! You're living in fantasy because your reasoning in riddled with short sightedness. She was appointed to govern her people and her people rejected her based on lack of experience and other reasons as it were, if your IQ is superb as you allegedly claimed, you ought to know that her people are in a better position to know who is better qualify to govern them. Talking about knowledge and governance, do you think a Professor in relevant field from Harvard can succcesfully govern a Local Government in Kebbi State?. It takes more than acquired knowledge to govern certain class of people in certain terrain. So, stop your self assessment about your IQ and embrace reality.

Stupidity is when you believe that popular opinions are always correct. The authority that appointed her and sticks to it has fulfilled the wise saying that sagacious people always live their lives at the periphery of conventionalism.

Now run along and engage people of same myopic school of thoughts like you. I don't need your validations to substantiate my pronouncements.

hUmaneOne:
A secondary school graduate with no prior experience. What are you people on?

Conceit is for petty people. The very moment you realized that formal education does not defines someone's intellect level, the better for your future. Leaders are readers, but not all readers are leaders. Also, old age does not confer wisdom, but thorough knowledge does.

Ghost447:
What is "thorough knowledge"? Superior to information & experience? How can you assumed to have "thorough knowledge" without information & experience?... I dey fear this your submission o!

That my postulation will sure be beyond some people's IQ, so there will be no need for such a person in this category to bother trying to comprehend it.

But before I say bye, information remains what it is, until it becomes knowledge. And experience itself becomes useless in disguise if one that possess it is not updated (informed).

In summary, one who has information and experience on public administration may not be informed about what it takes to be effective in the present era. It takes thorough knowledge to be informed - someone in her position for instance is no longer an item but an organization - a good team makes a sane leader informed.

The people that opposed her appointment on the basis of her age and assumed non experience must be suffering from environmental delusion.

Thorough knowledge remains superior to information and experience (especially in this kind of work she's appointed to do) - having thorough knowledge means been informed/up-to-date.

Obviously, she must have been doing a mental related work after she left the secondary school. The question should be; is she informed? If the answer is in affirmative as I presumed (the person that appointed her in such a coveted position could not be less informed than the disgruntled elements that opposes her), then she should stay put.

uyiekpen26:
I'm still far ahead and better than you.

Hahaha! Believe you me, my twin brother and I can buy the whole of your local government area.

Your foremost thread betrayed you. Next time if you want to do bragging, think well okay.

uyiekpen26:
I don't have time for cheap slots like you.

Hahaha! Petty men like you don't even walk on the same lane with me. Poor people and bragging is like bread and butter.

uyiekpen26:
oh shut up. slowpoke.

Pauper! Your pettiness is irredeemable.

Babes be wary of this OP and his bragging. He's just looking for an easy prey. Citing his foremost thread which he created some days ago, where he displayed for bragging, a 4th-hand used car as his new acquisition and now this thread, I have used my sensitive mind and eagle eyes to discern his hidden agenda.

SlowlybtSurely:
I don't mind.

However, let me ask papa Ejiro and Ejiro if they will be willing to share their wife and mother.

Mama Ejiro can never be polyandrous. Best wishes mama.

SlowlybtSurely:
I like that your boyfriend!

My kinda man.

Permit me to introduce you to my brother. He's self-effacing like the character depicted in this story - the only difference is that he doesn't believe in stupid superstition like the character here.

If only you would tick boxes on his list of needs in a wife. Until I hear from you.

jelal007:
Bold ko,curve ni. If u have nada 2 say,keep mute joor.

Pauper go and eat before picking on me. Next time kindly direct your frustration towards your wretched parents.

People like you with lower IQ are only good in disparaging others who're miles away better than them intellectually in particular and in all good fronts, in general. I don't need an opinion of a foolish person like you before I can make my pronouncement on a subject under discussion.

Take note; I don't join issues with nincompoops.

Oyimeoyimemua:
honestly, when a woman hides remote inside her pant the hubby should understand

Spot-on.

RedCapChief:
So, a woman is lonely and desires her husband's attention. . . she then seizes his property and spits on him
Hiding things in panties is not an indication that a woman wants you to 'touch' her.
If she wanted him to 'touch' her, red wine and lingerie are what she needs; not spitting and fighting

bigtt76, please don't confuse people here.

You amuse me. I really don't want to write much; but let me try. 1) If he wasn't prejudicial, he wouldn't had reacted the way he did when her wife made request for an internet router - it was an obvious indirect way of initiating a dialog and reconciliatory talk with him. He could be forgiven for failing to apply diplomacy in that scene 1, because not many are gifted the gift of high sensitivity. 2) Scene two was much more obvious what her intentions was, yet the man failed to decode it, too. Come on, here we're talking about two married people.

Well, her outburst and taunts after the scenes above was a clear indication of how frustrated she was over her beloved husband's inability to understand her love language. Although, she overreacted on the spitting aspect, but you and I knows that action always takes place before reaction.

OP, kindly forgive your wife and then register your disappointment over her overreaction.

theorist:
I totally agree wit you....

Many people missed the details of what happened and gave judgement based on the topic and the concluding part of you story.

nameerfhtennek I don't want to imagine the type of a lady your wife is or how you play and have fun, but I think you missed some details in her actions because you were angry (used to her habits), and the game was more important. What if she wanted your attention?

Let me draw your attention to this part

nameerfhtennek:

After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants.

I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight.

Really Or she wanted to play as a way of demanding your attention and saying she wasn't angry because you didn't follow her for shopping. But you made her lose it.

Bro, I'm not a feminist, I am also a gamer. I think you missed your opportunity to WOW her, apologize, explain, make her feel more important than your game. You missed an opportunity to turn her anger into love and respect and have a nice time yesterday night.

What if she has been trying to change and she is too proud shy to say sorry, or don't know how to start? That "fight" turned into a play/love section would have gone a long way to help your darling wife. Just remember when you started, how you laid down your ego to please your "girlfriend".

From your story, you might be the reason your wife hasn't changed.

Just listen to Nairalanders and let them fuel your ego, and gradually break your lovely home.

Peace!!!

You're wise. Thank you.

bigtt76:
She loves you but you don't seem to have time for her. She's lonely and craves your attention. You can't have a woman in the house and when you come back from work you're playing game. Haba! She had the remote in her pants to get you to touch her. You never de understand?

You captured my thought. I love smart people. Redcapchief read and re-read this contributor's post.