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Down2earth101:
@bolded
Good wives = they love their husbands
Bad mother = they hate/maltreat their children



Na question idey ask

WrriterNg:
The number of unsuccessful attacks on the Crimean Bridge this year alone is mind boggling.


On a Ukrainian telegram channel, they said Ukraine has launched more than 350 attacks. Storm Shadow, Sea drones, even sabotage groups but all failed.

Esthered:
Make me understand a good father and a non loving spouse in one person.

jify:
When we got married, we were sharing responsibilities and financial contribution like 60:40; I take the bulk because I earn more. The goal was that I would support until it gets to a point where he was earning more to take up more responsibility.

I am not the type that talks too much, but when he gets me angry, I would vomit words that is unpalatable as a result of piled up anger. When he starts with his arguments, most times I go silent. But he starts poking me to talk. In some cases, I tell him that if I open my mouth to talk, he would not like what would come out of it, but then he starts dragging me on the cloth, leg or anywhere he can grab me saying I must say what is on my mind, just so I would respond. Sometimes he starts to insult my parents, siblings, etc.


In May this year, he told me that because my brother told him 3 years ago, that he doesn’t know why I am still with him, that I should have left as I can take care of myself and don’t need him, therefore he would no longer contribute money for food.

Since that time I have been taking care of feeding. Before now I do part feeding, children’s school, children’s lesson, children transport to school, cleaner, hospital bills, etc. He takes care of rent and electricity. At some point, I was doing electricity and lawma but I had to stylishly push that to him.

I don’t have a problem if we share these things with mutual agreement, but each time we have an argument, he reneges and uses the kids to start punishing me, putting my job in jeopardy, insulting my parents as much as picking up the phone to insult my mother just to make me react, locks me outside when I tell him that the decision he took on something has caused an issue. These days I don’t express my feelings about anything, whether I like it or not, because if I say I am not happy with how things are, I would most likely get a call in the office and if I don’t respond because I know it is to harass me and mess up with my mental state, when I get back from work, the doors would be locked since he comes before me.

His family members have waded in, and he gives me like one month and we are back to square one. I am tired and frustrated. I told him all I wanted from him was peace of mind. My mother’s mantra raising us was if your husband does not do it, then you do it. Don’t wait for any man to do anything for you. As girls, we were not raised to be dependent. My mother hates it. So we don’t usually ask husbands for money, we expect that husbands would do what is right and if they don’t, we take it up and do it.

So I don’t wait for him to do anything, I do it or provide the money to do it, and I have told him I won’t enter into a joint savings with him where he has the full control. This year alone, I have been locked out of the house up to 6 times, if I save money with him, it means when he locks the door, I would be stranded.

Please how do I navigate this? When he locked me out of the house 3 years ago, I had to rent a place to stay. Mind you, the house we live in now, was the house I rented when I left because it was far better than our previous accommodation. For almost one year I was away with the children, he didn’t pay them any visits, didn’t ask to see them, occasionally he calls to talk to them, but he didn’t see them, and my kids were broken. They need that stability and I am so afraid of denying them that fatherly love (maybe because I lacked it in my childhood and it affected me badly). The only thing holding me here is my children. But God knows I am tired, frustrated, bitterness is growing in me at a rapid rate.

Lawag3:
I'm a believer in God. When you fall sick and doctors starts saying you'll need prayers my brother believe them.

Jovi10:
What's up with the kursk invasion. I guess it's no longer funny for Ukrainian soldiers there anymore. I can't see pro westerners mentioning anything about kursk anymore.

DystopianMuse:
Very soon you will start crying when Israel comes back

Righteousness2:
BEIRUT WILL PROBABLY NOT SLEEP TONIGHT

Allthelight:
Baseless claims with pictures and videos?

motayoayinde:
— ❗️🇮🇱/ 🇱🇧 BREAKING: Preliminary unconfirmed reports that Herzi Halevi, IDF Chief of Staff, was present at the base

@Middle_East_Spectator

LordAdam16:
It's actually the Golani brigade home base.
Them find them go house.

-Lord

caleboxylic:
Lol! Don't mind him.

This is the latest update:

WATCH: An Israeli soldier tried taking a selfie on top of his tank in Gaza. Gets an RPG to the face instead

Israeli soldier trying to take selfie with the devastation in Gaza gets a Qassam RPG to the face instead pic.twitter.com/uS0G9QxTiK

— COMBATE |🇵🇷 (@upholdreality) October 10, 2024

Allthelight:
You can many videos you want from their channel on twitter and telegram...

Allthelight:
IDF: Drone Footage: Hezbollah Terrorist Commander and Cells Eliminated

Since the beginning of the limited, localized, targeted raids based on precise intelligence in Lebanon, troops from the 36th's Division Unit 636 that specialize in drones strikes have eliminated several Hezbollah terrorist cells and destroyed terrorist infrastructure.

The unit's activities have included guiding drones to eliminate armed Hezbollah terrorists, in coordination with the brigade’s fire control centers.

Attached is drone footage of the elimination of a company commander in the Hezbollah terrorist organization by the Golani Brigade’s Fire Control Center: https:///3U08l8N

Attached is drone footage of the elimination of three armed terrorists by the 282nd Brigade’s Fire Control Center: https:///3Y677dw

Attached are photos of the soldiers of Unit 636 directing the drones that eliminated the terrorists in southern Lebanon: https://IDFANC.activetrail.biz/ANC453984

shoodboi2:
But you specifically mentioned died. Not injuries. You said died.

preciouswoman66:
But It says 11, 473 killed.

I think casualties is both the dead and injured which amount to the 35k plus you mentioned

Modified: look up for Gaza strip and it's way more. Sources from CNN, Al Jazeera, a turkey website

Vl3ly:
if I tell this werey to proof that colored text e go run for this thread and he did yesterday
Na the person wey dey quote you I blame

WrriterNg:
⚡Ukraine said Thursday that it had opened its first recruitment office in Poland aiming to enlist citizens for its fight against Russia’s invasion.


Kyiv announced its plans to recruit a “Ukrainian Legion” in July, hoping to convince thousands of men who have fled the country to avoid the war, in particular to Poland and Germany.

Allthelight:
Hamas has been degraded and almost destroyed prove they are not