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Nick23890:
See finish done enter the marriage. Try to keep less conversation with him, mind your business, focus on ur business and kids. Let the community preek keep deceiving himself that he's enjoying. Save more money and abandon him when he needs you the most. Pay evil with evil when people refuse to behave. If he has property currently do the needful. Don't be pampering mad people

Does these advice applies also to your own kids and direct relative's?

anthonyuncle:
Hmm.
Sorry for what you are experiencing.
Did you not notice his infidelity while dating?

Hahahaaa what a question. you mean people cant change after 9 years

GistMedia0:
A Nigerian woman called social workers to chase her husband out of their home, citing alleged maltreatment. The couple's argument quickly escalated as each side presented their grievances, shedding light on a complex situation.

The husband, whose identity remains undisclosed, fired back at his wife's claims by revealing he had spent a staggering £24,000 on her school fees from the beginning to the end of her education. Additionally, he highlighted that he was the one paying for the house they lived in, making her request for him to leave all the more bewildering.

In a heated exchange, the woman retorted, "I no born children for you?" This remark struck a nerve as it came to light that she was the one keeping their children while simultaneously asking him to vacate the premises.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWXJRosQRA8

The problem is that Most Nigerian woman has the heart of stone. Unforgiveness, anger , do me i do you back runs in there veins.

chris51:
Your husband is a lunatic.
DIVORCE him.
How can he be paying agbero to beat you up? Move out of the house immediately. Don't you have relatives you can report to?
He is a BEAST

just imagine Advice.... some of you ladis eh.

your type can do worse than that lady. because no sane man would do that if the wife did nothing.

see your mouth. Move out of the house immediately. I bet you are Single and would never last in a mans house

Op please kindly hang on there. atleast thats the best you can do.

one thing i realized is that help doesn't always come. from experience

look you are not alone. some of us are currently homeless or squatting with someone untill something changes no matter how long it takes


though for me personally i lost hope in so many things due to trials. Nonetheless, Try and keep on believing for a change. I wish i could help as you are stilll young and strong and probably need some change of environment in addition for better opportunities.

look for as many who are going through one challenge or the other. just hang on. know that there are some that would do anything to be in your curent position. as long there is life.... and you are still in good health.

don't kill yourself. there will be moments of shame, disgrace, embarrassments. friends and loved onces will dessert you. just hand on! if its water you see, drink it and just keep on pushing.

One day you and i will look back and tell these moments as stories to motivate the younger generations to come

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Good day Family.

As a last resort am here soliciting for anyone who can please come for my rescue.

To make the whole story short. things took left turn for me after i lost my job

went in dept. lost everything including.

have been paying my debts since i started new small business. unfortunately these January didn't favour me

Now

am about to be Homeless if nothing is done.

please if anyone can render me any kind of help i would greatly appreciate. i can also pay back within the agreed time frame with interest please. please am Not based in Nigeria and it is more serious than i worded it please. i plead with anyone who cam help a brother

Jennyclay:
Why is the man now making video, he should have raise his hand on her and see if the embassy won’t send him back to Nigeria, he’s not a saint either .

Probably the husband wasn’t taking good care of her!
Her reaction said it all.

Personally if I’m not getting enough Money, sex and true love from my man, I will definitely look elsewhere .

someome please ban these account!

woginid967:
Dont pray

Make legit mad money.

Leverage on your relationships and rise.

Money is above law.

Rules n regulations are for those without enough money.

Money has levels but when it becomes a mindset, you will see that you're a god and not in need of anyone because everyone has a price.

Woman can betray but I've never been betrayed by a dollar...

wise words.

words taken to heart

woginid967:
For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

I pray i could get the kind, mind, wisdom and courage you get.

I really pray.

henrycryptmento:
sent

thank you. the whatsapp group link is not working

henrycryptmento:
R:R means risk:reward ratio. It explains through analysis the ratio of the risk taken to the reward made from the trade. Sometime the ratio might be 1:4, 1:3, 1:10, 5:2, 3:6 etc. If the risk is more than the reward, I do not trade it or trade with stiff stop loss. If the reward is much more, I trade and re-trade. E.g, currently, the r:r of btc/usdt is 3:2, I'm not trading it. I'm waiting, which is also part of trading(patience).

If I am to advice my younger self, I will say keep loading good bags, spot hodl, the bull run is coming this year, load bags at demand zones, no matter the amount you are trading with. Load and be patient.

please kindly email me the book. thank you

olumimicle@gmail.com

the story get as e be! Infact na lie, is not complete. she is thrown out, and she is expectedly stranded and all she could do is to rush to make a video for the social media. lol,

We need the full story please.

very possible, like using my name?

she uses uba but my main concern is the one i can easily operate online

jackmrandy:
very possible, open Gtb or FBN, ask her which one she have before. and what's her experience using the bank over the years.

Guys please i would like to know which bank is the best i can open and operate from outside Nigeria.

i want my sister to open a Nigerian bank account on her name for me

and is there any way she can maybe open these account on my own name for me. please i need advice as am not in Nigeria

seanwilliam:
If we’re truly your family , you won’t do that .. honestly speaking everyone dey face one or two.
Anytime I one dey think anyhow, I’ll just log in to Nairaland or Twitter , read topics and laugh , if that one no do me, I’ll pick fight with one or two monikers, in the process night go come, I go sleep , wake up repeat the process . If sleep no gree com , I’ll search for Victoria cakes and some big black milf , do the needful , e no fit pass 5 min, na that same spot I go sleep
I no fit kill myself

Abeg no kill me with laugh. the same gini?

JUSTHELPME2024:
Hello house, I need help...
How can I die without pain, without feeling anything, and not suicide... I am tired of my life.... I know no one cares if I lived or die.... Nothing is going on....

how do I just die, I don't want to die and go to hell that's why I haven't committed suicide, please anyone with help.... I don too suffer......

or can I join Illuminati........ Something needs to be going on in my life....

lol

you think is easy anywhere hu. use google you might find what you are looking for. people who cares will cry for 1 day and never remembers nothing about you.

your situation might be someones own prayer point if you reason am. atleast you ca still afford data ad phone.

my only advice to you is hang on there. is a new beginning

just do like most people. in the morning just go out there. even if yu don't have plans.

come to think of it. hae you tried joining any marketing companies that sells things for commission? you ca even go learn ay skill where food go the come from on daily.

you just start somewhere ad hope for Change.

but from the way you sound. you sund like you wat hammer now now. so the above advice is probably not gonna work for you.

so my friend! google is your friend!

Ddonoflife:
1. First and foremost your alert that you receive from your banks should be on your phone cos as soon as you give them permission to access your phone they will go through your debit and credit alert.
2. You should also have tangible contacts on your list cos they will access your contacts.
3. Make sure you aren't owing any other laon app especially one that is related to them cos most of their companies own more than one loan app......
4. Ensure you have an Nin or bvn
5. Prepare to have your photo taken
6. Some will ask for bank statement etx
P.s Try your possible best to borrow from someone you know or if at all don't borrow at all from those apps because when they reason your matter e go sure you like nepa ..you fit dey sleep make call wake you up one morning where people go dey ask you how you take die or make your boss sack you because of the kind message him receive concerning you not forgetting the mental torture they will inflict on you...lolsss ......

that na serious problem oo

Ddonoflife:
First and foremost your alert that you receive from your banks should be on your phone cos as soon as you give them permission to access your phone they will go through your debit and credit alert and you should also have tangible contacts on your list cos they will access your contacts and as the other guy said make sure you aren't owing any other laon app especially one that is related to them cos most of their companies own more than one loan app......

thanks guys.

now i understand. i actually needed some loan for under 120k.

BrickDevo:
Nobody knows my pain, and additional 100k debt.

what are the requirements to get a loan from these outlets please.

i really would like to know.

Trust woman of today at your own risk

Kobojunkiee:
Nothing true about that nonsense claim!

In that same Nigeria are many deadbeats propped up by their wives.

lol.

that can never enter my brain.

as me na living example.

Jewessgratitud3:
When I said it here sometime ago that even that woman that is pressuring you to marry her now, saying she will stand by you through thick and thin when you clearly have nothing to sustain yourself will be the first to drag you like generator when you fail to provide for the home tomorrow. Is it not happening now?

I'm a woman and I know these things. No woman can bear with a man that has no bearing for long. Forget what anyone tells you unless the woman get who dey give am outside be say marriage go dey go

true story

even if you have today. if you don't have tomorrow she go still leave.

ValCon888:
The last thing you should ever do is to marry a woman who doesn't forgive easily.
Sorry OP. You have not married a wife. You've married a problem.
And that problem can only be solved through divorce.

seconded!

Thats what ended mine. and if i will ever get married again. that will be my number 1 sign to leave any woman immediately i notice that.

wrongnumber:
I was with one for 11 years.

Very manipulative. They hate losing. The moment they feel they are losing you, they scheme their way back into your life NOT BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU but just to see if you are still spell bound.

Mark my word, she is not done with you... I became free from her after I left the country yet she still tried her best but no way.

Anyone who has no idea of who a narccisist is will never understand.

Narccisists are demons in human flesh.

How can a human being find it extremely hard to say SORRY?

my wife now ex.

we lived together for 4 years
she have said sorry for 1 day.

she could destroy things when angry anand will start crying.

her eyes never blink when angry.

i know i had my wrongs but unforgiveness and anger was the worse attributes of my wife.

sorry we did not date.

it was arranged marriage