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OKOATA:
Bros I have this book titled THE FALL, subtitled THE 24 ELDERS SCROLL 📜. It talked about how God/Ahavah was created from a very powerful light, how Jesus/Yeshua committed suicide by deeping his long nails into his heart and killed himself, it talked about how God formed the planets from his skin, hairs, nails, spit of God which is the sea and water that we drink today. How he created very powerful angels which are the Cherubim and Seraphim, How he created the 24 ELDERS which they are spoken about in the book of revelations, how he created the 12 Arch Angels and the likes. How the war in heaven started because Lucifer which was the first Arch Angel wanted to be like God and how war broke out in heaven etc. What I'm trying to say is that God didnt kill Luci then and he will never kill him now because he's the eyes of God. Now if God allowed Luci to be casted down to earth and let him roam and allow evil to fester on through the human beings he created, then why should God now punish humans to burn in hell when he himself casted devil down to earth to cause pain and anguish on humans. Lucifer is the apple of God's eyes, so we humans are not apple of God's eyes? Are humans more evil than the devil that when a man commits a little sin as little as lies such a person will go to hell? God never punished Luci for the evil he did in heaven so it's human that will now suffer for Lucia sin abi? Just like saying humans should suffer for Adam and Eve's sin for eating the forbidden apple..

That is why Jesus Christ came down himself and paid the final price with his blood by dieying.

Then he said if you confess with your mouth and believe in your heart, and accept him. That you will be SAVED.

Saved from what?

The punishments! From sin. That luci will cause us to sin.
He went ahead gave us the Bible, his own words to be a light or a guide that we may follow. He went ahead living to us his holy spirit. Which is why is one fully repents, all his sins are forgiven and the spirit of God then lives in him.

God realized that casting luci down was a problem. Remember that was not God initial plan and also for mankind.

Hence Him God created a solution.

So brother.

The solution is free. Which is salvation. Repentance. And no one who repents truly will be condemn or punished.

Remember God went ahead allowed us to make a choice. He never forced us. But then advised us to to choose life as he wish for us are of God and not of destructions.

Bro I believe that answers the question

Permit me to mention a church I discovered.

Jesus Christ Temple ministry

In worri delta state.


There you shall find the Truth. Nothing but the truth, no salt, not sugar. Just pure undiluted message of salvation.

A place where God speaks him self through the Pastor and the believers

Dshocker:
So if i may understand you now, your dream is to own 10 keke?

So if given over N10m, the only business you can think of is keke business?

You need help.

I was not the original commenter but am interested to hear your ideas or what you would invest 10m into

Thank you

Jennyclay:
Men should learn to spend on their wife/girlfriend without expecting anything in return

Personally, Even though the man has spent billions and trillions on me, if there’s no love in the marriage I will seek for divorce.

It’s better for the woman to leave the marriage than to start cheating on the man.

I wish you can advice your brother or your son the same. If you have any. To learn to spend billions on a WIFE/WOMAN and expect nothing in return

And

Please can I send my account Number to you. I need to do some studies and I need like 2m I Naira.

I see you clearly understand what it takes to make 1 Naira.

Remain blessed

Lol.


Marrying a Virginia does not guarantee that the marriage will last.

Yoh can marry a Virgin but what about her other aspects of life?

Are they ticked good?

Look, what you need is not a Virgin, what you need a girl who you both are compatible with.

She can be a Virgin but hot tempered or some tether thing.

Bro. Please marry a woman or man who fears God genuinely.

Because a person who fears God is not a perfect person. But they know that God is the center of Everything.

They want to do what pleases God and not man.

That way, they can be influenced easily by vices. By challenges. Even when there spouse do some wrongs and are willing to repent. They would say "If not God" but. I forgive you.

These is my take.


In never cared about being a Virgin or not. But luckily, my wife was a Virgin. Not just a Virgin. I was her first everything.

So I think I qualify to advise.

Remain bless.

Dizzyyish:
Mimicle101

Yes...

Lol

Women.

Look at there responses. Defence defence Defence.

I will keep on saying it.

I will fear anyone who does not fear Woman.

Talk about heartless and wickedness, men stands no chance because Woman are much better.

A supposedly loving sweet wife changes immediately there is a child in the house. The supposed love they have for there husband dies an immediate death. All the love, respect and affection is automatically transferred to the kids. And the man becomes worthless.


And then if (the man no longer have money or provide like he used to) then their true nature will start showing up.
You see Woman loves money, stability, materials more than there Husband.

God help Us!

Boomark:
Where can I see the message?

Today Sunday service is ended.

But you can search for it on youtube.

Search for

Jesus Christ temple Ministry on youtube. Look for today's message.

Guys please kindly turn into Jesus Christ temple ministry

On dstv.


The man of God is addressing family issues. Please watch

If only most of our wifes and young ladies could watch and listen to to

16 April 2023 Sunday Service message


By Prohpet Amos Child of God of Jesus Christ Temple Ministry


Believe me many marriages and homes will be saved.

I encourage everyone to listen to these man of God teachings once.

Then come back and tell your thought.

May God have mercy on Us.

MostImportant:
Greetings to you all, please I need a verified US Paypal account to receive money from someone in Germany. Note: it's my first payment in this new niche, meaning we'll be doing this over and over. I need an honest person please.

Note: this is almost an urgent case.

Hi, did you managed to get help?
My PayPal is verified. I receive dollars on it. Though not us verified but not Nigeria verified also. But the source must be from a legal source please. No scam proceeds

Without taking side.

After reading the long story.

I can only say,

I understand what you are going through bro.

And I can tell you, yoh are not alone. Many married men out there are going through the same, if not worse.


Luckily for you, you finance is still STABLE.

If mistakenly your finances collapsed as mine did. Or lost your job.

You would experience other side of a woman. As most dont have the patience to endure. And one thing woman are good with is, forgetting the Good old days.


Abeg woman get heart. Men are still learners.

I am saying these.


I wish I can tell my story.

But God will help us.



Having said that. I and my finances are currently in a sorry situation.

I am soliciting for a financial help. LOAN (60K). I will pay with interest.

Please chat me up we discuss.

Thank you.

nahzyla:
I knew there is more to this story than what OP us saying.
But men in general, anytime they hear of anything that threatens their access to vagina, they become very angry and start foaming at the mouth, Op came to declare that his wife no longer sleeps with him so as expected, the men heard "no sex" and started suffering convulsions.
They all have this disgusting obsession with sex.

If what Endrape wrote is true, then truly, you, op are no different from an evil demon.
The same wife you cheat on and bully around, you come online to tell lies about her so other fools can insult her. Demon in human skin.

Lol, beds of same feather. Supporters club

Here they are, have been patiently waiting for thir kind to come talk so she could jump in the wagon.

Rubbish

But in some part of the world where people make babies, baby mama/papa and people don't even care about those things.

Can someone explain to me why please

Kankawormm:
I am a married man, and got divorced at the month of our anniversary which is this october..to me its highly spiritual..
If you ask what causes the whole issue? Charger
I took her charger out, I have mine but was big to carry around. So I took hers to go charge.. She called and was ranting on phone about her charger that she has warned me not to be carrying her charger.. I tried to calm her down, that was when she got even more aggressive on the phone, I cut the call, took a bike home and dropped The charger and went out without saying a word.. When I came back in the evening, I now called her and told her the need to tolerate ourselves, she was still raking that it's her charger and all sort.. I now told her to muitiply the charger with the 850k I gave her to do business and Check how many charger the money go buy.. She flared up that how much did I give her that I am shouting, that is it not someone that gave me the money..

This was a woman I was with for four years, without a child, we have been going to hospital after the 6th month in marriage, she doesn't see her mesis completely.. I was still with her believing it's God that gives children, but she claimed she don't respect me cause I drink alcohol and smoke cigarette and can't tolerate but wants me to tolerate her knowing fully well of her condition..

After we had the fight that night, I was mad and flogged her with the charger cord.. She started shouting like I had hit her with a plank. I left the house immediately cos me no like shout. So the next day, she called my elder brother and a friend of my mum cos my mama is late.. She explained and I explained too.. She started displaying her arrogance in the front of my family people which made them disappointed.. They were leaving when argument was much.. We were escorting them, I now told her to go back so I can see them off, she said she was not gon go back that she brought my own family down not me... So the woman told her to go back.. I now explained everything to the woman that my wife doesn't menstrate at all and I have never told anyone in my family but when she was telling them I smoke, drink and bringing out my yansh for outside, Naim me ma tell the woman and my brother her own issue.. The woman commended me for keeping such.. When I got back home after I escorted my brother and the woman, she Don run go her mother house and me don lost my own key.. I called, She didn't pick, I had to jump in to the house.. That was when I knew she was not in the house.. I had to go sleep at a friend's place.. She taught i was going to come beg in by her mums place like I always do if we had a fight.. But I thought about it. And decided to divorce o.. A week before the incident, I slumped in a friend's house cos of the thinking of having no issue...when I was brought home.. My ex wife said that it was because of beer that was why I slumped.. Lol.. Whereas the thinking of not Harving a child wan run me.. Knowing fully well that i can impregnate a lady.. She went to police station and human right, told them I smoke weed, beer, and also layed some false allegations on me.. And was hoping for resolution... How is that possible.. I am divorced and I am beginning to regain my sanity...

I wish there would be some kind of group, specifically and strictly for married men.

To discuss and share ideas on how to manage and save our homes and marriages.


Bro, it is well with you.

Know you are not alone.

So Many men are going through same.

I will not stop blaming the devils agenda to destroy the family structure.

The internet, friends, celebrities, movies,

Are the role model of our ladies of today.

Even that church goer of a lady.

Once they are entered marriage, and they don't experience quickly/immediately what they learnt from there role models,

Flashy lifestyle,

A life that can only be imagined.

There true nature would be unleashed.

Look, I personally feel that woman are never satisfied.

If the husband has all the money, they will look for another excuse to unleash there nature.
With things like not being home for her and the kids, not giving her good sex etc

And if the husband does not have enough money, that is another level of madness, because the angel of a wife will suddenly reduce the man to a toilet paper.

It is only woman that I have seen that you can do heaven and earth for for 50 years. But fail to maintain her for 6 months. That whole 6 months will be like 50 years to them. And they will never remember the 50 years that you have done everything for them.

God bless every good wife out there who honestly lobes and respects there husband irrespective of his status. Continue, at the due time laughter will be your portion

toprealman:
Polygamy, lol. Yul Edochie,please go away!

Lol,

Kindly indicate your marital status please.

Then choose.

1, Yul edochie / managing

2, suicide


3, cheating with side chick's and contracting Std

And risking being poisoned when she finds out

4, divorce and Bibile states, divorce on grounds of adultery for the Christians.

HonestJOE:
Are you my twince in the same problem? Exactly what I'm going true. Mine has gotten to the stage of divorce this Christmas since my life is being threatened severally for voicing out my dissatisfaction. A fine good looking man with good heart like me? I cook, wash, does everything myself. I mean, we cook, eat & even sleep differently. My pain is my son whom has been the only reason for the marriage to still be standing in pretence up till today.

�, hahaha aha

I laugh bro.

These is more common than we all could think of.
And I don't think it will stop anytime soon. Rather the worse is yet to come, in the sense that, the devil wants to destroy the structure of marriage.

To make woman the head and man of the home while man the wife.

It's worse Especially when, the man business is not bringing much money to spend on everything.

And the woman wants to compete and show off to her friends and the social media that she is doing much better.

As in,

Manage the marriage (enter kitchen make your own food, wash your own cloth, clean the house,
make your self happy) or walk away.

Lastly,

It's becomes dangerous when the man is the type that vows never to cheat on there wife. But she refuse you?
What do such men do then?

[
Engage in mastbtn?

These here is what most religious men engage in to relieve self. And most it's guilty of it. And not because they want to but there wifes refusal force them into it.

]

Marriage is survival of the fittest to the man now.

Lanre1st:
Don't kill self because of woman, if you go to another woman it's equal to suffering ×3.

1. She doesn't take correction: this normal attitude of a woman, they don't take correction at once, to correct them is a gradual process. Even If you marry small girl or your student because she respect you, the day you marry the respect shoe is off

2. She doesn't have drive for sex: Larger percentage of women do not have drive for sex as men(especially busy one) It's natural. It appears they satisfy you with sex before marriage, just because you are not living together and you have less responsibility. But you know the reality after marriage, just try to carefully deal with it to protect your home it's important.

3. She is not serious about generating money: all men should know this, husband is the one responsible for finances in the family. Anything your wife earns or contributes is to support. Even most time if she takes care of 10% she will she is doing more than her husband, if she contributes 20% she will claim of being the only one doing everything in the house. Women save their earnings for their self, pressurize husband to bring. Nowadays women like having assets than their husband while they earn very lesser compare to him.

People only manage their marriage. You can ask your dad or elderly husbands privately they will tell they are managing the situation. Don't ask publicly, every Men praise the wife outside, some will even said they never fight for once.

With these 3 excuses you mentioned, it's not what is uncommon to most homes, discuss with your wife and dont expect quick change. Manage your home

Poster,

Here is what you need to know and understand about your situation.

.....

So what ever you are going through is not a new thing to any married man. Atleast at some point.

Don't kill your self.

Take a walk if you can't. do any of the advices above.

But i can't guarantee that the next woman you may settle with as a wife would be any difference.

Marriage is no longer a bed of roses to men.


That's why I am now advocating for polygamy if you can and have the resources.

Atleast you can legally jump from A to B and from B to A if one starts Acting up as it's in the Nature of women.

But these thing is supper easy.....


Nigeria is obviously not working.


Now,

Nigeria can be divided so that

Atiku can be the president of Ariwa

Tinubu can be the president of Oduduwa

And

Obidient can be the president of Igbo.

Simple as that.

And everyone will have peace.

Ckonnet:
I swear and I hope he will be pleading for mercy due to the desecration he orchestrated in igbo land.

What rubbish

Mko123:
I hope he learnt his lessons just like the way the one that ran to Benin republic did

Or just the way Nelson Mandela learbt his lesson hu!

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RICHMAN247:
Congratulations to me.

I've been accepted into the Alx 12 months software engineering program and I'm to start on the 19 September, 2022. What are the necessary things I must put in place to prepare me for the On boarding. Meanwhile, I have two laptops, constant solar light. What else do I need? Thanks

We are on the same 19th september.

Moh247:




8years southern Muslim supported Obasanjo, 6 years same Southern Muslim supported Jonathan both are Christians

Tinubu stepped down for pastor Osinbajo and supported him without any payback

Tinubu married to a RCCG assistant pastor for 40 years, had Ibo Christian commissioner and special advisers, allocated Lagos market to many deserving ibos, his son married an Ibo.. he employed many Ibos In his company like TVC and ALPHA BETA, but look at how they payed him back... Insult and curses



.

So he should be rewarded with Nigeria?

Even at his current state?

All you have mentioned he did, did he Nr Tinubu did all that for free from his pocket? Or was he doing his job just as every other person wgo has a job should do?

Was he not earning huge salary as he job demand?

That he did all that does it mean Nigerians should leave much more capable and qualified candidates and dash Nigeria president position to Tinubu?

Do you even realise that there are many mart of nigeria were no one has ever heard of Tinubu? (These is by the way)

Now my point is these...

To move forward as a Nation. Such mind sets should be put aside. These mindset has crippled many establishements in Nigeria.

Look, you dont do senior, elder, respect (age) in a work environment. You should do that in your sole family business if you want to.

To move forward the employement rules and requirements must be followed to avoid dissaster

Thank you madam.


Without sounding disrespectful,

I personally see you as a stubborn wife.

The kind of wife that would challenge the husband at the slightest provocation.

I see and understand all the wrong and bad ways you said you husband treates and have treated you.

And i tell you, i am not in support of it. Infact i am against every form of maltreatments and abuse from husband to wife or anyone.

Having cleard that air.

You need to work on your atitude/character.

You are not humble and meak enough as a good and loving wife.

Look dear,

You dont change from good to bad because your husband is bad.

One of the secretes of a maintained and lasting marriage unless otherwise opted for divorce, is simple.

When one partner gets high, the other becomes sobber

You have allowed your husbands bad behaviour to affect you and now you DESPISE him soo much!

These will only consume you and your home.

My advice,

Retrace your steps. Get back to the loving, caring and humble woman you used to be or ought to be.

And Do away with pride (i also bring money fairly ) mindset.

See yourself as the mother of that home. Be the mother and carry everyone along both the kids and the husband. Know and take it that everything you do in that home you are doing it for yourself. Not for your husband, not for yoyr kids. I repeat "FOR YOUR SELF".

Let me remind you.

One of the qualities of a good Mother is being Selfless.

Now learn that and watch your home well again.

And see you husband treating you as the Queen and mother you are.

Tooo many reply already.

I think most married men can relate to these.

Most of the ladies we marry have a default bad trait/character.

Lacks respect, lacks genuine love, quick to anger, they cant be told what to do. Etc

Now listed above happens when after marriage, and the girl somehow feel their expectations from the man or the marriage is not meet. And maybe they remember other suitors they feel they could have been better with.

By default some of these traits that ladies have will start manifesting.


And letz say a man loose his job or the income drops.

The man will get almost if not extra of all the traits.


Brother, nothing is your fault.

My only advice to you is. Try as hard to not raise your hand on her, these your situation has not ended unless you are quitting the marriage.

So, always remember that by mouth woman are serial killers, emotionally murdererz. Yes most wifes.

And that if you were to fight physically by hand it wont take you or men 5 minutez to kill woman.

So, see and take all that comes from her mouth as a physicall challeng to battle and understand that she is not your match.

So just ignore ignore ignore ignore.

I know its hard. We have all been there and are still there.

And also if you have not been doing these already... learn to make yourself happy and take good care of your self. (Please dont cheat nlr commit sin)

Taking care of your self , save money for your old age (retirement) as woman of today can be unpredictable.

psalmz:
you put religion into everything,making the Christian man look extremely bewitched

You sound very right to an ordinary man who does not no; and who is not conscious of the TIME we are living in.

Let me shout it Loud to anyone who does not know.

THE BIBLE IS ABOUT TO CLOSE!!!

When Grace will not be found again.

No time to play ignorant

To anyone who also cared to hear....


The BiBle is about to Close.

Once closed Grace will be no more.

You will have to pay with your own blood To make heaven.

Forsake the world Today and come to Jesus as tomorrow may be too late.

BiBle is about to Close.

Don't say no one told you.

BluntCrazeMan:
Another fear.
Infact, what if the war caused lots of earth movement, and it happened that the entrances to the bunker got blocked off with massive piles of earth and heavy rocks while they were still there underground?

If they manages to survive at the end of the
war they would have ended up creating job go for guys and ladies who go unlock them.


If the Lord does not guard the city , Invane the watchman watches.

Hmmm

Life balance like these?


A typical example of...

One man's food is another man's poison.

Only married *committed and faithful* couples can understand.

About what to do.

Just try getting more busy and occupy your self with some things.

Cheating is a no no and Ofcos mastabation also a no no as God isn't happy with such behaviours.

So take it as one of your cross *the worse * of your marriage. And be hopeful that he will change soon. Now he is your husband you can try exposing your self to him more...he can't stay away for too long as long the meal is appealing

hammer567:
THEM GO DEY CARRY POT BELLY UP AND DOWN, THEY CHASE WOMAN AND MONEY.



ME, I MAKE TIME FOR GYM AND MUSCLE.



I FIGHT WITH BOTTLE AND HAVE CHOKE PEOPLE BOTTLE BEFORE.


MY OWN FIGHT NA BLOW, HEAD BUTT AND RACE TO PICK WEAPON NEAR BY, MAKE I GIVE YOU SERIOUS WOUND.


IF U RUN, I GO PURSUE YOU.

You funny die.. mad dog loll

do these guys have any shame at all??

Jamersirwin1971:
500k per month is like 300-400 euro . And you feel that’s money ?

according to google. 400 euro is 177 093,37 Nigerian Naira as at 25th 05.2022


how did you get your own rate sir