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In addition to what thorpido has said, if there's a guidance and counselling unit in your school, you should please visit and request to see a counsellor. Stay focused, what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.

If you can also get this book "Tough times never last" . I don't think it's more than 1k, pls get it.

wristbangle:
Apt comments though

@Mimzyy, I don't believe so. What if she is exhibiting such scenes to other guys?

I was just being sarcastic. It's not honestly advisable to settle down with her cos in the long run, she's bound to cheat on him with multiple partners if they eventually get married.

1. Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes.

2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there's a 50% chance you'll die within the next 3 years.

3. There are at least 6 people in the world who look exactly like you. There's a 9% chance that you'll meet one of them in your lifetime.

4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain and keeps your spine stronger.

5. A person’s height is determined by their father, and their weight is determined by their mother.

6. If a part of your body "falls asleep", You can almost always "wake it up" by shaking your head.

7. There are three things the human brain cannot resist noticing - food, attractive people and danger.

8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on their right side.

9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly shoes will absorb the unpleasant odor.

10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees were to disappear from earth, humans would be dead within 4 years.

11. There are so many kinds of apples, that if you ate a new one every day, it would take over 20 years to try them all.

12. You can survive without eating for weeks, but you will only live 11 days without sleeping.

13. People who laugh a lot are healthier than those who don’t.

14. Laziness and inactivity kills just as many people as smoking.

15. A human brain has a capacity to store 5 times as much information as Wikipedia.

16. Our brain uses the same amount of power as a 10-watt light bulb!!

17. Our body gives enough heat in 30 minutes to boil 1.5 liters of water!!

18. The Ovum egg is the largest cell and the sperm is the smallest cell!!

19. Stomach acid (conc. HCl) is strong enough to dissolve razor blades!!

20. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day & while you walk, SMILE. It is the ultimate antidepressant.

21. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

22. When you wake up in the morning, pray to ask God's guidance for your purpose, today.

23. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

24. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, broccoli, and almonds.

25. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

26. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts and things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

27. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

28. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

29. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Forgive them for everything.

30. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

31. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

32. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

33. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

34. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

35. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'

36. Help the needy, Be generous! Be a 'Giver' not a 'Taker'

37. What other people think of you is none of your business.

38. Time heals everything.

39. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

40. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. Each night before you go to bed, pray to God and be thankful for what you accomplished, today. What if you woke up this morning and only had what you thanked God for yesterday? DON’T FORGET TO THANK GOD FOR EVERYTHING.

43. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

5minsmadness:
Decision made.
Bye folks

Common! Why?

You're the main boyfriend. The rest are side chics dudes . You're the 'take home to mama'.


You should of course confront her with your findings and walk away! Or better still, wait until you contract STD .

ObioratheBully:



Bïtch don't kill my vibe..


That song is mine..

My song, not yours!

SecondEva:
Is this how you react to rejection? A full grown man like you weeping all over his diary like a child whose candy was taken away. You should be stripped naked, kicked hard in the balls with a military boot and thrown off a skyscraper .

Tamuno

Agony of a pained woman stalker alert
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pocohantas:
Exactly what you intend telling her where?
Some people need and seek advise anonymously, NL comes in here.

Don't you jump on different threads forming adviser? These kinda threads gives everyone opportunity to play counsellor, including yourself. Don't act like you don't support it, considering the fact you're on 90% of them.

I know you're trying to fit into the almighty mature family section, sequel to romance section brouhaha. Take it easy.

Exactly what I intend to tell her off here.

Berbierklaus:
I don't know the joy people find in bringing their life's issue on Nairaland,no matter how anonymous you think you are.
What happens to talking to a pastor,counselor, or family member, or even a friend?
I wonder how y'all feel having people throw different opinions here and there on your matter
Well what do I know.

Twaci:
Hmmm.

Good morning

Morning Bae. Compliments.

troubledheart:
It's fine.. keep my secret. Thanks.

Reply my mail will you?

Twaci:
Question is, why do you think she's a troll?

I'm curious.

My bad. She isn't a troll. She's genuine. Troubledheart, I am really sorry for derailing your thread. 'twasnt intentional, too many trolls on here lately and one only gets to find out after so much time has been wasted offering genuine advice. I AM SORRY. FORGIVE ME.

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troubledheart:
I sent with another 1st and you didn't get it? Why do I have a feeling you got it but just don't want to admit it?

Hmmmm. You're sure you're not the one playing mind games as it is just your word against mine?

troubledheart:
Then your email has issues. I sent it twice. Tried the third time and they said I have sent too many anonymous mails. So refresh ur email or something

You sent a mail with this moniker. I just rcvd that.

troubledheart:
Then your email has issues. I sent it twice. Tried the third time and they said I have sent too many anonymous mails. So refresh ur email or something

Been refreshing. Still the same. Just the old messages.

troubledheart:
Sent. Please respond. Hope it makes you happy.

It takes less than a minute to get a mail notification on NL. I am yet to receive any.

troubledheart:
Sent. Please respond. Hope it makes you happy.

No mail yet.

troubledheart:
I am going to email you with my real account here on NL.

Patiently waiting.

troubledheart:
Paste your number.

Send a mail. If I'm wrong, I'll tender an open apology right here. If you're unable to prove me wrong, I'll cc the mods.

I feel so much pity for those that have actually taken their time to reply the op. He is a troll, isn't that so obvious? Lolz . If he isn't, I'll be willing to eat my words and apologise.

Safedavid/Pushplay etc. Morning. Whatever you do/say, do well to keep me out of your mentions. You're a very rude guy. So what if she was raised by a single mum? You should learn to respect people's stance. Things will not always go your way. There are a million and one girls out there, why do you keep doing this to yourself? I'll assume for once that you're a rational being and address you as one. You cannot force a girl to love you if she doesn't have feelings for you. I read your posts and I was almost tempted to ask you how old you are. I mean, what kind of a man comes online to spill the events that happened offline?

Please leave me out of your mentions ok? Thank you as you oblige.

Ivyy, you're a strong girl, continue to keep your head up and never let those who don't matter bring you down. Be mindful of the people you trust, not everyone is as sane as they portray.Keep doing your thing. Compliments. Great day ahead dear. Safe.

Princess4ng:
Hahahahaha... I love this

Lolzz.

PabloOmoEscobar:

Kiniyen?

That groom is so dope . #BeardGang

Acidosis:
Very simple: simply get another.

Then the bonding process starts all over...

So much hatred from the male folk. Smh.

The op has deactivated. I pray she doesn't do something nasty...

What happens when the online friend isn't there for her anymore?

Acidosis:
I cannor come and allow my privates turn to sahara desert because of a useless spouse na...


Even the sexually satisfied seek fun outside sometimes. Honestly and truthfully, she needs a very close friend (preferably the opposite se.x), not necessarily for reckless se.x as I earlier mentioned, but someone she could talk to most of the time (I would personally recommend an online pal to secure her sanity and get her engaged and away from boredom).

There are some online friends that would get you soo engaged that you'd forget every physical happenings around you.

ScepticalPyrrho:
How can you tell which God's aura you feel?

There is Allah, Zeus, Odin, Ra... etc

There is only One God.