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shaneroberts26:
This is not a poem.Sounds like i am reading a love letter.

Thashen:
[color=Black]Do let me know if you ever decide to send nudes! [/color]

Intrepid01:
Very right my Lady!!!...i won't further comment on this.

Cos who am I to discourage a willing heart?

Afteral everyone deserves a chance to love and be loved.

If he's sincere and genuine , I'll join him in seeing that his dream of having you come true.

Life without love is but a lonely place ....my Lady.

Hardmirror, here comes your "Perfect Coral"

Your jewel of inestimable value......

[i]Salute!!![i]

Intrepid01:
C'mon stop feigning ignorance .

Intrepid01:
HardMirror...here is your take home to mama.....But mimzyy would you lay in bed with an atheist? believe me things of marital union transcends logic...Sorry Guy I am just saying.

ychris:
Hian?
wats wrong?
puting his sobriquet aside,
have u forgotten that u even made mention of his real name ni? ahmid
sixstar u can lie o!

ychris:
SMELLYMOUTH!

lezz:
Your crushes come like the trinity
Body, soul and spirit
If your love knows no limit
Then his ire will bear infinitely

vizkiz:
((((True Talk))))
But corky she already have a boo? How will you be able to make her your woman?

MrCork:
Mimzyy is different from this other bush nairaland females.....she's light skin underneat and she always act like a lady..every time you see her you smile.. I lie?

vizkiz:
Mrcork finally settles for dark-skinned

It is confirmed... Mimzyy is using juju, Mynd444 please epp us

MrCork:
...correction...you are 39% light skin...you look different from the normal nairaland female which are normally bush...you are classy..you never cuss..you Gots kissssable sweet sugary lip...you look like ice cream... you a wifey material... you lookalike one of us(a londoner)..and you can chop my Moiney any day... PASS MARK!!

MrCork:
^^^^kaiiii....this fine looookin one is sweetina....sweeeeery you can chop my moiney anyday and you can cheat on me 10 times a year....I will forgive u

postmann:
It's a small world and friends can
Break bread in solemn communion
Without fear of gulping down poison
Mid-night laughs and fears crossed phone

Cold, long nights, loyal hands of warmth
Made a brother felt a true sense of worth
Walls of loyalty sheltered the weak
Against the Knights no one dared speak

A NATO-esque resolution made manifest
And talent conglomeration brought a full basket
Of weapons beyond containment
Even romanceland was obeisant

A new sheriff was in town patrolling
The boulevard of romanceland was kept clean
Caught off guard, Hattchet took the first hit
His carcass was dusted off the street

Everyone took notice of a new monster
Fear took residence in the heart of every romancelander
Once formidable armies were reduced to guerrillas
Mischief and dirty tactics the only alternative of theirs

Plunder was great, bounty was rich
We counted the loot laying on a sunny beach
Victory songs and waves of achievements
Caressed the bones in these soldiers' breasts

But one muddied the fountain of the brothers' sweat
One deeped his hands in the treasury chest
A chain is only as strong as it's weakest joint
Greed was the master, he just a servant

You got so tall while standing on the brothers' shoulders
And you thought you earned your place amongst the stars
And you glory in your boastful anthem
But took a fall like Judas in Jerusalem.

Smellymouth:
You must be kidding..

Nor try me o...

*Boxing***

CarrotAndStick:
You've always been my dream girl
But I want you more in real world

Emotions hemorrhage with every word spoken
Please don't leave my heart broken

I'll buy you roses, burn you a thousand candles
The list is endless but those are the least I can do

I don't care if the whole world hate me
So long you'd birth my babies

'Cause it's you I desire to f...u.....c.....k....try connect the dots
Close enough till we tie the nuptial knots


Guess who.

MrCork:
...bro may I remind you that the chicks on nairaland are Nigeriand..A.K.A gold diggggers....they don't like poem..they like cash

Smellymouth:
So touching....

KissChrix:
Gotcha.. Don't try to escape


You gave yourself away with that 'mirror' part

vizkiz:
Op it is not mandatory we tag his/her moniker right?
Cuz have 4 girlfriends on nairaland...

KissChrix:
Hard mirror ??

Laveda:
If its not Smellymouth... Then

firstEVA:
The Irritant General:

He licks ass like no other,
He stalks like other,
he bleaches like no other,
He brags like no other,
He lies like no other,
he begs for attention like no other.

He speaks forward and backward all in a breath,
he blows hot and cold all in a moment.
He writes Jamb but never scales through,
he plays football but is forever an amature

He is Samurai

Thashen:
[color=Black]Do you send nudes, baby?[/color]

Smellymouth:
Walahi..To slap dat your cute face dey hungry me sha..

johnson232:
Rediculous Ridiculous, hasty and baseless generalization....

5minsmadness:
You came to the wrong place to seek for advice.

Like you have seen, most of the people here dont give good advice, they are just here mostly to insult others and gloat over other people's misery so they can feel good about themselves. They speak like life for them is perfect and they have never cheated or aborted or made bad choices before. The least they would do for you is give you a second chance. Ignore thier insults and curses. They know no better. When they experience life they will think differently.

To your matter.

You have made the mistake already. You got lonely, lost control of your sexual urge and sought solace outside. It happens more often with men than with women. Men need more self control to keep their libido and excesses in check. Having said that, your ladyfriend is pregnant and this is going to place some serious emotional hurt on your wife. How do you plan on comforting her or making it up to her?

Secondly,

Does your religion allow you to practice polygamy?

I'm glad you are responsible enough to accept your mistake and be there for the woman and her child to be. Most men would force the girl to abort or would leave her high and dry outright (and the same online rabble insulting you for owning up to your mistake will still insult and curse you for deserting her if you did so). I think your plan to sort this out is good. I dont know about marrying your baby-mama (unless your religion allows it) but i guess you should tell your wife about that first before you do. Its one thing to betray her trust by impregnating a girl outside, its another thing to marry same girl witbout her being in the know.

Yes polygamy can be difficult but i assure you (as one who counsels various couples), it is not all doom and gloom and there are many harmonious polygamous families out there. As long as you treat both wives equally and well, your family will thrive.

Even godly people make mistakes. The true christian battle is learning from those mistakes and rising above them, becoming wiser from it. Dont make a similar mistake again in the future.

All the best.