Submission is over hyped in understanding that part of the scripture, the Bible first instructed the men to love then submission follows suits. Don't expect submission from a woman simply because you have an over drive third leg without doing the needful. If you do any how,you will see anyhow. Women operate with flesh and blood too, they are not ambassadors for shock absorbers.
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Submission is over hyped in understanding that part of the scripture, the Bible first instructed the men to love then submission follows suits. Don't expect submission from a woman simply because you have an over drive third leg without doing the needful. If you do any how,you will see anyhow. After all women also have blood and vein flowing in them,they are not ambassadors for shock absorbers.
I will only feel bad if I have a time bound commitment in Benin, otherwise they should be operating at a loss because I will definitely be brought back to Benin at no cost.
South East why? Why the constant clamouring and dissatisfaction attitude? Now that Peter Obi is cruising politically why not put every issue aside and support him? Must you people disagree always? Tuehhh.....
Igbos talk too much.... Forget that one and channel your energy on supporting Peter Obi now, that's why I like the hausa/ fulani's solidarity, they hardly talk about who's horse is gored rather they focus their energy on the way forward, igbos should take a leave from them and produce the next president.
PrinceofAnambra: Should this be news again? Is it not common sense that since Tinubu will win APC ticket, then his VP will be a Northerner? It's either going to be Ganduje or El-Rufai. But I pray the short devil doesn't get it. Ganduje is far better. Look at how he transformed Kano to the Lagos of the North. He is more civil and also detribalised. He was the only Northern governor of the main power bloc Northern states that supported anti-grazing laws in the South and pushed for herdsmen to modernize into ranching to prevent farmer-herder crisis from plunging the country into ethnic war. Ganduje would make an excellent VP for Tinubu.
Congratulations to you ma and happy glorious birthday. God is good to you and to those that died, he has a reason for keeping you alive. Make it count.
Truth is, he didn't beg to be adopted however good behaviour from can gain him upper hand and all the rights he deserves as a first son, the onus lies on him.
dboY1123: It is a month already that my mom died in my hands.. I am really depressed!! I have been seeing life as nothing and vanity, I can't get over her, memories with her kept coming back really hard I tried to keep myself busy by watching movies, playing games and so on..But that doesn't stop my mind from remembering her.
These days, nothing bothers me again, not even life or death, I still have a father but it doesn't change things..
There was a time I went to school (my ppa), my proprietor was trying to pacify me by talking about when he lost his wife back then and everything, I started feeling uneasy and extremely tired..it wasn't stress at all my stomach started aching and I felt like vomiting or even passing out..he noticed it and I quickly left his presence and I went back home to shower and rest..
Please how can I get over my mom, I'm so obsessed with her and her memories kept coming in my head that every time I felt I could have done something to rescue her despite everything I did, taking her to state hospitals and even private.. I am the last born and I am about 29years..I have elder ones like 45(first born) but I took so much responsibilities when she was sick and I was only the one she could call everytime she's depressed due to memory loss..I later found out her sickness was related to heart failure and it was congestive heart failure she was going through.. All those times we thought she had nocturnal asthma like early last year..
It was only last month we knew that it was cardiomyopathy or cardiomegaly heart related.. The general hospitals we took her too didn't say anything like that, one of them only said her liver seemed bigger than the normal one..And we thought it was edema cz her legs were swollen.. So, it was heart related disease and it led to cardiac arrest or heart attack cz she just vomited and stopped breathing all of a sudden..
It took me 3 good years to get over my mother's death, the mystery of time eventually healed me, now I live with her sweet memory even though I still miss her dearly. I will make her my mother over and over . You will be fine, time will heal you trust me.
InsideLife2022: I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
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Postpartum depression is seriously dealing with her. Postpartum depression is a serious condition t affecting about 1 in 7 new parents. If you've had postpartum depression before, your risk increases to 30% each pregnancy. You may experience alternating highs and lows, frequent crying, irritability and fatigue, as well as feelings of guilt, anxiety and inability to care for your baby or yourself. Symptoms range from mild to severe and may appear within a week of delivery or gradually, even up to a year later. Although symptoms can last several months, treatment with psychotherapy or antidepressants is very effective. Let your wife see a therapist or counselor.
Xwizard: I will be straight and sharp, I don’t need any bad every response, I’ve done it already, and I want to handle it maturely. Just need advice from any one who had handled such issues peacefully that all.
Yesterday I was caught for bypassing, I wasn’t at home, so before I got back they’ve cut down my wire, my neighbor won’t let them take away the meter and wire. Immediately they called and told me, first thing I did was recharge online on the meter right away, hoping I would have a chance, but I got home now I saw they’ve opened the meter, and I’m sure our people they would have taken enough pictures of the tampered meter, some of them can even pix mix I’m for evidence.
Well they dropped a letter for me, on the letter my last recharge was written at the back stating about 8months ago, and a phone at the back.
I don’t know what to do first, any I’ve not make any move yet, but I’ve corrected the bypass meter. suggestions how best to handle it.
Don't panic! Who thief pass nepa? Fraudsters usually don't like their colleagues. Just go to their office, after charging you the appropriate bill, you are free to negotiate with them, then you can proceed and pay.but avoid being rude, I am talking from experience. And pls note: whenever you are doing by pass, ensure to disconnect from 9am-4pm because that's their official active hours. Thank me later.
Alaigbopress: Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment. I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.
The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.
I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.
My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.
And you believed her! That was red flag number one.........
Agabaidu1234: My Experience With my boss at the office today.
Am a serving corps member with one company serving.
At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.
The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.
Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) . Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.
Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.
Don't be weary of well doing in due season you shall reap if you faint not.
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