akpunda86: Good morning all.Please Genuine Civil Servants working here,How long after getting your appointment letter does it take you to do capturing.
I have a problem my wife was given an appointment letter since september last year and have been awaiting to be captured into the government payroll. To me she has been scanned cos getting an appointment letter is easy very easy from Abuja ,but getting captured Na the Koko cos not easy getting paid.
Me as a man ,iv done my part but from day 1 I told her Na scam but u know with women.This Jobs are organised by a syndicate ,like I heard they were like 40 taken,and I believe all they are waiting for is May 29,they slug in their names ,the man is his her uncle but I might expose him soon as all transfers made via my account.
I need hear from genuine civil servants pls. Total each candidate paid was 2 million.
Once capturing becomes story after getting federal government job, then reconsider! My younger brother got a lecturing job with federal polytechnic Afikpo just last month and he was captured last Thursday.
You see? They walk so freely in other countries but carry security all around them in their own country, just because they can't do the right thing. Shouldn't someone feel more at home in his own house?
Dapagun: 2. The only way companies can increase their wage bill is if they earn more. If they don't earn more how will they be able to afford more for their workers? You said this will happen on the second day. Does this man have a magic wand somewhere?
He said alpha beta contract will be canceled which cost the state 5billion monthly, going by that or whichever way is that not enough to cover salary increment?
77up: Yes , he has been sacked by tribunal but he has the right to appeal the judgement so ,untill final judgement in appeal and supreme, he remains in office but las las , mumu man is going.
KeyEndurance: I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.
But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. Ensure he's not taking advantage of you, otherwise always eat before comes, stop buying food stuff in the house or better still start eating outside for sometime, if his intention of coming is food he will stop coming.
The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.
Stop buying food stuff in the house or ensure you eat before he comes or start eating out for sometime and he will stop coming.
Why do I have this feeling the maid knows about his death, to me she's the prime suspect. Probably they had an argument and that was it, my sister's maid has so much resentment for my nephew all because of argument on choice of television channel, I called my sister's attention to it and told her to watch out so the maid will not poison her son one day.
An embarrassing drama ensued in a church as a young man attempted to surprise his girlfriend with a marriage proposal.
In a short clip seen on social media, the lady was backing the man as she held up a birthday cake given to her, while being flanked by cheering church folks.
Behind her, a man believed to be her boyfriend suddenly went on one knee, holding up a ring. On turning around, the lady stood shell-shocked, then reacted in an unexpected manner.
Unfortunately, she refused to accept and stated that they have only been dating for three months and its too early to start thinking of marriage.
She accused him of embarrassing her but the boyfriend seemed confusion by her reaction, and just as he was trying to process what was happening, she smacked him and plastered the cake on his face.
destiny4luv: Good day Nairalanders.l; let me go straight to the point. I work off-shore so most of the times I am not always around, some times I can be at work for three months and be given one or two weeks time- off that's just the nature of my job.
But they is something troubling me seriously, when I give my wife instructions regarding anything at all she will first of all ask my Mom before she carries out the instruction I give her, that's if my Mom is in support of the instruction. Recently I gave her an instruction regarding a particular matter while I was on time-off, only for my wife to call me fee weeks later that she has carried out the instruction when the time I told her to carry out that instruction is not yet. I was so mad at her I asked her why can't she wait till the time I told her to do it; she said my Mom came over to the house and told her to do it so she did it. At that point I cut the call.
Later that day my Mom called me and was asking why I cut the call on my wife and refused to pick her call even why she was calling back, I told her she was the course, and she said how, and I told her why will I give my wife instruction and u will come to counter that instruction without the both of u letting me know not after the did has been done. My Mom was angry that can't she have say in my home, I told her to an extent not to the point of countering my instructions. She was very angry we both had some argument on the phone before I told her am late for work I want to cut and she hang up, she knows I was seriously angry with her. Since that day she hasn't called me and I haven't called her too.
My wife called me and apologized that it won't happen again. I forgive her and we both made amend. Now my Mom is not talking to me and my wife at the moment. Please what I did was it wrong or did I over reacted?
I love and respect my Mom likewise my wife, but I won't want her to control my home for me. Should I call her and apologize to her or just let her be till her mind comes down?
Ain't you lucky she is not taking instructions from her own mother instead?
KlausMichaelson: Honestly this has been bothering me for a while now. And I think that this is what is referred to as Misogyny . I hate the to hear or see the opinion of a female gender cos most times if not all the time, it doesn't make sense. And this realization could make me end up angry for the rest of that day. Whenever I apply logic to actually understand why they make such opinion, I find out that it's always out of emotion and not logic. They also always act before thinking (even when they think, their opinion still doesn't make sense). This is applied to all of them. None is excluded.
A typical example is the Nekede school girl who made a video saying it's the god of my pussy
I just see them as though they have no thinking faculty that is founded on logic. From the posts on social media, Whatsapp and everything. When you look at the motive and the reasoning behind it you will understand that the female gender has this shallow mindset. This is totally different from the male gender, exception to a very few. Majority of the male gender tend to have logical opinions about something.
Maybe I am too much of an observer, I really do not know. Or maybe because I am very sensitive. Sometimes I think to myself that if not that I was born by a woman, I don't see how useful they are, cos they are irritating when it comes to being logical. Try and engage them in a very intricate discussion, you will understand what I mean. The best they can do to appear intelligent is to be good at subjects in school which is always limited to the book they carry around in their school bags. And this is not intelligence.
Now my worry is that, it's affecting the way I act towards them. The worst punishment I can do to myself is to try withstand an opinion from them during arguments. That's the worst. This is giving me a second thought on whether to get married or not, as a matter of seriousness. Cos this is mentally draining to live with people like that for the rest of one's life.
It's really worrisome. Am I the only one?
Appologies if you are not ok with this. But it's just an observation I have come to learn so far so good about that gender.
Modified One other thing I'd like to point out is that, it's not every male gender that your butts or your body (you shamelessly post on every social media page) will trigger some sort of unnecessary obsession with you. Until then, your weapon is just like a toy gun, absolutely useless. And you are probably useless if you have no logical thinking faculty.
Kindly tell God to wipe them from the earth, since you feel so irritated about them.
Please, I need advise on how to console and encourage a friend of mine here in naija that heard the news of the death of her newly wedded husband who returned to the US after the wedding ceremony.
The husband lived in the US for so many years, he had a good woman/wife with two children. I don’t know if they were legally married or he settled with the lady and had kids with her for papers during his early years in the US.
Now, after years of being divorced or separated from the lady, I think a calabar US based woman according to him, he then met my friend at an occasion while he came to naija. He pick interest in her and proposed marriage, after like one or two years of communication over the phone. They got wedded seven months ago, and he flew back to the states. Communication continued via phone, until there was a break in communication, my friend here in naija tried to reach him but to no avail, until she called one of his US friend who went and confirmed that her husband was about entering his car packed on a hilly road, he forgot the handbrake wasn’t activated, and the car rolled with him to a tree…he had some fractures and rushed to the hospital. At a point, he was recuperating, although couldn’t speak to my friend on phone.Due to his extreme condition, I think the first wife came but shut every communication. So literally my friend was left in the dark until she heard that he had passed away.
His burial will be in the states, and his family here told my friend that they will come for discussion after the burial, probably for his properties which was gotten in both his name and wife’s name(my friend). Before his demise, he had told her how terrible most of his clans are, and how she should try to avoid them and keep things secret from them
How do I encourage her at this time and also the impending battle with her late husband’s family
If she doesn't have children, tell her to walk away quietly, God will open another door for her!
EriMma1: There's this person I brought into my line of job. When I brought her in, I wanted her to learn the job very well for like 6 months or a year before she can launch out to get her own clients and be on her own but she left three weeks after following me a few times. She felt she has gotten the hang of the job and started getting her own clients and has been on her own since last year. I overlooked all that. She then started calling me along the line to teach or show her somethings on the job to which I refused because she left of her own accord knowing full well she has not learnt all there is to learn.
Now, there was a place I submitted my proposal letter and after they called me. We had a chat and after a good bargain, they told me to resume the following week. Two days to resumption, they called and told me to hold on. So I felt they got a better bargain. It pained me and I told this person all that happened and what I charged them. After that, I got two other clients who paid the same amount I charged the one that flopped. So I used those ones to console myself and moved on but was still hoping that they would get back to me someday.
Fast-forward to last week. This close pal of mine I trained on the job told me she got a call. In fact she went to that same place I told her I lost an opportunity and submitted a proposal. They now called her and she offered them lower charges and she was given the job.
At first I felt stabbed because she knew about my ordeal with the same company. I just chose not to discuss it further.
Ok, last year, I confided in her that I want to review my charges with my old clients. Like those I've been with for 4 , 5 years. Today, she called saying she reviewed her charges too with her clients. O boy! Because I reviewed, you too review? I mean something she started last year, she's already reviewing just because I told her I did and my clients have responded to it. These are clients I've had for years and you've only had yours for a few months, cos she started mid last year and she's already increasing fees. Is that how things are done? Anyways I didn't try to warn her of the implication of such act.
Now, I feel this person is just trying to compete with me and I'm thinking it's high time I start concealing somethings from her.
What do you think? Is it safe to continue divulging my plans to this person or am I overreacting?
All your fault! Why do you keep telling her your moves, learn how to shut your mouth!
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Banilla: I suppose. We weren't born rich, so I absolutely want us to live better. When I had a job, I saved but I don't think he did. And it's frustrating. He talks alot about the future but all this time, we haven't really started working towards achieving any of our goals, atleast I'm trying despite living in the poorest country. He's doing better, so I expect some effort but I'm getting nothing.
I'll encourage him to save, I did when he first got the job, five months after we started dating. I know he'll quit again, he keeps doing it. All I need is stability.
Or I should just risk it? Stop planning, depend on fate? Trust him to make the best decision for us both?
From all you have said, you are a better planner than him, however, the idea of persuading him to save his money in your account don't only send a wrong signal but a domineering disposition. You sound as though being engaged to someone you love is a do or die affair that should lead to marriage, or he's the only man on earth.
My advice is this, please take it easy and pay more attention to your studies and build a career for yourself while saving your own money for your long term plan which you may eventually join with your spouse, that's the only way any man can take you seriously and may align his plan with yours.
Men don't like being pushed around or forced to make a move or plan their lives, they are rather challenged in the face of circumstances to do so.
Nevertheless, his attitude right now could be a red flag, please watch out to avoid premium tears and regrets in the future.
jeffmatt4u: I have this Zambia babe I have been chatting with on facebook. We kind of dating, she is very in-love with me bcoz she call almost everyday both on video call and all. Now she wants me to come over to Zambia promising to help in securing admission at her school (university of Zambia) for me by next year. she is a medical student . And she is damn serious. So my people, how do you see this? Is it a good idea moving to Zambia?
Please secure the admission first before leaving. And ensure you have a plan B incase things eventually don't work the way you expect.
co787: My wife and daughter traveled to her village in August for 3weeks and they were supposed to be back before the school resumption but she changed her mind saying her mother was seriously ill that she has to extend her stay which was fine by me and when they returned back I noticed that she has lost so much weight which I asked her why she said it was due to the stress of caring for her sick mother which is normal.
She is her only daughter and oldest of 4 her younger ones are boys so they cannot take care of their mother better than her. Here is the reason I got her arrested, during her stay in the village, her 14 years old brother raped my daughter. This is one of the reason she overstayed in the village. She didn't tell me anything about my daughter being raped she and her mother had decided to give her treatment and cover the idiot that repeatedly raped her and when she came bck she didn't say anything to me but she confided in her prophetess which in her turn has started spreading news until it came to my ears that my own daughter was raped and her own mother has kept quiet and I can imagine if it was a member of my family that did the abominable acts the whole world would have heard it and she would have done everything in her power to put in prison.
But because it is her own brother, she has decided to keep quiet and not knowing the world is small and not secret is hidden forever. I took my daughter to the hospital the result has confirmed she was tampered i was devasted she has been the best wife to me and she has helped me and my sisters to reconciled in the past but what she has done to me it is unforgivable and I have arrested her and when I bail her I will divorce her and take custody of my daughter.
I don't know if I need advice or not but your input and suggestion are welcome I will be reading all your comments.
You made a salient point, if the offender was your family member she would never let it slide, trust women on that! Secondly, If i were your wife, I would instantly inform you of the heinous act even against my family's wish and also instigate the arrest of my younger brother, as that's the only way to appease her husband, but the foolish woman choosed to hide it.
Islandlady: Without long story, in what way can I tell my newly moved in couple neighbours who occupies the top apartment that they should reduce their moaning when having sex at night!
It's very awkward and annoying...
Matured Nairalanders I just need your advice on how to tell them politely without sounding rude or making them feel embarrassed. Thanks!
MandelaLives: Yes, this is true. I talked with my brother in Enugu State, and he confirmed it. While this is happening in Enugu, Anambra Governor is campaigning for another Fulani to become Nigeria's President while the Governors of Imo and Ebonyi are campaigning for a Muslim-muslim ticket. Igbos sef!
Tomorrow they will begin to shout marginalization, If they are waiting for presidency to come to them on a platter of gold then i pity their sorry ass. A true test of a peoples determination is synergy, the should ask the north.
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