₦airaland Forum

SyrusdeHansome:
As a guy if u like go nd marry a girl whose mom insults her husband anyhow she likes what you'll see in the marriage will dash u sense 4 free but by that time the deed had already been done. Maybe divorce has now given unprepared married men like u lots a soft landing that's why u rarely make findings abt the girl u wanna marry b4 going into it now. Some of u just wanna marry just 2b respected in the society with a hidden intension of divorcing the person at any slight provocation. 4 those of u attacking me lemme tell u that i don't wanna divorce 4 any reason so i can never marry a girl that has such a mother. I value my peace of mind above any other thing. 90% of girls whose mothers insult their husband at will will repeat the same mistake on their husbands taking it 2b a normal thing.

My focus is that. it is a two-way street.

A boy who grows up seeing his father demeaning his mother in both words and action, even in the presence of their children and outsiders, sees his father repeatedly beats his mother and his mother still remained in the marriage......modelling and normalization will be nurtured in that boy's mind.

He is most likely to grow to be a man who sees nothing wrong in demeaning women, beating the girlfriend/wife as the surest way to exert authority in the relationship because that was what his father modelled to him and he has normalized it as he comfortably identifies it as being masculine.

In all, toxic marriage tends to mess up the children as they tend to carry over the toxicity into their relationships except for some who recognize the toxicity and are very intentional not to repeat their parents' toxicity.

Reason it is a must for any professionally trained marriage therapist to explore the childhood of the couple at the first/second session.

Thomasankara:
[/color]but u supported buhari for his approval on that singular act[color=#770077]

You are free to screenshot posts where I supported Buhari on the new notes and by the way, cashless or no cashless does not in any way affect me as I am where I don't even have cash

helinues:
The question should be directed to those who supported the policy that brought mire hardship on ordinary Nigerians

Buhari the President who gave Emefiele, the CBN Governor the go-ahead to implement it, is blameless for the hardship Nigerians are going through.

ekolobaba:
Hehehe. These mumu obituary touts don turn ofeke Obi into Jesus. They think this useless mumu man can walk on water and fly without wings.

For a Psychiatrist, your mental struggle would be easy to assess with just the attached......a clear case of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

Darren95:
The 10th National Assembly need to pass this into Law.

Only state Indigenes Should have the right to vote their political office holders. If voting is your problem, relocate to your state and vote the right leader for you and your generation.

Some will say: If non-Lagosians pays tax in Lagos, they should also have right to vote!

My answer: If that is the case, please move your business to your State and pay your tax their to develop your state and vote your leader.

Dem no born the 10th National Assembly well, to even attempt it!

No one is moving anywhere, get used to it!

blackpanda:
But you Obi demanded 7.5Billion from Obiano
Abi una don forget ni

Why is APGA not using it to campaign against Obi in Anambra?

incogni2o:
I missed a remote opportunity cos I overpriced

You ought to have researched what is current, regarding pay.

Shoodboi:
Hire based on value rather than salary. When you hire based on how low the employee is willing to take, you get hungry and desperate cheapskates that will never give you their best. Most will only use the money they get from your job to print more CVs and pay transport fare to interviews.

Most of those who hunt for cheap labour don't mind, they are not bothered by the high turn over of staff.

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

I guess your mother who is also a representation of the girl child is naturally stupid, going by your perception.

Reading your post, gives an insight of who your father is/was and how he perceive/d your mother and you copied the bad behaviour.

You don't need a wife, you need psychiatric evaluation.....you will be the death of any woman who unfortunately falls into your trap of marriage.

helinues:
Go and check his former posters contesting in SE and see if he made use of Gbadebo in his name.

When did he start bearing Gbadebo if not for the election washing

His mum is a baby mama but still bears Nkechi Rhodes-Vivour? Truly, aiye Jin because what you are exhibiting is not "ordinary".🤣🤣🤣

He was "born out of wedlock" but still bears his biological father's name, while you who have no idea who fathered you is yabbing him...Nkan nbe!🤣🤣🤣.

Yes, it is Yoruba land...so when are you going to relocate?.

Really commendable.

akpur1:
My girlfriend I told her am not doing court marriage with her we are doing only traditional. She is angry and sad.

Don't stress yourself, look for a lady who is okay with only traditional marriage as they are many of them in the rural areas.

tishbite42:
Reno Omokri comes from an elite family. Wike doesn't come close.

It is not by elite family, Wike and his camp will drag him with things many don't know about Reno as they were once both in Jonathan's team....just observe.

BATified2023:
u igbos should just wait till 18th, wetin u do with d presidential election results?
U just shout on social media n lock up n u see say international bodies no even send u

We go do u bad in lagos next week, let’s see who u will call

After defeating u at d polls, we will burn your shops to cut u to size

U think say u wan trespass abi? We will put u in your place, after d election lagos go hot for igbos

Dem no born u 10 million times......school uno gree enter your head, handwork u no learn but once police hook you for belt, strip you to your boxers....all braggado will melt, you will start pleading that they should beg on your behalf...broda agbaya!

Obaaderemi2:
The OP didn't say igbos should not vote in Lagos. He meant igbos should be careful how they meddle in Lagos politics.

As long you vote, it "meddles"

Konwan:
Either you do understand the meaning of trolling and gaslighting or you're shallow minded.


Which one of them applies to you?

Explain gaslighting in your own words.

Islandboi:
If you know, you don’t have shops in Lagos, please don’t spoil things for us that have shops in Lagos. Let Stay out of Lagos politics and let’s mind our business. I don’t want anyone to attack my shop and loot my goods because we are meddling in Lagos politics. Stay safe out there!

As long as you are a Nigerian of legal age and resident in Lagos, paying your rates and taxes......you have a right to choose who manages Lagos through your vote, abi no be Yoruba woman be my representative, Member of Parliament here in the UK. Protect your "shop" any way you choose but Nigerians living in Lagos would vote who they prefer!

Do Seun believe in hell?

When you opted for Soluagha, u no remember .

fredoooooo:
Obituary, Is he also in heaven wth you too ?

Me and you still never die though we would one day but l look forward to heaven after this earthly journey.

He didn't troll Obi neither did he gaslight igbos.

It is important that children play, just be very observant.

Wike will soon remind Reno, how his mother's bride price was paid.

searchng4love:
Fact

As usual, my OCD bros.

Even Orji Uzor Kalu you dey hail, no say igbos no rate am and you are here expressing your delusions......im and okorocha can't gather massive organic following amongst igbos, reason they only feel like lions when dey are in Abuja....their umunna knows wassup, not you a passer-by!

fredoooooo:
Get it from ya fellow wretched obituaries or From Obi that never give shishi

Eyah, uncle is feeling fly. ....From Obi...hmmm, I think what he gave in inspiration, when he came to talk to us in Cambridge last year is enough from him.

fredoooooo:
I can give you 1K Dollars bit obi and obituaries no dey give and receice shishi.
They are satisfy poverty, Mobbing and e noise making

I no need $1,000, na just $20 equivalent I need.

Yahoo Pastor.

Zacchaeus......the money must balance.

EmiDon11:
Did bible prohibit us from wooing a lady inside the church?

Assuming you saw a lady who you think can be your perfect match, is it right to interogate her during church service?

Which one be interrogate, you be police officer?