₦airaland Forum

Which investment?

ejimatic:
. Very outrageous!

For some old men, they are being repaid for abusing the power and control they had over their wives and children.

"It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together".....Too busy doing what? He knows he is already AS and was lackadaisical about the testing and the now wife got to scam him.😠

Even in the Catholic church, that is enough ground to dissolve the marriage because of deceit.

My main interest is the baby, is the genotype known?

Crossfire,

AreaFada2:
Correct. There are even some inherited conditions that women give to their sons that can be deadly but doesn't affect daughters. It is carried in the genes of a woman but becomes a problem when passed on to a son.
An example is Haemophilia A. It is genetically X chromosome linked. Since girls have XX chromosome, even if faulty gene is inherited from mother, the other good X one from the father compensates for it. So the blood clotting Factor XIII absent in affected boys will be still present in girls despite carrying the gene. Even up to our genes, we men dey help women instead of men. So man na simp right up to the gene.

My belief is that there are a lot more unknown (vast but currently unquantifiable) compensations females benefit genetically through XX genes which men don't have. Oestrogen definitely has a protective role in women. You can see the effect post-menopausal as hormones levels drop increasingly.

More scientifically, epigenetic clock has been used quite well to examine biological aging. This is insightful in Taiwos and Kehindes who are male and female. The clock tracks methylation of DNA (among other indictors) in many mixed gender twins as biological markers of aging process.

These indictors can be roughly predict likely of developing medical conditions, metabolic diseases, autoimmune, cancer, etc at an earlier or older age. This roughly indicates actual biological age compared to chronological age (how long ago one was born). Biological ages of someone born in 1950 and 1960 may be similar. That's why some people live longer, assuming no fatal accident.

Of course lifestyle plays a part. In places where more men gave up smoking over the last few decades, life expectancy of men improved. Finland is an example.

You just took me back to my undergrad Health Psychology class! :😆😆😆

Ckonnet:
Na women dey put us for unnecessary pressure and their manipulation no be here. I could remember my dad borrowing money from my mum to pay my school fees na latter I come dey reason the matter in life.

That is so not right! Are you not also her son and would benefit from you being educated?

Mine was, whoever had money at the given point in time, drops it and that why I was collecting from both of them as na 2 of dem join body born me!😊

“Hippos usually ravage our farms. The government has banned us from killing them. We see them destroying our crops but the government has warned us about killing or harming them".....So odd to read that Nigerian government is protecting wildlife.😲

Government should pay them compensation, that is best practice.

January transfer window.

KanwuliaExtra:
Is this a fact only because men generally have more co-morbidities?

One of the reasons and also men are less likely to go for testing and when results comes back positive, poor medication adherence in men (women are more likely to religously take their medications) and men find it difficult to readjust their lifestyles to the reality of their health status and of note, men find it difficult discussing their health issues both physical and mental with those around as it tends to make some of them feel weak or effeminate as against most women who don't feel embarrassed discussing what is ailing them as they don't feel judged

Talking has been normalized by women and it has been one of their survival skills.

That is Health Psychology 101.🤣🤣🤣

KanwuliaExtra:
Hmmmmm. . . . .Food for thought.
Surely, this factor alone can be eliminated or curtailed, the chances of lengivity could be improved.
There are too many 'single' grandmothers around me for sure.

That is it. Just like HIV, more women get infected by it than men but more men die from its complications than women.

KanwuliaExtra:
So men are doomed for early fatality?

That is the reality on ground, which is evidence-based.

Then adding the poor health seeking behaviours prevalent in men, gone too soon
is inevitable.

Biologically from the onset, the XX make up of females gives them a protective advantage when it comes to survival, reason boys are more likely to be stillborn than girls and under 5 infant mortality is more prevalent in boys.

So from conception, childhood, adolescenthood, adulthood to old age.....males die earlier.

Modestanewsreel:
Hihihihihiii.. that meme was so on point

Though it was cut and paste, to make people laugh but in reality it hurts kids when they come to full consciousness of the fact that they were initially rejected, at the baby's age it is easier to make amend if the mother is willing but some showing up years after and wanting to force themselves into the child's life is sheer stupidity.

Modestanewsreel:
Na real nigga ... The way he turned his head after daddy left. Lol...

Gave him the "na you be the werey look"🤣🤣

Baby na gangstar.

What do men benefit from polygamy?
What do the wives benefit from the polygamous setting?
What do the children benefit from the polygamous setting?

peter0071:
Nations and other countries are running for Nigerian men... and you are saying these about the Nigerian men?? anyway, this is your opinion which i will respect....
enjoy your opinion... Cotonou men dey available sha. Make i link you?

For what reason(s) are they running for them?⁸😊

And same El-Rufai wants to convince Nigerians that there is nothing wrong in Muslim-Muslim ticket, if this is his mindset.☹️

I don't believe in beating a child to instill discipline.

Pupils should not be dragged into partisan politics, so very wrong and unprofessional. The headteacher needs to be queried.

Shabby learning environment for those young ones but they are more interested in Politics.

A skit but instructive.

manforgu:
O boy!! Naira na tissue paper oo. Ksh 2mill = 11.6 mill naira? Can u imagine!!!!.

That Ksh2m was even N13.8m, last year November.

Good development.

Offpointng:
Actually the plan is to rule by intelligence and experience which is the most important over strength

In essence, sleeping is a natural activity of nature I wonder what the fuse is, from OBIdients

If Tinubu in his present state, is to be your heart surgeon.....will you give the go-ahead that he operates on you?

breakthrough22:
If that's the case ,ain't sending a dime cos I want my son.i prefer his mum to come back with him but there will sure be gap between me and her ...

If any of you two takes it up and it ends up in court, you will pay for your son's upkeep likewise his school fees. That your wife is not going to continue to live under the same roof with you, does not give you the right to cease paternal responsibility towards the child you both share

Watch some episodes on estranged husband and wife, baby daddy and babymama cases aired on Justice Court under Lagos State Jurisdiction to have a clue, what judgement will be like.

“I know you are not ready to do that rally. You are only looking for excuse. But you must do it. I know you are going to import people, no problems, go and import. We have given you the stadium.”........

Actually the real exchange rate conversion for KSh 2 million is N11.6m not N7.4 million.

I feel for the woman, after spending 9 years in Saudi Arabia working as a house help under inhumane conditions, her daughter squandered all her sweat.

The woman ought to have been requesting the monthly bank statement be forwarded to her but fact is, she could easily have easily operated her own Kenya bank account and Mpesa, right there in Saudi Arabia but I guess she thought it was safer with her daughter, should anything happen to her in Saudi Arabia.

Let it be organic. Physically engage in social activities, chat with random persons you meet there without giving out detailed info about yourself.

Gradually, you develop becoming at ease with people being around you without first thinking they want something from you.

Having good friends is good for the mind, people you can feel free around and remembering them, makes you smile.

Thinkam:
They never have and they never will, I repeat if Obi gets 20k votes in total from these states in south west(oyo, ogun, Ondo, ekiti, osun) , as in 20 thousand votes, make motor jam me.

Not 20k in each state, I mean 20k cumulative, make motor jam me.

These online Igbos don't know Obasanjo wan scam them, God bless the wise Igbo leaders endorsing Atiku.

Atiku is coming

You are still pained that the regular votes PDP used to be sure of from the igbos have been taken away.

Just make sure you inform your family, so when you get hit they wouldn't blame it on your village village and would quietly arrange your burial.

Igbos living in Ibadan alone are in tens of thousands...... Gone too soon, foolishly.

Ulunne777:
When she knew the family planning had Been removed,she and her husband should have halted sexual relations until a suitable one is pit in place.
I once offered to take someone like her to family planning,I didnt see her again. Imagine a woman going to her 1st daughters house for omugwo with her own baby.

She should release the babies for Adoption.Thats the only remedy.

It is nothing new in some communities. Way back I had a coursemate in the Uni, his nephew is older than him and 2 years ahead of us in school. My coursemate's mother' was pregnant with him when she went for omugwo for her granddaughter/his niece. So both nephew and niece are older than their uncle. The shock that went through me!

Borntosmoke:
When will.they do smoker of the year. We smokers are undestaaaated, they don't know our contribution to the economy

Contribution whey no pass red eyes and dark lips!