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peepydelano:
You still have now till February 20 to decide. Come and join the wining team

I came across Atiku many times in the library of our University campus in Cambridge when we were both doing our Masters there, I wasn't gingered to go greet him then, you think say na now I go dey gingered to join his team?

peepydelano:
Aboki come and join our ship while you can, it’s not too late.

Make I leave better work, come join wetin?

Good.

peepydelano:
This is what it should be.

For your mind!

The writer is an old student of Lai Mohammed High School, finishing with As.

Tunagee:
His wife must be mad, wicked and foolish for telling her daughter about it, she only wanted to bring hatred between father and daughter. Very wicked being!!!

Which hatred between them?....He deserves what the daughter served him because he is a demon to have even harbored the thought of killing his own child for ritual purposes.........such men are a danger around children. He does not have any business fathering a child.

Well deserved.

At last.

Marvyx:
Probably but those guys are on the divide. I'm talking generally.

Reason, "ALL" can't be used.

Marvyx:
Actually all men are attracted to other women. It's just that not all men follow act on the attraction for the reasons that quoted post gave. It's natural.

That isn't an excuse to cheat though because commitment means giving up philandering ways.

Human sexuality is not only split along homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality. There are people who are neither attracted to the other gender nor their own gender, they are only sexually attracted to themselves.

Tell him point blank that the N10k is part of the N70k.

Kamsi04:
I will speak from experience, it's probably how the men acted in their prime. You cannot be bad to your wife and irresponsible to your kids and you expect them to care for you when you are old.
My dad is currently sick,so sick that he can't do anything without help,sick old people can be very stubborn, whenever my mom gets angry at my dad,she will just tell me
"Your dad was a wonderful man when he was healthy,I didn't lack anything nor did my family lack anything",I can't abandon him now that he's sick.
Even my me and my siblings,no matter what my father does to annoy us,we don't shout because we know it was brought upon by sickness and if not he wouldn't be that way. My brother every 2 or 3 days,will call my dad and ask him specifically what he wants,he will send the money to my mom,my mom will use it and prepare that same thing for my dad.

Men treat your families right,be there for them,you will enjoy your old age and children's wealth.

Women who have healthy relationships with their husbands from the earlier years of their marriage, tend to be too attached to their husbands even in old age.

There is a family, who have been our neighbours for over 30 years and the man is battling with poor health though he is still able to move about, unassisted. Their daughter based in Denmark wanted the woman (her mum) to come over for omugwo last year November to return in February but mama said she can't leave her husband behind despite their last 2 children who are graduates still live with them in their family house.

The daughter had to file visa for mom and dad, they went just before Christmas as mama was jokingly saying that if her husband was hands on with the 7 children they had, that a baby won't put Papa off. 🤣

It is good seeing them on Facebook, wearing their winter jackets and gloves, visiting many places in Denmark and both looking fresher within weeks.😄😄😄

MrDetermined:
don't you think that's a different thing you talking about? Men who play a way package only have one or two but prostitues are just a different thing altogether.

They are not because they both compartmentalize. It is the same "I can sleep with other people, but you are still the one I love" as it is also applicable to ladies who are in committed relationship s but have one or two side pieces by the side, to cool off.

OyeofIkoTuN:
I don't want complain that they didn't pay you oo..

They have our NIM,Voters card and BVN,yet they want to count per head.. Children have birth certificates, yet they wanna count per head. so they can include Chad and Niger..

Okay oo

Millions of Nigerian children do not have birth certificates.

MrDetermined:
you can believe what you want to my dear, the above is solely based on my personal opinion.

Of course, we all have our personal opinions which does not mean, they are FACTS. Women also have the capacity to cheat with different mean and still claim to love you because women also have the capacity to compartmentalize.

During my undergrad days, for my course in Human Sexuality, I had to visit a red light district for my term paper and spoke with some ladies working the streets and many claim to have boyfriends who are even well aware they are into prostitution. That aside from the money being made, the variety of men they get to sleep with is arousing BUT their boyfriends remain the love of their lives

Some of them claim that what they engage in, serves as an aphrodisiac to their boyfriends during sex

dmangodwin:
Not exactly.Too much of iron hand by fathers on their children and wife when the kids are growing up is very bad. If you children cannot relate with you,it make them to loose affection for their father.And this is a lop hole that a bad wife can use to turn children against their father in future.ALL MEN NEED TO WATCH THIS
KWAM1 song goes does(bin se gbomo mi gege temi yemi.tisu omo bajino ko mama jo mi lenu

Children who have lost affection for their father based on their lived experience with him, do not need anyone to turn them against their father and such fathers should not expect their wives to clean up the negative feelings their children have towards to them.

MrDetermined:
A man can love and still cheat on you because he wants to taste a different kpekus not because he doesn't love you or anything.

most men are like this tho.

Same old tale, a man can love you and still cheat on you.....this is the mindset being passed around and used to rationalize lack of self-control and normalizing women accepting infidelity.....very cheap.🤣🤣🤣

Buhari is so disconnected from reality.

Go to YouTube and watch some Nigerian weekly drama episodes of the early 90s such as Checkmate shot in Lagos , watch outdoor scenes to see if it looked like the 18th century!

Delusion is FREE.🤣🤣🤣🤣

CoronaVirusRelo:
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅

Comedians!

Mods should please move topic to jokes section!

Atiku and Peter have same Problem! They fail to realize that they are up against a political god!

If not rare stupidity and foolishness, how can a living thing believe he can politically go against Asiwaju?

It’s absurd and foolish!

You mean a political tin god, thrashed by the Adelekes in Osun State, that is even Tinubu's home state and his relative, the then incumbent Governor.......delusion is certainly FREE.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

GodHimself:
ALL men are attracted to multiple women. It's natural.

The men that don't follow through on the attraction are constrained by something: religion, finances, skill or strong personal habits of decision.

Falsehood. "ALL" men are not.

Chimaroke was "king" in the early 2000s , guy was so popular.....

folak48:
Yes , he's been unrepentant since courtship.

His promiscuity was a waving red flag way back during your days of courtship but you were accepting his apologies and excuses, finally embraced it by marrying him.

Why should he change now? Manage your expectations.

folak48:
I have caught my husband several times cheating on me, either he saves his concubines' phone numbers with a male name or he doesn't save but constantly chats with them even while I sleep beside him.

I would like to know if it's a common thing with men to crave for another woman and accept my fate.

Not all men cheat, just as not all women cheat.

Anytime he cheats, he is deliberately making a choice as no one cheats by mistake.

Magnoliaa:
I think they are siblings o.

If they are siblings, that their pose as adults doesn't sit right with me.

2023 are not siblings and not those kids in 2005, though siblings being sexually active with each other was common to me, in one of my previous work role.

2005, probably related.

2023. lovers

onumadu:
This marriage is damaged beyond repair, unless you are prepared to pay in your old age.
Emotion and sentiment has nothing to do with it.
If I were you, I would start marking SERIOUS plans to replace the woman. Start all over with another woman if you must.
Get yourself together, and move on.
Unforgiveness is a deadly sin; but a lot of women do it.
It is their nature.

Serious plans to replace the woman does not resolve issues. When he has deep rooted issues with the new wife, I guess you will suggest he goes on a replacement spree/

Emotions has everything to do with it.

Accusing your wife and your own daughter of being witches, had them humiliated and thrown out of their home with the support of those close to you, is certainly not flimsy.

Mea Culpa, Mea Culpa, Mea Maxima Culpa has no time frame,

Feeling too pumped up.

Zeezenho:
With her bitchy sister it was all planned in the family forget her mischievous story.

And the man is who is supposedly logical, didn't see the plan and he was comfortably having sex with his then future sister-in-law?

Then his "cousin" who actually is his daughter and still having sex with the mother, who also set him up for that?

Zeezenho:
The lesson is very simple stay away from Yoruba girls.the will set you up even kill you to inherit your property especially if you guys are based in the west ..

See leave her bitch sister and sold Igbo man property according to her as a sharp Yoruba girl .

How did the lady set the man up in the story?

Justbehave:
Then Una no get eye.

Rather, you are the one who doesn't have it.

If I mention a name of someone who is SS and a top shot at Microsoft, you would hurriedly google the name, view several of her pictures and videos, you will come back here and call me a liar!......Someone I know, reach her mama kitchen

Justbehave:
Fake story. It's only a fool who can't recognise a sickler through his or her physical structures and eye colours.

Not every sickler exhibit those features.