₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
I used to hear it as a child and wondered if the kids came to school in PJs. While in SS2 or so, one our teachers got job in Atlantic Hall, the few days leading to his resignation, his step changed.

pocohantas:
Lol. Buka is in utopia.

How many security men does an average private school have? Abi you think say na Atlantic Hall?

PandoraObi:
Compare Obi with Jesus? how will I compare a incorrigible liar with Jesus Christ, I was was talking about the attributes of a leader buhari possess not just an overhyped IPOB miscreants candidate

CoronaVirusRelo:
Jobless youths!

Their mates are busy making things happen and leading tech and innovations, they are busy showcasing their nuisance online!

One would think at a time like this, when Africa needs all hands on deck, stupidity of this nature won’t be abound

Yankee101:
APC os the biggest political scam to happen to nigeria
Tinubu was part of Buhari's govt [fashola, aregbesola, boss Mustapha, gbajabiamilla, osinbajo etc] and shouldn't be allowed near aso rock. Naija go just collapse

saintopus:
In no too distant future, traditional marriages will be conducted by Nigerians in the UK, US and other foreign nations.

The era of conducting traditional marriages in our local communities will soon be archaic.

No thanks to insecurities.

HarlequinLekex:
As long as they are legally married and his name is usually on the rent receipt before what happened happened. His name should be the one on the receipt. Learn to support your husband and LET it look like he was the one that did those things you did - THIS IS THE SECRET OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.

alanto:
You cant read brother.. it's Adeleke thugs chasing Oyetola's thugs.

Fahvvy:
I honestly don't see why this should be an issue if they are legally married ...

Abi is she expecting the man to put her maiden name? Isn't she bearing her husband's name? ...

So what the fuss?! ...

Some women sef...
You're married, yet you're still carrying the stupid ideology of "my money is my money and his money is our money" ...

You're forgetting that two have now become one ...

OP...
Advice the man to ask for another receipt and let the woman's name be written on it, since this is becoming an issue ...

And this one that's she's making a big deal out of this, only God knows how she treats that man at home ...

Cause once the average woman starts doing the heavy lifting at home, she loses every ounce of respect for the man ...

I pray for every hardworking honest man out there, may you never be in a situation where even your own wife go see you finish because of money ....

JoeRusson:
@mindlog

plaindealer:
Formidable mother and son..


What a great inspiration..

blacksam01:
simply place a restriction on the trend of traveling out my all medical personel

WillyCassey:
I like the way you think. �

meetme01:
In many scenarios, the extended family can take custody of the subject. I would not want to divulge because, I'd be intruding on OP's privacy.

However, for learning purpose, there is a principle in social work called [/b]-self individualization-[b] every case can never be the same no matter how closely related hence, they should be treated differently. Every case has its own intervention and resolution. That's why I said, until you bring both parties together, you can never be too sure why the extended family have the custody of the subject.

Yes, it is wrong especially when the subject is a minor but due to some reasons known to both parties, the custody is with the extended family. I can assure you, if this case gets to the social welfare agency, it will be resolved in less than 24rs after the joint sessionn

meetme01:
There is still no way you deal with custody issues if you don't involve social welfare services. As I said, the general public needs proper sensitization on social welfare services. If custody will be awarded to any party, there must be an agreement which is the memorandum of understanding and if it cannot be resolved, social welfare will refer them to the family court. After adjudication, the social welfare services will still write to the South African Embassy on the outcome to proof the mother has been awarded full/partial custody. SA will use this to process the subject's travelling document to leave Nigeria.

The first step remains to involve the social welfare department in the state.


Bolded..says who? Don't be judgemental. Because you read the case here does not mean that is the fact. Experience has revealed that everyone is a saint in every issue until proven otherwise. Let her come forward with facts, she will be heard without bias.

NigeriaIsGreat:
Naanu

NigeriaIsGreat:
Wahala

Nnamdi Kanu campaigned for One Nigeria when PDP was in power. PDP lost and he became a freedom fighter grin grin

Obi is on the ballot now we no hear say Nigeria na zoo again

After the election, Nigeria will become a zoo back

This life no balance o

femisplash:
All I see here is pains all over Peter Obi. Tinubu really dropped the bomb on him, there's nobody that has disgraced this country than a Pandora fraud that was saying Naanu on an international TV like CNN, he was such a disgrace that the lady anchor was visibly ashamed of Obi. BAside him being the king of Lamba,

kansoboy:
I want to be factual with you, and not emotional or sentimental.
This is Nigeria and worst eastern Nigeria where they do not play with their male child.if u push hard to take that boy away as the mother out of this country and knowing well that once you take that boy away, they will never see him again. Madam no family will let that happen, forget many ppl that will tell you bla bla bla.

My sincere advice to your aunt is this.....leave the boy ,but established a strong communication with him and let him know you are the mother, provide the financial aid you can give ...... When d boy come of age believe me he will come for you, the hardship in this country will give him estral zeal to come looking for you in South Africa when he is old enough.

meetme01:
People don't know social welfare departments in State are working due to non-challant attitude of civil servants coupled with a lack of proper communication between the general public and the government.

Visit any social welfare office nearest to you, insist you want to see the Director. Explain your predicament. A joint session will be called between parties where an amicable solution will be raised with more emphasis on the child. Afterwards, parties will sign a memorandum of understanding and if parties don't agree on terms, they will be referred to the family court for adjudication. The case comes to a close.

Police rarely involve themselves in social welfare issues.