₦airaland Forum

Love the scenery.

The soup dey enter eye, i am imagining escorting it with some wraps of pounded akpu and dozing off for some hours.

RichAbujaGuy:
Many ppl around the world complete their law degree but don't actively practice law for various reasons. Knowing the law for yourself, family, business associates/colleague, or friends is an tremendous asset to have in everyday life.

Meet 17 Nigerian celebs who are lawyers

https://www.thenicheng.com/meet-17-nigerian-celebs-who-are-lawyers/

Former VP Atiku hired about 50 of the best lawyers that money could buy and many were caught sleeping during the election trials. There are threads on it and pics of them snoozing right here on NL.

But she doesn't have a DEGREE in law but a Diploma, so it is not even about practice because she is not qualified to be called a lawyer. Like here in the UK, if you don't have a Doctorate in Psychology, you can't be addressed as a Psychologist even if you have a Masters in Psychology, not to talk of Diploma.

Germany getting knocked out...

You may need to see a dermatologist.

Mercury12:
Why having all that money and still make terrible decision picking someone like Kim for a wife. Hoes are not wife material.
Look for a decent Asian Africa or a well brought up white girl and marry.
Now he got himself into an unending drama with dramatists Kim family.
Life is too short for all that BS

Is Kanye West as a human, decent or well brought up?

RichAbujaGuy:
She's came with very high qualifications including having a law degree and several masters degrees so the op is FOS.


A BRIEF BIOGRAPHY OF HON. STELLA OKOTETE

https://stellaokotete.com/about/

From the link, she has a Diploma in Law from the Rivers State College of Arts and Sciences....that certainly does not make her a lawyer.

From her qualifications listed, she is not skilled for the role she presently occupies.

RichAbujaGuy:
why are some ppl having high blood pressure problems over someone getting a temporary position?
some waste so much time and energy always scabbling over every little political issue to score meaningless points.

Temporary or permanent, it is counterproductive giving positions to persons who are not skilled for the position.

But Buhari is way richer than them

Godsfavorite101:
Dear all, as you respond to my question just know that God almighty will shine his light and Favour on your family before this year runs out.

I was introduced to an agent that process Uk care giver visa package for me and my wife, ( 4 years Tier 2 visa, wife is main applicant ) 20,400 gbp salary per year and total package is 15.5m non negotiable and he gave 100% assurance. My question is it worth it? What is life in the Uk like? I can afford this money by selling my 2 cars and all my life savings, if you’re in my shoe would you make the move?

Sorry if I sound dumb but this visa thing don almost turn me to mad man.

I do make the move but that N15.5m total is ridiculous. Let your wife apply alone and get to the UK then after a month or thereabout you apply to join her. This is from personal experience as I work in Children social care here in the UK and my company did sponsor 6 support workers from Africa and they all came alone, one of them had his wife and children join him after about 6 weeks of arrival, one of the ladies had her husband and their daughter join her after 2 months of arrival as she has settled in and gotten appropriate accomodation for them all.

It worth the move if you have planned out your career path when you relocate to the UK to avoid getting stuck in dead-end jobs.

You stole to sponsor someone else's traveling?

TakeNigeriaBack:
Nonsense. Nothing divine about the obese dullard.

You whey be slim fit, how far?

CoronaVirusRelo:
Exactly!

Its very rare for a stack illiterate to become a Governor in a State with high population of technocrat's, scholars, educational institutions and versatile intellects.

Its truly a miracle!

A "stark illiterate" was able to dislodge an incumbent APC Governor despite Tinubu's backing, what a wawu!....Who PhD help in Nigeria's Politics!

loswhite:
Age of consent in some states in US is sixteen years. Age is not a written sticker on a girl's head so before you start acting like Saint..lol you can have sex with a 16 years old if she chooses to lie to you. The man did wrong not only by sleeping with the 16 years old but also the fact that she is even related to the wife. I'm not supporting his actions but I don't want ppl claiming Saint as if they can't fall short.

He committed a crime by all standards and how does that translate to others claiming saint?

I work in the children social care here in the UK and it is lawful for 16 and 17-year-olds to have sex, but because they are still considered minors, they are protected by the law more. A 16 or 17-year-old cannot have intercourse with an adult in a position of trust or responsibility.

"Got an alert from Apple. My phone has reached China before me"..

spencekat:
And what if the baby dad provides for the child?

If you give woman belle, traditionally it is expected you show up with your relatives to see her family to let them know your intentions. If you say you have no intention of marriage but prefer being a baby daddy, the child becomes that of the lady's family and bears the grandfather's name even if the mother of the child is collecting money by the side from the biological father.

In some communities, the child becomes the child of whoever pays the woman's bride price.

loswhite:
The same "circumstances" that makes you break laws that are legally binding...lol

The circumstances that make you break traffic rules is the same circumstances that makes you defile a child?

Is it easier in Nigeria?

No where on earth is all-rosy but more bearable when one can easily access things that makes life more comfortable.

If you have the legit opportunity to relocate to somewhere more promising...move.

Reno is struggling with Obi Obsessive Disorder (OOD).

wiseone28:
I thought Kenyan are only blacks?

The coastal region of Kenya have a huge Arab ancestry, so they tend are fair skinned then there Indians whose progenitors the then British Empire who were the colonial masters brought to Kenya to build the railway lines, I think in the 18th century or thereabout and they stayed back in Kenya and had children, grandchildren etc so today they are recognized as Kenyans with their Kenyan passports.

Attached is the Governor of Mombasa, the ancestry reflects.

Internet never forgets.

Franzinni:
Haha ... Alot of hypocrites will come here and talk .... Becasue God has not leaked your own evil deeds to the public that is why you can talk ...

What he did is wrong according to law. But if you don't know the circumstances surrounding the issue fully then don't judge him based on what your summarizing brain does ... Nothing in life is black and white .. not even black or white.

What "circumstances" can rationalize the defilement of one who is legally a minor?

His medical license is gone for good.

wiseone28:
See Arab or indians in Kenya walking freely..

It can never happen in Nigeria.

They are also Kenyan citizens and more over the city of Mombasa has many Kenyans with Arab ancestry.

AnonymustME:
Considering she already bore another man’s child without dowry?

Do women from your community who already have a child or children, not go through the traditional rites of marriage when they do get married?

Where I come from, the child the woman had with another man belongs to her family and bears her father's name. When she is getting married, both families agree on what is traditionally acceptable, bride price et al and she bears her husband's name while the child, her father's name.

Being a single mother, is not a mental disorder.

Shameless.

Munzy14:
As in eeh

Recognizing and respecting personal space, is not part of our socialization.

mariahAngel:
So, can she also bring her siblings along, so that you all can live together?

Or better yet, why not just live with your siblings for the rest of your life, and save someone's daughter the discomfort.

No mind am, he is better off not getting married so that he can happily live under the same roof with his siblings, na the woman no
get family she started the journey together with.

Sweetoror:
Guys please I need advice. So my husband and I decided to live in one of my father inlaw house after we got married due to financial difficulties. My father inlaw later came to join us in the house after one month of marriage. Before he came I cook once a day everyday as my husband and I don't like old food. Now he is around he wants me to be cooking 3 times a day for him everyday and serving him. Mind you he doesn't eat cereals just native food and rice. My friend suggested I put food in fridge so I started doing that. Even at that its still very stressful for me. I'm no longer free to out for long because I must come right on ti.e to serve him food else he will get angry. If i am not around he rather starve than collect food from the pot even when food is in the pot. I'm starting work few days time, how will I cope? Please am I wrong for complaining? What's your advice

Doesn't he have a wife?

rainlover:

I'm equally confused..

She has to confirm that the child is biologically hers, through a DNA test.

UnusualEmissary:
Alaye, na both genders get problem

In his mind, if women can be the long suffering wife who can bear terminal sickness, beating, womanizing, then there will be less divorce.

Senior Advocate of Nonsense.

BBBmall25:
Gone are the days when mothers bear it all: in terminal sickness, beating, womanizing etc. Let me state it clear, my post does not support gender violence so please be guided! ... what I mean is that , today's mothers should try to encourage their gender endure in the face of difficulty so that the high rate of divorce will reduce and our society return to normal again; with fewer crime rate and prostitution. Women this one is for you na wuna be real foundation of any stable society, do it right and get it right!

Today's fathers and mothers should raise their sons and daughters to know that beatings, emotional abuse, infidelity etc is a no, no for a healthy marriage, they should be raised to be resilient in life but never enable nor tolerate abuse....."your spouse is not your therapist".