₦airaland Forum

Richy4:
Your Claws are drawing blood already..I suggest you slow down before you do major damage

Blood ké?

The answer he gets from his kinsmen would give him direction.

Loyalty for hire.

kansoboy:
In Nigeria..men own d children.....no debating about it...even if d woman should train d child, it is still men that own the child. Except if d child is a bastard. Woman can own d bastard

Men do not "own" the children, children bear the names of their fathers, men identified by their mothers as their fathers because a woman ultimately decides who the father is.

You can't go to any Nigerian court, to claim custody of a child on the basis that you "own" the child rather the court would make you pay for the upkeep of the child while under the physical care and custody of the mother

The father is the president, the son is the vice president.

Godfullsam:
Was he using the pictures to withdraw money from banks?

He may not even be aware of any pictures in his web site.

He is not aware? When the documentary on him was done, did he and his wife not watch it?

Tinubu's is not the regular gaffes but a clear evidence of cognitive decline related to age and declining health.....it can't be rationalized away and Tinubu's camp know very well, that he can not be seated a straight one hour to a live interview because the dysarthria will be very evident

Treadway:
lol. Yeah. Flowery words, but still nanny/care worker for short.

It is not being a Nanny, most residential children home have kids from the ages of 8 to 16, kids who have been taken away from the physical custody of their parents for reasons ranging from abuse, neglect or the child is dealing with some emotional issues the child's birth family can not cope with etc.

I have worked as a residential childcare support worker, where the children are between 12 and 15. In most of the residence, we had only one child in care and the staffing was the Responsible Individual, the manager, the team leader and 5 support workers and these people work to support only one child.

If for example you go in for the morning shift which starts at 8a.m, the night shift worker hands over to you by giving the paper works that reflects details of his/her shift from the previous night from 8p.m to 8a.m.

The role is to provide home setting for the young person, you don't bath them nor enter their room without their permission, some of the young person smoke and your job is to see they do the smoking outside of the home, be very vigilant to observe that the young person is not planning to go missing and when they do, protocol of who to call and dem plenty!....the police, the EDS, the social worker, the duty on-call person, the IRO etc and the paperwork to fill out is mind-boggling and must be accurate as possible because by UK law, those paperwork would be in the custody of the UK govt for 70 years.

zedegit:
Please I wish to know the advantages and disadvantages of marrying a single mother.

please your opinions are welcome.


Is the dowry cheaper?

From the community you come from, do your kinsmen accept lower bride price for your female relatives who are single mothers ?

faithfull18:
Isn't this being a Nanny for short?

No

Daniel058:
if the Man paid Lobola , then the child belong to the man and his family, that's Igbo tradition (assuming the late husband was from Igbo tribe)

The child belongs to both father and mother, now the said child's father is late, the woman has 100% right to the custody of their child and not the man's relatives.

The South African mother is getting custody of their son, irrespective of the late husband's tribe

semanose:
You never sabi some husband family people. Small sickness I had o, my husband went to his family for some assistance, them share my children like rice and beans.

Thank God for strong health and grace. I'm back and ready for them.

I do feel for children that have been "shared" because they lose security and stability. Thank God for tour recovery.

funshint:
I think Tinubu should change his doctors.

He has access to the best doctors money can afford, it is just that with the very visible cognitive decline, he can no longer operate at his previous level of functioning,

dyera:
This is why they said they will soon only allow those planning to attend a top UK university and turn back those planning to attend cheap UK universities that collect £100 per semester.

Which UK Uni collect £100 pet semester?

See face.

Nigerians should looks into UK skilled worker visa for roles such as residential childcare worker, where the sector is hugely understaffed. So many shifts available but few workers.

Vipro:
I am not!

Please, is the course restricted to only teaching?

Personally, I will encourage you to go for Psychology......graduate well and stand a chance for jobs outside Nigeria.

Vipro:
Please is business education a good course to study in Nigeria university?

If you are good in Maths, go for Mathematics Education.

Your Aunt has the right to the sole custody of her son not her late husband's relatives as their continued custody of him is illegal.

Which state in Nigeria, is your nephew in?

Your Aunt should get the South African High Commission in Nigeria involved likewise FIDA
(International Federation of Women Lawyers) South Africa as they will contact their Nigerian affiliate that has offices in almost all the states in Nigeria to look into it

The welfare of the child is paramount and by the way, is it only the boy or is there a sibling also?

Nice one.

Hope he delivers.

emmanuelbrown26:
Relative from d woman's side would come and d wife will entertain including their shortcomings but once it has to do with relative from d man's side, then issues start coming up.
ABEG Mr pastor or what, tell that to daughters of jezebeel to be more accommodating with carefulness and not men

Are we not all, the relative from the woman's side?

His last weekend as the Governor.

FireUpNow:
Didn't she had an affair with FFK?

Did she? Who told you and in which year?

More ahead,

FireUpNow:
Whatever.

Just watch what you say about other people based purely on what you read or heard, calling someone an adulterer is certainly not catching cruise, just as you would not want anyone to describe your mother with the adjectives you used on Bianca, whose sons maybe older than you.

Peace out.

FireUpNow:
just as your father, uncle's and all the m n in your family was among them

I guess your father told you he was one of them, thus your conviction she is a beautiful adulterous witch.

Sirheny007:
Reminds me of Chinua Achebe's book "Arrow of God" when he was describing how handsome Obika was.. "Among Olu and Igbo, it was not uncommon to find people of such color.."

In fact, in my mind's eye, the picture of Obika is a male version of Lady Bianca Ojukwu. Once in a while, one sees people like these among the Igbo people. My own mother looks like that too; a trait which manifested only in my junior brother.

I have this feeling there is an undocumented possibility that in some igbos' ancestry that there was a mix of Caucasian genes in the gene pool.

FireUpNow:
She is a very beautiful Igbo lady but she throws her yellow kpekus at men like a very crazy girl. When the Ikemba Nnewi was still alive and sick, Bianca was busy opening her legs to other men.Shameless beautiful adulterous witch

Was your father, one of the men?

In another thread you posted you are skilled in computer repairs and programming, 7 years on, you are still searching for a job.

In all those years, you didn't get anyone with faulty laptop to repair? What stopped you from embedding yourself with guys who do repairs?

Uptheante:
Sir, is it also true that she's Femi Fani Kayode's leftover?

Ask your mother.

Some would start living with married siblings right from the first day of the marriage, putting unnecessary pressure on the couples.