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PureFace1:
I am sure if Roosevelt was a Nigerian nobody would nominate him or vote him for anything.

He is paralyzed, sick, weak and bla bla would have been the main vocal point of opposition in order to demarket and campaign against him and they would eventually missed the chance to picked a capable man.


I am not really supporting Tinubu but if you want to campaign against him, talk less about the age and health status, policies and ideas should be the main vocal points.

Buhari's health status gave free reign to the insecurity and messed up economy Nigerians are now experiencing, spending months in foreign medical facilities gingered a lot of things Nigerians are now suffering from.

APC will claim it has spent trillions in the health sector for the past 7 years but its leaders do not have faith in that same health system and would prefer foreign medical trips.

YES, health status MUST be central in discussions heading towards the general elections, Nigerians can not afford to be hoodwinked a second time.

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ojotobiloba1:
Pls I beg you, Don't leave, tell your husband to take the child to his grand ma or any motherless baby homes for upkeep, Tough moments don't last forever, just tough people do. Not here to be preaching but wia do u wanna start from, marrying anoda husband or wat. Pls think very well bf u take a decision that might boomerang. Come in peace ✌️

The child is neither fatherless nor motherless as both parents are alive.

Sad.

Regex:
You got job in UK without cv, na lie. Tarh mechie onu

I wonder o, I recently got a job here in the UK and was told before hand that while coming in for the in-person interview, I should come with hard copies of my qualifications as stated in my CV and give them the official email addresses of my professional references outside the UK

Blessedmercy8:
So you support her to leave her marriage?

In all, she allowed herself to be deceived.

Anyways,.... Whatever rocks her boat.

A man who has a 7 year old special needs child who he nor his birth family have not been supporting, goes into marriage deliberately choosing not to inform the woman he wants to marry about his child so she can make informed decision and you consider that marriage not to be a scam?

My concern is that child whose biological father neglected, not playing his fatherly role nor his birth family being supportive of that girl who happens to be their blood.

Nice effort.

Good one.

meetme01:
I work in the Agency that over see these homes in Ogun State. We can take it from there.

Noted.

meetme01:
There are lots of rehabilitation homes with different specialisation.

Ok. I have interest in such places and would be partnering with such organizations soon.

meetme01:
I sincerely apologise on his behalf. It was hard for him and he needs peace of mind.

We have few homes in Oyo, Ogun & Lagos that can take the child but distance is an issue since you guys stay in Abuja. He needs to visit.

What do these homes offer in terms of other neurological disorders?

Blessedmercy8:
What's the deceit there?

Ok, agreed the man didn't tell her but did she at anytime ask the man if he had a child somewhere and the man denied it? No! So no case here.

Shes just wants to have her cake and eat it. Shes not willing to sacrifice or support her spouse. The man is also having a hard time and needs her support but no, she's only concerned about herself alone. she's just being self-centered.

There's nothing like deceit. She should learn to ask questions in her dealings with people next time. I guess she got carried away by what she was enjoying then and never bothered to do the needful.

Not disclosing to who you want to marry that you already have a child with someone else is not deceit?

Please do share your definition of deceit.

She is not self-centered but right to prioritize her wellbeing and that of their unborn child.

Read up on compassion fatigue.

You think taking care of child with cerebral palsy is a wave of the hand? Even though working with children and adolescents with such special needs is my specialization, I know how draining it is

Even here in the UK, many parents with children with cerebral palsy have 24hrs care for their children who live with them, where care givers are being paid £10-£12 per hour to look after the child, even at night husband and wife will be dozing off in their bedroom while the care giver is watching over their child despite the system supports such children with multidisciplinary team support, as they have access to occupational therapists, nutrionists, child therapists, neurologists etc

Blessedmercy8:
Leave all this excuses. He didn't tell you, he didn't tell you. Did you try to find out?

Oh.. now you're helping him look for a wife... but if the mother had told you then to leave her man for her, would you have agreed?

You don enter now, see wetin dey inside, you come dey run.

One thing you should know is, marriage is not all that fun. It's a parcel full of surprises and you just have to brace yourself for it as each day unfolds. Or what were you expecting?

Sit down there. You don enter, you don enter.

Nwata fu ihe o choga, ahu e doe ya.
Happy married life.

Even as over rigid as the Catholic Church is when it comes to dissolution of marriage, if OP was married in the Catholic Church and what she posted is what is the real situation of the marriage, the marriage tribunal of the Church would annull the marriage because "deceit was perpetrated in order to secure consent" (Canon 1098). A man or a woman intending to marry is obligated to come clean about such.

Superwave16320:
. But the truth of the Muslim Muslim ticket is not applicable to the Christian Christian ticket on Igboland ba. Does this not expose the hypocrisy of a particular deluded tribe in same Nigeria ?!

Since 1999, the switch has been South producing the President (Christian) and the North the Vice-president (Muslim) to North producing the President (Muslim) and the South, the Vice-president (Christian).

Now after 8 years of PMB, APC thinks there is nothing wrong in presenting Tinubu and the North feels Tinubu is not even Muslim enough, reason they can't even support a Christian of Northern origin as his Vice-president candidate thus Shettima.

In igboland the reality of Christian-Christian tickets in gubernatorial elections is the reality of Muslim-Muslim ticket in Sokoto, Kano, Jigawa etc.

Can Christians clamour for Governorship or Deputy Governor in a state like Zamfara? Of the tribes of Nigeria, it is only the Yorubas that have the mix of both religion as it is common to see a Yoruba family gathering with a mix of Christian and Muslim relatives but in Igboland that is overwhelming Christians, it is very uncommon to have relatives who are Muslims just as it is very uncommon in the core North that is predominantly Muslims to have that mix.

Nigeria is a diverse Country and with the present security reality, it will be irrational for anyone to expect Christians and adherents of other religious leanings to feel comfortable with same faith ticket. Maybe when Nigeria finally breaks up because daily happenings is not indicating nationhood but cracks, each region can be at liberty to choose what they want without having to explain to anybody.

Clean $300 Paypal funds (fnf) needed.

dreu2fine:
How many mosque has he visited
Nobody is complaining now that Peter Obi is busy visiting churches.

A mosque is not a tourist site and it is disrespectful to just show up without being invited.

Aqesimitta:
Ask yourself

Will those doing sit at home in the southeast, vote for peter obi?

Will those burning inec office in their state vote for peter obi?


Will those clamoring for BIAFRA vote for peter Obi

Tinubu and Atiku might be set of confused people but these Obidient guys need a new word added to the English Dictionary!

Don't be bothered about whether they will vote for Obi or not, let Obi worry about that while you focus on your life

The body language of PMB is more of, after my 8 years in office anything is free to happen.

Ikennablue:
Personally, I don’t really care about the religion of the leader. A good leader will put religion and tribalism aside in the course of his duties. I would have really considered Tinubu of 2007 that fought the federal government and helped Lagos to become what it is today even if he has an imam as his vice. Not the Aged Tinubu of today.

Muslim - Muslim ticket is not my problem, this whole thing about islamizing Nigeria is a hoax and practically impossible. I’m an Igbo, I have lived with Fulanis and Muslims and these are wonderful people and not what most of us purport them as.

Please let’s vote the right person this time, most Muslims in katsina are internally displaced at the moment even when they have their brother as the president.

How will Tinubu-Shettima help Christians?

Why didn't they raid the convention centres where dollars was being shared?

TheKrakon:
Yes.

Gotten who I want, thanks.

DestinyGlory:
I’m reading this story and I’m so nervous. My partner of 5 years demonstrates almost everything mentioned. On the bad side, he insults me when angry & he has hit me once because I took his phone (although this hasn’t happened again). He used to ask me to leave his house in the past after an argument. But he stopped doing that. He also doesn’t let me touch his phone. But on the good side, he’s very hardworking, kind, intelligent & has integrity. It would have been easier to walk away but we had done a secret court wedding in 2019 and our parents & friends don’t know about it. We dont live together or have any children. But if I leave I would have to get a divorce which is against my faith & I’m already 28. I’ve now walked away from him for 3 months now. He’s now saying he’s ready to do a proper marriage and involve our families (he had been procrastinating), has gone for anger management classes and says he will no longer hide his phone because he has seen that what he was doing was wrong & is a changed man. Im so scared to go back because there is no way of knowing if this is true, but I don’t have any better prospects being single either. And I’ll also be a divorcee.

There are so many waving red flags in what you shared.

Why did you both agree on doing a court wedding without the knowledge of both families?

Did your family not visit you and know you were living with him (after the secret wedding) ?

Is your faith not against such secret wedding?

Your "secret" husband is dangling "proper marriage" before you to entice you back to him.

Go back to your family and tell them the truth of what your life have been since 2019, prioritize your life before any other person or what people would say.

Being a divorcee or being single is not classified as a mental health disorder, there is no child between you two and that makes it easier to walk away and rediscover yourself while he does too.

I love my hourly pay, make I hear recruiter talk say na monthly pay.....I no do

Looking forward to receiving the payslip every Thursday is therapeutic.

kayperry:
i guess this is the part you ask for my acc details you wire my aza i say thank you

we share our goodbyes

Wire fire!

Mycashproof:
I make 0 naira per month because I'm 24 years old student in his final year.

She make 30k per month.

She want us to marry

How old is she?

Many Nigerian yahoo boys based in Kenya used flutterwave intensively to push funds on the steady. Using phantom e-commerce sites to be shifting funds around.

Tokotaya:
Women cannot bear the thought of another woman sleeping with their man. But rather than sort it out with their man, they take it out on their fellow women. Why desecrate the funeral of your hubby by fighting dirty on a day you should be mourning him?

Desecrate fire! Mourning fire!

Being part of the burial may be her way of getting some form of closure over her late husband's infidelity, may be to do waka to his coffin......na im side chick show up, hell let loose!

Mycashproof:
I studied Psychology in the university of Ibadan and in 2018, I complained that my mum refused to help me out. I'm currently 24 years old with no career.

https://www.nairaland.com/4457415/mum-wants-me-stop-psychology

Now, I'm pennyless and about to die because I'm currently in my final year and no assistance from anybody. My mum died last year of hypertension.

Now, I have no more hope to live because my life is now full of regrets.

You are at the final lap and need to stretch yourself to cross the finish line. If Psychology is your passion and not studying it because it was the available course to you during admissions then it will take you places.

Graduate well in Nigeria, get to work in a mental health facility then opportunities to work abroad would pop up.

I studied Psychology, finishing my postgraduate studies in clinical child psychology here in ARU Cambridge and the job opportunities for those with a degree in psychology is overflowing.

Some Nigerian students I know here in the UK who are doing their postgraduate courses in Finance, Management and even Engineering wished someone advised them before applying for studies to have chosen Msc Psychology (conversion).

encryptjay:
Hello Mindlog, fire him up please.

Touching.

TheKrakon:
Who has a transcription account for sale. Mention me. Thanks.

Do you transcribe?