₦airaland Forum

The architecture of the buildings in most Nigerian universities is not inspiring, just bland!

GloriousGbola:
Correct, but unfortunately it is actually the law, for some reason.

Law?

Olat4421:
How did dey know she is a Christian mother

Her clothing.

Based on your story, you need to establish the paternity of the child, so prepare for DNA test.

Another epistle on Peter Obi.

iampeterben:
Wahala 2.0
Election wey the world just praise and hail finish ni four out of seven say is inconsequential. Oga Jonathan tell us wetin you observe.

Some of their commissioners back in their 2017 elections distanced themselves from the results and their supreme court eventually nullified it and ordered a re-run

Their supreme court is likely going to nullify the results as it did in 2017, glad I am not in Nairobi right now.

Presidential1:
All this single and bitter ladies are giving you advise.. lol sorry for you ... You will regret your decision... Had I know will be the end.. if you live don't go and mend things with your husband.. you think training a child alone is easy lol

When a man decides to end a marriage he regards as burdensome, your likes will hail him as "the real man" but when a woman, decides to try out separation, you begin to chant the litany of "sorry for you" "you will regret your decision" "Had I know will be the end".....first class rubbish.

The truth you vehemently deny, is that a woman whose husband is a pathological gambler or an alcoholic is more like a window even worse because the husband is physically alive but "dead" in the real sense.

She never posted her husband is not going to be part of their child's life.

By the way, a man who is a pathological gambler is never a prize, women who desire stable homes look forward to settling down with because it is recognized as a mental disorder.

Go read up and watch videos on the brain of a gambler.

It is so wrong to expect present tennants to clear the debts of former tennants.

Greatdand007:
That’s wrong you still need your husband around no matter what � my dear go back to your husband

And what have you got to say about her husband's gambling disorder?

Personally, I go for Akpu but always have garri available for drinking.

GRIMMJOE:
As if you a man knows what women go through child birth.

What if she lose the child, she's just going to blame her husband for it, even though in reality it has nothing to do with him.

What if she lose her life, it's still the same man that will raise the child.

This is not the time for irrational decision.

There is nothing irrational about her decision, when I worked in the rehab center of a psychiatric hospital, there were times we told wives of our patients not to come, up to a month to visit their husbands and that has always helped to increase adherence to treatment plan.

What if, what if.....her life and that of their baby's are not tied to the man's physical presence.

GRIMMJOE:
Instead of you to be ashamed of leaving your marital home, your still here talking.

Shame on all of you encouraging a divorce, just know that when it happens you'll be the only one to suffer the consequence.

No man will want to marry a single mother.

Why should she feel shame? I am glad she is above your guilt-tripping .

Being a single mother has never been classified as a mental disorder neither did the OP post, saying she "looking" for a husband.

What is the consequence of giving an addict the needed space to sort himself out regarding his gambling addiction?

RightToReject:
Lol, trouble maker, you are laughing today. Well, it will not stop me from sending you an e-slap if you misyarn the next moment, just as I will try to make another arrangement when in town for you to come to my aristocratic enclave so that I can better your life. You must leave Jaywick as far as I am concerned, whether you like it or not.

Stay safe and blessed just for this moment.

You no well, your delusions still remains post-doctoral but no hard feelings!

Who be trouble maker when you are the one insisting I reside where I don't.....I live within CB1, Cambridge.

RightToReject:
The fact that he doesn't like moi-moi (or the one she prepares) but the majority do is enough reason for him to accept her decision to continue preparing it as a meal for the family in good faith. Life doesn't revolve around him; that is what it means to be thoughtful as a man. Where there was no existing/hidden animosity between him and his wife, and assuming that they have always been mutually sacrificial toward each other, the wife could cheerfully and seamlessly find a way of making an alternative meal available for him; just as he could always personally find a way to fix his own meal in such an instance too, when the wife is sincerely unopportune to do so, unless he's destitute that is incapacitated and can't afford to fix his own meal directly or indirectly.

There's hidden animosity between them; this issue of a meal is just an afterthought. And she and her husband alone know the cause of the rift in their union.

The majority of couples are nothing more than frenemies living together.

Well written.

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While their brothers who are terrorists, bandits and kidnappers are busy killing them.

GRIMMJOE:
He's the least of your worries, yet you created an entire thread for him.

Child birth is not something a woman should go through alone, especially when the father is alive.

What type of person are you teaching your child to become? The type that runs away, when the going gets too tough?

This isn't a bold step, this is cowardice.

Cowardice is when your presence continues to enable an addict and you still remain.

Many married women have been going through childbirth alone despite the fact their husbands are very much alive and care less, how many of such husbands have been cautioned?

A gambler is a psychiatric case, she needs the peace of mind to birth their child and not clean after a man bent on ruining his young family.

Ladymaceral:
So, I took a bold step. Got myself a beautiful appartment in a seren environment.
I don't have everything furnished in my new apartment yet, i don't even have enough money in my account, but I'm so excited I took this step.

After all, I was the only one taking care of everything including all the bills from the beginning of this pregnancy while all his income was specifically for sport betting.

I'm so happy here and I know I'm going to be very fine.

My hubby has been coming around and pleading, but just as I have decided, we will talk about all our problems after I have put to birth.
For now, I don't have strength to cry, complain and have sleepless night over a perpetual gambler. Who has refused to change.
My life and that of my baby is more important to me right now.

I'm more concern on how to get my basic necessities and preparations for all the pain that comes with Labour and giving birth.
He's the very least of my worries now.

I'm so proud of myself

I am also proud of you.

tunjiajayi:
Get this.
Someone has a medical appointment in Miami, she has 4 kids and a nanny, she has a 7 month old baby which the nanny would take care of especially, the other kids need to be engaged while their mum does her medicals, so we need a young woman that's is conversant with everyday life in the us.
Ten days.
If you match it's fully paid like I said.

If the father of the kids is in the picture, he travels with the family while there is pre-arrangement with an agency in Miami to provide a Nanny upon arrival.

Tabletuner:
She and her family needs money to pay bills not examination questions. Thank you!

Have you already sent to them?

Deeleader:
At this stage am depressed, my name is Glory I school in auchi poly I am in HND1 I am the first born in a family of 6 (2boys and 4girls) I lost my dad in 2012 while in js3 my mom as been taking Care of us with the little she makes, luckily she met a man that took stress from her, he paid my fees from SS1 through and that of my immediate younger sister from JS2 to 300lvl in AAU in fact he's the one taking of everything even my aged grandma since my mom is her only child.
Unfortunately we lost him last year Oct and life is been hell for me, the guy that lend me my money to pay school fees as been disturbing me and I am squatting with a lady. The only thing in my mind is suicide

When your late benefactor was still alive and was paying your fees, what skill(s) did you learn?

FatimaAbubakar:
SHUT UP!!!

I hear that frequently in the Psychiatric ward I work in, so I am not taking it personal.

tradepunter:
STFU.... THESE KIDS HAVE MORE SENE THAN YOU

I DID GIVE A FK ABOUT NIGERIA ELECTIONS BUT SEEING DEMONS SUPPORT AND GOING FOR ANOTHER ROUND OF APC SHOWS THAT THE DEMONS ARE HERE TO DESTROY THIS LAND.... IN WHICH YOU GUYS WILL NEVER SUCCEED

Eyah, have you finished venting?

Bad parenting, after destroying the billboard na bullying of other children remain.

DiligentM:
Your posts are always insightful and straight to the point. Kudos!

Winks.

Though back then during my undergrad days, our E-therapy lecturer did tell us that E-therapy is the future of counselling, when more people will be more comfortable with being anonymous when sharing what weighs them instead of the traditional face-to-face therapy sessions.....we were like "wetin this Doctor dey talk" but Covid brought it to the fore!

CakesToolsOvens:
I am into baking mostly. They like drawing though.

Then get them drawing books, pencils and crayons while you spice it up with baking classes appropriate for their ages, e no pass wetin some kids here in the UK are doing during this summer holiday......fun time all the way and they are learning at the same time with going academic.

Godoverevery:
Angry and bitter.....I haven't even started.

You people think you have monopoly of madness........shebi we are the dirty,poor,betrayal tribe.

You will see the full anger and bitterness when campaign start.

For folks using madness as yardstick, I hope there are Neuropsychiatric hospitals nearby.

Godoverevery:
when is Peter obi Church tours hitting white garment churches??
are they not Christians??
He doesn't need there million vote

He should visit CAC also.

Dumb politician who become a born again Christian all of a sudden....desperate liar

He can only fool himself and his tribe.

Ps-PO attacking bulldogs feel free to bark and vomit all over here.

Tinubu is your next president.....if you don't like it feel free to hang yourself.

Since you attend a "white garment church", get your leadership to invite him.

slimjohn2k5:
Some of us have gone through a lot. Sometimes feeling betrayed after confiding in someone.
Also, it is depressing you. If you have gone through this, how did you cope with it.

I am feeling betrayed, used, depressed and cannot spill details right now. What do I do? I have gone through a long list of those I know and no one to discuss it with. If you are a counsellor I dont want you to know me but I want to talk to someone that do not knw me and I dont know if I will feel better.

Please do not call me just to hear my story but because you want to help. Please is not a financial issue.

For wanting to be anonymous, E-therapy is your best bet where you get to have your sessions via emails, text chats and calls while still remaining anonymous and there are apps that offers that, search and sign up with those that offers free trial sessions without having to input your card details.

Aufbauh:
I'm specifically referring to you guys usual 'whataboutism' concept. Always quick to point out the consequence of others choices while yours is no different.

Referring to Obi's issue is on his personal quest & not about some group of people.

Your last paragraph is coded & remain to yourself.

Whataboutism? Nah!

Don't address me as "you guys" , say "I'm specifically referring to you, mindlog's usual 'whataboutism' concept".

You brought Endsars and Northern youth into the discussion, not me!

The last paragraph is simple English, I believe you clearly understand...... majority of your posts has a common focus, which is?

Off to work, do have a nice day

Aufbauh:
Incidentally every part of the country is facing one security challenges or the other.

Like one of the great minds stated, that "the capacity to suffer varies in human more than any thing else". This implies that what you may not forbear another person can take it even with joy. So stop emphasizing or imposing your concern on others.

I can tell you for free that Nigeria will still remain a country in the next 20yrs, even though the balkanization of the country is more a feasible option for the Zombidients.

The Almighty America predicted the separation of Nigeria after 2015 but, today you and I are still talking about Nigeria as a nation.

Imposing my concern on others?

Your initial post I quoted was about your "concern" over Obi's journey not going to be viable!

Code all your posts here in the politics section, what are they majorly all about?