₦airaland Forum

When I did travel through the waterways, I had my own lifejacket, still baffles me how people feel relaxed without it.

FahBuLous:
Keep crying, I have said what I said and there is nothing you can do about it kid...

Okay, Mzee.

FahBuLous:
Keep crying, I have said what I said and there is nothing you can do about it kid...

Okay, Mzee.

EmekaBlue:
See for yourself and Go verify.

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FahBuLous:
She's a bitch that's all I know...

The young man is wise

Hope you are not already low on your medication.

Someone not of your religion mixed up the greetings and his petty mind zeroed on it. If a non-Christian wishes me a Merry Easter, should it be an issue?

Got this from my bank this morning, it is a non-issue for me.

Imagining the trauma she is going through.

naija4life247:
So, you are saying that one is worse than the other, but both are bad and good for nothing.

Psychology is goldmine if you know how to dig.

mastermaestro:
Don’t sound stupid, oga. Just say unregistered ones instead of mushroom. It’s condescending to use such a degrading term in reference to a sacred assembly, irrespective of your faith or non-faith.

Unregistered? Sacred assembly is relative.

cococandy:
Only insensitive self righteous jerks like Reno will not see a problem with him. He’s always been loud and wrong.

With confidence!

The security man did well by hiding, Nigeria is not worth dying for and his family forgotten by the system.

Poor flood management.

UptownVibes:
It shows you don't love him genuinely.. Return the ring,since court marriage is your problem.. He won't die .. The said guy is very wise.. He understands the nature of women,that they can never be trusted. Greet the wise guy for me... Because you have been dating him for 100 years,so he should fall into a pit If it was the other way round, will you agree to court marriage? Ladies selfishness never knowns no bound.. Damn!

If they get married only traditionally with no legally recognized document backing it, what will they fill as marital status when applying for the visa.

The man has the option of going to the foreign country as a bachelor and marry a local there, so even if the marriage ends and the court favours the woman and the children (if any) based on his assets there, at least he will be comforted by the thought that he was not betrayed by a woman he brought from Nigeria.

naija4life247:
Yes, if you have First Class in senseless courses e.g. Philosophy, Sociology, Anthropology, Geography, e.t.c.

If you study any of the courses I listed above, and you are angry that I mentioned your useless course, and you cannot just ignore and lick your wounds in silence. If you quote me and throw abuses and curses, I will give you Fire for Fire. I am available and ready.

Rather than study sociology, it is better to opt for Psychology.

Things fall apart.

kingthreat:
Yes the rumour leaked years ago. He neither admitted nor denied it. Any man, pastor, sheilkh, sultan, prophet, has a right to be a polygamist.
Better a polygamist than an adulterer. I have lived long in this world not to judge any human on their sexual life. As long as it is not homosexuality, which I naturally and religiously abhor.

You know very well being a polygamist does not stop one from being an adulterer as there are men with many wives who still have side chicks purely for their sexual pleasure with no intention of marrying them.

When it comes to human sexuality, it is not binary as in heterosexuality or homosexuality because it is a spectrum.

kingthreat:
There is totally nothing wrong in being a polygamist.

Did you read or hear about Reno getting married to a second wife?

Nothing wrong when you are within a spare that allows it but for claiming to be a Pastor and at the same time an adulterer while pointing fingers at others is plain stup.idity and hypocrisy.

tinsel:
This is stupid coming from this man. He is becoming a mad nuisance. Whether born in wedlock or outside wedlock, it is his baby and blood. This is his private life.

When Reno was mentioning Tonto and Nkechi Blessing, didn't he remember it was their private lives or his jabs at single mothers.

He prides himself to be a table shaker, well other table shakers have come out to play. No one has the monopoly of being insensitive.

Moneyyman:
I think church certificates are just as valid as court certificates. I may be wrong tho

Not all Churches, especially those mushroom ones.

Fiscus105:
.....yet u still labelled it fake story? Did you know different between fake forced wedding?


.........if the family forced the guy to do wedding and which he latter complied, which means it's woman they want him to marry that he was forced to do wedding with, how come they refused to show up when their son doing their bidding?


Further confirmed ur fake story just to make front page

I am not the creator of this thread.

Kelechi009:
You think if people think this way, they wouldn't be in the position they are. That was why I asked if your career path had prospects the last time, because I was tired of people not being able to tie their passion to income generating careers.

Mine was income generating before I arrived the UK, even from my third year as an undergraduate working in a therapy practice. I remember our H.O.D back then telling us in our first year that if by our third year we are not already earning income from what we have been taught, we are just wasting our time!

I know that Ojota chemical market very well because it was my hood, guys who mix chemicals there are cashing out. There is a lady who trended recently (not naming her), she is a 2.1 graduate of chemistry from Unilag and she is into bespoke body cream, many celebs are her clients and she is earning very well.

Moneyyman:
Hi, Merxi.

From your statement that "he said nobody knows tomorrow", I think his decision is not unrelated to family law that most abroad countries have.

He might be troubled about the prospect of losing everything in the event of a divorce.

And I guess your insistence may push him farther down that line, making him think you're trying to get an insurance for yourself if things go south.

What can you do?

I honestly don't know, but I'll suggest:

1. Sit him down and ask him directly what his fears are. Is he scared that in the event of a divorce, the court will stand on your court wedding contract and he may lose nearly everything to you?

Is he wary of you "getting insurance" while he is, literally, left out to dry?

2. Stop insisting on the court wedding. If you have been doing that, you should have noticed that it alienates him further. Just stop insisting or "trying to bring him around". He's going to interpret it as you trying to rope him in. No man likes that.

3. I think you guys can go for a prenuptial agreement. I don't know if Nigeria honors it, but many foreign countries do honor it. In the prenuptial agreement, you both state what and how you want your assets divided in the event of a divorce.

I don't have much info about that, but you should talk with lawyer (your friend, family, or colleague is fine).

Like I said, I don't know much, but I'm thinking along those lines. You guys have to sort it out.

Try not to sound desperate about the court wedding. Be firm about it, but be willing to take certain compromise so that you don't look desperate and looking for a way out.

As they plan on traveling out of the country next year after getting married, what document(s) will they provide at the embassy as their marriage certificate?

Macphenson:
Yes it is, I have a first class currently working on my site as a Labourer. The day the person that brought him to my site told me about him, I started shedding tears.
Right now am even looking for job for him because its becoming increasingly difficult for me to behold a first class working as a Labourer on my site.
He studied chemistry.

He also has to be creative and not just be looking for jobs. You see that Ojota chemical market in Lagos, he can comfortably earn his livelihood there if he is determined.

kingthreat:
He tried to cover up the murder of his wife. He was not the chief instigator. If he is repentant, why not? Let the lovers love.

Okay oooo.

setobaba:
Using blender to blend is a turn off for me

What do you use?

I can't imagine washing beans for moi-moi or akara now, rather use bean flour

kingthreat:
Good one. Fortune 14 years and Steve 2 years. Steve should be released soon and get married to another woman. As for the wicked sadistic madam, she go turn chairwoman for jail.

If after his release, he comes for your sister's or cousin's hand in marriage....will your family agree?

"It was later we got to know that the husband was forced to do the wedding, none of his family members came to the wedding"....I doubt that marriage lasting long

Gunners89:
Sir,, im not seeking help from a moslem brethen alone,, im just worried how i wont be able to celebrate salah without food

Your being alive is the most important thing. You can always dress up and go visit moslems friends and celebrate with them as I believe they wouldn't turn their backs on you

Tailor whey no do freedom.

What has overwhelming majority of Nigerians benefitted from APC?

Yeye dey smell.

Shuddering thinking about the havoc these escapees are going to unleash.