₦airaland Forum

OP, your sister is already married going by the court wedding and marriage certificate issued.

There were red flags flying very high in the relationship but your sister was obsessed with getting married despite the fact the husband did not hide who he is before they got married.

Since there is no child between them yet, it is easier to make decisions that would be best for both of them. The husband may find someone else who he considers a better woman, a woman who would not nag him over infidelity, a woman who would accept his right to poor anger management, a woman who will be okay with not even seeking the professional help of a marriage therapist when the marriage is in crisis and beyond the resolution of the couple.....but if she can be that woman let her continue with the relationship.

ireneidiva:
Am I the only one that read that they already had a court wedding? Doesn't it mean she is married?

A court wedding means she is legally married before the law but she still feels not because they are yet to do the traditional and Church, which is erroneous.

Ishilove:
Guy, if you are so interested in her love life then shoot your shot.

Probably testing the waters before putting his two legs in.

foreman:
I think we have passed that stage dear. Just preparing for the aftermath. I really need people who have passed through the experience.

If you can, seek the professional help of a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) to help you process your emotions so that you can better adjust, post-divorce.

northvietnam:
Ok

If you are in Lagos, go to the NACHO Export Cargo Shed Muritala Mohamed International Airport, Ikeja and inquire if they cargo to Japan. What you listed there including the Okpa flour waa cargoed to a friend in Nairobi last week, so go check it out.

emmyN:
That reporting stuff never suits me. I'm mostly temperate with kids because I know they don't know better. But aunty, if your pikin carry do pass e sef, I go beat am walahi talahi .

It will suit you if hopefully you get freed from possible consequences of beating up a child especially not yours.

Beautiful.

northvietnam:
Help my nairaland people , my cousin in abraod Said I should send him Bambara but powder and some naija scent leaves with other native naija sturve for cooking African delicacies ..

Gathered all of them but don't know how to send them across

Can any one direct me to any Delivery agency that I can do that

You did not even specify the Country your cousin is in.

Boardroom war.

Having someone who have no innate passion for medicine in medical school is not to the best interest of all.

Right thing to do.

Chieftancy and land tussles are deadly

True but majorly attributed to ama ndi ana eze and umunna ndi ojoo.

Igbo traditional weddings are now comfortably being held in Lagos. One held earlier in the year in Lagos, the groom insisted he ain't taking no palm wine he is a born again and his Church detest such fetish ritual and after much argument, his bride finally presented him orange juice!

AbuAeesha:
baba nothing like paid agents.
the sultan came out and let people know that certain clerics bailed Muhammad Yusuf (founder of boko haram).
this story we already knew it long before now and one of the person that leaked the information is a vibrant Islamic scholar in zaria who was later killed by gunmen some years back and boko haram claimed to be responsible for his killing.
what are you talking about!!!
baba keep sentiment away there is high level of hypocrisy going on inside the CAN villa wch alot of followers don't know.
this is fact man do your research and stop spreading propaganda

Can you name the clerics that bailed Muhammad Yusuf?

Checked the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) the registrar of such groups in Nigeria and the Forum of bishops and clergy council society of Nigeria does not exist in their system. Which Country were they registered in as a legal entity?

Hian!

Bluntguy:
Plenty people just dey ask na which baba do the jazz...... O kwa chi n'enye.

Humblesmith.

OcholaKings:
Ok, can we talk better maybe on whatsapp

Send me a DM

Studied Counselling Psychology,, if am to go back to school I will still go for Counselling Psychology, it is littered with massive career opportunities if you are keen to seek them.

Uzo di mma, ga wa o!

Kingcalls:
Are u foolish or what...we are talking about attempted murder and u are here talking about infidelity...u sure say u well so??

Did it not start out with infidelity or is the lady a random person who just broke into his house and twice attempted to kill him?

Very delusional!

powerbanks:
Vagina people are very deadly, it takes tact and courage to deal with them.

Don't trust anything that bleeds for 5 days straight without dying.

Use your head at all time, a word is enough.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

That bleeding for 5 days straight without dying is what made it possible for you to be conceived and what will make you a father/uncle if you are not one already.

Stop condescending because menstrual flow is nothing demeaning, procreation which ensures continuity is tied to it..........be knowledgeable.

So typical, you saw nothing wrong in the man's infidelity, the embarrassment he has brought upon his wife and children nor his obsession with a mentally disordered woman who repeatedly go back to her alleged rapist and probably pyromaniac as she had two months ago set his AC ablaze from outside and locked him inside to suffocate him to death, it seems the man has a death wish.

The woman should be arrested and made to undergo psychiatric evaluation before prosecution.

Buhari's sycophants would say it was videoshoped.

DaddyRochie1642:
Anyone that believes those guns are loaded, that person needs to be Fed some good quality food so he can receive sense.

E no serious reach dat nau, dem dey form James Bond and Angelina Jolie and wanted to go viral thus pulling that stunt.

Thought PMB and his legiom of sycophants are still living in denial, wanting Nigerians to believe that Nigeria is safe.

Hmm....the family court should be involved and all parties concerned present their case.

Bawal:
Kindly note that it's not every post you see that it is happening to the OP( one posting it) depending on what you do may be a counselor or seminar etc provided it is real and not fictious. Do don't get misinformed provided Nairaland is a faceless platform.

Are you a counsellor?

Atiku is packaging himself as the "lesser evil".

lekki1444:
i guess his own university is not good enough

His brother's university. If he was graduating from the brother's university, you know the bad press it will generate, how his brother dashed him the degree.