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7 years to get admitted into Unilag to study business administration, u get mind o!

The husband is very much aware his friend is sexually active with his wife and have no issues with that. When it comes to human sexuality, there are so much oddities and there are things you don't want to know as there are stuffs that would make your head spin but to another, so normalized.

Bait...

i don't know wherher to laugh or be angry

JeffreyJunior:
I meant he should've made sure that the girl was an adult and got her on record stating that her age was at least 18 because from what he is saying here, he didn't ask or know her age.

Now the girl is saying she told him she was only 15, how can we establish that?

There is not Nigeria where dem say rules, go read the chat again and see where the age 15 was established but despite knowing that, he continued!

JeffreyJunior:
He is truly finished.

He failed the 12th commandment by not asking the girl's age and recording her saying it.

The general rule abroad is shield your preek guys because it can easily get you into trouble.

If one has "sex offender" attached to his record abroad let alone that of a minor, the best thing for him is to go back to Nigeria because he is done for.

Didn't you read the chat where the age 15 was stated and if he had an audio/video recording. of her saying she is 15, how would it help his case in court?

If he had children with Buhari's daughter during their marriage...he continues to remain the father of Buhari's grandchildren despite the fact the marriage has ended.

The Nigerian Presidency is a psychiatric case.

helinues:
Israel can't fight 3-4 countries at a time. Saudi Arabia would have loved to help Palestinians but because of Iran, they would stay put, they would have also loved to help Israel but because the majority of the Palestinians are muslim which is Christian Vs Muslim fight, they might overlook.

Russia would prefer to sell weapons to all party than getting involved in the mess.

UK, US have stopped going into senseless war... China don't even like to get involved in this kind of mess..

Majority of the Palestinians are illiterates which can scatter things without considering the consequences

Why haven't Palestinians used their illiteracy which you have projected to be a strength, to "scatter" Israel once and for all, what are they waiting for?

It is not about right or wrong but if the wellbeing of a woman in such state is at risk, it is then wise to have her and the unborn child leave that toxic environment while issues are being resolved by the couple.

What truly happened between you and your wife would determine whether it is right or wrong?

He deserves the consequences such irresponsibility begets, he thought he was stlll in Nigeria where he would have gotten away with it and the girl, victim- shamed. He handcuffed himself by continuing the "toasting" after she declared she is 15 and he comfortably asked her if she wouldn't mind the age difference.

When he losses the job, he would externalize the blame...starting with the devil.

usmanbaba:
My brothers from the yeast would have insulted this woman if she's from the north for having many children and tagged her 'illiterate'.Hmmmm, reverse is d case here.

This is a woman born in 1925 and gave birth to12 children and got them educated, which woman in this present day Nigeria should be birthing such number of children?

She is truly blessed.

She really aged gracefully.... she is truly blessed.

He is a waving red flag.

Jeablue:
both you see not a single item even flask I never buy for the baby

So both of you did not have savings enough to buy even a flask?

Wishing your baby a healthy entry into the world.

sophiebby:
Hi everyone ,please who is attending Anglia Ruskin here ...??I need some information ..thanks

I wil be attending ARU (Cambridge).

Right move. He needs that retreat, probably in a Monastery to reassess his Priestly vocation.

Richy4:

Not juju my brother, maybe his pick up line was out of this world.. Journalists really need to interview him to know what he was telling this ladies... because I'm confused too

No pick up line needed as polygamy is ingrained in the sect, their women are not allow to marry outside the sect and their single ladies who were found not to be virgins are punished by forcing them to marry old men within the sect who already have many wives.... so no pick up lines needed.

Sad.

Depends on individuals, even some Churches exclude it in their weddings.

Hmm...they both know what the real issues are.

Ousmann:
Most of us are already dealing with mentally challenged ones

True, we just have to learn skills to better manage them e.g being conscious of their triggers.

You are yet to fully process the loss of your wife nor your children, of their mother and the woman and her kids served as a distraction from the loss.

Right now, you and your children do not need the other family in your lives. Be assertive and severe that relationship immediately. Her coming into your home to instantly impose change in your family life is a huge red flag, who is she to decide on how you and your children should remember your late wife and their mother.

Keep off from intimate relationships, let it be exclusively you and your children for now as you all are not yet psychologically ready to have another woman come in as a wife and a mother as you are all vulnerable.

If ever in the future you will opt for a blended family (where the woman is coming into the marriage with her own children) make sure the woman is still not legally entangled with the man she informs you to be her ex-husband. It will be advisable that you both seek out a PROFESSIONAL family therapist that would help you gain insights into the intricacies of the blended family setups because it is a LANDMINE and it needs skills to navigate it.

Common among such religious sects, members of the "church" have hair on their heads shaved because they believe evil spirits do reside there.

kudinkarfe:
In this generation that men are scarce like diamond. How many girls get one to marry not to talk of two. Ask every 21yrs and above her first prayer point she will tell you husband.

Men are not scarce but those who meet the societal "cut-off mark" is what is scarce,

TMKsouth:
Levirate marriage - happens in some cultures in SA customary law where a man takes over his late brother's household.

For Tibetans in Nepal, the brothers are married to one woman at the same time.

Coronabirus:
This is commonly practice in India.

Yeah,even among Tibetans in Nepal where brothers marry one woman.

DONFASZY:
Its funny though to see a woman marryin 2 men

Jus imagine marriage n sex with two men everytime

Unbelievable though men marry many wives

Funny

What about fraternal polyandry where brothers would marry one woman?

Eyah.