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Lostchild:
No human on earth will like to have the kind of dad that gave birth to me.

My teenage years are very horrible

I am getting the picture, it seems you didn't get to experience what is known as secure attachment from both parents while growing up and probably your mum over the years have not had healthy relationship with your dad and the anger that it has generated is being redirected to her male children as she perceives her sons as reflections of her husband.

Lostchild:
You are very right

About my mom she never take care of me in my tender age. She focused on her girls only..

It is not about money, it about the equal love she should have shown to all her children when they are young teens

What is your relationship with your dad like?

Tobexin:
congratulations! I had my interview with them last year and I got admission for the MSc mental health nursing since January. Currently planning on how to go about my APEL! He no easy! Rounding off my MSc psychology next month here in Uk.....

Almost achieving the Graduate Basis for Chartered Membership with your MSc psychology, nice one.

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] I would rather my children grow to be africans who see africa in me. And not some homosexual driven Western idealogy that will end up sending them to hell

The "African idealogy" will not increase anyone's chances of making heaven!

Destiny20five:
I had my Interview today with Oxford brookes University for Msc Mental Health Nursing. It went very well, felt more like a discussion and it made me really glad to have chosen the school.

It started out as a group interview (5 students and one Interviewer). We watched a video and was told to discuss the issues raised in it. After which we proceeded to a personal interview that lasted less than 5mins.

Hoping to hear back from them soon

You have chosen a good course, passion will ease you into it.

3greatnations:
Hi promisechild please which university did you attend in Uk for msc psychology and also was it msc psychology conversion ?

Is your undergraduate in psychology?

Authority1o1:
Okay...



If you're grown enough, you'd know the man is not happy doing this. My sixth sense, which never lies to me anyway, tells me that the wife of the dude was the one who called for the divorce. But the man, naturally egoistical will rather want to pepper the lady, and show that he actually doesn't give a damn.

I passed through this pathetic stage, when I would make posts of how happy I am after a breakup, and take pictures with friends and chill with flirts, just to show her that I'm not pained and to equate or counter her own notion of happiness. But deep down, I would feel scourged.

What a stage.

As a young adult spiralling into manhood, I have come to see it's bullshit. I might not come begging, but I wouldn't do such childish thing as what this man has done either.

Ignoring the person proves to give me more peace.

Perfectly captured.

Nice read.

Nice one, I love volunteering in such set up

How can the man get to make the children love their half-siblings?

Mine was achi soup, the lumps no get part 2!

The society is not safe when there is an escape from prison or a psychiatric hospital.

A huge scam, configured to massively benefit few.

Networking is not optional if you want to expand in life, it is a MUST.

Draslo:
Give them a bundle of cash to play with. Trust me, no matter the region on this planet, it works like magic.

Very dangerous as they are at their oral stage of development, every thing goes to their mouth because that is where their sensation lies as they derive pleasure from their mouths.

So imagine your baby licking the notes and swallowing the viruses and bacteria on them.

Addicts don't deserve credit considerations and working in such environment is not for one's mental well-being.

Malawian:
OP, i don't even understand you. Your wife can leave you, weather you were upright or not, Your Children are your Children, no matter what. Bring your child home, your wife can pack out if she wants, but she will leave your other children behind.

You think it is by gra gra? They are living in Senegal and the woman (probably Senegalese) who had the child for him, left the child with him and disappeared, that alone involves the Senegalese Police and their child protection department and you think it is a government case that will be resolved within 24hrs, reason you are here saying the wife can pack out if she wants to.

CanadaOrBust:
If he were alive they wouldn’t have turned out so well - irony of life!

A possibility.

He sought his death.

Orld777:
OK thanks once again.

You are welcome.

Orld777:
Unfortunately I don't have any of it. On the day she drop off the child she gave me a number which was wrong. Have been calling the number with no avail. I believe she is somewhere heren in Dakar. she has been stalking me for a long time now that's why she had my office address because there is no way that she came to Dakar just to drop off the child. Can I still report to the police without any evidence?

What of the phone number(s) you used to communicate with her when the affair was going on, the number she blocked you from?

The child in your custody is enough evidence for the police. Be the first to visit the police and make sure your wife knows what is happening, before the police visits you.

Please change the illegitimate child on your title to my child out of wedlock.

Orld777:
Thanks for your suggestion. It will be very tricky for me to do all that because I don't have much details about the mother and I don't even know the child surname or date of birth but I will try to do some research.

You must immediately go report to the police, provide them with the pictures of the woman, if you still have access to them and the phone number(s) she was using to communicate with you when you both were intimate partners because it is way beyond going to beg your wife in order to bring the child home....it is a police case.

Triple blessings.

BePrepared:
Oga I believe you 100%, leave all these psychologist and their analysis, someone may be going through difficult but for a young girl with life ahead thinking of suicide this is more than psychology o. This is 100% spiritual

Suicidal ideation and eventually commiting it, is not limited to a specific age bracket. Children commit suicide, Adolescents commit suicide, Young adults commit suicide, those in their middle age do and up to those who are very old.

They still lived comfortably after his demise, the wife really tried in raising 8 children.

Coronavirus84:
Please can you come to ikorodu police station to explain all this above to us?

Whey liver? It ends here on Nairaland!

OP, you have a very long journey ahead of you....
since you said you are in Senegal, I am assuming your daughter's mother is Senegalese, which also makes your daughter a Senegalese alongside a Nigerian. I believe the child's birth was registered, so you need to search out the woman and where the birth was registered as you have in custody a child that you can be accused of kidnapping even if your DNA matches.

They have mastered evacuation of humans now experimenting how to evacuate sick animals....we are so far behind!

chatinent:
What happened?


Some women push men to the wall.

I'm not justifying it, but what happened!

If same man was pushed to the wall by Nigerian policemen or just cadets in the Nigerian Army, how will he respond to the provocation?

poseidon12:
25 years old, a Phd holder and lecturer. I guess OP has beaten Lie Mohammed at his game.

That is what OP wrote in another of his thread where he described his stepmother as a witch.

Nice one.