₦airaland Forum

Before God, his father's curses are the utterances of a fool.

The father is set in his ways and the children can't change him and their mother has aligned her life to that abuse. The children can come together and arrange for their mother to change scenery. If they can afford it, get one of the children fly with their mother to somewhere nearby like Accra, Ghana and spend a week of vacation there.

On return back to Nigeria, she would be so open to separating from their abusive father and live in a place, her children will set up for her. If she moves out be very sure that their father would go after her because she is his "drug of choice" that he needs to get entangled with to feel validated.

7KOBO per block? So one has to load up to 10,000 blocks per day to earn N700?

If you don't have relatives or friends around who can effectively mind your kids while you go out to earn an income, it is better you meet your town's people or church members to help you raise money to relocate back to the village, the earlier the better before the usual Christmas fare hike sets in.

I recall you once posted your mum and your brother are there as there is no need hanging on to Lagos for now, there are public schools in the village your kids can be enrolled into, as it is way better than them not being engaged in any form of formal education.

While in the village, think out what is realistic for you to achieve in 2021 and plan towards it.

How many more years will it take them to complete the project?

NwaIgboBoy:
Buhari is the only one who never tested positive, why?

Have you tested positive?

Nice one.

Fountainofyouth:
Another one....

Another one, what?

bigjackass:
e no make sense abeg. Personally I will not allow it as the parent. If that grown ass man that I raised as my own son can't see my daughter as his own sister then that is his problem. Nonsense

His problem? What if they already have a sexual relationship going on?

I guess a sexual relationship already exists between them. As long he was legally adopted, the law sees them as siblings.

Beautiful finishing.

DWJOBScom:
When una go dey marry rich men pikin anyhow and cant tolerate their mumuism.
Most times the babe has nothing to offer but good body while the rich boy forgets he is married and wants to carry on his single kvel character

It is not easier marrying a poor man pikin

What Facebook has joined together....

Return back to Nigeria!

stalingraddd:
I once over heard my neighbor telling his friend that if he catches his daughter indecently dressed that he would set her ablaze and watch her die. the thing shock me

Likely a pyromaniac.

Kinkyriri:
gurus in the house please assist. which is the cheapest University to study social work? I've been on google since morning, the cheapest I saw is Bucks new university but they only accept 2.1. please help.

Liverpool Hope University but also only accepts 2.1.

Future impossible tense.

APC has been in government since 2015.and they are yet to "expose" the financiers of Boko Haram but here blowing hot air!

A man who is not financially providing for his nuclear family wants to bring in his jobless relative who comes along his own wife and child, so madam will also be fending for them?...This is truly super story.

Neddstark:
At almost the age of 50? Damn that was a harsh one. Paul indirectly addressed his brother's wife as menopausal and a MILF

He should know that "almost 50" is never a disability.

pocohantas:
Anambra people no dey allow any outsider wey them no want to rest. Once their mother doesn’t approve of you, you are toast.

Lola, ngwanu leave Paul. Face your husband...

Ndi mmanyi si!

Chiquitq:
I understand those condemning you for not attending your father's burial but I am with you on this. If they have not walked in your shoes, they can not understand your decision.
You said your father and mother were separated and he never reached out to you ? Is that one a father? How could he not reach out to his son? Probably first son at that. Why did family members contact you about it but failed to reconcile you when he was alive? A man and his wife/lover can fall out of love but children should never be neglected. I can't think of any excuse good enough that a father would do so. Let's assume that your mother had brainwashed you against your father...what steps did he take to make sure how children don't think bad of him? You have done the right thing and other irresponsible men may learn from this. Don't let anyone use religion to deceive you about honouring your father. God is merciful to everyone and if no punishment awaits men who abandoned their kids, then no punishment for kids who abandoned their fathers due to his lack of existence in their lives.

God is merciful to everyone and if no punishment awaits men who abandoned their kids, then no punishment for kids who abandoned their fathers due to his lack of existence in their lives.....Well captured as it balances things and not enabling neglect.

skales67:
Yes but women are more prone! They are in the position where "love offers" are thrown at them everyday than the men. No matter how poor or "not so good-looking" a woman is, men must ask her out but that cannot be said about men.

Secondly, women are more emotional than men and that brings about instability sometimes

From the point of psychology, women being more emotional is one of the key factors that helps them to live longer than men and this is evidence based.

skales67:
No matter how much you shower love on a woman, she will give you things to worry about when the time comes!

It is not gender specific because it also applies to the men as none of both is the all perfect picture.

Narrow it to the personality not gender.

Aprokodaughter:
I renewed mine in Nigeria that was in January.

Yea same with NIN number. I don't have that on my passport

I have never applied for the NIN number, not to talk of having it on my passport!

Aprokodaughter:
Mine carries the old passport number and the new one as well.

I have renewed my passport twice (outside Nigeria), the recent one in September and none has my previous passport number on it. Don't know why the difference.

Just like the weather!

humilitypays:
Who is this wan we are talking about the latest hot couple in town; Uchemba and his Holy wife you are here talking nonsense....all these hoodlums self

It seems you have exhausted your Aripiprazole, go for a refill.

You claim to be a vegetarian but uses teeth to cut and share meat among children!

Wishing them the best

GboyegaD:
Do you think this is a better solution, given that they don't like the woman? She needs thread with caution and discuss with the man to know her best solution in the event of a total crack of the marriage.

Not "liking the woman" seem to be the default setting in many family setups in Nigeria, so it is nothing new. The marriage itself is not healthy and if they so desire to heal, they BOTH must put in the work as it is evident the non clear cut conjugal roles is affecting the wellbeing of the family.