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Ikillbrokehoes:
Does that beach looks like American beach? abeg see question, where have u seen Africans scuba diving or skiing? smh

Haba! I have seen severally at various beaches in Kenya, Africans not Caucasians.

pocohantas:
Just avoid the water like I do. Enjoy the breeze and scenery, you’ll be fine. After all, na who water see im leg, e go carry.

Do any of the beaches offer scuba diving and jet skiing?

And by the way, you have certainly used the evening newspaper bait to draw 'em in like pheromone trap that attracts the male fruit flies.

endlesspain:
I'feel worthless been alive right now, no hope, my life have been stagnant for years now and I'm done hoping for better life with nothing working right now

I most often feel like a failure, the future seems bleak for me..I feel for my family, because they may loose me anytime soon.. I'm getting tired of existing despite still in my mid twenties

I just wish I was among those shot dead during the recent EndSars protest.. With the way things are going at the moment nothing gives me joy..I burnt all my pics and few of my clothes recently.. it seems depression is hitting me up

Call me names, bash me, call me coward I am not bothered.. just wanted to spew my ordeal here because is a faceless forum, so your judgements won't hurt me the more..I just need something to hope on while still alive

I don't know if anyone is facing worst in their life,but for me I'm loosing hope right now...

You are experiencing suicidal ideation where the feeling of hopelessness, helplessness and worthlessness are the despairing emotions running through you.

Make out time to watch some YouTube videos on paced breathing and also paired muscle relaxation These exercises are part of what therapists use while working with persons who were feeling suicidal and have been admitted into a mental health facility and even those not yet admitted


Nairaland is an "environment rich" platform, be open to members who may be willing to help you upskill, you should invest time in seeking them out.

While the President is busy getting shocked then condemning, it happens again then repeats the same motions.

Blaming the masses while the Government claim to be spending billions on security ?

Forever young.

Zaynabbb:
Hello everyone,

Please help me, Can anyone help with where I can buy children books and toys in bulk to save cost?

Please help me, I need this. Thank you.

You need to state preferred location.

The Pastor and his members are all not mentally okay.

Hustling for the stomach.

That's was his coping mechanism and I see nothing wrong in that. He is lucky his child was birthed in a conducive environment as against places where the man stands a very high chance of ending up as a widower because of the wife not making it out alive or even the baby.

Hmm...I hope Garba Shehu would gather liver enough to respond to the Sultan!

A dysfunctional family and there is no way they cannot be involved in the marriage as they would be the children' grandparents, uncle(s) and aunt(s).

May her soul rest in peace.

“The mob was hitting the burnt bodies with sticks, and started taking the body parts. Mubarak came to me and said he wanted to take some of the body parts. He said he had someone he would sell them to. Mubarak went to take the two skulls".........Sickening.

kayalcomp:
These are what u need to do: (1)Look for someone (if possible, elderly person) that your husband and his family respect to go and help you beg them for any of your misdeed, and explain things to them. (2)Your husband loves u, that is why he want you moved to Lagos with him. Look for way, discuss with him humbly and apologetically, and submissibly, why u still need to be in Ibadan for the little time. I sense lack of good communication between two of you especially in this regard. (3)The divorce threats is as a result of how you handle the situations, especially when they packed your things. (4) Be prayerful to God to keep the marriage. With prayer, submissiveness, humility to ur husband and his family all will be well. don't go the divorce way. (5)Lastly, u need to sit down too and check ur own life, maybe u a offending the man in anyway.make amend. Because if the man narrate his own side of the story, we may also pity him.

Phew!

Jossyfine:
If he has found another woman then he won't be pushing for his family to relocate to Lagos.

Even though ur hubby was wrong with his actions, you went too far to arrest his brother.

Go back to ur husband's family, kneel down and apologized. Ask ur hubby to forgive you and get ur stuff ready to move to Lagos cuz I believe you will do better in Lagos than ibadan.

The lord is ur strength

What of schooling, where she is close to defending her project?

Ghengiskhan:
You should go and apologize to your husband and his family, then move to Lagos and repair the damages done to your relationship, when things are calm you can transfer from that school in ibadan to a school in Lagos. I wish you all the best going forward.

Transfer school when she is almost defending?

stalingraddd:
Suicide rates among men is really high, too much pressure on the human male

Suicidal ideation is more prevalent in women than in men but completed suicide by men is higher.

MondayUche:
Please everyone here all the NL family please help me to reach out to @Botanics for the assistant he wanted to render to me and my 2 little kids please I beg of you all. The 50,000 will really go a long way for us I have even started making inquiries about where to buy some of the used items to use also. Please I beg of you please. You can check my signature for my contact details please I once posted it on comment and I was banned for 24hrs so I don't want to post it here so that they won't kick me out please. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY cc @Botanics

So very wrong of you to bring up @Botanics in that way, he/she is not obligated to you in any way and never interprete suggestions as commitment to fund you.

If your wife, the biological mother of these little children you have been using as the "placard" of your various threads seeking for assistance is least concerned whether her children are looked after or not, why are you expecting an outsider to be more invested in their welfare.

Your wife is not a ghost, she is somewhere within Nigeria. If you can't take those children to wherever their mother is (since you have ruled out relocating to the village with them) and leave them with her while you go out to hustle out their sustenance, then I will clearly say you both are not fit to be parents! You both are lucky you are in Nigeria where such irresponsibility has no consequence where no social worker will be on your tails.

Talking about it in a safe space, helps in the healing.

You can't force yourself on someone who do not want you anymore and already seeking divorce. Grant him the divorce while you both amicably work out the care for the son between you.

Being divorced is not a mental health disorder, at times it is the best option in order to maintain one's sanity where the union is draining out one's essence. You have to accept the reality that your soon to be ex–husband wants to move on with his life without you by his side. This acceptance is the needed state of mind to redirect your own life.

Refocus energy on completing your degree program as it is your key stepping stone for self-development.

Afamed:
You really know Trump well. Before the election. He has made it clear that he will never the result of the election if it doesn't favour him

And he is acting out what he had already said he would do.......na talk and do, so no surprise!

Based on his personality, it will be very odd of him to give in easily.....Trump must show why he is Trump!

Dramaqueen12345:
My reference letter didnt have seal or stamp and i got admission into all the schools i applied. Signature and letter head is okay.

For my reference, the school requested I forward the official email address of my referee (my former chair of department) to them (gmail, yahoo etc not allowed) but that of the institution she represents (the university where I obtained my bachelor degree). They wrote to her directly requesting she reply with the reference and I only received a notification from the University that they have received my reference from her, what she wrote there, only God knows! .

Disorder. on display.

"Before the end of the month, hopefully".......He is a joke.

Make effort to leave their home as soon as possible and follow up on the debt from wherever you are going to be.

"When we got to Dutse, we stopped at a junction leading to the bush. We met soldiers there and they stopped ordered us to sit down. The soldiers observed that all of us were carrying nylon bags and the items and they asked what were in the nylon bags. We told them that we are carrying money to pay ransom for the students that were kidnapped. The soldiers wished us safe journey to the bush and we parked the car at the junction. We trekked far inside the bush from Dutse and handed over the money to the Kidnappers and they released the girls to us.”.......Disheartening.