₦airaland Forum

Crossbelt:
Good day to you all pls I'm an average man looking forward to be settling down soon but Don't really know the steps, my fiance is from enugu State. Pls I need a guide line so as not to make mistake.
Your advice is highly welcome.

Ask your wife to be what her kinsmen requires from the intending groom. What communities in Nsukka would request in their lists is not what communities in Agwu would request.

Good development.

These ones am seeing there don't look like persons that have relatives that would come forward to bail them.

Nice one.

See a therapist, you need cognitive behaviour therapy. With Covid, E-therapy has become more popular so you can have your hourly-weekly therapy sessions via video, meaning your therapist can be anywhere in this world.

Loveandwar:
Waooh, I never knew reporting him to te pension office will allow me be in care of his money. Thanks for this.

I have no choose but to apply force. I was initially concerned about the embarrassment as I will need to to hire some boys to move him forcefully to the rehabilitation centre/elderly people's home.

Thank you

Start out with him getting admitted into a rehabilitation centre though not voluntary and reason why many addicts wake up to find themselves in the rehab and get aggressive on realization but they would calm down later.

He should be spending nothing less than 3 months there and upon discharge, fix him in a elderly people's home for assisted living as that would help his sobriety though the reality of relapse is always in the horizon.

Tanzanians whey no believe say Covid dey!

Indeed very lucky to have survived that.

dprincedej:
I need suggestions but nobody has given me positive suggestion. The fact that she always insist that I pay money is why I would never do so. The children are doing fine. She only want my money to use
as extra to be travelling or making people believe she does not need a man. She should be happy that I care about my children even if I don't pay. Some men don't even ask after their children but all this one knows is money. If I don't have money, does that mean I'm not the father? Her plan will not work. Those abusing me, I'm not surprised because you are not yet married.

What kind of positive suggestions do you want to read?

What is noble in a man that does not look after his children? It is only a deranged mind that would claim he cares for his children but feels angry about providing for them. Even those traders who sell okrika (second hand clothes/shoes) always chorus "I love my pikin, no be for mouth" while marketing their children' wares.

Are you angry she "no send" you?

You claim you are enjoying your second marriage and not certain the children are even yours then refused to pay for DNA tests, leave her and her children alone!

Give the fatherly love that is bubbling in you to the children your present wife have/will have for you.

I laugh when some dead beat fathers rationalize their being irresponsible by saying their children will look for them when they are adults, look for them to inherit the wealth they have amassed or to take up the responsibilities of caring for a frail old man who has become dependant?

SoftP:
Since the inception of that midget, u hardly hear good news from Kaduna.
What a painful exit

El-Rufai is not the driver of the luxurious bus that lost control and collided with the four cars.

Finally!

At first you typed that they are your children, who you are being denied of seeing but when welfare said you should provide for their education and feeding, you begin to doubt their paternity and at the end of your tale you acknowledged them as your children again! .

You are not sure the children are biologically yours and yet you don't want to pay for the DNA tests to ascertain paternity?

Who she is sleeping with now, is none of your business or are you not with another woman?

If no one has told you, let me tell you now....you need to undergo MSE (Mental Status Examination) because you are a clear reflection of cognitive dissonance.

Most

Sad.

Adimchinobi....deep name.

Laughable.

Sad.

unclepopo2:
Can i Dm you on this please

Replied.

They are the 2 sides of the same coin.

DaFuhrer:
werey

What do you expect from the people, when the government deliberately insists on curses inducing policies?

DenreleDave:


Dino the confirmed Yaba Left Politician

Yaba left or Yaba right, he didn't lie in this.

I look forward to someday working in Yaba left, a psychiatric facility is an interesting place to work in as I presently do.

"Unknown soldiers".

ejihand:
Personally I don't blame Mr President. The speech he made are not his thoughts. He mere read what the mr Adeshina penned down.

Blame the people in the presidency who is involved in putting up speeches

I beg to disagree, the speech reflected Buhari's mind. He tells the speech writing team what he wants to tell Nigerians and the team come up with the words, then it is read to him. If he didn't want to communicate that to Nigerians, he would have ordered a re-write!

Hoarding what should have been distributed promptly. The officials in Cross River state said they were waiting to have a press conference by a CACOVID team from Lagos before distributing what was in the warehouse!

Consolation.

“Unfortunately, the items carted away were Single Super Phosphate and NPK fertilisers, which they erroneously thought was “Gaari’’, cassava grains........It reminds of an episode of Jagua in the 80s, where Jagua soaked fertilizer and was drinking it like garri because he wanted to grow taller and add more weight.... shege Jagua!

olalemii:
Hello,

I need to confirm if an applicant above 18 can use his/her parent account to show proof of fund for Tier 4 UK visa

Thanks.

Yes, he/she can.

There is need to incorporate mental health professionals during premarital classes, where intending couples are psychoeducated on mental health issues surrounding pregnancy and childbirth.

The worst form is postpartum psychosis, some mothers have been admitted into psychiatric facilities just 2/3 days after giving birth.

They want to sell the land, being buried there would have messed up their plans.

OVB123:
Over sabi, who send you?

Is it not their city and their health?

pwettyhardey:
Please do you have idea of schools that can give her admission? And some of the things she would need

She has to directly contact many of those schools offering it and wait for their response.