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misspicy:
So I was just minding my business this evening when my married friend called me,she got wedded to her husband two months ago and it seems there is trouble in paradise already

(background tears) Spicy, temitibami(am done for),you won't believe that since I married Tola we have not made love? I was suprised and asked why,she said she does not get attracted to him because of his smallish stature,then I asked her if she does not know this before marriage,she said they never made love before marriage because they both agreed on no sex before marriage relationship.

well her problem now is that she don't feel any urge towards her husband and it is almost getting to a point where her husband might force her because they are both frustrated.

Dear nairalanders she asked me for help,and I must confess,I am speechless,what should she do,how does she develop the sexual urge towards her husband?

lalasticlal.a please help me to help my friend,i don't want her to commit adultery

ur friend was not prepared for marriage. She rushed into it & she is about to run out. She should just endure…… did u put scales in her eyes not to see the man was tiny? Ur friend must be a joker…… a gold digger, who knows? Don't marry for money ……marry for happiness but also consider if the man is well-to-do. Money shouldn't be ur drivin' force. …… the rich also cry. I pray God help ur friend.

abdulwastecx:
here some general information and properties of hip roof ( German roof).
1.All the ridges and valleys (gutter) should be at 45 degree to the edge of the building
2.All the ridges and valleys (gutter) should be parallel to one another.
3. A reasonable spacing of 1.2m (4ft) should be adopted.

Please in your number 3 rule, spacing between wat?

abdulwastecx:
Here are some tips for hip roof.
Shape of the roof is govern by shape of the floor plan, size of the plan etc.
Rule 1. Your ridges/gutter(valley) must all be parallel and must be at angle 45 degree to the building corners

Thanks very much. This statement really helped me think: "Shape of the roof is govern by shape of the floor plan, size of the plan"

abdulwastecx:
here is what we are looking to achieve

These drawings what were they done with? Autocad?

abdulwastecx:
Before we could start the roof work, due to the complex nature of the roof, we have to do a simple roof design sketch showing all the "roof tie beams .

here is the roof tie beam sketch

hey man. thanks for the sketch. But how do u determine the shape of the roof from a house plan? I was making a house plan in autocad & I wanted to overlay the roof plan but I was stuck cos I don't know how to deterimine the ridges & other components of the roof… In your sketch, how did you come about such design of the roof even?

Why una nor alert me wey be full blooded itsekiri say dis thread dey na? Una nor try…… I for vex but I like this thread..... Iwere Kingdom All The Way!!!!!!!!

meracool:
If it's your first time registering on Scholastica you will have to print and take it to your HOD to sign to confirm your CGPA and upload it

My H.O.D signature is already on my chevron application ……… any need again?

Olaskybab:
^^^^^

Yaa....I've completed the reg and I av also Downloaded the Photo card(profile).
4rm wot u sed, is it advisable for a 100level student to upload his first semester GP?

Is it compulsory to print photocard? I already applied.

see person mama

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
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I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

Esther, I can understand. It will never be easy…… that moment when you feel you are now starting to like men & shortly you get depressed again thinking you are made for females only. You are not born this way…… I will call it an addiction actually, an inclination i.e your life is tilted to females. It can be solved. Within the first four pages of this thread someone gave what could help about you understabding a guy blah blah……… i don't know the poster name just locate it. You can overcome it…… the feeling of you wanting to be with a guy is all you need. Who has never dealt with an addiction will never understand, in ur case lesbianism( i call it an addiction, a very strong one). Don't give up……… your reticence to deal with it at the infant stage caused u this. To those who believe it's normal, I pray your daughter will not experience 10% of what esthersolomon is going through.

God help us all…………

durentt u av made ur point!

Durentt:
No need to move to any oda country. Homosexuality wu dsoon be legal in dis country lets watch and see

u are an Idi t... u and ur plans will not succeed. Your plan goes against every thing that is normal.

Durentt:
leave her, useless she-goat, dats how dey tag every thing "demonic" with their african mentality. Most of dem even tag their grandmothers demonic. Smh, 4 the future of nigerians

I have read through all ur posts and I can understand u are a lesbian. Why the attraction to this thread? I mean you've made your point for the umpteenth time. You want the op to have a chat with you, huh? You want to ruin her life? Well, continue hand go touch you one day.

fratermathy don't mind ijawcitizen…… that's their behaviour. An average ijaw man is war-like. Even their built speaks it- short & thick set of humans.

Besides I aint seen the Itsekiri thread …..give me the link.

Durentt:
cramp. I thought u wud dare to say anymore rubbish

lol…… guy u too dry. Abeq vamoose.

Durentt:
you dont know who u are jokin with. Am not like oda NL'anders u can insult and go scotfree, i will finish ur career on NL.
Sniitch

lol…… comedian of the century. For your info I don't usually insult check all my previous posts. But u know what I hate? Throwing jabbs at me when I know say twenty of u nor reach me beef. U wan kill my career…… lol. I nor get any career here bro. You can just stop here else u go see me for ur dream dey beef u……… how sad!

Durentt:
oya get out of hia. Na ur loose mother resemble niki minaj. Onye mberebe.
I will deal wit u if u quote me again. Leave my thread

So because I insult that ur bastard babe wey nor gree marry wey dey claim best ashawo for town, u insult my mum? This dude 4get say me na warri boi……… na ur mother dey loosed infact she is the definition of "loosed" & u know what? She is as loosed as ur gf…… no wahala sha... like mother like babe. I understand. But must u always be attached to loosed hoes? Pig!


Bring it on...... Ah nor see u run... ur kolo go cure here today.... flaming f,,aggot

Durentt:
what is dis 1 saying

sharrap ur babe fine reach am? Abi u blind?

cavicent19:
@Ifa8,

there are no 'omo onile' issues here at Kaduna. The moment you pay 5% of the cost of the land to the District head to enable them endorse your title documents, you are good to go. The land is 50 X 100, I still have enough space at the back that can accommodate a simple3 bedroom flat but I turned it into a garden to enhance 'green zone'.

I am out of kaduna for the next few weeks and cannot lay my hands on the building plan but I will send it to you whenever am at Kaduna. Kindly note that I have since moved into the house. Though I did not continue with my update again not until I saw this mail.

Please I'll also like to get the building plan. Since I'm a student, I want to use it for study purposes.

Nicki Minaj shouldn't be on this list……… we all know this na… haba

delectablegyal:
I am just saying. Shout out to all the virgins out there. Even though the konji is strong, we are still holding on to our pride, we are not letting it go.

Because others are doing it does not make it right. Keeping your virginity is the right thing to do, forget what these non virgins say to you. No shaking.
#teamweddingnight.

Why announce it to the whole world? It's kind of senseless. Why not tell us to look at your pix that u are beautiful instead? Yea, more likely you wanted to tell us that...... continue yelling that you are a virgin & some stupid boys will disvirgin u..... id1ot

Fraih:
Smh! See me see gobe.... Did i write anything like 'i made this'? Read well bro before you type
I had this. ... . On my phone

Next time, express yourself very well . Sorry for my earlier comments.

Fraih:
Good work to ur friend... I had this

sharrap u didnt do dat……… I saw this pic long b4 you.

Seun:
I'm here once again to put my mouth in your talk. I love you guys; will work with you someday.

I like these words seun. You said these in 2007 visualized in 2013, i think. If u care to reply. . .as at then, did u really had it in mind to employ graphics designer through a contest? I'm curious to know. . . Time flies but words are left behind jst like the one I quoted. . . This is some source of inspiration. . .kip it up!

safarigirl:
at this point, oyibo is the only way wether you people like it or not. Nigerian coaches have proven themselves to be sentimental, biased, petty, arrogant phucks that place self glory over team success. We need a neutral person

No. Every1 is all those you listed. It all bores down to the degree displayed. . . . We know they are better than we silly blacks but must you rub it in all spheres of our environment? When do we ever get to try until we bring the best out of ourselves, ehh ? The time is ticking . . . . I still remember when Lars Laggerback brought us back home during that tournament. Pls a foreign coach will help us but for how long do we depend on them? I still believe no coach in the world would have been able to stimulate the 2013 team to win that cup. . .there are better keshi in nigeria, better messi and better all. . . .only if we keep on trying and act like boss to these oyibo folks we will continue to play IInd fiddle.

safarigirl:
na only naija get coach? Wetin do oyibo coaches? Oliseh won't qualify for AFCON. By June next year, he will be gone. I don't need a sooth-sayer to know that

Don't let me call you a fool for mentioning oyibo coach. I like your critisicm and as a matter of fact, I agree with you until you mention oyibo. Nor lemme insult u o......

EgunMogaji:
An Engineer yes but not a building Engineer. I just keep detailed Excel spreadsheet on my building expense.

Whenever I dabble into something that I'm not familiar with, as in this example building a house in Nigeria, I become an expert on the subject. So I have learned a lot on price of materials and labour.

As an example I was quoted N190,000 plus N25,000 delivery charge for a gate. I found the same gate for N140,000 delivered to my site.

I'm enjoying the process

With all these in your arsenal you are almost becoming a building engineer……… welldone

EgunMogaji:
Maybe you can reach out to the editors of that magazine.

I am comfortable with up to 6" of flooring. So 4" of poured slab and then up to 2" of flooring is okay with me on my project.

For you maybe, but for me it'll be cheap to bring a USA artisan to Nigeria and family members have done it in the past so I speak from experience.

But it's relative and it depends on what one is expecting to pay for USA style level of finish quality.

PS: In my professional life I am paid well for tackling, resolving and excelling on impossible tasks. I use that training and knowledge to empower myself in my personal life and have managed to accomplish a lot where many have thought there was no way. So I am used to people saying something is impossible and typically take it as a challenge just to prove that it's possible.

The only thing impossible is nothing.

You seem knowledgeable about costs…… are u an engineer?

darenyx:
Archicad+artlantis gives you this.. . For structural design, I recommend csc orion 18, etabs.. easiest to master with loads of tutorials online..

If you can use torrent, you can also download dummy series for the various software and Lynda series

was that done with archicad + artlantis?

abouzaid:
and now we end up confusing the guy. anyway, what's best for him depends more on what he is trying to achieve, he sounds more like an engineering student than an architecture student. the revit vs archicad war is one that would never end so let's let it slide.@pic, the backside, currently too distracted to finish up the modeling

@pic…… sorry to say but why does the design looks like a shadow has been cast on it? It looks shabby & hence, not beautiful. I thought archicad will have better graphics but sadly, it's behind autocad.

abdulwastecx:
Orion is a good structural software...
good detailing for slab, beam, column and footings.

RCD ( reinforced concrete design software ) is a good made in Nigeria software for accurate structural design. it was developed by oyenuga.

RCC is a good excel spreadsheet for reinforced concrete design and bending schedules

Thanks a bunch man. I appreciate but if I may ask, is this RCD fully efficient such that there would be no need to incoporate Orion into the drawing? Please enlighten me……… Again, someone specifically said the str. design for a duplex & bridge is different, of course; I would like to ask if the RCD can serve both purpose...