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I love Dick Masterson, my mentor, what a wise man he is. We all know that no woman is fit to be in military, not only cos of their weakness and poor intelligence but also for their objectified body, yet he advised us to allow more and more of them in military, that when they see the effects of their action, they will know their stand.

Na lie! Though I can't dispute you were on that train, you made up this whole story for your pay master. What is her username? She pounced on and kissed a married man, seriously? You superstar, seriously?
























What if I'm in a train and a Nl Lady identifies me?

This country is a joke. Jonathan should bury his ugly head in shame.

pollution

Its either a spoof or the event is exaggerated. Women can't hurt a fly.

Asari is a lünatic .

Good post.

duni04:
The romance section should be abolished or scrapped. It generates too many useless threads, like this one

The whole thread makes no sense.

emusmith:
Picks mic... Thank you.

I've come to understand that ladies are special, as such should be treated with honour and dignity.
They can never be as strong and fast as we are so we have to overlook their shortcomings and focus more on their strength- Their Emotion.

How do i help a lady bring out the best in her and not by cause her to mourn, feel pain or regret ever knowing me? This is my pursuit.


In this thread, I highlighted Seven Unfair Situations Guys Get Ladies Into...



1. You get her to trust you and later cheat on her with her bestie.
You then call yourself, RoboCop or a Bad guy. She may still forgive you because her nature allows it but know this: One day, she can fall your hand or in some cases kill...


2. You tell your friends about your escapade with her just because she left you to get married to one who was ready. Do you know what? Everyone has a past and that is her past...you're holding on to. Get a life and move forward, bro!

3. She discards all her other suitors because of your promise of marriage only for you to call it off. Chai, you're wicked and if she speak words, e fit affect you!

4. You knew she was an "introvert" before you toasted her. Now you have her as your girl friend, you have the effrontery to be complaining here on Nairaland that " My girl friend is too quiet"- When you saw her was she talking?


5. Both of you agreed "No Sexx", three months after, because you spent a little on her na, You are changing to " Just One time, Please". Na wa for you o... Are you a learner?


6. You saw she had a big nose and bulgy eyes. You told her you loved her like that and the nose and the eyes were sexy. Now you're asking her, Aren't they too big? If you ask her, who she go go ask?


7. You tease her till she fell in love with you. You know she loves but you make her look like a fool around you. You won't even stylishly insinuate "Red light" to her to keep her at arms length but you keep flashing "Green Light". Guy, what do you want from her? You wan destroy her life ni? You send her texts only a guy could send to his girl, yet you say we are just friends. I laff!
She sees you every evening with other smaller girls not her age and you even greet her...You call yourself a Player? Time nor dey only pass girls, e dey pass guys too.


Guys, let's turn a leaf this year. Women are highly emotional and we should not take them for a ride. Let's honour and respect the ones we call our Love.

Drops mic..

@bolded sums up your post, a piece of dry cow shït .

blackjack21:
True. But marriage is about team work. If there is love, her husband will be there for her.
The only circumstance where I will castigate a marriage union of any age is where it is clear that there is no love.

You have your reasons.

I don't know!
17yrs might be immature constitutionally, but mentally varies, there people who hit 40+ and still are mentally immature. But you can find kids of 14-15 who know very well, left and right. And these kind of kid flood the streets nowadays.


What constitution? Cannon law? What if you are born in a place where the constitution allow marriage at the age of 8? Let say forced marriage, will you honour that law?

Nice post.

Pamcrest:
I just hate this abuse of young children (17yrs is a child under d law) by their so called Muslim faith. If u must marry 4 wives, must u snatch a child from her cradle? Is it even a must to marry 4 wives, whether or not u can afford to? I know some rich Muslims who didn't make that number, so they won't get to their heaven, kwo?
I admire SLS professionally but I'm so disgusted at his choice of bride.
My humble submission

Marriage is not a prison sentence, in fact she's gonna have a better life than you can ever dream of having.

Good news! Women should be married off early cos they deserve no future.

ifyalways:
You knew her kind of person yet you went ahead and married her. I'm sure alot of people advised you against marrying her then but you ignored them. Dear, you've made your bed, relax and enjoy or endure it.

I suggest you pray and fast, start with like 21 days fasting, report her to your pastor if the fasting thing does not work. Nothing impossible with God. Sorry dear

You deserve a very hot slap.

Rep042:
My marriage is just 1 year and few days old,but within the last 365 days,I have seen torment and hell on daily basis. We dated for 2 years before tying the knot,she's a nice person,but her mouth is destructive,she has this overbearing attitude,always trying to control me or dictate the pace,and can keep malice,anger and record of evil done to her for a long time. She's the type of person that talks very well,I mean convincely well,but unfortunately,she speaks more negative words. She can talk for hours non-stop,especially when provoked,saying all sorts of bad words.

She has threatened to kill me & send assassins after me on different occasions in the past,though I just ignored such threats.

My wife has been abusing me verbally and always say nasty things at every slightest provocation and at the same ready to engage me in fisticuffs.

She can really say unprintable words such as "it will not be well with you","as you go out,people will deal with you", "you will work like an elephant and eat like an ant", "this your certificate will never yield you any good thing", etc, name callings,abuses,curses etc.

Please Nairalanders, I will like to know if it is wrong or out of place for a working class married lady to assist her husband in paying some bills or buying some foodstuffs at home. Because,anytime she assists in doing anything,she will record it and consequently use that to abuse and insult me whenever we have misunderstanding and or exchange of words.

After our traditional marriage on December 2013,I had some financial challenges,and then my rent was due for renewable,she offered to assist,at first I was skeptical about it ,because I know her kind of person,knowing full well that she will use that to ridicule and abuse me in no distant time. But,then,I didn't have any alternative,so I allowed her pay d rent. Now,she's claiming ownership,saying ..."which house,the one that I have been paying the rent or another one"...

She has done a lot of character assassination & damages to my personality before some of her relatives & family members(Her father and two sisters),thus they all support her & no longer regard me as anybody.

Few months into our marriage,she started wearing butt pads, I told her to stop ,because I don't like the stuff,but she flared up and we had exchange of words. She told me that she has to look good to outsiders.

Throughout her pregnancy period,she wore the butt pads on daily basis even at home,I allowed her because of her condition,even though it looked disgusting on her. After she put to bed,and few days later, I told her to quit wearing that stuff, but she refused,then I seized it,she started ranting to the hearing of everyone at home & neighbors that I have taken her padded pants(aka butt pad) to native doctor. I just ignored her. Few days later, she bought another set.

On Xmas day(2014),she dressed up & wore the butt pads again,I told her to remove it ,but she refused,then i tried forcing her to do so,and that resulted to a serious fight. She tore my already ironed clothes to pieces(an expensive Indian attire I bought when I travelled to India),I tore hers too and forced the butt pads out from her body.

Hell was let loose that day,because she called her sisters,they came to my house and created a very nasty scene in my neighborhood,they insulted,ridiculed me and made a mockery of me,her elder sister who is a police officer threatened to deal with me,she was talking and hitting her hands on the ground saying that,they are going to teach me some bitter lessons in this town. I tried to respond but my Mum,who's on child's visit(Omugwo) asked me to hold my peace. It wasn't easy though,they also insulted her too.

Since that day till date,my wife doesn't talk to me. The only thing that connects us now is the new born baby.

Her words have actually killed me psychologically, emotionally etc, to the extent that sometimes, I loose consciousness of my surrounding while driving to and fro from work , I will be lost in thought, and on a particular occasion nearly rammed another moving vehicle,if not for the speed bumps on the road that awaken my consciousness.


Her words:"if you are still regarding me as your wife,then you wasting your time". Its obvious she wants a divorce because to her,she's still very young(28 years),and can easily move on. She doesn't give a damn.

She has also repeated that same threat of killing me,these days ,the number of calls entering her phone is amazing,most times,she goes far from the house to answer those calls.

Please,kindly advice me.
Thank you.

Lol @bolded.

Divorce her.

vizkiz:
come on fellas, Naija babes aren't only after money! Its not like they are gold diggers or something they'v gat the love for real men. Be a man and you'll see them flocking around you
























Please can you ignore all that shiiit i typed up there,they aren't real

You won't kill me with laughter.

RotrEmmanuel:
GEJ will be kicked out only when your father can boast of a first degree holder.


illiterate trying to insult a PHD holder and President Federal republic of Nigeria.

Who are you?

Ab025:
she's been acting like a cheap LovePeddler in search of attention since her marriage broke.....and to cap it all, she thinks she has to post revealing pics every once in a while.

hmmm......this gal was very different ten years ago, but see her now....GOD HELP HER LIFE SHA!!

Never knew her marriage has broken, no be she just give birth? Congrats if you ever come across this post.

This Government is too inept to be described! Boko Haram seizes military base?! Who will kick the clueless one out?

No fruit like a ripe, sweet orange.

temitemi1:
GEJ till 2019!!!

He will rule Nigeria from your family house.

Here in America, its not an offense.

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year; and I intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in my house for a visit we had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at me, calling me name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise me. When things were stating to escalate, I angrily ask her the leave my house , because she was stating to create a scene in my neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled me and got me thinking. She said a lot of bad things to me , I never took any of them to heart because I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of me wants to continue with the affair because I still love her and we have gone a long way, moreover, I have already introduce her to my family. But , another part of me don't want to continue because I feel like I don't know her and that she might have a dark secrets which might explode after marriage.
Guys what's your say in this scenario ?

Leave her with immediate alarcrity.

In the name of allah, the most beneficient and merciful.

ShaheedBinAliyu:
Well that may happen only if u using dumbass mobile android phone. and there are lots of way to boycott data nowadays. #android 4eva#

Don't mind him, he's not done a good research.

Krystalxxx:
I'm sure misogynist2014 will say this is good. I pray the girl gets better soon sha. It's so sad.

Congrats!!!







You've just won a reply.

I'm not a criminal, why should I support crime? I also can't judge since I don't know what transpired btw them.

Take care and enjoy the new year. If you didn't mention me, I probably wouldn't have seen this thread, got better things than dying on Nl.

I'll cut my precious manhood if those girls are found intact.

Macelliot:
you don't even understands yourself....
What a contradiction and meaningless post!

www.churchofsatan.com for more on it.

Nigeria has a very big problem.

finofaya:
Here's a further example of the sort of foolishness you can get into by referring to "nothing" as if it's an object:

"What is nothing? Macbeth answered this question with admirable concinnity: “Nothing is, but what is not.” My dictionary puts it somewhat more paradoxically—“nothing (n.): a thing that does not exist.” Although Parmenides, the ancient Eleatic sage, declared that it was impossible to speak of what is not—thereby violating his own precept—the plain man knows better. Nothing is popularly held to be better than a dry martini, but worse than sand in the bedsheets. A poor man has it, a rich man needs it, and if you eat it for a long time, it’ll kill you. On occasion, nothing could be further from the truth, but it is not clear how much further. It can be both black and white all over at the same time. Nothing is impossible for God, yet it is a cinch for the rankest incompetent. No matter what pair of contradictory properties you choose, nothing seems capable of embodying them. From this it might be concluded that nothing is mysterious. But that would only mean that everything is obvious—including, presumably, nothing." (From one book like that by Jim Holt)

I'm not aware that anybody was seeking for proof of the absence of anything, which is what nothing refers to. It is evident that there is something. You don't need science to know this. Similarly, the question of God's existence is not one which we have to wait for science to answer. I'm not sure science can even answer it. The absence of scientific proof of God's non existence is not proof that God exists. I agree with you though that it doesn't mean that God is imaginary.

The same logic that tells us that something exists also fails to convince me that there is a God. I think it does not convince you either, otherwise you would not speak of faith.

You must agree with me that your argument on nothing is inconclusive to be conclusive and inconclusive to be concluded. Here is a link on scientists(physicists) argument on nothing, neither could any go home with victory. I enjoyed the conversation by trying to replace nothing with God http://m.livescience.com/28132-what-is-nothing-physicists-debate.html


I have actually argued for the existence of God, using something more that I've used nothing. You can have this link, though I know you must have come across it, you can still go over it because it is short and straight to the point https://www.nairaland.com/2010775/absolute-proof-gods-existence


On the use of faith, faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. No dictionary has a definition as perfect as this, anything the Bible touches, It touches with class. A lot of people are allergic to faith because they don't have access to this definition. The God of Bible did set good presidents with his mighty works and HIS love for a well dated history(GOD OF HISTORY) and also HIS prophecies which are expected of HIM, which doesn't make HIM look like a fairytale, following HIM through faith is not that foolish, is it?

sonOfLucifer:
Who breeds these fools?

YAHWEH purnish you.

delishpot:
Whose gene crossed? Do they have ancestors abi gini? Thought they were the first humans created? Where dem borrow genes wey cross again?

They were the primary source of genes, they had the chinese, indian, african, latin characteristics suppressed in their body, which came to light as many generations passed, that aside, as darwin noted, the environment you live can change your bodily characteristics. This plus the division of tongues by the most High. These solves your puzzle.

hifaif:
SMH...

I do not have fears that I hide behind science. I am free as the birds. It is you who is afraid of being free. Must you worship a god before you can be termed as a human being? You all are so desperate to worship something that you invent gods and compose ridiculous stories about them.

Singing in Julie Fowlis' voice: I will fly, chase the winds and touch the sky.

Satanists believe there is no God but you are a god yourself and you worship yourself. They believe that you can create your god, just don't get personal with it. They say they don't worship satan but seek guidance by following his biblical attitude. This satan they are free to worship. Hell will be full.