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EggovinMma:
My advice is the best so far please!
Is her husband the only man that has penis?
If the husband feels that she no longer suits him, she should look for another man's arm to bury her worries on, no cheating, everybody is atleast relieved.
Una wey be men just wicked, so na only him go dey enjoy extra marital bypass, the lady doesn't deserve some attention too?




Oh oooooooo, so that advice is now better than mine? She should keep quiet and suffer every minute from emotional blackmail? You see the wickedness wey I dey talk about?



Madam op, you are a big lady, don't cry over any man that has decided to share his penis. There's plenty men in this world. Infact, there are men that can sweep you off your feet and make you forget your worries. Make a decision c to make yourself appealing not only to your husband. Socialise more, travel more, flirt a little more.You will stop caring where your husband sticks his dick on in no time.

all this single girls coming to advice married fellows....hahahhahahahahahah

purityannabel:
my brother in law staying with us is driving me crazy. ....many at times when he comes back from school ...He will just keep his school bag and leave the house without my knowledge ooooo..... He won't even bother to fetch water just from the tank oooo.....if I want to cook I will go down stairs and fetch it before doing the cooking. then if he later come back he will ask me for food........
Am just tired of this teenage boy.....I dont know what to do ........Pls your opinion will be appreciated. ......

no one can read mind.most times,males withing that age range are just driven by testosterone.so just sit him down in front of your hubby and talk to him nicely,if he refuses then fetch water and cook your hubby's food and deny him food if he ask for it.but am sure he will change after talking to him..take note.never expect a teenager to read your mind.

Acidosis:
How many times have you instructed the boy to fetch you water?

Has he ever turned down your request?


Are you a perfectionist? I asked because some men and women can never be satisfied when they outsource. There is nothing you can do that will ever satisfy a perfectionist.

Its either you arrange the plates wrongly, or you sweep poorly, the plate is slippery, you use too much soap, the TV is too loud, you placed the remote wrongly, etc. When I meet such people, I run!

So may be the boy sees you as a perfectionist and he's trying to avoid home duties.

Examine yourself ma, and speak to him. Do not expect a 17 year old boy to read your mind. He has been living with you since he was 12! Where else do you expect him to learn home training?

Train the boy and stop frustrating the efforts you've never attempted.

op,forget everything you av heard on this thread and follow this advice.i think this poster is a psycologist.

GodnGold:
If you have been married for the number of years you claim then this is not a problem.

If a man decides to cheat,let him.
Truth is there is nothing you can do about it.

If you cry,nag,fight,etc...It doesn't change the fact that the brother has being elsewhere.

Time is a good factor in solving these issues...remember why,how and when you married.

Forgive him before he realises it.

Even the good book (bible) says that when we do good to our enemies we will be heaping coals on their head.

It hurts for a spouse to cheat,believe me...
but giving your husband a choice was way out of line.

Learn to keep quiet because you are a woman.

Learn by observing,if you throw tantrums you will never see the depth of this...

You were wrong by asking him to choose and mind you sister...if you give up on that marriage of 15 years because of this...then am afraid you are at loss with all the financial ability you have.

If he comes home,eats your food and doesn't beat you up then you are trully married.
Congratulations!

op come and take your advice here..

EggovinMma:
If you are financially confident, you need not worry about his ex, I don't think working class ladies find it difficult to get cool men.Enjoy your own life jare.
Take your wedding ring off your fingers, password all your gadgets, change your wardrobe to more revealing clothes, stuff your fridge with good wines, attend parties more frequently, weda you are invited directly or not , always have a reason to drive out of the house at the slightest opportunity, you may feign diarrhea by 10 pm, drive around town fir an hour, stopping at different bars to take a bottle or two Trust me, there are many guys that will end up paying for anything you order .

op please dont take this advice,it will help cripple your family even more.you posted your story because u still love him not because you truly want a divorce..

thats my fiancee oh.she does everything the op mentioned and dats y i cherish her so much..she z a rare breed..

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facheux:
Is Jesus peace be upon him God to xtians?

my friend go nd read your bible well jorh.dis tym not with a biased mind.why dont you read the new testament and tell me where jesus acted in a strange way.

facheux:
Xtians tell me Jesus pbuh is a god, that to me thinking why Jesus pbuh would order raping of females and killing of little ones ?

Isaiah 13:16
Their little children will be dashed to death before their eyes. Their homes will be sacked, and their wives will be raped.

abeg show me jesus for that scripture oh.jesus loves you bro

facheux:
Xtians tell me Jesus pbuh is a god. Why did Jesus pbuh order such violent acts against the pregnant. The prince of peace , nope.

Hosea 13:16

Samaria shall bear her guilt, because she has rebelled against her God; they shall fall by the sword, their little ones shall be dashed in pieces, and their pregnant women ripped open.

abeg did you see jesus written in that scripture??even if u curse jesus,he still loves you.....shikena

LEGALAide:
DEM GET LUCK SAY BETTER PERSON WON SAVE DEM.
HOW I FIT GET THE 10BUCKS?

i hereby sentence you to a five yr ban for atempting to receive bribe....corrupt nigerian.....buhari come and see one of the corrupt nigerians oh...lol

delishpot:
As dem no get money or tittle, the world no hear about them.

yes oh

LEGALAide:
RULE 20.
....Please don't,... disrespect, or defame them.


YOU'RE BAN IS HEREBY EXTENDED INDEFINITELY.

-Nairaland Police.

oga take ten naira leave dem alone..shey i can fit bribe nairaland police

Cutehector:
dem knw me already for romance section na... dem knw say I no send

lol..me i no d talk for romance section oh,my own na to read comments go.but i sabi all of them...lol

Cutehector:
Jadekitana

hahhaahahhh..u like wahala oh

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xendra:
pftt...men do it all the time, lazy men everywhere. It doesn't have to be the woman's fault.

hello miss,i didnt dismiss the fact that it may not be her fault.that is why i adviced the op,to ask questions abt her in other to find out abt her....."lazy men"??i just hope u werent refering to me.

doughziay:
I dated this young lady for some months and things were going on fine until recently she told me she would like to discuss something with me and told me to promise her that it wouldn't change my attitude towards her.

She said she Has an 8year Old daughter already which made her drop out of school to take care of the child. The father of the child didn't take responsibility. She and her parents have been taking care of the child who's now 8yrs Old.

MY QUESTION: What would you do if you were in My shoes. Marry a single mom or Let her be.

you cant ignore what caused the break up oh.and why would a man abandon his own child just like dat.be wise my friend,make sure u find out a lot about she and her family before you enter that ship.else what wrecked her previous relationship will surely wreck dis one.

Tweak2k:
no I don't not I only kiss her..As I was walking with her I woke like someone drew me out with force

dats a bad omen bro.u shoudnt be committing immorality in your sleep.the fact dat a force woke u up is a sign that she is not for u.

Tweak2k:
that's bad I imagine that girl is connected to a girl destined for me in future... Thanks for you adding

dont marry her oh.u will fall into a trap

Tweak2k:
bro do you have any idea of what this means?

d second dream shows u r spiritually down..get ur prayer life right sir.

isbish:
Dude, come on. Just read.

i think you should read more about mohammed.......stick tongues.........dont worry dear,dis is an online forum,u cnt behead me for calling mohammed to order........runs outa thread..

lalasticlala food is ready...come chop rice and moi moi

make sure you marry a nine yr old....................moh9:116

bros u simply need to deepen your spiritual life

temmyisaacsblog:
About 2 years ago, I decided to start saving a portion of my salary. Although l did not inform him about it, he discovered the deposit teller used for the payments and was very angry about it. I told him l had no intention of keeping such info from him but only waiting to tell him just before he discovered.


http://temmyisaac..com.ng/2016/03/is-this-man-being-unreasonablen-or-is.html

u r being unreasonable for thinking he is being unreasonable.why did you hide it frm him in the first place.

Gospels:
This was a man who made known to people the brief history of God's generals like smith smigglesworth,kathyrn kulman,alexander dowie,john wesley e.t.c and the pentecostal churches,orthodox,lutherean denominations through the grace of God in his life.but today i can't see the grace there any longer in him to preach the gospel.today he just a mere twitter fan who just wakes up in the morning and tweets buddies and make out funny pics and tag friends,go on vacation nothing more.he might still be preaching but ain't as relevant as when he still wrote God's general maybe i think his scandal in 2001 also contributed to his downfall you can check out on this link:
http://articles.latimes.com/2001/dec/22/local/me-17193.
Cause there is a wise saying that says "SCANDALS MAKES YOU LOOSE CREDIBILITY"
You can check out some of his face book uploads to see what am saying hardly do you see gospel message about christ but all what he does now his to repackage his already sold God's general in a way whereby kids now have God's generals kids version why because he has nothing to offer again even if you check his channels he preaches the things he has written in his books long ago you can check out his channel on youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/user/robertsliardonmin/videos
All what you see are God's general still being talked about only different from the first location he preached it and some of his other books the same thing he preaches i mean verbatim.its more like he goes back to read his previously written books in other to know what to preach.if i may ask is it that God has stopped giving him new revelations or what?cause by what he updates in his page shows that he is far away cause even preachers like benny hinn,oyedepo,umai upkai,olukoya,adeboye evn some american word of faith preachers don't update such pics on their pages like what i mean is that the roberts liardon of today is a joke.check this out

because he isnt doing what you expect him to do doesnt mean he isnt doing what God expects of him.be watchful mr op.

explanations needed not likes plssssss

i have been following some death related threads for a while now,nd i just noticed a popular trend,which is the "RIP" to the dead trend.now am wondering what the mystery behind this saying is..i really need answers to some of these question.

1.is it that a dead person could rise again with saying REST IN PEACE.
2.Is it that the spirit of the dead will wander without the RIP slogan.
3.are all dead people resting?
i could go on and on.please if you can unravel the mystery behind this,am all ears.