duketunde: OMG this is so SAD! As reported in the LEADERSHIP SUNDAY. A pregnant woman identified as Elo, who was crushed to death alongside her one-year-old son at Alaba Suru bus-stop, along the Lagos-Badagry expressway was reported to have visited and even ate at her friends place two hours after the incident.
An eyewitness, who spoke with LEADERSHIP Sunday, said a Lexus Sport Utility vehicle (SUV) reversing against traffic crushed Elo, and her son. The eyewitness also told reporters that the impact smashed Elo's head and the intestine of the baby gushed out, after a truck conveying a 40-feet container also rammed into the SUV from behind, damaging it.
A family friend of the victims, Odafe, disclosed that two hours after the accident, Elo and her son appeared where her (Elo’s) friend was selling ‘amala’ along Ojo Road, Ajegunle, and after eating the food, left the scene.
He said 10 minutes later, someone came to the ‘amala’ joint to announce the news of the tragedy which the amala seller did not believe until she went to the scene. Elo was said to be a fashion designer at Ojo Road but lived with her husband at Surulere. She was returning home when the accident occurred. Her elder sister was said to have delivered a baby girl yesterday but people concealed the bad news from her. The case is being investigated by men of the Nigerian police force attached to the Layeni police station. - See more at: http://www.duketundesblog.com/2016/03/weird-woman-visit-friend-2-hours-after.html#sthash.Kc3n9dnB.dpuf
men of police want investigate spiritual matter...haaaaahahahahahaahah......if i hear
Speechless3: If someone had told me i will be making a life changing decision like this many years ago i would have been enraged, not at he or she but at the force that would dare cause that.
Was born a catholic, baptised by a priest and cofirmed by the state bishop. I annexed to this by becoming a member of the legion of mary (tho left at one time) i was still faithful to the blessed virgin mary with my bead ritual.
The truth is i only had to do this and that and then the other and relax. By relax, i mean do what ever i wanted. Club, have sex, drink, curse, lie, cheat, disobey other authorities, go nude etc as long as i came back for confession all the time and obtained mercy from God through the priest, i was fine. Maybe they didnt think it was fine i.e my lifestyle but the silence and indifference they showed, gave me the wrongest impression. After all i was always encouraged to go for confession like my life was hanging on it.
This is something that all catholics will understand. After confession we feel a bit unburdened with guilt...for a while. I dont know about others, but mine was not always more than an hour and i would be back to square one (or may be i never left there but thought i did). I was not freaky about the sunday communion thing like others cos i didnt think i was worthy.
Going to the university exposed me to other religious groups. I didn't like the way they shouted while praying but i admired the way they reverred the bible and talked about Christ more. I thought the catholic church was doing little in the teaching of biblical truths but was still a good model for other churches, mushroom churches.
There were times i made resolutions to turn a new leaf but they always never came to a fruition. Up till now. I couldn't, i cant keep them. All the rules of right living get lost on me. I just cant change. Talked with our priest every day about this after our doctrinal classes (joined the Opus dei) He suggested i read books of saints who had lived and overcame evil and of course by following the many laid down rules and rituals of the church. I read about mother Theresa, Pope John Paul the II, Saint José maria. Still nothing. It only made me feel unworthy but no power in them.
I decided to read the bible at last after so many procrastinations. I started with John and i have not seen any slight resemblance with the Church. I will continue with Matthew, Mark and Luke this month.
So many things in this old boring book are startling me.
firstly,you need to hand over your life to christ.....blv me sir,catholic dont teach the bible,and if you continue reading the bible,you will soon find out y everybody is not a sinner as you were thought in catholic.the word of God will so purify u dat u will hate sin with perfect hatred and you will begin to see yourrself live far above sin.i recommend you find a good bible believinng church or fellowship.
Kutunban: I wish to recommend a section with strict terms and conditions for members of the Christian faith share ideas and comment so that other religion members will not post mockery comments about Christianity. It should be strick for Christians just like the Muslim section.
Like if you agree Share if you don't agree
i agree with you,but i still dont understand why it has not been created yet.such threads that bashes only helps to strengthen my faith because i av encountered the God of the bible.what abt baby xtians,it will only dampen their faith..oga seun do something oh,if you can give sexuaity a place on nairaland,it is high time u gave xtians a place on this forum.
Brainiacbbb: Introversion is a personality trait characterized by a focus on internal feelings rather than on external sources of stimulation. While introverts and extroverts are often viewed in terms of two extreme opposites, the truth is that most people lie somewhere in the middle of the extroversion-introversion continuum. Do you assume that you know who is an introvert and who isn't? While you might think of an introvert as a shy wallflower who prefers to stay home alone instead of socialize, introverts can actually come in many types with a wide variety characteristics.
There are certainly plenty of introverts who are socially reserved and who would prefer to stay home and read a book rather than go to a big party, but there are also plenty of introverts who enjoy socializing. You might even be surprised to learn that many people who you think of as "social butterflies" might actually be quite introverted. The following are just a few of the signs that you (or someone you know) might be an introvert.
1. Being Around Lots of People Drains Your Energy Do you ever feel exhausted after spending time with a lot of people? After a day interacting with others, do you often need to retreat to a quiet place and have an extended amount of time all to yourself? One of the major characteristics of this personality type is that introverts have to expend energy in social situations, unlike extroverts who gain energy from such interactions. That doesn't meant that all introverts avoid social events altogether. Many introverts actually enjoy spending time around others, with one key caveat – introverts tend to prefer the company of close friends. While an extrovert might go to a party with the goal to meet new people, an introvert goes with the intent of spending quality time talking to good friends.
2. You Enjoy Solitude As an introvert, your idea of a good time is a quiet afternoon to yourself to enjoy your hobbies and interests. A few hours alone with a good book, a peaceful nature walk or your favorite television program are great ways to help you feel recharged and energized. This does not mean that the average introvert wants to be alone all the time. Many introverts love spending time with friends and interacting with familiar people in social situations. They key thing to remember is that after a long day of social activity, an introvert will probably want to retreat to a quiet place to think, reflect and recharge. If having a few hours to be along sounds like your idea of a good time, you just might be an introvert.
3. You Have a Small Group of Close Friends One common misconception about introverts is that they don't like people. While introverts typically do not enjoy a great deal of socializing, they do enjoy having a small group of friends to whom they are particularly close. Instead of having a large social circle of people they know only on a superficial level, introverts prefer to stick to deep, long-lasting relationships marked by a great deal of closeness and intimacy. If your social circle tends to be small but very close, there's a pretty good chance you are an introvert.
4. People Often Describe You as Quiet and May Find It Difficult to Get to Know You Introverts are often described as quiet, reserved, mellow and are sometimes mistaken for being shy. While some introverts certainly are shy, people certainly should not mistake an introvert's reserve for timidity. In many cases, people with this personality type simply prefer to choose their words carefully and not waste time or energy on needless chit-chat. If you are the quiet type and a little bit reserved, you probably are an introvert.
5. Too Much Stimulation Leaves You Feeling Distracted and Unfocused When introverts have to spend time in activities or environments that are very hectic, they can end up feeling unfocused and overwhelmed. Extroverts, on the other hand, tend to thrive in situations where there is a lot of activity and few chances of becoming bored. According to at least one study, researchers have found that introverts tend to be more easily distracted than extroverts, which is part of the reason why introverts tend to prefer quieter, less harried settings. If you tend to feel overwhelmed in busy social situations, you probably tend to be an introvert.
Final Thoughts
Remember, introversion is not an all-or-nothing characteristic. People can be what you might call introverts with a capital I (aka "very introverted" or they might be outgoing in some situations with some introverted tendencies. Introversion exists on a continuum with extroversion, and most people tend to lie somewhere between the two. One type isn't "better" than the other. Each tendency can have benefits and drawbacks depending upon the situation. By better understanding your personality, however, you can learn how to play to your strengths.
i really really hate being in a crowded environment,because i always feel exhausted.most annoyingly,ppl call me proud and strange because i can stay locked upp in a room for 24hrs..thanks op,u just described me.
Booyakasha: I disagree with the Introvert part.. I'm dating an introverted guy.. Apart from the fact that introverts can be extreme loners, practical people with inability to express theirselves and they get the phobia of kissing and hugging or even holding hands in public, here are some reasons to be with an introvert guy.. they're amazing!!
Great listeners. My boyfriend helps me a lot by just listening to me. You know when you want some one to just hear you out and only advice when asked for, Introverts are ever ready for that. Very Intelligent. Very clichéd sentence but trust me they are intelligent. My Man solves the rubiks cube in under 2 mins. That's crazy.
No nonsense. They are the ones you can have the most meaningful conversations with, not garbage talks. They guide you very well. Some how they see you just the way you are, and yet love you because it's beyond looks for them. They don't get blinded by love, and yet For them love means everything and they give it their all.
Not Fake. They do not pretend to like you. They either just like you or don't and will tell you straight
Love Ain't A Game . They don't fall in love easily, but They fall hard. For them love isn't a game, their Hearts are at Stake. If they tell you they love you, you better not break their heart.
Calm by nature. Would women want to be with a man who gets violent, abuses, puts her down, yells at her or with A Man who treats her like a princess, will be faithful and treat her with respect all her life. I'm sure you will choose the latter i.e The Introverted man. They can never get violent it's just not in their nature to fight, and usually are respectful towards everyone in general.
Give you space. Space is must in a relationship and introverts know how to give you that.
Hot in Bed. They are good love makers (I can only speak on the behalf of my bf). Boy they are passionate!!
Stand by you. Is anything in this world worth more than some one actually standing by you through the toughest times? Introverts who are in love with you, won't back down when your in trouble, or back off because some one else says so. They fight hard to protect their loved ones.
Won't “use" you. Introverted men never woo women as a game. They are genuinely attracted to her and want to get to know her on deeper level. Yes sex is on their mind too but they will never cross their boundaries with you. Introverted women find it hard to fall for some one and when they do it's usually for life.
Honesty. Yes they are brutally honest, they will criticize you, not to hurt you but, because they really care about you . Yet they will be the first ones to come Cheer you up, Motivate you when you feel down and like a total failure.
Best friends. They are the bestest friends you can ever find. Trust me.
Loyalty. Being faithful comes to them naturally. Since they are introverted, they do not have many friends or easily make new connections. This means they do not find it hard to stay loyal and committed when in a serious relationship.
Chidoks: Seeing a man cry is a serious matter except for the she-men that cry like Jim iyke. Again reason factor, women cry over anything including head ache, torn clothes, soiled nails, spilled nail polish remover, etc etc... But men only cry in the face of tragedy which rarely occurs. I once wished Oga could cry for me to pet him but as maturity progresses, abeg make he hold I'm tears because na only tragedy fit make man cry publicly
postmann: The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruits looked delicious and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. Gen 3:6a
Don't be fooled, feminism goes far beyond equal rights for women. It is mainly a matter of greed, rebellion, misandry, male overthrow, and I dare say, satanism. It is the single greatest threat to a decent, stable society. And it is the biggest reason for societal chaos and disorder today. Like its near cousin homosexuality, they are fruits of the same evil tree - Rebellion.
Feminism comes in various shades - The Liberal; being the most mild and subtle but equally godless and greedy in its goals. A mishmash of laudability and usurpation, she is against domestic violence, social injustice, sexual harassment and equal access to education for women. These are laudable goals and every sane man would gladly support. But that's where the pretence stops. She goes out of her way to fight privately owned firms and try to force them to comply to equal pay for men and women. And she lobbys the government to make it a law.
But you don't tell a private or non-governmental firm what to do with its pay structure. If they feel performance is relational to gender, then so be it. It's their call to make. Afterall, men don't take the "monthly stomach cramp" excuses for off duties, neither do they take maternity related leave. But this is just a start, it actually gets worse!
The Anarcha-Feminism: imagine a group of feminist movement in one of the Scandinavian countries lobbying for an outright ban of men standing erect to urinate in a public toilet, because they feel that men soil the place when they stand erect to urinate. They proposed that men using the public toilet should squat like women when urinating. Hmmm! Bunch of she-devils! The anarcha-feminist is against every form of patriarchal system. She's as intellectual as she's godless. She holds unto her maiden name and rejects her husband's name. She believes in the soundness of her little falacies but never coming to the understanding that she's spiritually hollow! She's her own worst enemy.
The Social Feminist wants to eat her cake and have it. A greedy leech who wants all the benefits of a male worker who never applied for maternity leave. She doesn't believe a woman should sacrifice her ambition in order to raise her young children properly. She sees childbirth as a disadvantage to her ambition. Very unfeminine and greedy, she has little or no love for children, as she sees them as a hindrance to her greed.
A Radical Feminist is an active witch (rebellion is as bad as witchcraft, sam 15:23). She hates the present capitalist system because it's male dominant. The only alternative she recognises is the complete overhaul of the present male dominated system. A greedy and insatiable lot. She doesn't know her place. She has lost her original compass to greed and rebellion. She is largely responsible for most of the societal chaos. She spends most of her days resentinel being a female. Self-loath is her middle name. She is incapable of love.
A Cultural feminist believes that there is no real difference between a man and a woman. That the differences as they exist are simply psychological and culturally constituted rather than biologically programed.
She's mentally and spiritually compromised hence she's one confused woman. They are largely responsible for the female fall from grace as they promote indecency in dressing and mannerism in women.
Lastly, The Lesbian feminist. Well, you know her. They are shameless and psychological and spiritually compromised. She hates heterosexual relationship and can really be aggressive against the patriarchal order.
They look at the BOOK of books and they scoffed at it. But the fountain of wisdom thereof is far beyond the knowledge of their little hen-rebellion. Gen 3:16b puts it clearer.
The humble woman shall eat and be satisfied and rest in the bossom of her MAKER. If she fails to be appreciated by a foolish husband, her children's praise and gratitude will never escape her.
But for the rebellious, their fall shall be double; both here and there-to-come. I have searched and searched, wide and far, but I've never seen a feminist who's truly happy, going to her grave fulfilled.
(Postmann.)
most ppl wont take time to read this,but will just keep abusing u due to the word "feminism"....wonderful piece
asuustrike2009: Who told you men don't cry? of course they cry alot is just that most of them cry secretly after all cry is cry whether public or secret.
Moses247: Lol See yawa!!
My PASTOR asked me how much I bought my
Iphone 6 and I said 25k instead of 140k
because I don't want him to know I have that
kind of money, now he gave me 50k to get it
for him and his wife.
Watin una advice mk i do abeg
why is it difficult/not allowed for men to cry. but for women ,it is allowed.i feel cheated because sometimes crying makes one feel better..no abuses..
delonz: A man whose 7 years old son needs a smartphone (iPhone) and the man, demanded 10 excellent grade from him is his new school report card. Attached is what the boy got in his new school report card, and the man is asking if he should buy his 7 years old son the iPhone he had promised.
it is foolishness to promise a child a fone for perfoming well academically,talkless of an iphone..why dont u get him a wife too.train a child to know the benefits of academic excellence not to trade excellence for material things.
taikem01: A friend just called me to seek for my advice on this matter. He went to see his fiancee's parents to pick d date for their introduction and he was shocked when d man started giving some rules. He told my friend that his daughter must be pregnant before wedding and that d wedding must be done three weeks after introduction. This dude is not bowyant enough financially to marry immediately after introduction. Since last week, d guy has been confused about the kind of family he wants to marry from cos he couldn't understand why a father would request dat his daughter get pregnant before marriage. I advice him to tell his mum(his dad is late) to investigate the family whether they are diabolical/fetish or not but He doesn't want to tell her cos he knows d mother does not like to hear things like that, being a born again christian. Meanwhile, my friend said he loves this girl so much. Pls what can he do?
if you were a female i would understand.because most parents are scared of the wayward attitude of the females of this generation.this is why most parents will demand that you get the girl pregnant first.but in this case,you are a male.there can be only two possibilities. 1.maybe your fiancee is so wayward that her father wants to make sure,his daughter is still fruitful,and doesnt want you to pay for her foolishness.some parents could actually be like that... 2.her parents,could be very diabolical and fetish.
my advice:put a hold to the whole process and try to find out abuot this family.most importantly,study your wife to be properly.never you get her pregnant before marriage,jesus forbids that.
nice501: It is with a heavy heart I write. I can't contain it anymore. What started some three years ago is about to send a young boy who has barely started life to the great beyond. His name is ONYEJI ANTHONY MMADUABUCHI. He is my brother, the 5th child in my family. He hals from Abajah, Nwangele LGA, Imo State. He had nephrotic syndrome three years ago and was vigorously treated. Complete remission was achieved. The nephrotic syndrome struct again last year and progressed rapidly to End Stage Renal Disease.
He has been off and on dialysis since January this year and the laboratory results are not getting favorable. He is currently at NATIONAL HOSPITAL, ABUJA, BED 12, MALE MEDICAL WARD. Hence, the need to move him to India where he can get kidney transplantation.
I hereby solicit for help from you and other well-meaning Nigerians. Any financial or logistic help rendered by you will go a long way in saving this young boy.
Media coverage is also needed to reach out to people. You can call or WhatsApp this number belonging to my cousin Uchenna Osuji, who is taking care of him in the hospital: +2347035105352.
Thank you for your contributions and prayers. May the good Lord reduce your expenditures and increase your savings this year and many more years to come, Amen.
Adaeze003: Actually one sensible mention from a guy/man, no insulting word or comment... me likey.
Actually, marriage is a union. I mean, even the whites, as rational as they are know this, why do you think every asset is split down the middle in divorce?
Now, you must understand that no one is sharing "head of house" with man. Also, I don't subscribe to african type marriages where I'll live my whole life stroking a man's ego. Well if you subscribe to it then ignore the rest of the post. But if you're talking Christian type marriage go on...
Now, on the submission issue, you have to agree that men are also to love their wives like their own body/self? And even unto dying for her Do you think it's that feeling of the heart pumping faster when you see her? Do you really think women have the hardest part? Love is synonymous to selflessness and putting her/her needs/wants before yours , overlooking her flaws(even if one of those flaws is not being submissive ), I can go on but I think you get the picture after all bible says "like Christ himself loves the world"!
But hey! What the average Nigerian man wants is slavery, the right to never be questioned by their wives even when they poke other holes, ultimately, they want to be gods of their wives. It might work, but only for sometime even for the insecure women then, there's friction(fact!).
This is the reason marriages are in trouble, men have decided to not see their own part and they hold on to the submission part and carry it on their heads like agege bread.
Complete the equation or let it go completely, if you want submission, love like you're supposed to. That's it! If not, you're in for a whirlwind of a marriage.
Oya where are all them mentioners, read and digest... Cc EgunMogaji ghostwritter gumeehn linusbnn agu87 SirJeffry engrshakespeare krismart mamaafrik kondomatic...
true....a man who cant love his wife unconditionally should not demand submission.i also agree that sometimes,men misunderstand submission,thinking its slavery.take note,unconditional love never makes a man equal to a woman in marrige.
My dear, as a woman you must submit to your husband, in all things. I tell you from experience. You see even if you had a twin brother, by virtue of him being male, he will grow to be more sensible than you are. It does not matter whether he has made grievous mistakes in the past or he has indulged in rash decisions. once he gets married and he assumes that title "Head of the House" or "Husband", he automatically gets magically imbued common sense. Now you must understand that your husband is the God you see, throw away all talk of partnership, is there any partnership between God and Man. NO!! God is forever above man, as your husband is forever above you. You must grovel at his feet, contort yourself to the point of elasticity and numb your emotions, because the only feelings that should be your primary concern in that union should be his. You must do everything for him short of worshipping him. You are lucky to be married. Some women are still single and anytime they pass a bustop or junction, people spit at them and throw rotten tomatoes at them. Do you want to be one of those bitter single women?
Listen, any thing that is wrong with any relationship is the woman's fault. She needs to check herself to make sure she does not lose him like a toy to some other woman. Is he cheating on you? Then you must either be dressing like an old woman or not giving him enough blowjobb. Is he beating you? Then you must either be a nag or a stupid housewife who brings no monetary value to the union except maybe do all the housework and take care of both your children. Check yourself. Men are too rational unlike emotional and confused women. Check yourself Nigerian Woman.
Finally. concerning this topic, here are some definitions of what submissive means.
adjective -Being subjected to an action without producing a reaction.Taking no action. He remained passive during the protest.(grammar) -Being in the passive voice.(psychology) -Being inactive andsubmissive in a relationship, especially in a sexual one. (finance) Not participating in management. (aviation) Without motive power.
Here is another definition-- Submissive
One who gives over their rights, their desires, and themselves to another. As a gift. Of the two, Jane was the most submissive. by. Anonymous November 02, 2003
submission /səbˈmɪʃ(ə)n/ noun 1. the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person.
Some men here will want to wrongly deceive you that there is power in submission. That is a bloody lie. There is no requirement for how he is to reciprocate. Even if the Bible tells you that Husbands should love wives as themselves, you know some women, they will try to take advantage of such love. Don't let her cross boundaries. Plus we as women, what do we even need the power for sef? We are helpers. If He need sex we give it. Why do we need to stay on top? What else. We start asking our husbands to give us mouth job, cunninlingus? Start demanding that we also have orgasms? That is un-african. There is no power in being submissive. You are a woman. You do not need to have any. Thank God you have a man.
So this is not a case of him getting your opinion, he doesn't bloody need your input. Did David need his previous wife opinion before marrying a new wife? NO! If he wants to bring in the whole village into his house, then he bloody well can. He is the head of the family. Its his house, he paid a lot of money on you, you're his property. You will host his guest, cook and clean after them. If you cannot do that, then he gets another girl to do it simple. /
Ebukaobi: And after you find out the person wey u think wanted to kill 200 people is innocent, you still do not apologize?
They couldnt have tried that with a white person.
Please read the whole article sir, it is less than 2000 words
hahaahah.bros i get ur drift,but lets be frank.do you honestly think they didnt apologize to him,even though they didnt do it publicly??........God help the man say no be naija him dey,him for meet jungle justice inside plane.....hahaah.......criously,maybe they just forgot to say sorry publicly..
mmmustapha: Weather they like it or no Islam will dominate the world, proudly Muslim #iamnotaterrorist
shey isis are xtians?? muslim can never dorminate the world with the way u guys r going.u will only scare ppl away from u guys.tel ur isis brothers to pick up a quran and go out for evangelism,convincing ppl to blv in mohammed,instead of killing the innocent in the name of jihad.
Ebukaobi: I suppose that the T&Cs of the ticket allows for forceful removal from the airplane based on the hunch of a fellow passenger Without any physical evidence to back up their suspicion?
I suppose that The T&C states that your fellow passengers can read your personal messages and make assumptions about your intent?
I guess the T&C of the ticket states that in the event that the accusations prove to be false, it is OK for the passenger to subjected to verbal abuse from fellow passengers even after his innocence has been established by the authorities?
I also guess that the T&C expressly indicates that the airline does not have to provide an apology for the inconvenience the passenger was subjected to?
Well I disagree with you and I guess that the passenger has brought the issue to public light because he feels his rights has been violated upon
Remember that this is not some local airline in Nigeria
bros forget all these grammer.better to embarrass obama than for over 200 persons to die..
linusbnn: Very true. The truth is that when a woman lower herself to the husband,she gains more. Just look at this scenario, my old friend is coming to town for something resourceful nd probably needed to stay in my huse for 2days and I told my wife so she should be aware,only for her to tell me no,even when she doesn't know him. Then that woman must be wicked because this would have been a time to show your husband great love by treating our guest with a lasting memories. I will only tell her please Madam, I only want to inform you on his visit and not for you to concur or not.
i agree with you.sir.submission gives women more power in the sight of their men.even sarah called abraham "lord"......funny most of them are xtians...lol
linusbnn: I should leave my house for you and go to hotel or something? I pity your dreamland. Man love your wife and wife be submissive to him. If you re wiser than God,then go against this and see how miserable I will make your life to be.
Anu Mkpama
brother,the problem is witht the word "submission".women generally believe that when you ask them to submit ,it means you want them as dumb slaves.the holy bible says men should love their wives as christ loves the church,and women should submit to their husbands..they only look at the submission part but forgetting the love part..it takes more than physical attraction to love a wife the way christ loves the church.for instance,christ died for the church,how many men can actually give up their limb for their wives talkless of dieing.so i ask,what is then so dificult to submit to a man who can love you unconditionally,just as christ loves the church.absolutely nothing! but our ladies are just being blinded by,their ego.not wanting to submit,thinking that it is easy to love them unconditionally...if the bible was wrong,i dont think women would be so crazy about men showering them with love.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Biodun Reacts To A Man Who Blasted Him For His Yacht Party(pic) by misreal(m): 8:55pm On Mar 06, 2016
but for women ,it is allowed.i feel cheated because sometimes crying makes one feel better..no abuses..
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Apart from the fact that introverts can be extreme loners, practical people with inability to express theirselves and they get the phobia of kissing and hugging or even holding hands in public, here are some reasons to be with an introvert guy.. they're amazing!! 
