₦airaland Forum

Multi joy Hall is located at Estate gate bustop, Ipaja road, about 450 guests N180,000. It's a nice place and quite close to Ikotun.

kokoye:
awareness and enforcement

But I understand the fact that in Nigeria, some parents dont want to be seen as drivers to thier babies / toddlers.

Here, fathers drive while the mom sits in the 'owner's corner' with the baby in the center. . . i Know that will not happen with most people in Naija.

funny but sad.

Very true, many people still struggle with ego and pride and they tend to focus their energy on vanity.

Pathetic. I dont see any reason why ur MIL should deprive u of ur wife and child. Your wife accepting such behaviour from her mother is not helping the situation. But are u telling the whole story cos I cant understand whu ur wife should agree to this if there was no problem in d marriage. Have u tried talking to ur wife to know what exactly she wants/her expectations from u. I hope she knows what she wants sha or else she might ask u to wait while she asks her mother for an answer . If ur wife didnt report u to her mother, then why is ur MIL claiming u r not taking good care of her?

If u fight for the custody of the child now, can u take care of the baby without the mother?

I pray it works. Several interventions had been targeted at the northern states especially interventions targeted at the almajiris, it had always failed cos their leaders believe that u are depriving them of their foot soldiers, moreso they see it as a religious obligation so they are ever ready to frustrate your efforts. They are really living in the dark. They have higher prevalence rates in maternal and infant deaths, child marriage, poverty, illiteracy, too many and poorly spaced children, you name it. With education, a whole lot of problems will drastically reduce.

Why go thru all d stress of pounding the yam when the end product will be the same as using the poundo yam floor. Sometimes, we give ourselves unnecessary stress because of mere illusions. Anyway, those that have the time and the strength should continue with their pounded yam, as for me poundo yam is good to go. Just few minutes and food is ready

blank:
Accountants of course, duh.

Accountants ke? I have seen imported  (permit me to say) accountants o, especially in all these indian /Lebanese companies. They definately dont trust Nigerians with their funds, most of them employ Nigerian accountants to do the running around while they man the koko.

Koolking:
last I checked politics is a profession. Politicians stand out in Nigeria. I have never heard expatriates ever been shipped to Nigeria to help our politicians convince the people about their insincerity. Our politicians have been doing that professionally independent.

I can't but agree and what a wonderful job they are doing!!!

May God help us o. May I ask if Boko Haram is also a job, cos they also hire expatriates for their mission.

I can't shout

May God help us. Nigeria's case is so pathetic. A thief in government house indeed; so many thieves on the loose in our government.

If they return the money to Nigeria, what difference will it make to the common man? It will only enrich the likes of James Ibori. I just wonder what he wants all that money for is he sick or something or why should u amass so much wealth, what for? The British govt estimated his loot to be about £250million which is over N65billion naira. What is that if not madness!

What are u waiting for? move on

Hearty congratulations to you on your birthday. Wishing you and ur family the best in life

House, pls help out with your advice!

I'm caught between doing an MPH or MSc in Development mgt. My focus is to work in development organisations. Personally, I'm inclined to go for Devt mgt as I dont want to limit my scope to health component alone, devt mgt will give me a broader view. I dont have a medical background but I presently work in d admin unit of a development org into health issues and in the nearest future I'll be delving into programmatic activities. Most of my colleagues opt for MPH but I dont just want to jump with the crowd but weight the 2 options very carefully.

Which of the 2 courses might offer the best career opportunity in Nigeria.

House, pls help out with your advice!

I'm caught between doing an MPH or MSc in Development mgt. My focus is to work in development organisations. Personally, I'm inclined to go for Devt mgt as I dont want to limit my scope to health component alone, devt mgt will give me a broader view. I dont have a medical background but I presently work in d admin unit of a development org into health issues and in the nearest future I'll be delving into programmatic activities.

Which of the 2 courses might offer the best career opportunity in Nigeria.

Mind u, dont be surprised if dt guy pestering u now run once he knows u r pregnant.

Quite a difficult situation. Just weigh the pros and cons of keeping d baby and having an abortion. Although, personally I may not go for an abortion but then I'v never been in dat situation. If u r sure u can face being a single mother both emotionally and financially, then keep d baby and brace up 4 d consequences. Ur family may not support u initially, but with time they will come around.

Condom use is just about 90-95% safe, anything culd have happened. Can u get in touch with d guy responsible, who knows? Otherwise in the distance future, be prepared for the story u will tell ur child about d dad. At least make him know he has a child somewhere in fairness to him.

Now what can I say? U've been mixing with the bad ones and all tribes have their bad eggs

@Guitarboy, so because u saw a CD in her handbag makes her a slut, and according to u that she has been sleeping around right? Because of this one lady u claim that u can no longer get a decent lady because ALL women are being laid like dogs

Cant you for once make up your mimd and think straight. One of your numerous challenges is that you dont communicate. U saw something, u neva commented but it's eating u like mad. U talked about proposing to another lady, is this how u will carry on in relationship/marriage? U'd better dont giv urself unnecessary high blood pressure. Once something is bugging u, learn to ask questions and be assertive.

U have for the second time called off the relationship with this ur first love, do u expect her to still cry and whine d way u do? Here u are crying foul because of a CD which shouldnt bother u in d first place since u both are no longer in any relationship and u plan proposing to someone else (according to ur post). From all indication, she has moved on, u too should move on and man up.

D girl that has been on ur neck 4 for intimacy, why did u call her, to relieve u of ur pain? Grow up man and dont do anything silly.

Move on with ur life. God @ 26yrs u shld know what u want from life.

Wow , $21million for a divorce pay! That britico wife is not easy o, what an easy way out.

What about cases where it is actually the wife that is solely funding of the project but in the name of Mr& Mrs. Should such women desist because of fear of uncertainty?

Hmmm. Still thinking, I'll be back.

My dad never wanted to see male visitors with his daughters. It's either he chased them away himself by saying " Dont u ever come here asking to see my daughter again" or he made them wait outside indefinately while u dare not attempt to open the door for them. I've always avoided this embarrasment by not giving male classmates/friends my address. While I was in University, unfortunately for an old classmate of mine, he got the information from someone that I was on break, he got my address from God knows where and he came visiting. My dad practically chased him away, I was so embarrassed.

Few years later, when I was around 25/26 yrs, he told me to bring my fiance home as he had been hearing a particular name often. I was like, eh Is this my dad or someone else?

With your songs, u inspired millions of people. I'v always been hoping for a turnaround for u, but alas u passed on. Right now, ur songs are been played in my head. So sad to lose a talent.

Whitney Houston- Adieu

Is he mentally sick or something?

When the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

Ingenious!

A similar thing happened to a colleague. She was driving with her laptop and handbag on the bag seat. She forgot to loch her back door while in a traffic, a guy got in and within a twinkling of an eye he made away with her laptop and handbag. I guess the watch word is to take caution and be alert. Take care

Yes, if the man is focused and not comfortable or sitting back while I work. Of course, situation may arise that leads to d wife being the breadwinner. Nowadays, its no big deal.

It is well with you. God is with u, so stay strong at His appointed time, you will have your babies. He knows best.

Welcome back How was the moon? Anyway now that u r back, could u answer the questions Joagbaje previously raised?

My guy, u dont have to be in a hurry cos marriage is not a thing to hurry into, it's a lifetime commitment. Dat girl sounds fishy, she has started manifesting b4 marriage but once u marry u'll see part 2 cos I'm sure u havnt seen anytin yet. It is traces like this that some pple ignore only for them to regret their action later. Take urtime and find ur wife urself. Mind u, if u can maintain a low profile, I mean no show offs that u just landed, with time u'll meet d right one. But wait o, why not go ahead with ur other plans or is marriage d no 1 on ur list? Cos I think by the time u start ur running around 4 ur biz/investmt, u'll continue to meet more people.

What e your elder brothers unmarried status got to do with you? What if they decide not to marry in the next 10 yrs are u ready to wait? See, my younger sister married before all her elder sisters(including me), infact her 5year old daughter was my little bride. Though she settled down quite early,our prayer was that she shouldnt make a mistake cos and thank God today. Even my hubby's younger brother got married b4 him - so what's d big deal?Therefore, once you know what u r doing, I dont see why u should disturb yourself unnecessrily. Go ahead and get married. (Anyway, that u stay alone doesnt give u d go ahead to chase other ladies. What if u eventually get marrried and u or ur wife gets a transfer and u couldnt help living alone for a while - will u go skirt hunting? )