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ojmaroni247:
My brother from another mother, obinna udogwu..... May ur soul rest in peace.

Accept my sincere condolences...do take heart and my prayers goes out to his immediate family

Over the years your wife has studied your area of weakness n doesn't hesitate to use it against u. Could be that she knows you can't do without her ..I don't know. If u love your marriage n want it to work, give her space to realize herself that her sister is destroying her marriage while she is in her husbands house enjoying herself. If u have a sibling that make ur meals let them come for a while since ur wife is yet to come back. Trust me after some time if ur sis in law is not getting the reaction she needs from u, she will be the one to throw out ur wife from her house sef. Seperation is no sin, if it's necessary to reset someone's brain. Love ur wife, you can't force her to submit to u I know but u can refuse to be manipulated or made a fool infront of ur in-laws. That way she will know she married a man.

So sad

It's well

Hmmm, if he was truly sorry he wouldn't make the apology public. Nobi mouth

Every Nigerian soilder should not earn anything less than 800,000ngn monthly salary and millions paid to their families in compensation..with free medical care and scholarship for families of any deceased soilder..

May his soul rest in peace..

Well done both commentors and OP.. no need to fight or argue about what a woman shd do or shdnt.. poster specified in Nigeria, because she knows most homes do not have basic amenities like washing machine, adequate running tap water, things to make kitchen chore easy or even constant power supply..
Also things like vacuum cleaner etc may not be available..but that not withstanding, marriage is enjoy able if n only if u are with the right person or partner, because in the absence of all the amenities mentioned above, you will feel joyous to cook for your partner.
As Linda ikeji is, if she happens to marry a man who isn't as rich as she is, she already has an understanding that she needs to cook for her husband, she will then equip her kitchen to suit her taste cos that's her office..
House cleaning can be outsourced ...

Chai...goose pimples...

Jman06:
My simple advice to you is to respect your body small and stop whoring about.

Yes sir... No problem, while I'm at it, do get some small sense for yourself, apparently you have that of a goat.
Poverty stricken pple are known by their brash way of talking on social media..

Jman06:
Ehn leave her for us like that. Is it your maga??

See as all you loose girls of nairaland are hyperventilating on this thread because the girl dared to differ from you lots.

Thank goodness that my girl is also a virgin. I promised to buy her a car as a reward for keeping herself despite her beauty and the pressure she has been facing from men. I must fulfil that promise on our wedding day.

Buy her a car when you can't afford a bicycle..I like ur faith sha..continue for ur maga business

Very beautiful I must add..

This lady is not a virgin trust me..she just needs a maga she will con into marriage then find one sorry tale to tell him how she lost it days to the wedding .
What's with the holy hands sign? N Bible carrying? Virgins are not even known to dress like that ..
Hope d potential hubby goes for hospital test first to confirm her claim..babes gat no chill these days

95% of what women call domestic violence is that they married a man who can't contain their excesses. Very very few women are truly submissive n respect their spouses weda he cheats or not..as long as they have seen their husbands unclothedness they have become mates ..see the lady that poured soup on her husband after two hot slaps..then if he had retaliated na domestic violence..

People that come here to judge the dead are the first partakers of hell fire..it's scriptural Jesus said the measure with which u judge others will be used for u. So continue saving space for your selves in hell thinking u are doing assistant Jesus work by judging someone Jesus already died for her sins.
Rest in peace beautiful one..

Archangel01:
Good morning guys
Please I need your advice.
I have been offered a job in two different companies. I am confuse on which one to choose.

The first offer is =

Salary #80,000.

Base on the arrangements I get to work for 15 days a month.

Transportation expenses #3000 a month.



THE SECOND JOB OFFER.

Salary #95,000

I get to work everyday of the month ( Friday, Saturday and Sunday's are a must ) and I also have to do some other things that are not part of my original job

One off day a week.

Transportation expenses #12,000


Please ooo
If you are in my position which one will you choose.

Ps. I only intend to work for just 2 years because I have other plans for my future.

Hello poster..
Pls I'm in port Harcourt..anyone of the jobs you decide drop pls kindly link me up, via graceamazing808@gmail.com. thanks in advance

Pls dear be careful..Nigerian cat n oyibo cat no get same mentality ..

The guy wey bite am resemble dog with rabies ..make them give am anti rabies shot first

Check well it's not his biological mother..no son with conscience can do such to a real mother.
I have a feeling I know this poster..very unrepentant..n always taking such evil risks

When women say husband must show this year, what do they really mean or need? I'm beginning to suspect it's meal ticket them dey find ..with this economy how many male graduates have good paying jobs but if they approach you, u tell them to go look for their class..many couples we see today didn't start wealthy ..as a woman build yourself..build with your man, you can't see an average female earner online wailing for husband ..only the slay queens.

Humble yourselves and ask for the secret ..

Young03:
IMO girls too dey tey for them papa house

Genny,Rita and even Linda ikeji

Even me too. Especially from mbaise. Nobi say dem no fine or try in careers and businesses. This coming year go change everything.

Absolutely wrong teaching @ OP.. this has been a long standing misunderstanding in the body of Christ..we should tell every saint to prepare for the great tribulation not the rapture..the rapture is the second coming of Christ which the Bible says that ALL EYES (including the pagans) WILL SEE HIM AND THE SAINTS WILL BE TRANSFORMED INSTANTLY TO MEET HIM IN THE SKY. The tribulation is aimed at making believer denounce Christ n not the unbelievers...

Many Christians will lament n blame their GO for not helping them prepare in time about this tribulation..while expecting Rapture ..the book of revelation throws more light on this topic..

Kraspo:
"She Killed Him Because She Loved Him"
For the sake of love
He went back home that fateful night
And in his sleep
She stabbed him.
With a precision akin to a gladiator
Not once, not twice,
She stabbed him multiple times until she was exhausted.
And with every stab she made,
A portion of her anger melted away,
Until she was empty of her bitter jealousy
And he was drained of life in a pool of his own blood
Only then did she feel relieved
Only then did she get even with him
And then she took him in her own hands to the hospital.
This is not a thief nor a stranger nor a random predator.
This is not a pedophile or a rapist.
This is not even a terrorist!
This is a man in whose bosom you have felt the warmness of affections
A man who had shared his deepest secret with you
This is a man who left his first wife to be with you.
You chased away his close friends
Chased away his family
And finally chased him from this world
Talking about love going sore!
What a affectionate tragedy!
You killed him because beneath that beautiful face
That smiles with subtle tenderness.
And radiates with compassion and innocence
Is a vicious murderer!!

I'm yet to come to terms with this story..I can't imagine how a woman can do this to a man she married n ever loved..I still find it difficult to believe..
She should get a death sentence without long trial before she kills someone else ..

Rest in Peace Bossman..

Some pple were shouting domestic violence here yesterday cos a man gave his wife to be small slap and she left. What do we call this one now? I'm sure this man is the type that overlooked a woman's unrulyness so she won't scream domestic violence..it starts with disrespecting his authority as a man, and graduates to calling him names, then slapping him first in an argument, now hot water. see what she has done to him now..
Men should declare operation know your woman's character and tame her accordingly.

Pple's comment amaze me.. Guy go n beg her if u truly love her she will come back. I'm sure she is not willing to throw everything away just like that..

Op said he has told her severally not to pick his calls as he does not go near her fone.
If he had called off d wedding because she picked his call, pple would call him weak etc now he chose a way to register his displeasure according to him small slap o, ( I wasn't there) and every one is screaming domestic violence.. but when ladies with chichi igbos structure slap a man its not domestic violence..
Hmm..
Some women once they have seen a man's unclothedness respect flies out of the window. It is very wrong.

Kaaaii..Chichi give Bobrisky that body nah.. wetin u wan do with 8 pacs? I would love to see your reaction around Bob risky too

OP you lost me as soon as u said he is your boyfriend and intended spouse.. u didn't even lend him the money. You 'INVESTED' into your fiances business and because he had a small setback (which maybe the witches from ur village following your money) may have attributed to causing, the only thing u are after is ur 500k. In business n investments if u were expecting to share the lumps of profits by weekly dividends you must also accept the losses that come wit it too..you never ever force someone u invested in their business to return ur lump sum that way it's not done..your boyfriend may have turned a cold shoulder because u went back on ur initial agreement of putting one million, u said u would have put all if u had token..then someth happened. U held ur money back..nne honestly u r wicked. Truth be told. The man may have realized that ur type is only for better not for worse hence d loss of interest..
You also said u don't mind loosing ur relationship for 500k. Don't worry u will loose it and maybe wen u reach 60 years as a spinster u will realize that even $1m can't purchase a good man in d market..
Well done..your life, your choice..

OP I wish I had a father like yours. You are blessed. I would give anything to be in your shoes. My father is a deeply occultic man and you can imagine the state of affairs in my family. I have prayed tirelessly for his repentance but it seems it's nothing is happening.. Pls every day u kneel to pray, thank God first that you have a father who is going to any lenght to make sure you make Heaven n bond with Jesus whether he is going about it the right way or not.

Peaceful abi??

The problem is not even Nwamaikpes stupidity.. I'm shocked at the (6) likes that endorsed his stupid comment.
What?? U all need to be locked up in a zoo, not for tourist attraction but as food for beasts like lions..

Go back to your husband and submit under him, if your christianity is working use it to repair your marriage.. we don't need your speaking in tongues..thanks though..
The bible said your good works will win him over if he is not a believer already. You packed and left he never threw you out. Swallow your pride..plastic and artificial life doesn't pay. If you had used the amount of time you spend on social media to work on ur marriage, trust me things will be better..#familyovereverything. Your son needs his father more than you except you want to turn him into Bob risky

Rubbish and total disregard for invited guests.. after the groom go open hand to collect envelope from guests..u planned wedding for 10years, and u couldn't keep the crowd small to at least less than 50 which won't cost u 50k max to feed them neatly. Lie that half of the money the guests gave u as gift wasn't used to purchase that car..u are just stingy and highly selfish, greedy as well..also plan ahead for ur kids school fees in public schools so private won't eat ur money for building one room in ur village..