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Reading this story hurts the brain.

I came to read something that may have been related to me since I'm quiet
Only to see this

bukogu459:
She really tried staying this long and treating infections, thank her star he hasn't infected her with HIV

Exactly. I'm worried & wondering the state of her vjay since she has been treating infections for God knows how long.

sirBLUNT:
lol you remind me of davido and chioma they say she hook him with her cook skills but i'm not him i need morethan food....

i can't wait to see you in G country so i compare and contrast and give my verdict but don't enter in ghostmode as you always do oo

Lol...what else do you need? Pray tell.

I will try not to dear. Are you in the G country?

You forgot to add number 8

To have their own children. Especially as the biological clock of a woman ticks much more faster than a man's. So because of this, a single lady especially one who loves kids so much( like I do) will be desperate to get hooked by a man to avoid stories that touch.

Na wah o. She's "too young to be separated from her husband".




But she isn't too young to die
But madam, you try.

sirBLUNT:
i haven't even start thinking in that direction yet so there's nothing to lock down..

i knew you will not agree,am looking forward to eating your meal you seems to be so confidence of yourself that i kind of admire your cooking skills...

Ok dear. But hurry up. I don't want you to miss that woman that can cook achi & uziza for you. She's definitely bae.

How will I agree that another woman cooks better than I do? . No nah. Don't worry. One of these days, I will come to the G country for that

sirBLUNT:
hahah wife material funny you!

yea i did enjoy myself,she is a great cook like you i guess or better.... winks!

Yes na...lock it down quickly dear.

Better? Nah. I don't think so

donstan18:
I respect your suggestion.

Thanks for the respect

donstan18:
Lol, I still understand the point of the manager , I perfectly understand. But don't she think familiarity will be cool to be created if she approves the management application before applying for ATM

Ok....then I suggest you apply for the ATM 2 weeks before you set out for the Arabian city to execute the contracts

cassyrooy:
MrToks2008 I don't think I have anything to say other than admit to agreeing with you.

The only problem women have is the thought that they are condescending to a lower status or something.

MissJoy29 come and see something, do you agree or disagree?

I had to read the pages from top to bottom before answering.

Personally, I don't think I can approach a guy first. I'm not sure I can. The best I can do is show him the green light. He should handle it from there.
My main reason why is the fear of wooing a really immature guy & what & what he will say about me to his friends. I don't think my tough skin is that tough to withstand the embarrassment.

What about you? How do you react to ladies wooing you first?

donstan18:
They type in the same manner, same writing structures, similar created threads.

His first YIM on his profile was about broke dudes stalking him which was what Theupsetgirl was advocating about, but he later changed it

You won't see the both accounts active, one must be on lowkey to enable the other active

A lot of things

Hmmmm...intriguing.

Well, that's their headache

donstan18:
Oh! now I understand, but according to CR7's fan, he said it'll be nice for Buhari to get conversant and familiar with the branch manager before making a deal on when to visit and execute those contracts with AraBiAn contractors.

Yea, i'v thought of the ATM, I'll go for the Atm pin once my social management skills is seen and approved

The manager is assuring CR7's fan's friend that once the agreement about the WHEN has been drawn up for easy movement, she would invite Buhari to get the ATM. After all, a lot of bankers lied and deceived on their applications and she's scared she will waste time and go through the application & it will turn out blank. So, understand where the manager of the big bank is coming from. The branch is too big a bank that they have zero tolerance for game players

donstan18:
Lol, the both accounts are being handle by the same person.

oh really! Interesting. How do you know this?

prechbills1:
one of the major reason is the sex starved part.. they're so sex starved that they can't do without sex and if they don't give these hoes money they won't allow them have sex frequently...


I'm a man.. but I can't even remember the last time I spent cash for a lady?? except during my marriage introduction... if you want me to spend, then you must spend too

You are right. But I'm coming from the perspective of why women make the outrageous demands & not really why men spend on ladies.
So you are right if we are viewing it from the-men-spending perspective.

Sometimes I don't pity these men when they get played like that. For obvious reasons. I only feel bad cos innocent people will be the ones to suffer from his descent into demon-hood.

donstan18:
Something is wrong between that moniker, Theupsetgirl and some other monikers

We are yet to know the gender,

Maybe a scammer

Lol...it's possible. But he's an active member.
It's even the upset lady that I don't understand.

donstan18:
I'v applied to for the BANK job

The manager told me about it. She said your application will be reviewed as soon as you inform the branch manager the time you want to visit the bank for your transactions.
Remember that ATMS are necessary for easy communication with all of them since you will need all their 11 DIGIT NUMBERS for quick withdrawal instead of sending mails to and from the bank

donstan18:
Oh! Alright, hope all got settled?

Yes. All got settled. Thank God

prechbills1:
men are responsible for the entitlement mentality 100%.

The reason you said men should find out is; they're sex starved..

don't blame the ladies, blame the fools who spend money on them.

Thank you. That's what I'm trying to say. If they know you won't spend, they won't demand like mad.

Sex starvation is one of the reasons. Not the only one.

Fools? Aren't you a man?

purityval:
Joycy...how are you honey?

In relationships expectations are abound from both parties involved. Weighing who expects more or less is no point of argument because individually their needs differs. While one expects more financial support the other might be demanding more sexual or emotional, not perculier to any gender.

Personal the only thing I expect in relationship/Friendship these days is that you call back when you see my missed call. Gifts or no gift is not a thing of concern to me. That I give doesn't mean you should give back and vice versa.

To the subject of discussion, some girls demand like hell and so some guys. It's not onesided.

BTW, IamD8 are by any chance from nsukka?

It's IamD18 or donstan18.

XingXhang:
Happy Sunday too.

The question is returning to me void.

Really? I answered your questions. Please check & call back my attention if I didn't.

Happy weekday.

cassyrooy:
Doesn't it amaze you how one man gave thought to something inevitable today? No one avoids taxation. Yes, no one did mention him, everyone was looking at where interests them, Caesar Augustus, caught mine.

The last sentence in my last paragraph, I meant, won't you be amazed getting to know yourself if born different? Weird thinking, but I guess that's me again.

It's that good, it hard facts, bitter truth, just get give it a try.

I get your point. It's actually quite amazing.

I sometimes wonder if there's another me somewhere. In an alternate universe perhaps. Like a doppelganger
What will she look like? Yeah, we weird like that

donstan18:
Aou!, so sorry . Work I guess.

Yesterday was cool, hoping to make a better one today.

Not really work. I'm attending to some matters.

Amen!

cassyrooy:
Some don't beg for things, they expect you to just give them and when not the case, they insult you and call you names? Emotional blackmail is the worse part of the terrible behaviour, some just cant do anything for themselves and on their own. We'll remain far off because these girls don't care about self worth, independence, respect and all.

You're accusing the guys of promoting the behaviour? The good ones who don't spend on girls are tagged loser and broke, those who spend are considered maga, mugu and the likes.
This is a two-way street, you're as responsible as we are too.

I've seen the people save face than admit, but the word is packaging, which the ladies easily fall for. But, a plain disclosure by a broke guy doesn't end well you know?

Yeah. I have seen the emotional blackmailers at work and I must tell you, it's quite disturbing. Heck, one even pulled a similar trick on me and I got to experience first hand what a lot of you do. Una sorry.

Now like you said, I'm not accusing the guys of promoting this thing while I exonerate the ladies. No. But the responsibility lies more on the guys to at least minimize it if not stop it totally. How should it work?
There's something a lot of you guys don't know. There's a reason ladies make these outrageous demands. If only you can find out, life will be easier for you guys. You can ask questions, you can study the demander as well. There are behavioural traits that should alert you. That will tell you all you need to know. Cos a lot of ladies y'all do stuffs for don't deserve it.
But do you know the sad truth? I don't see this ending anytime soon. As long as there are very rich people around like Tim who throw money around for ladies, as long as ladies still have insatiable and unquenchable thirst for material things, as long as men don't catch up to the main reason why ladies are using a lot of you as maga, as long as we still hold the aces in the art of seduction, this trend will not end anytime soon (if ever it will).

Now, there's a difference between doing stuffs for a good woman who's worth your expenses & who doesnt feel too entitled & spending on a woman who doesn't deserve your time let alone your money. Maybe another time I will outline how you get to differentiate.

donstan18:
@Emonbolded.

Respect to you
Endorsed
Gotten
She should expect CR7 sooner



How went your day?

Ok. She's expectant

My day? Frigging stressful!
Yours?

donstan18:
Adanne, nsogbu adighi

They rarely do, and ladies are indirectly responsible for men's pretense. You ladies hate the truth.

Yea, i'v gotten in touch with him, but he was kinda upset because he WON'T be coming to see buhari SOONER in brass, thou he said and hoped for time to permit him hop in that ARAB city. I think you made a point about the skill ish, thou I'm not good in that social media management skill, but i'll for the first time give it a try and hope for my madam to comply open mindedly

You want to convince me that women are responsible for men' s misbehaviour? Lol. If I hear!

I like the skill you want to learn. But I will advise you to hold on till CR7 is about coming to the AraBiAn city before you start the skill. You will need it more for easy communication with the legend & her manager.

sirBLUNT:
yea i did enjoy it i must confess atleast for the first time lol
she said she use uzazi leaf abi what did she call it sef...me i just eat jor!

Uziza leaves. Chai! She be better person. Hundred yards wife material

I'm glad you enjoyed it.

donstan18:
Let me just believe that fact that you don't generalize , ka'm nwere ujo kwere ,


Men put things to reality than women, and you know that, we don't pretend to be bad or good

Let's keep cracking each other with our codes

Wow!, that's nice then, maybe I'll tell Buhari when NEXT he VISITS a brass producing company, he should do well to see the bank manager, because she seems friendly and free minded But before then, he should learn a skill on how to properly contact the manager for easy access before he visits brass ' don't you think so?

Kwere n'eziokwu & not n'ujo

Did you just say men don't pretend? Please don't get me started!!!!

Have you got in touch with CR7's fan's friend? What did HE agree on WHEN & how long he's passing Brass for? After all, there are alternative routes like "bank" road
Skill? It's good to have a skill. A friend wants to learn sewing. Another barbing. There are other ones like social media management especially in sending & receiving emails for others. Go learn yours today.

TheUpsetGirl1:
that's their problem
till guys start spending less on ladies, this mentality won't stop

Exactly! You are right. That's whatmI'm trying to tell him. We didn't just start this. They started it. They are fuelling it too. Yet they are complaining

IamD18:
Lol, did you just say "NO" ? You mean you'v not being using and saying such? Joy u can lie oo , you had to condemn it wrong just to back up your points


I concur with you on that, if only ladies behave the way they discus on internet

Lol, this our code of typing will keep viewers pondering if we are mad , i'll soon visit ronaldo's fan in brass, it's just that the "World bank" manager won't all me to see "HER" friend, or will she?

Lol, detective in the making

Lol...you got me there. I get your drift though. But I know that if I'm writing it down, I won't say "Nigerian politicians are corrupt". And even if I SAY it out, I won't mean ALL are corrupt. Cos i dont like generalisation. Get me?

Yeah. If only men would too. The world will surely be a better place.

You got me cracking up on the road...
Well, you have to ask Ronaldo's fan's FRIEND WHEN he's not COMING cos Brass is not unfar from the reliable bank. I also spoke to the manager. She wasn't sure how long both of them will STAY. But I'm sure SHE wouldn't mind. She's a friend of them.

Nancy Drew in the making. ...

cassyrooy:
I don't blame Tim or the broke girls that he dates, what you expect when selfworthy has been relegated because of some petty materials.

The phenomenal of broke girls wanting guys to spend on them can't be fully explained.

The nasty habit won't stop, because many of us (both girls and guys) won't own up to being broke, they see it as less dignifying, wetin I go lose if I come out say I dey broke? To me, nothing.

Tim has been fishing in the wrong side of the river and I hope he finds his way to the better sides.

True @self worth has been relegated to the background. It's so annoying. The funniest thing is that most of these ladies who form slay queens & flaunt expensive itens have already traded their self respect especially in the eyes of guys. I watch in amazement as grown up women turn to beggars and emotional blackmailers sometimes just to get a man to buy them lunch. Let me not say much here.

Yeah it won't stop. As long as you guys keep indulging the outrageous demands. We will keep on demanding. And you will keep on complaining.

A lot of men will continue to "save face" by never admitting they can't afford some things. They prefer to borrow & impress than to be called "broke"

Yeah. He probably needs to change his taste in women.