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Christianity Etc › Re: Which Bible Character Will You Want To Spend A Day With by MissJoy29(f): 10:42am On Apr 22, 2018
cassyrooy:
Thanks.

Na their cup of tea, I don't tell people how to interact with God, blasphemous comments has it's own repercussions.


Isn't it amazing how one man conceived the idea of generating money from all human activities in the world? Other than being the original name from which my own name, Augustine, was developed from, I'd like to know him, like I would've loved to know myself if I had been born a different person.

I doing alright. There's this book I'm reading now, Rick Warren's Purpose-Driven Life.

Its been ripping me in amazing ways and dimensions.
Exactly. Their problem, their headache.

Lol @generating money from all human activities. Come to think of it Mr Augustine cool I never saw anyone on that thread that mentioned his name except you. You are really weird. But I really don't understand the last sentence in the second paragraph.

I remember that book from my days as my fellowship's librarian in school then. Funny enough, I never read it. Is it that good?
Culture › Re: Igbo Marriage And Bride Price: Put The Records Straight (Represent Your Culture) by MissJoy29(f): 10:34am On Apr 22, 2018
sirBLUNT:
lol...see you
i had your favourite soup yesterday 'ashi' a lady friend prepared it for me...
You did? cheesy cheesy
That's great! Hope you enjoyed it. What leaf did she use for the ACHI soup?
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:32am On Apr 22, 2018
Herrmes:
Lmao.
grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs Juventus: UCL (1 - 3) On 11th April 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 10:32am On Apr 22, 2018
XingXhang:
Just curious.

When you're having a nice convo with someone, it's only natural to ask such questions. You just want to know more about them, you get?
I perfectly understand. I get you.

Happy Sunday.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:24am On Apr 22, 2018
IamD18:
Let me buttress my point in another way. "Nigerian politicians are corrupt" , is this correct? cheesy


I get happy when being asked for something once in a while, but not when it's seen as my obligations undecided

Lol, cheesy, I know you'll be smart to decode, no need to ask the mod to ban you because I already know "world bank" is your hobby, right? grin grin

Lol cheesy, I got banned but will be free by monday grin, you knew it was me cheesy
No. Incorrect. Not all. There will always be exceptions grin

I understand. That word "obligation" is what keeps me from overdoing things. It's only his obligation if he's my husband or to an extent, we are engaged. If not, I don't have the right to place unnecessary demands. That also informs my behaviour towards you too.

Oh I'm smart! grin
Why should I be banned when I didn't go to "UBA" or "the other one" to insult the customer care? grin cheesy tongue

Of course I knew it was you cool
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:12am On Apr 22, 2018
purityval:
Joycy...how are you honey?

In relationships expectations are abound from both parties involved. Weighing who expects more or less is no point of argument because individually their needs differs. While one expects more financial support the other might be demanding more sexual or emotional, not perculier to any gender.

Personal the only thing I expect in relationship/Friendship these days is that you call back when you see my missed call. Gifts or no gift is not a thing of concern to me. That I give doesn't mean you should give back and vice versa.

To the subject of discussion, some girls demand like hell and so some guys. It's not onesided.

BTW, IamD8 are by any chance from nsukka?
I'm fine sweets. Happy Sunday.

A lot of people now see relationships as a trade by barter transaction. Due to lack of genuine love, care, selflessness etc. I like what you said about partners having different needs. It doesn't always have to be financial. A very wealthy man might just have emotional & sexual needs from his partner. It doesn't mean his needs are less. I don't know why we complicate these things.

True @it's not one sided. That sums the whole discussion up. grin
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f):
TheUpsetGirl1:
trash..
when you ask for money too much the "independence" clause has been ruined.

don't quote me next time please
You young girls of today. You think that by running off with your mouth ahead, you will become a super woman. After going through the thread you brag that you created as if there's 45 million naira prize tag attached to your creating a thread & seeing how you insult people who contribute, I realise I'm dealing with a "teenager" who still sees the world in pink rosy glasses. So, no point trying to even contribute cos I know you will see insult as an alternative to constructive criticism. And I can't have my daughter insult me. So child, behave.

PS: check what I wrote that you called trash and point out where I said anything about asking for money at all let alone asking for too much. You were so much in a hurry to sound trashy & rude that you didn't even comprehend what I wrote before quoting.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:57pm On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Nigerians are black.....Most Nigerians are black, which one is correct?

Lol, we enjoy gini shocked, Biko ekwukwele ozo cheesy

@Last paragraph, Ronaldo's fan told me he once permanently stayed at brass and osisoma, but now comes in and moves out, not that permanent like before. Gotten? grin
Black as a race or black as a skin colour?
Black as a race, correct.
Black as skin colour, incorrect.

Oh comm'n. You mean you don't get happy when you have someone that asks you for things once in a while tongue

You got me laughing sooooo hard with the last paragraph grin grin
I definitely get it tongue

The style of typing and the page you normally appear is unmistakable. The name is also similar. I had to even check the profile to verify its newness. cool
Culture › Re: Igbo Marriage And Bride Price: Put The Records Straight (Represent Your Culture) by MissJoy29(f): 12:59pm On Apr 21, 2018
sirBLUNT:
ok dear...i see you
I have got my eyes on you too grin
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 12:54pm On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Nigerian ladies equals to ALL, I agree,how do you want us to say it? Some? when you know almost all lives with that mentality.



Lol cheesy
We all know the gender that expects more cheesy grin

We sure do cheesy
I'd prefer "most" if majority are doing or not doing the said thing. I use it a lot where I want to talk about guys behaviour too grin
But you may not even catch me dead saying "all men"

Yes we expect more. I agree. But maybe it's cos we have been made to believe you guys enjoy it. Trust me, y'all do. Otherwise, a lot of things will just stop.

I want to find out something & there's only one way to do it. She lives in a big, strong reliable place somewhere in Enyimba. What's that place?
NOTE: don't quote this last paragraph. Just state the answer if you know what I mean grin grin
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 12:35pm On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
We don't generalize, we spill following what we'v be seeing, hearing, reading and experiencing from Nigerian ladies, their mentality is whack and annoying.

I once argued with a lady here, she said relationship and marriage is all about transaction of sex and money, saying that all she wants from a man is financial providence and a lot of ladies supported her.


You can imagine that.


We needn't know who initiated the impression, it's a natural thing that lives with ladies, it's mentally inbuilt to them
You guys do generalise. Nigeran women refers to ALL not some or even most.

That's what they want. That's not what I want. But one is entitled to one's individual opinion.


Same way we needn't know who expects more right? grin
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 12:01pm On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Lol, your first write made sense.

@Embolden, I wanted to ask why ladies expect most than men.
Thanks. I know a lot of ladies are selfish. But you guys should stop generalising. Trust me when I say there are still some ladies you will meet & you will amazed to find out they are still different from what y'all make ladies out to be.

Selfishness? Sense of entitlement? Wickedness? Poverty? Lack? Love? Could be a lot of things.

I wanted to ask who started this? What/who gave us the impression that a man is in our lives to enrich our own lives even to the detriment of his? Answer sincerely.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs Juventus: UCL (1 - 3) On 11th April 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 11:49am On Apr 21, 2018
XingXhang:
Seriously, you just replied my comment since then... undecided
I don't understand please

Also, why did you ask if I'm married?
Culture › Re: Igbo Marriage And Bride Price: Put The Records Straight (Represent Your Culture) by MissJoy29(f): 11:47am On Apr 21, 2018
sirBLUNT:
well i'm good now...i guess you dint check your last mail..
I'm happy you are good now cool
No I didn't dear. I will soon.
Christianity Etc › Re: Which Bible Character Will You Want To Spend A Day With by MissJoy29(f): 11:45am On Apr 21, 2018
cassyrooy:
Hi Ms. Joy!

Sorry I just slipped in under the carpet for an extended period.

Yes, I'm not a religious person but seeing the profanity some people typed up there, I could only shake my head.

My answer? I want to spend time with Caesar Augustus (the man who began taxing the whole world).

How have you been?
It's alright Mr Cass. Welcome back anyway!

Don't mind them. God will help them.

Why do you want to know about taxes? grin
I have been good. You?
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:43am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
But it won't cause problem to all men when their partner fails to buy them gift.

You didn't want to bother on who asks the most because you knew where I was heading to, you get luck grin
Cos you don't want it to cause problems. See, I can't be angry with my partner for not buying me a birthday gift when I know deep down I don't have plans to give him a treat on his own day. I'm not that selfish & insensitive.

No. I don't know where you are going.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:35am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Who expect the most between men and ladies?
Let's not bother about who expects the most. It will bring up another round of discussion. I expect to be bought a gift by my partner on my birthday. Otherwise it will cause problems. Same way my partner should expect a gift from me. It's that simple

Cc Purityval
Cassyrooy
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:26am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Ladies will always expect a man to gift them during my above mentioned festivities/events even when they have the money.


Right or wrong?
Of course you are right. Just the same way you should expect to be gifted on your birthday by your partner.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:19am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Buying gifts for herself during Xmas, easter, birthdays and the rest.
Those ones are different especially birthdays . But it should NEVER be one-sided.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:15am On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
guys who rant about independent ladies are just deceiving themselves.

dating an independent lady doesn't mean you'll spend less, in fact it'll be worse.

They'd still prefer you to do the spending while they save the money they get from their work.
Unless you won't date a Nigerian lady.
I can safely conclude that you are everything you wrote up here. Otherwise, your mentality here is so warped.

It's obvious that people including you also misuse the word "independent". Now, let me school you. Being independent in this sense doesn't mean you don't EVER need anyone's help. It means you can do stuffs on your own to a veeeery large extent without anyone's help. If I'm independent, it means I can sub, make my hair, recharge my phone, buy cosmetics, makeup etc on my own comfortably without having to call up a man every minute to demand these things. But it doesn't mean a man can't decide to sub for me or do all those things on his own even without my asking. You get my drift?

If I were a man, I'd still choose an independent lady who asks me for money over a broke dependent one. Reason being that the former won't be as irritating & annoying as the latter.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:03am On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
you've joined ibakwee weak gang...

so you're no longer a feminist? shocked

the power of money, jesu! shocked
A lot of you misuse that word "feminism"
.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 11:01am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
99% of Nigerian ladies are block heads
Interesting
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:59am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Gifting herself during festivity
I don't understand this please
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:52am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Going for outing and paying for her friends.
Hmmmm.....sounds disturbing.
Go on.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:45am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:
Buying of costly phones
Lol...true to an extent though
Any other one?
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:40am On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
guys who rant about independent ladies are just deceiving themselves.

dating an independent lady doesn't mean you'll spend less, in fact it'll be worse.

They'd still prefer you to do the spending while they save the money they get from their work.
Unless you won't date a Nigerian lady.
Are you serious? Before I say what I have to say, please explain more what you mean by "spending". I mean mention the things that these Nigerian girls will prefer to hold their money while you spend yours.
Romance › Re: Tim Westwood Shreds His Credit Cards: "I'm Tired Of Dating Dependent Ladies" by MissJoy29(f): 10:32am On Apr 21, 2018
AntiBrutus:
Hmmm, I keep reading things like this and I wonder why I have been so unfortunate... Where do they find these generous brothers?
See me o! I ask myself that question all the time. grin grin
Seriously.
Romance › Re: "If My Man Cheats On Me While I'm Pregnant, I'll Kill Him And The Baby" - Lady by MissJoy29(f): 8:45am On Apr 20, 2018
XingXhang:
You understand my point?
Yeah....I do
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs Juventus: UCL (1 - 3) On 11th April 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 8:44am On Apr 20, 2018
XingXhang:
Two Questions:

- Where have you been?
- Am I chatting with a married woman?
smiley
I have been around.

shocked shocked shocked
No you are not
Romance › Re: "If My Man Cheats On Me While I'm Pregnant, I'll Kill Him And The Baby" - Lady by MissJoy29(f): 8:36am On Apr 20, 2018
XingXhang:
Two reasons:

As a man thinks in his heart, so he is. Somewhere in her subconscious mind, she believes all men are cheat. She will have overdose of it.


How can a woman think of killing a little baby just because her hubby cheated? That tells me she's not into the marriage thingy at all. She herself isn't a marriage material. She isn't loyal. Look at her picture, she has played life and cheated guys and now afraid nemesis would catch with her. Nemesis doesn't care what she feels.
Ok....I understand where you are coming from now.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs Juventus: UCL (1 - 3) On 11th April 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 8:33am On Apr 20, 2018
XingXhang:
Going great except for the hot scorching sun, Choi!
Pele!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs Juventus: UCL (1 - 3) On 11th April 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 12:09pm On Apr 17, 2018
XingXhang:
Hope your day wasn't so hectic?
Ah! It really was!

How's it going today?

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