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Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 8:01am On Apr 11, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
yeah, how're you doing
I'm great & you?
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 8:27pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
Lol, yea, you sure did cheesy , you BANKruptically communicated cheesy, if you know what I mean. cheesy
Oh yeah I do... I like them big, strong, reliable grin
If you know what I mean tongue
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 7:08pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
Faulks, Ph, Osisioma, Brass, Omuma, Ogbor hill, kiss

Did I communicate?
Yeah you did cool
Union.... did I communicate? grin
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 4:34pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
Alright, but you base there?
Yep
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 4:30pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
I'm doing good kiss

Iwu nwa afor ngwa?
Nope. I'm not
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 4:24pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
How you? kiss
I'm fine and you?
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 4:07pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
Adanne
shocked
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 4:06pm On Apr 10, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
Good morning @missjoy
Good evening ma. I believe you are referring to me even though you didn't complete my moniker cool
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 3:47pm On Apr 10, 2018
DeRay98:
You're very balanced thinker.
Some hard-core feminists aka men haters will not appreciate or accept you for this.
Thanks. cool

I know right! Well, like I said, that's MY opinion. They are entitled to theirs too. So I really don't owe anyone much explanation.
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 8:30am On Apr 10, 2018
lwanga1993:
i love you... i logged in just to tell you this
cool
Thanks
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MissJoy29(f): 8:26am On Apr 10, 2018
jagugu88li:
Okay you are forgiven, just this once simply because you said something about love and breaks grin Ready when you are
Ok. Will buzz you when I'm ready. Thanks though
Education › Re: Why Foreign Universities Require Personal Statements Or Statement Of Purpose by MissJoy29(f): 5:28pm On Apr 09, 2018
PenPrince07:
Great post but a sample of the personal statement would have been handy.
Exactly. I'm interested too.
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2018
UDUJ:
These are the ones I respect cool
Yeah, cos they are the best. cool
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2018
purityval:
When someone with well packaged sense talks you know. Your wisdom is follow come jare.


Some mannerless hungry Pests are online broke shaming genuine hustling guys while their brothers of 30-40years are still dragging fish head with them at home.
Lol....Thanks Purest cool
Romance › Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nairaland Feminists And The Intentions Of A True Feminist by MissJoy29(f): 3:11pm On Apr 09, 2018
These are my opinions about feminism;
*Strive for fairness especially in the way women are treated in marriage. For instance, it's not set in stone that a woman should be the only one doing house chores. A man can help out too without his manliness reduced. On the other hand, a woman shouldn't take his helping for granted.

*Be independent to an extent as a lady. In the sense that you can have your own money and pay up your bills without having to depend on a man. Depending on a man has levels. It gets really irritating seeing mature ladies begging for everything from a guy. A man that wants to help can help but don't beg.

*There's nothing wrong in helping out a man financially. There's nothing wrong in buying gifts for a man. There's nothing wrong in pampering a man & surprising him once in a while. But use your head. "Using your head" could mean a lot of things & could also prevent a lot of things.

*Be strong and firm yet feminine. That's a woman's strongest weapon, her feminity. Be sweet and gentle and cute. cool
Stop with the bitching & the bad attitude. That you can foot your bills doesn't mean you give oit that air that you don't need a man. Your independence should attract men to you not repel them.

*Finally, never look down on any man. Never broke-shame a guy because you think he's not up to a level you want. You see, no one knows tomorrow.

These being said, I am a feminist. The real one not the ones moved by hungry, frustrated leeches.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MissJoy29(f): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2018
jagugu88li:
From right......1. Its red beans and peas on mayonaise
2. Homemade beetroot (boil the beet, grate, mix it with mango chutney and white vinegar) Noami14
3. Potatoes mixed with belle peeper, boilled eggs and lihm (its a homemade sweetened mayonaise.....forgot the english word)
Hmmmm....sounds interesting and intriguing. I want to come and learn at your feet. cool
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MissJoy29(f): 9:36pm On Apr 08, 2018
Mariangeles:
Thank you...we'll be expecting yours
You are welcome. cool
I will definitely post soon.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MissJoy29(f): 8:31pm On Apr 08, 2018
I didn't know this thread is this interesting. And I'm here wasting my food pictures. grin
Don't worry, you guys should await my pics. I just hope I don't forget. grin

That stew shared by Mariangeles just got my appetite all worked up. cool

@jagugu88li, please what & what do you have inside those plates?
Travel › Re: Inside The World's Only Private Boeing 787 Dreamliner That Cost N27m/hr To Hire by MissJoy29(f): 5:02pm On Apr 08, 2018
BedLam:
Lol imagine sleeping on that bed and all of a sudden, you are dropping to 10k feet from 0ver 30k feet!
During turbulence, seeing others calm kind of eases the tension.
Exactly! shocked

Oh! Not for me. My phobia is the worst kind sad
Travel › Re: Inside The World's Only Private Boeing 787 Dreamliner That Cost N27m/hr To Hire by MissJoy29(f): 4:53pm On Apr 08, 2018
BedLam:
How do they handle extreme turbulence? shocked
Exactly my question. All I see as I'm looking at this is my crippling fear of flying & how this luxury won't be enough to calm my jumpy nerves sad

If only planes don't fly cry
Entertainment › Re: "My Experience At Quilox Club, Lagos" - Lady Recounts by MissJoy29(f): 7:39pm On Apr 05, 2018
IamaNigerianGuy:
Nigerians are really a dull lot. Always drawing the wrong conclusions. There lesson to be learned here is not "I must be rich" but, "God please deliver me from foolishness"

Sina Peller will make me buy water for 3k ? I will like to see the jazz he uses !

While youth abroad are discovering, inventing, advancing, the ones here take delight in drinking expensive water and buying overpriced phones.

Let me say it here straight up : If you use an iPhone (bought it, borrowed it, stole it, I don't care) and you earn less than 400k a month or you don't own your own land and house: THERE. IS. SOMETHING. WRONG. WITH. YOU.
The iPhone is not for the African market dumbo.
True talk @last sentence. Thank God I'm not the only one thinking such.
Romance › Re: Girls Often Say "My Girlfriend" But Guys Never Say "My Boyfriend" by MissJoy29(f): 8:59pm On Apr 03, 2018
Macnnoli4:
Check dictionary meanings of both 'Girlfriend' and 'boyfriend' and you get your answer.
Have you ever checked it yourself? If you have, you would know there are actually two definitions of those terms. But a lot of you make the mistake of thinking the meaning is only that of romance.
So I'm giving you an assignment. Kindly check out the meaning in your dictionary.
Family › Re: Man Apologizes To His Wife After Seeing Her Like This At Home (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 5:37pm On Apr 03, 2018
cassyrooy:
No problems!

Yeah, sad things had happened to fans as regard their emotional attachment to the game, 2008 UCL final and 2009 semifinals are few of those nights I just have to 'survive the night' cos the heartbreak was intense. I got repaid in 2012 anyways. cool

I started divesting from football in 2015/16, I noticed that betting influence people opinion about the game rather than passion for any one particular team.

I still feel proud to have seen my team won everything and my nation triumph on the continental stages too.
Football still remain dear to me as would first love, but other things has taken over. cool

English teams in 2006 had prospects that was irresistible to football lovers but they disappointed, they luckily qualified from their group(same with Sweden), and I knew the type of football they play. If Italy had not won the WC that term, I would have hated them but they did(even when I supported France to clinch it. I celebrated Germany third place win over Portugal like it was a final victory too, I love German teams, they have purpose and are well organized too.

People loved Steven Gerrard very much but he never came around for me, I'd pick Super Frankie(Lampard) any time and any day! My sentiment might also be he played for Chelsea too.

Regarding GKs, I enjoyed following Iker Cassilas, Petr Cech, De Gea, Jens Lehmann, Gianluggi Buffon, and numerous others, they were great GKs.

I've not switched attentions to the WC yet, the present season hasn't ended and there things to watch out for, so I'll pend any discussion regarding WC for now.



Wandering mind? grin @bolded my point is, she never made it seem bad, not to have learnt how to cook.
But, yeah, it was romantic a bit cos we do talk about other things whenever she's not giving me instructions.

I always have it mind to bring some girl to my kitchen some day and display what I've learnt over the years but I tell myself that she has to worth it for me to be able to go all out for that.

Doing things together great bonds between two partners, and it also reinforces their understanding of each other.

There are some days I'd want to carry over and over again, like where I do things with/for my other halve. The feeling is amazing.

I still wonder if science could prove or disprove the existence of Love(just as it has made attempts to question the existence of God too).

True! I don't like urban life that much, it's too isolated and some how not fitting sometimes. But village life is simple and less complicated.

But again, the hustle and bustling gives one purpose and drive in life.

Church was normal, one way or the other, I still attend, no stories for me.

@A lot o women like that. Hmmm! I'll etch that at the back of my mind.
I remember UCL 2008. But I think I'm mixing up 2008 & 2009. One is Man U vs Barca and the other one is Chelsea vs Barca. Am I right? Cos I remember one that involved my team ManU that I watched with enough tension grin
I prefer Steven G to Lampard. My own sentiment might be cos he's more handsome tongue
I also remember Peter Cech and Buffon. Cech was one of the reasons I hated Chelsea. He's too good. grin
You know what? Let's pend all discussions concerning the WC till June/July. That ok?

Yes, wandering mind cool.
But, there's no crime in a man not knowing how to cook all types of delicacies. But a man should be able to know his way around his house for goodness sake. A family friend who was pregnant suddenly started having labour cramps. She carried her packed bag and was about to leave before the husband asked her one question, "what am I going to be eating before you get back? It was like a joke. But the man insisted & she had to prepare food that should last for one or two days before leaving.
Another case. A colleague said that she was washing when her water broke. She said when she came back from delivery few days later, she met the clothes still unwashed in the big basin. The husband only managed to rinse out the ones she had washed. The others, he just covered it up for her as they were soaked in water to continue when she comes back. As if that wasn't enough, the food in the pot had bred maggots as the man didn't reheat them.

I know that, "he $ she has to be worth it" tone. I use it all the time cool. Don't worry, you will get a girl deserving and worthy of you when the time comes. Just open your heart.

See, I have this utmost respect & near reverence for a MANLY man who's also domesticated cool.
The feeling I get when I'm doing things together in the house with my man is outta this world. I don't even know why.

Does it matter? Whether it proved or disproved? Love does exist. I have felt it. I'm sure you have too.

I don't know why I cringe at the thought of raising my kids in noisy & crowded places. I'd take a serene and peaceful and small location over the hustling and bustling of the city. The only problem I have with such quiet places is that I don't like to sleep in over quiet places. I prefer a noisy place in the night for sleeping. I sleep better. Weird right? cool
Romance › Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MissJoy29(f): 9:29am On Apr 03, 2018
purityval:
Joycy.....
Purest....
Romance › Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MissJoy29(f): 10:09pm On Apr 02, 2018
cassyrooy:
Lemme go through the thread first before giving my reply.

Modified:

I'm not against what the tweet says but I don't back it too. It's a two-way thing. If the need to check arises, please follow your intuition and check it up but when there's no need just don't bother, the exception to this is that you learn other personal things about your partner that they aren't ready to reveal to you yet.

I for one, I'm a one-man-one-woman type of guy and I don't unnecessarily get bothered about your activities except I begin to suspect you and the signs are no longer ignorable.

My phone has simple password, my partners name(pet names or any devised for such purpose). Feel it free to check, the worst you can see might be weird search histories.

I guess the reasons why some of these guys who posted earlier clamour for checks might be due to personal histories or their relationship with people who have been victims, they're trying to protect themselves by being unnecessarily alarmed and agitated.

I have personal experience where checking might have or have not saved my relationship, let it be, you won't die. It'll hurt but just know human's duplicity is too much and the moment I catch glimpse of that, I let you go, no room for being too alarmed without cause.
Anyone who wants to stay will stay and anyone who sees you as not good enough for them will leave, and that's life.

Gf/wives are not trophies but marriage to the right one will give the greatest satisfaction.

To Purityval, things have degenerated in the past couple of years but the little fraction of hope that someone who loves you exist, should still be able to convince you that despite the bad experiences about love, relationship and marriage, its worth trying again.
Yeah, I'm not against what was tweeted too. I don't mind my phone being checked. It doesn't bother me cos I know you won't find anything in it. Transparency and openness are one of my areas of strength in relationship. Even my students have access to my phone like no man's business. How much more my love interest? But I will be overshady if I find out you are shady about your phone while you want to be checking mine. It doesn't work like that. I'm weary of people who make rules in relationship they can't keep.

I'm also a one-man lady. I'm not at all bothered by some details that normally bother people who are termed possesive. In fact, I could be with you for 2 years and more without checking your phone. Have done it before. I'm pro privacy but I'm open too. Except I'm suspecting you, I respect privacy a lot.
Yes, I agree that some good people have had ugly experiences in the past & therefore, gets sceptical when in a new relationship & want to prevent a reoccurrence, but trust me when I say that majority are abnormally concerned about monitoring their partners movement and calls and all cos they know what they do behind their partner's back & so want to prevent it being done to them. That's what makes me go crazy and all stubborn on some guys. I know the good ones who do it out of ugly experiences they have gone through. And I know the ones who monitor me cos they are probably doing worse. If you are in the latter category, the words you will use to describe me will be "difficult and stubborn". Cos I will make sure you don't succeed in your deceptive and insincere quest.

I became HIGHLY sceptical of "lifestyle monitors" after a particular relationship I had in the past. All because of constant monitoring. You wanna know why? Cos most times, they end up doing the worst! The experience I had was even worse than a roller coaster ride. Oh and my scepticism will always pan out as being truth. Also, after the said relationship, I discovered that no matter what you do, a man/woman who wants to stay will stay.

In all, I have not given up on love or despite the bad experiences. After all, some of these bad experiences, if not most or even all, make us better persons. I do tell people this, "if I love the wrong person right, why won't I love the right person even better?. Besides, it will even make me appreciate the right person more.
So, Purest @Purityval, don't lose hope yet. There are still good people around.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Tottenham Hotspur (1 - 3) On 1st April 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 7:59pm On Apr 02, 2018
cassyrooy:
Definitely! I've replied to the loooong mention with another loooong mention of my own. grin
cool
Romance › Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MissJoy29(f): 10:26pm On Apr 01, 2018
purityval:
It's funny the comments I have read up there. So we are now at the point where not checking a partners phone is termed maturity? Funny how others are trying to load it down on the female folks and the blame going around... What's that?

Not checking your partners phone is in no way a prove of maturity. Oh! Because you don't want to have a heart attack? So in your mind you know one Way or the other that something might be hidden (lack of trust)

Maturity is the ability to pick up your partners phone, go through it in and out and drop it back, not because you are suspicious but because you know that there is nothing hidden And he/she can do same to your gadget. If your partner can't pick your phone and reply a girl/guy chatting you up, ya'all need to evaluate that relationship.

Bottom line is RELATIONSHIPS are messed up. All we have now is people seeking to satisfy whatever momentary need they have and move on afterwards. Love is SCAM.... Relationship is SCAM.... Marriage is FRAUD.
The comments are truly funny. Especially from the guys. It beats my imagination the kind of boys/men that are raised nowadays.

There's nothing wrong in checking your partners phone. If you are comfortable with it. I for one don't do it. It's so rare for me to do it. But if he wants to, fine. I have got nothing to hide. If eventually I want to do it too, I shouldn't hear, "you are a lady. Ladies don't check out a man's phone". The two parties should have access to their phones if they want.
But the bad one is to have am insecure partner who won't allow your phone to rest.

I disagree with the latter parts of your last paragraph though
Romance › Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MissJoy29(f): 8:18pm On Apr 01, 2018
asuustrike2009:
point of correction, at relationship platform is a side by side thing. Both parties are to be loyal to each other. it takes a selfish and pride man to hide his phone from his girl why he spies on his lover's phone.
God Bless you.
Romance › Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MissJoy29(f): 8:06pm On Apr 01, 2018
prettyesther20:
Study has it that people who are obsessed about whether their partner is cheating or not are the ones actually cheating or intend to undecided...
Thank you
Romance › Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MissJoy29(f): 8:02pm On Apr 01, 2018
oyb:
the interesting thing is that it is the same people whe are obsessed with going through their spouses devices that are also maniacally secretive. go figure
God will Bless you my brother. Anyone who is obsessed with checking my phone and asking questions like a detective is already suspect number one. How do you know I'm trying to hide something in my phone if you are not hiding one or have hidden something there yourself?

Transperancy is key FOR BOTH PARTIES. And it's not just about giving you access to my phone. Besides, why would I want to develop high blood pressure early? Cos that's what I see as the effect of two timing and cheating. But let's assume I don't love my life and HBP is bae, I will cheat smart. I don't need to list ways of cheating smart here. But all those people up being particular about phone haven't seen really smart cheats.

Btw,I haven't seen where it's written that only ladies' phone should be checked. Or do those guys above me want to bring African man mentality to this too? My partner and I should be free with our phones.

Cc: chocberry,
cassyrooy,
purityval.
Romance › Re: "I Don't Go Through My Girl's Phone, It's Called Maturity And Trust" by MissJoy29(f): 7:56pm On Apr 01, 2018
oyb:
the interesting thing is that it is the same people whe are obsessed with going through their spouses devices that are also maniacally secretive. go figure
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Tottenham Hotspur (1 - 3) On 1st April 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 5:51pm On Apr 01, 2018
cassyrooy:
Marcos Alonso is wasting a great deal of chances today.



Happy Easter MissJoy29!
I wish you the same Mr Cassyrooy. I just gave you one loooong mention. Please check.

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