Family › Re: Man Apologizes To His Wife After Seeing Her Like This At Home (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 7:27pm On Mar 18, 2018 |
cassyrooy: Lol! I don't entirely have any fixed thing to look out for, honestly I have this alarming rate of skepticism whenever I suspect it might happen, intuition, skepticism or so, I happen to stay alert, girls who become/are desperate are not found around me cos they can go lengths to achieve their aim. Yeah, I get what you are saying. But being overly sceptical and paranoid can deny us of some things o. I'm not saying you should be careless/carefree either.  Happy Sunday. Hope you kept to your promise today. |
Family › Re: Man Apologizes To His Wife After Seeing Her Like This At Home (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 8:32am On Mar 16, 2018 |
cassyrooy: Was very good, the sun just didn't smile at me when I went out. 
That's why I'm letting no girl trap me whether with pregnancy, juju(I hate and fear this one more), or oath or something.
I'm not a religious person but I know that God can't be left out of this process, I need His long-term plans while I make my short-term considerations and decision.
Fear not, trust in your ability go decipher the which is bad and unfitting and that which God has sent your way. Fear not, you'll. ake good decision. Eeyah! Sorry about that. Lol @letting no girl trap you with pregnancy. You sound as if you know how to recognise those with such motives. I try to trust in my ability but I know that God is the ultimate leader. He will lead me aright even when my human nature that's bound to make stupid choices want to manifest. That's my assurance |
Romance › Re: Nigeria Man Advise Other Men To Stop Paying Their Girlfriends Monthly Salary by MissJoy29(f): 7:56am On Mar 16, 2018 |
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Family › Re: Man Apologizes To His Wife After Seeing Her Like This At Home (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 10:50pm On Mar 15, 2018*. Modified: 1:34pm On Mar 19, 2018 |
cassyrooy: Good evening dear, how was your day?
Amen. I won't move anywhere with a bad wife, I'm gonna drop her off immediately, I'm targeting long life, no woman will halve it for me. Good evening. My day was great and yours? I Pray God helps us to make the right decision. I have this paralysing fear of being caught in an unhappy and loveless marriage. |
Family › Re: Man Apologizes To His Wife After Seeing Her Like This At Home (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 6:37pm On Mar 15, 2018 |
cassyrooy: Lol! Good question. Here's the thing, I'm a good guy but I wouldn't restrict such prayers to just myself.
Me o, another guy o, as long as she's happy and gets the required appreciation she deserves, it doesn't matter anymore. Awwwwnnn....so sweet. Thanks |
Family › Re: Man Apologizes To His Wife After Seeing Her Like This At Home (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 6:20pm On Mar 15, 2018 |
boyjo: Why aren`t you the "man God would send her way", since you think she`s that good? Jealous? Oh, and I'm that good  |
Family › Re: Man Apologizes To His Wife After Seeing Her Like This At Home (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 6:15pm On Mar 15, 2018 |
cassyrooy: MissJoy29 this is the kinda husband God should send your way, in fact, he won't just be saying nicer things but be doing them. Mr Cassyrooy, God will Bless you. And I Pray you marry a wife that will complement & complete you totally. Thanks for the Prayers. I say a big "Amen" to them all. It's already done! Good evening. |
Romance › Re: I Saw My Girlfriend's Chats With Her Malaysia Based Lover, I'm Walking Away by MissJoy29(f): 5:54pm On Mar 14, 2018 |
hensben: There was this girl I love sincerely I never knew she is a devil’s incarnate I’m glad I moved on. She even app me this morning after long time that she is sorry and been disturbed for betraying me. Most women of this generation are evil. I don’t think I will get married. Hmmmm....heartbreak stories. Everyone has one. I just don't Pray we meet devils in disguise |
Romance › Re: I Saw My Girlfriend's Chats With Her Malaysia Based Lover, I'm Walking Away by MissJoy29(f): 4:34pm On Mar 14, 2018 |
hensben: Women are wicked and heartless, mostly when you are too good to them they take you for granted, they hate nice guys and run after badoo #wierd. You never see anything. Now I know why some men kill their wife. Jeez! You know, most of the time, I see all these stories as what they are....story. Well, what am I saying? There are indeed evil(that's what I call people like this) people. They only come in different shades. I also blame the guy. No one should be this clueless foolish. It's almost a crime to be. |
Romance › Re: I Saw My Girlfriend's Chats With Her Malaysia Based Lover, I'm Walking Away by MissJoy29(f): 4:02pm On Mar 14, 2018 |
I honestly don't believe this story. No lady is this heartless...........
and stupid. |
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Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 8:52pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
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Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 8:18pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: I made a mistake o, I wasn't trying to justify missing church, but well, that's past now.
We'll see midweek and then Sunday too. Lol....ok. I don't understand the last sentence please |
Family › Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 8:10pm On Mar 11, 2018*. Modified: 8:49pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Toks2008: I'm online The third time. I give up abeg |
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Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 7:07pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: I was trying to justify missing Church.
I'll see into it seriously! I know you were.  Very good. Please do. Cheers!!  |
Family › Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 7:05pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Toks2008: I STILL WONDER WHY I HAVE NOT RECIEVED THE MAIL.
mAYBE THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG FROM YOUR END.
ok send to olatokunbo40@gmail.com
if I still cant get it then something is definitely wrong from your side. Yeah I guess something is definitely wrong with me sending mails. For now I'm using my phone for it. A lot of issues with it. I have tried sending it to you via another channel twice but you weren't fast about it. Are you online now or kinda busy? |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 6:38pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: I'll start the search for another place.
But? Please finish up! Good idea.... But....it's not an excuse to miss Church  |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 6:16pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: I've considered leaving my present Church but I don't know what's keeping me static with it. My spiritual level is low(sometimes people fear I'm an agnostic or worse, atheist).
About going alone, I grew up going to Church in pairs or with other people, since I came off, I didn't fancy going alone, so I stopped unknowingly.
Also going alone kind of make me agoraphobic, with a friend I enjoy fully the ambience of the worship, laugh when there's need to, not keeping a straight face all through. You get me? For you to have considered leaving in the first place, it means it's not giving you what your spirit yearns for. So, do the needful please. Yeah. I get you. But....  |
Family › Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 6:10pm On Mar 11, 2018*. Modified: 6:37pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Toks2008: Are you sure you are sending to the right address?
olakoredeh@gmail.com
Please resend one last time and send a copy to forexrefuge@yahoo.com
Thanks |
Family › Re: Man Blasts His Daughter Over Her Profile Photo by MissJoy29(f): 5:10pm On Mar 11, 2018*. Modified: 8:47pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Toks2008: I was expecting to see an indecent pics but this one weak me...some fathers can be too uptight. |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 5:07pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: Yeah! its true o!
Now there's light! 
Amen! 
I know those days I don't go to Church at all are almost over.
One thing i don't like is going and not feeling the presence of God, and I don't like going alone. Wow. Enjoy. Still waiting for ours. Amen. If you don't feel the presence of God in your Church, you might need to change. You don't like going alone? How |
Family › Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 5:04pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Toks2008: I never see am o..Maybe you should resend Seen it? |
Family › Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 4:45pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Toks2008: Just send it to olakoredeh@gmaul.com and I will add it to my contact n send u a message.
Thanks Good evening & happy Sunday. Did you receive the mail? |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 4:44pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: Yeah, not just Imo, but theirs is more pronounced, when my sister did her wedding some years back, I saw the venture that was called marriage, couldn't stand it.
In some areas in Ebonyi, they collect around N10,010 as bride price, that can't compare to the Imo areas.
My battery is getting flatter by the second.
I think so, second time since 1st January, 2017, I got up this morning and decided to go to Church. Hmmmm...well, a lot of people say that though. It might be true. Sorry about your battery. Go get it charged then. Thank God for touching your heart to go to Church today. May He continue to do so. Say Amen.  |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 4:13pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: And IMO people are not considering that one, bride price still doesn't get changed.
Well my area's just dry and power outage to culminate the dryness.
Service was great, *whispering* first time this year. *covers face and run out of thread* Is it just Imo?(though I'm not from Imo State).I think it all depends on the bride's family and how greedy & materialistic they are. These set of people could come from anywhere in the country. Same here o. No light too. Just came back not too long ago. Just want to relax a bit. you have been running away from Church? |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 4:01pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
Ginaz: The day for introduction would be my traditional marriage. After that I and my husband with friends and family only would head to the court to get our marriage certificate. And I move into my marital house.
Or
After making an introduction between both families, we head to the court (just family) then later fixed a date for the traditional marriage only.
But I'm choosing the first option...if only I see a man that would agree with me and don't try to shift it to his way.
My mom is a party woman, she pulls crowd. She might just be the only problem I have. Who cares about a big wedding, not me. I do things my way fuccck society.
Apart from eating to their satisfaction, and filling up the chairs what else do they bring? And it's not everybody that will even be happy for you. Nice options. Just like you, I prefer the first option. Only difference is that mine will include a white wedding. So my introduction day will also double as traditional marriage day. Very low key (though I doubt that cos my father who pulls crowd will like to invite the whole of Abia State and beyond). But I'd prefer immediate families and one or two friends. Same with court marriage. Then the white wedding. I'd also prefer an intimate affair. Cos it's not a question of how much was spent on weddings. It's how well the marriage lasts. |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 3:30pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
cassyrooy: MissJoy29 like you rightly said yesterday that I'm a gamophobic, well see another reason.
Hope you're having a nice Sunday? This is actually one of the major reasons(if not the major one) why we have a surplus of men and women of marriageable age. The economy is not smiling at all! I actually am. You? Hope you went to Church. |
Family › Re: The Effects Of High Cost Of Marriage In Nigeria by MissJoy29(f): 3:25pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
DamZik: Wedding is overrated. I think you meant to say, "a big society wedding especially when you can't really afford it & just want to impress strangers is overrated".  |
Family › Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 11:44pm On Mar 10, 2018 |
cassyrooy: You're just super weird, how you managed to articulate that from all my posts that I'm a gamophobic still eludes me.
@bolded, I can't say a definite yes, I just don't talk about it much self. Yeah, definitely, things ought to go the right way. Win-win for everyone.  Yeah, I'm that sensitive & observant honey. Actually, no one likes talking about it. Not even I. It's late. I gotta go to bed. Have a good night's sleep. Talk with you later  |