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[quote author=Miss_Ife link=topic=676088.msg8401727#msg8401727 date=1306478761]I agree with that. I can't believe we could beat a child and later tell him it's because of love, No wonder some ladies get beaten by their husbands/bf and confuse it with love [/quote]Lol. Y'all are so funny! Who says the application of the rod or the meting out of other disciplinary measures implies hatred or cannot be done out of love?
Almost all of us here got our share of the lashing and we obviously didn't die; that, I can say for certain, contributed to making us better individuals in some areas of life. Needless to say it was done ''for our own good''; sometimes parents tend to exaggerate but this is due to another factor and not hatred for the child.


[quote author=Miss_Ife link=topic=676088.msg8401727#msg8401727 date=1306478761]You say she is lying, but has she been lied to ? Did anybody talk to her about her birth, her parents situation, why they are separated, why they are not taking care of her, why her grandma is no longer taking care of her ? Sometimes we adults just want to avoid some akward talks and believe that, since the kid didn't ask, we don't need to tell,  I think this little girl needs to know about what is really going on in her life. Who will take care of her if you give up on her too?[/quote]And you really think the 10-year-old child, after being informed, would automatically change for the better? What correlation has the communication of this information to her (at this age) to being the good girl baby.me wants her to be? At 10, this information is 1) useless to her or 2) most likely going to complicate her life (more).

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While it isn't a bad idea to send her to the boarding house, taking her there without instilling some discipline in her first, isn't the best. The housemistress cannot dedicate special attention to just one child as there are many others, and as a result, there's a tendency that the areas that need special attention might be left untouched.
If there's something I have personally learnt about raising kids, it's that it requires a lot of patience. Oh lawd! A whole lot of it.

Do not spare the rod when necessary
Make rules and do not bend the rules too often
Show her love
Pray for her

I would like to believe you can tell when someone is mad at you even without it being communicated.

You don't need to prove nada. Come to think of it, how is it possible to 'convince' others of one's emotion?

If you actually care about him, it should be evident enough for him to realize. In a case where he fails to realize it and still continues to live in doubt, after all your deeds suggest so, you cannot be held responsible for his insecurity prob.

Ilaria's dad. No, not really, I'm happy with myself. What satisfaction! It woulda been perfect if money wasn't involved; now I feel like I was paid for my deed.

Lord, help me to continue like this; for it's what gives me true satisfaction and happiness.

1/2

Aria

hunkyjohn:
Here's you cash. There's more where that came from. 

Thank you. Don't hesitate to stop by, the next time hunger knocks.

3RNEST:
>>OMG,   babe where did u get that from? So we still have CABIN in naija? thanks for the malta, i feel good tara tara, 

In this kitchen, there's everything. I remember that advert. I feeeeeel good!

hunkyjohn:
I had to go get some backup money from the ATM machine. I never knew these ladies had very huge appetite.

Can I have the bill now?     

Lmao! You shoulda been well prepared before offering to foot the bill.

€300.00 only. 

3RNEST:
>>> Can i get CABIN biscuit here and to top it with FIVE ALIVE, Missy.B Will its be possible??

Enjoy!

https://d30opm7hsgivgh.cloudfront.net/upload/13913579_68GPKNNw_b.jpg

https://www.okinbiscuits.com/images/CABIN.jpg

[img]http://www.afrodomtom.fr/alimentation_exotique_par_pays/Afrique/cameroun/malta-guiness.jpg[/img]

Oga o!!!

Glad you like it. Could you, please, pay now?

Reh reh reh!
Whatever happened to all the ''Acting is my first love and I wouldn't give it up for anything''?
If she actually means it, it's quite sad; She's one of the talented actresses we have around. -1

Enjoy!

https://i30.tinypic.com/20tf1xs.jpg

In case you prefer starch, here it is. . .

https://www.villagekitchenonline.com/gallery/EBA-EFPRIRO2.jpg

https://www.easyvectors.com/assets/images/vectors/bdpreview/jug-and-glass-with-water1.jpg

Depends on the ice cream you would want to make.

This should help, though. http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-make-ice-cream/

Have a great day.

Back in the days, harp and I were good friends. Malta guiness, too.
Guiness Stout that happens to be 'ladies' drink', I never like, 'cause I thought it was too bitter.

akunta:
missy, u r da best
Dats why am always bringing traffic dis way
FYI, Hunky is a new customer
tanks 2 Odunnu & i
How about a hot cup of Cocoa for tanks?
Thanks again for the yam
it was delicious, 

I thank you ladies. 

https://www.freecoconutrecipes.com/images/Coconut_Peanut_Butter_Cup_Hot_Cocoa_recipe_photo.jpg

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Vote! 

Odunnu:
Akara and akamu would be ideal for ths morning.
Hello Mr Byns, how was your nyt?

Enjoy . . .

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akunta:
Missy, u really must have capable hands 2 relief u
in the kitchen, when u r MIA, imagine,
orders for 2 days has not been attended 2
Do smthg fast!!!

Forgive us, we're truly sorry for the delay. Missy and OAM4MISSY have been quite busy; we're sure you understand and, we thank you for that.

Here's what you requested for . . .
https://www.allnigerianrecipes.com/images/yam-and-vegetable.jpg

https://www.allnigerianrecipes.com/images/boiled-yam.jpg

https://naijan.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/efo-riro-nigerian-recipe.jpg

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hunkyjohn:
Wow! This is the kitchen I have been hearing about. I percieved the aroma of food emanating from this joint all the way from Forum games section!!! 

* Settles down and sits at a vantage position *

[size=14pt]WAITER!!![/size] Please, can I have the menu? And get me a glass of orange juice while I wait.

You're very much welcome and I must add that, you're in the right place.
We have every kind of food- from Italian to German to Nigerian to English etcetera. Place your order and leave the rest to us. 

Here's your juice, by the way.

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[quote author=BABE! link=topic=673265.msg8374600#msg8374600 date=1306130887]All these "pretty girls are dumb" talks baffles me--- Am I living in the same world as y'alls? I roll with "PRETTY" people, and they are pretty smart/intelligent----hmm. Plus I myself, I'm pretty and Intelligent, so  what's going on?  [/quote]My sentiment, exactly.
''Pretty girls are dumb'' is one old baseless cliché. I know tons of people that possess both a fine face and a fine head.

Hell, indeed, hath no fury like a woman scorned. The kain wahala weh dhick deh cause ehn!  But why?!

Back to reading sha. 

One or 2 things to do first and I have something to spice up my day. Ta

zstranger:
^^

So you dont travel cross continent choping/doing Okoro-Ngbatic blokos?


Have you seen Blazay's blog? So revealing?

You're learning fast. ''Okoro-Yoruba''. Mu he he! 
Revealing, you say? Link please?

I'm present wherever there's gist fun. Blazay may be a pugnacious woman but there's no doubt she makes one laugh away his wahala, hence, my presence whenever she's in the 'ring' 

zstranger:
^^^
Anyway, I am loving it.

So am I. 

zstranger:
What are you going to add to all of these?

Nada! I don't do cyber clique, so there's no fear a 'once friend, now foe' is going to come out and 'let it all out'. Missy is scandal-free! 

BTW, want some popcorn? 

Rollingonthefloorlaughingwhilepeeinginmypantie!!! OMG!
I swearogawd, y'all have killed me.
I love the last page of this thread . . .So revealing. Just how I love it.

One line -

zstranger:
You people are crazy

Class cannot hide itself, neither can 'ajekpako-ness'; needless to say they cannot be hidden by anyone, not even money. 
It's very easy to tell the classy, semi-classy and mgbeke/agbero apart, from their appearance. No matter how much 'mouth they make'.  Well, not everyone can, I'm very good at it.

Great!
Food is ready . . . Just for you and I. Come chop abeg. 

https://www.migrationheritage.nsw.gov.au/exhibitions/ournewhome/images/full/fleeing-aluminplate.jpg

https://www.allnigerianrecipes.com/images/beans-porridge.jpg

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https://www.akuskitchen.com/images/plaintain.jpg

https://www.auntbubbiesfakefood.com/images/graphics/whitebreadloaf.jpg

[img]http://www.itslife.in/index.php?callback=image&pid=438&width=320&height=240&mode=[/img]

https://www.janssencentre.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/green_apples-554.jpg

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@lucabraski
Typical Nigerian woman! Evil, Full of hatred, wickedness and very vengeful by nature!
And on Sunday, na dem go be "Church-worker and Deaconess" combined!
Ewuuu!

I doubt the person who said '' Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'' was referring to Naija women, in particular.