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Shyboyk:
Stay away from anything or anyone that would stress u even if she is your mom stay away but not totally

Blitzking:
truth be told u don't av a mother..focus on ur life bro..sounds harsh but na wetin I go do..maa wey no fey act like mama.

Owoado:
Pls send me a DM when you can

neonly:
Don't thank him pls some women are not deserve to called mother
Follow your instincts whatever you think is best do it you have no know to answer to
You are self made man walk with your head high
Good luck

Dpen11:
This is my second time commenting on this post,i see many people criticizing me based on what i said .

Please don't listen to them, they're only trying to make you have misunderstanding with your mum.

She is your mum for christ sake, they're all here talking rubbish why they're in good term with their mother's.

Instead of them to find a solution they're telling you to avoid your own mother.

Dsscode91:
If this story is true, very sorry about your experiences.
I went through a similar situation and it sure hurts.
But for a long time i have a crossed mind for sycophants whoever the person is.
Reverse psychology no longer works.

I know what i can do.

veektor01:
It's the moral duty of every parent to take good care of their wards.

And in the eventuality that they fail to do so, they shouldn't expect the kids to take care of them as well.

Dear poster, don't feel emotionally blackmailed to assist if you don't want to.
Some parents are not worth being referred to as parents.

albert2512:
No na, not like this one na. I don't have mum again too n I miss my mum so much but this case is something else. She doesn't value her child(ren). Give her always when u can but dont kill yourself to cos she would always come for more especially when u said she likes alcohol n party.

Femmyfamous4u:
Do you do drugs?

BigIyanga:
Take care of yourself first!

michlins:
This is nonsense sha. Being a mother goes beyond birthing a child. If you can not be there for your child, you don't deserve the right to be called a mother.

OP, find a way and go live your life. Cut off your family and when you raise your own family, learn from the experiences and be better.

IconicR:
Unfortunately they usually hide that parents not provoking their children to anger part

Just do you and guard your peace of mind with all jealousy
Be kind to them only at your own convenience, that's all.

Caaz:
One thing that has gotten far and given peace of mind is,I don't allow people to coax me.

I give when I have and when I don't have,kindly bear with me, if you put pressure on me,I'll block you straight away.

It may seemed harsh ,but I value my peace of mind a great deal.

IconicR:
Don't listen to that advise
Put your mental health in check before any other person in this life.

Help her only when you are comfortable to do so

Do not let anyone who weren't there for you in trying times tamper with your peace of mind.

IconicR:
When will parents who failed their kids understand that they are not entitled to anything from such kids and whatever they get should be considered as charity ?

All these is as a result of how most of these religious leaders interpret the holy book

You should not feel bad over anything kos you owe them nothing but you may choose to still be kind to them each time you have but not under any duress

If she couldn't stand for you in your trying times please don't give her that chance of breaking you.

Satisfy your conscience and ignore the rest.

Dpen11:
Wow

She is your mum is that she is your mum

On a normal day if you really do have to give ,give her because many are praying to have a mother that will disturb them or make them spend.

Whatsoever you passed through,let bygone be bygone,she is your family.

Be safe

adebayour26:
This person has said it all. Let's leave the issue they have going between them aside but for him not to meet you at your duty post is an offence. Only if you know how these elites reason.


You now even made a mistake of the truth you told him. You could have simply told him something else.

SUPERPACK:
Sacking you for an offense you committed only once without warning to me is a bit harsh. If I were him I would issue a Stern warning then monitor you for compliance. He seem to sack you not because you left the gate but because you worked for a rival.

Even the next gateman he gets will still make same mistake as you, after all the pay for gatemen in Nigeria will not exceed 40k. Consider going back to beg him.

PapaNnamdi:
You have no point,
You had only 1job, be at the gate and do the description,
Your first test and you failed, to crown it all up, you were doing another person's work

Ahh, it's bad, real bad,
Go finish clearing the grass use the 15k hold hand till u find something doing,

Standstrong:
Because they failed to understand my own point

Standstrong:
I picked up the gate man job ending of last month out of no other better options at the moment and seeing what economic hardship was making me pass through, especially waking up with no hope of where food is going to come from, make i no go steal, God abeg.

I have been doing the job well. Yesterday, while strolling around the area, I heard one man saying he is looking for someone to cut grasses in his compound. Being something I can do to collect the money to help myself as i was hungry and peniless, I met the man and told him i can do the work and we agreed on N15k.

So as my oga went to work, i rushed down to do the work. While I was on it, i dont know what brought my oga back to the house and he didnt see me at the post.

He called me and asked me where i am. I rushed down to the house. I told him i got a small contract of 15k to cut grass for someone in the neighbourhood.

The man got so angry on why I left his duty post to go do another job. Worse was that the person i did the job for was more like his enemy, as i later learnt they've not been in good terms.

He sacked me instantly. I begged this man as a human being to please forgive but he refused to consider me again. He even said, "go before you go and collect poison from my enemy to come and kill me".

Please what is my business with whatever fight the two of them are fighting?

That was how I lost the small job i just got 3 weeks ago and now back with nothing. He should have paid me for the 3 weeks right away but he didnt, rather he said i will find a way to pay you for the services so far.

Please, the country is already very hard and all I needed was something that could give me immediate money to survive on first.

Sad how struggling citizens are being badly treated everyday even while legitimately hustling for survival. How he will pay me for the 3 weeks, he didn't say it.

It's painful but it is not the end of the world.

I will make it too. Amen.

It shall never be well with hunger, agent of poverty.

harrend:
CALM DOWN BRO
EVRYBDY IS NT D SAME..
NA DIS SMAL MATTER GO MAKE ME DEY LIE?
I DEY USE BUTTON COME ONINE
I SNAP AM WITH MY FRIEND FONE WEN I WAN UPLOAD AM NETWRK COME DEY WORRY

steeltrust:
Point P(4, -5, -6) is located 4 units to the right (positive x-axis), 5 units down (negative y-axis), and 6 units back (negative z-axis) from point Q(0, 0, 0).

To calculate the distance between P and Q, you can use the distance formula:

Distance = √((x2 - x1)^2 + (y2 - y1)^2 + (z2 - z1)^2)

Substituting the coordinates:
Distance = √((4 - 0)^2 + (-5 - 0)^2 + (-6 - 0)^2)
Distance = √(16 + 25 + 36)
Distance = √(77)

So, the distance between point P and point Q is √77 units.

harrend:
sorry 4 dissapointing i dont have a smart fone. i did it immediately but netwrk ws bad den i saw smone hs posted it.

RepoMan007:
X,Y,Z = 4,-5,-6

Using Pythagoras theorem.

4²+(-5)² = 16+25 = 41

41 + 6² = 41+36 = 77

PQ = √77.


Wow. You're so correct. I have the answer with the earlier solution.
Thanks so much brother

Ina2k:
Arsenal shouldn't take this match lightly. I see a draw

harrend:
AM PASTING IT NOW BRO

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chatinent:
Having sex with your wife? If yes, what business does it have with the church? Pastor no wipe come church too?