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Biglittlelois:
Your church denomination will never take you to heaven, on judgement day, God will not ask for the name of your church, He is after your heart, mind, spirit, and soul,

If your man isn't spiritually inclined as you'd like, guide him through the right path with love and prayer, most couples are never on the same page spiritually, they grow along the line,

Don't loose a good man because of what you are been fed in your church, there are good and bad people in every denomination.

TruthOverFacts:
This is coming late, I know other responses may have changed your mind, but I say stick to your spiritual instincts. Don't ever go ahead if you are not sure it's God's will. Bible says "as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they're the sons of God". You are now a new person whom you weren't before you met him. So, your life now and before are not the same.

Furthermore, Bible says not to be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. See, i have a very spiritual lady who is God's tool but her husband is her Achilles heels. She made exact same mistake you are about making now and is regretting it daily. Guess you know that as a Christian once you get married, you are under the authority of your husband? Guess you know too that this means his orders will always conflict with God's own in your life?

I have been in your shoes before, but I left the lady cos she is not just a Catholic but cold towards spiritual things and of course she wasn't God's will for me. Leaving him is a price you gotta pay for Christ. Don't mind those asking you what the problem is etc. Finding the will of God is more than just being Christians. Two born agains can be in the same church but do not have the same destiny. Even if he were to be a born again, it still isn't enough to take the marriage vows with him if he is not God's will. Ignore some comments here cos they are making them from a carnal standpoint. A carnal mind cannot comprehend the things of the Spirit. God help you.

Funkybabee:
And like someone said, be praying for him

Invite him to your church program, share fliers or anything.

Don't enforce him Biko, let Christ life shown in you that he will be able to think and reconsider

amokeme:
The bold has led many people into regret and boundge. Understand that people have their lives to live. YOU are the one that will be in the marriage with that man, not the people whose opinion you are worried about.

Please dear, marriage shouldn't be a joke, it should be enjoyable with someone you'll be at peace with. Everyother person will be alright

Pious101:
and how does the ladies action translate to be a stronger vessel? So being deceptive, not being honest act of wickedness are the attributes that makes d females folks to be stronger? Are u just trying to defend this because u re female or u share same attributes with d lady in question?

Baawaa:
You want to destroy her life like yours

TemmyT002:
There is nothing special about you. Take your child elsewhere.
Radarada

Ever8090:
Is she teaching her daughter atheism or what...?

adadike:
Side chicks should please leave married men alone. What goes around always find a way to come around. I decided never to date a married man for just one reason - it will come back to haunt me

careytommy37:
Can human beings ever be satisfied?
When he did not pay, you complained.
Now he has paid, you still complain.

Indabello:
Oga, Shut your mouth if you don't know what to say. I am just telling you how bad it has been for Kogites from time in memorial not trying to justify any anomaly. My mom, is a direct victim from Ibro's regime till date.
Ibro started 60-50% payment, Wada consolidated it by taking it to 25-30% and sometimes 40%. Today, Yahya Bello has climaxed it as we don't even know the percentage with which workers are being paid. This is the essence of history- studying the past to understand the present

Indabello:
Ibro started percentage payment in Kogi State, Governor Ichala Wada consolidated it and now Yahaya Bello is capping it. This has been the trend for Kogites, sorry for my dear state

Flexherbal:
Her fans are something else.
They want to hear the full gist first, before they help her report the blog.