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JojoAbeka:
My thoughts on this..

I was once a staunch member of Christ Embassy and passionate follower of Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. But his recent statements during this lockdown period have been increasingly erratic, irresponsible and downright dangerous. Pastor Chris has sadly gone astray from his calling to preach the Word of God and turned into a wild conspiracy theorist. For those close to Pastor Chris, please advise him. His rhetoric during this period is really exposing who he really is - and it's not a pretty picture to behold.

That is how real truth Sayers sound. He's not crazy.

EwuGambia:
Which kyn wahala be this nah..
He don dey run mad small small o.
This guy don dey smoke pawpaw o....
Rozz come here!, come and defend your pastor

You know nothing.

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Thank you.

stella55:
indeed a love story you lost all you genuinely loved, thank God you have kids to hold on to.
I can't consult any pastor for my relationship some of them are home breakers

Thank you.

ZAWs:
Kai some of these young gangster pastor are nothing to talk about.
You see them on the campus messing around anyhow.
Look at how he practically destroyed such a flourishing relationship witb ease.(assuming this story is even true)
My wife must not consult any pastor without my FULL knowledge and approval.
I can divorce her for it.

The story is true and I am living with it.
The chances that went begging and all.

delugadou:
are you saying that she later left the pastor and came back to you?

No! She didn't.

Continuation...

I won't bore you with too many details.

The reason were;

1. The pastor told her that he saw a vision about me; that I would end up a hemp smoker, wife beater, a drunkard and all sorts of vices. (He got into her head)

2. He lobbied her NIFES Mama friend and close associates to influence her to quit the relationship with me.

3. Some of these her friends who were jealous of our union took advantage of the opportunity to ruin it.

All these and more O.M (not real name) explained to me.

With her friends around in her hostel room everyday, there was little I could do.
I gave up the quest and went to the state I was posted.

Exactly one year, I completed my NYSC.
Luckily I got a three job offers and was so grateful.

That very week, I got sick. I thought it was fever, but it won't go away.
My family spent hundreds of thousands.
From one hospital to another, but all the diagnosis came back clean. No sickness was found.

I was loosing it. It kept getting worse and worse by the day.
We resorted to trying out prayer houses.

Then I started to lose the hope surviving the sickness.
I started to pray for forgiveness of any sins I might have committed.

While in that state, someone called me that Dr. Pastor Enenche would be on the school campus for a crusade.
She encouraged me to attend. Perhaps, I willl get my healing.

I asked to be taken to the crusade ground.
While on the ground. I decided to manage to walk few meters away from where we camped.

Behold! guess who I saw?
I saw her. My ex. seated alone.

But I was embarrased, because I was very sick.
Looking frail. With my breathe very short and little hope to surviving the next minute, I wished I didn't meet her.

Babe jumped down from the trunk of car on which she was seated.

She told me that she was praying deeply in her to God to see me at the ground if truly I was for her and I somehow showed up.
She had realised her mistake. She said she was influenced and misled by friends. That I already knew.

Ordinarily, it would have been a miracle.
But I didn't want her to come back into my life to be stressed or be faced with the challenge of my survival.

I foolishly dismissed any form of advances from her.

I managed to return to my spot. But my heart kept racing and I kept thinking about her. Wishing that I was healthy.

For the next two days as the crusade lasted. I did not see her again.

The healing didn't come and I travelled back home. Resigned to my fate.

Somehow, I didn't die. But it Ttook me another two years to recover without any medication or whatsover.
I lived. Life came back into me. I was always thinking about her everyday.

It was too late. I lost her to the same pastor. They were already married.

It didn't stop me from thinking about her always.

I decided to give another relationship a chance, but the fire wasn't there.
It turned out the babe wasn't true to her word. She cheated.
We broke up.

Two more relationships; I decided not to continue with one and the other left on her own.

I finally met my wife. An amazing soul. Unique in her own way. I love so much.
I am thankful to God for my beautiful guys (two smart boys). They are my motivation and strenght.

But most times, I wished, I didn't let her slip away the 2nd time.

I think about her always... Obviously, it will last for a lifetime.

This is my secret.

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My advice is: Don't it slip away. Give it a chance again, only if it's worth it.

Many married people are alone even in the middle of love and warmt from their spouses.

Find your soulmate to hold on to her. You only live once.

...Continuation

All the while, we never had sex. But that was the 5th thing on my agenda.
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Back to the main gist. The Sneeky pastor saga would not go away.
His emergence brought me a lot of distraction.
Everything seemed crazy.

I started to lose concentration.
My motivation was sliping off my grip.

...But why.

In quick succession, she started to give me cold shoulders.
What did I do wrong?

Her response came back positive. I didn't do anything wrong.

It became even harder for me to catch some sleep at night.

1. I was already used to doing MTN Extra Cool with her.

2. The thought of her and the pastor talking on the phone till in the morning.

All these made me broken and awake all nights.

This continued for weeks. I called the pastor to let him in on the development.
Behold... he said "Forget about that girl, she's not worth me".

I mean... How na? Then I knew, this guy was out for distruction.
I still asked him to talk to her for me, dude said he had no airtime to do that.
I immediately bought and sent him airtime. I think perhaps, because his conscience won't let him,
he returned my credit.

I called her the followng day to ask what was going on. ...Then came the tsunami.
She told me that "We were better off as friends than lovers".

Everywhere went dark. I started to lose weight. My appetite disappeared. My head started to ache.
My heart became heavy and then came the dull, but deep pains.

I was disorganized. I will call, but my calls went unanswered.
I became sick.
I wanted to forget everthing. I went for sleeping pills. It didn't work.
I decided to take overdose, maybe the sleep would come, then switched off.

My elder Sister went through my phone. She finally discovered the likely cause of my ordeal.
She then put a call across to her, informing her of my state.
Babe became restless and all.

When I came back alive, I saw her calls. With the thought that the nightmare was over, I joyfully returned her call.
But the coversation was dry. She maintained her stance.

I decided to accept my fate.
Months later, I went back to school to collect my result and call up letter.
I decided to check on her.

She was glad to see me.
But her friend and adviser (A NIFES Mama) kept engineering her not to see me.
Few of her friends who at some point gave me greenlight were against any possible reunion between us.

I ran into one of her friends who is not sort of liberal minded.

She would later open up to me on how things transpired and the core cause of our break up.

To be continued.

xxxtedyxxx:
Op come finish your story.


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I forgot to add.
There was no sex.

I won't bore you with how I met her.
But the very first time I set my eyes on her, my soul was lit with fire.

Once she accepted to be my girl, my life never remained the same.
It was in 2008, I was a final year student and she was in her first year in the university.

The thought of her alone drove my zeal to learn harder and come out with good grades.
I was floating.
...I was flying.

Even if someone deliberately insulted me or even stepped on my foot, a mere thought of her and I would walk away,
knowing that I would see an Angel sooner.

We never got bored of each other.
We would go to the class and read together.

My CGPA improved greatly when the first semester exams result came out.

I discovered a lot of hidden skills and talents lying deep asleep in me.

I started to sell ideas to few companies by doing feasibilty studies about likely challenges they were facing.
I would test hypotheses, suggest possible tailored solutions and all.

I started to save. It helped me to define my career path.

For almost two years, we never for one day quarreled.
There was never a cause for suspicion.

I woke up each day grateful and all fired up to achieve more.

I relocated to Abuja to explore more, while I was waiting for NYSC.

And then came the sleeky pastor.

One evening, she called to inform me of her reunion to a primary school mate whom after secondary school decided to join the Nigerian Army
and went ahead to become a pastor.

She said the supposed pastor wanted to talk to me.
She said the pastor advised that we commit our relationship to God.

I told her I wasn't comfortable with the pastor thing.
She would go ahead to persuade me.

After few days, I gave in and the supposed pastor called me on the phone.
He asked what I did that made her so fond of me.

I told him the truth; constant communication.
That was it....

I and my system were so used to doing MTN extra cool with her.

That night, @ 12:30am, I dialed her line, she was on another call. Strange.
I continued dialing at interval for hours, but she won't drop the call to return mine.

It continued like that until 40:30am.
By 4:31am, she called and told me that she was on the phone with pastor snaky (let's call him that).

The following night, the same thing ensued.
Unfortunately, sleep won't come. I was rolling in the bed till morning.

...I will continue later.
Gotta go back to my workstation.

SLAP44:
Hunger drove the men out, simple.

Are you trying to justify their irresponsible act of thuggery?

Very poor composition skill.

Silly fake news.

This fool better leave blogging.

jerryunit48:
None sense , nobody is forcing you to like Nigerians just allow them be that is all

But that's the truth. Sorry if it hurts.

If you don't fxck this new guy, you will live your life regretting why you didn't.

Just like Nigerians, if Buhari did not return, we would have still thought so highly of him and believed he would have been the best option.

If you break your so called "boyfriend's" heart, you might live to regret it all the days of your life and might find it difficult to forgive yourself.

I made a huge mistake that I regret every single day of my life, even now.

Just choose one and live with the consequences forever.

At this time, nothing anyone will tell you that will stop you from fxcking your new found fantasy boyfriend.

Just don't forget to use condom.

But I will advise you stay faithful to your boyfriend and build a solid relationship and future.

There's more to life than sex rituals.

Be at peace.

seunmsg:
PDP was in power for 16 years and all through, it was Oshiomole that prevented them from removing subsidy even though Oshiomhole left NLC since 2006.

Oshiomhole was able to stop them from removing subsidy but was unable to stop them from looting COJA funds, Nitel/Pentascope deal, bankrupting Nigeria airways, selling Delta steel company valued at over $3b to cronies at around $180million, spending $16billion on power without anything to show for it, Malabu, Halliburton, I-gate, siemen, Dasuki-gate scandals etc.

The shamelessness of Atiku and those supporting him is really appalling. These guys think Nigerians are stupid, right?

He didn't say the entire PDP reign.

Learn to pay attention to details.

You need it.

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Millenniumlady:
It's obvious jude is a user why would an upcoming artist pay 50% of her production among other things you still had the gut to say the profit should be 50%50 like seriously boy ? If you're not paying for the cost of production as a company then don't bring the 50/50 deal on the table he wanted to kill her career thanks to the creator she's back on her feet and she's currently the no.1 artist trending in Africa without releasing a single yet so jude can go back to where he belong THE STREETS.....He blocked me on Instagram cause I curse am no be small

This is even better compared to what other label offer.

Applicable in the US too.

Did she not review the contract before she signed?

Sankabson:
Reach out to her family member down here. They could be able to talk some senses into her.

Let her know as well, that whatsoever she's doing or up to. The future of her kids are at stake too.

But maybe your own GRA GRA too much for Naija too?! Cos for her to change in just few months... E get why!!

I hate people like you. You want the husband to die? Or do you want the wicked women to destroy him?

Is he the only man on earth?

See you people are wicked.

Nobody used your boxers. Stop lying.

I feel like landing a very hot slap across your face. That's all.

SLAP44:
There's so much food and natural resources in Igboland that they can feed West Africa as soon as they are granted their own country.

What kind of weed did you smoke?

Ndeoma:
See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move in church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And also the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.

Nobody is coming for you, it's just your mind. Eave her the fvck alone.