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Transforming a thin girl I like into a sexy ssbbw

A brand only recognized in third world countries, and we wonder why the Chinese are gaining so much power in Africa everyday.

Become a man of value and purpose. Create wealth. Find enlightenment. Have a set of principles for life. Simple.
All these your big English ehhh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yX_sX4yiAFg

The guys that date those kind of girls do not waste their time on nairaland romance section like us.

Lol
We Africans really hate ourselves. African Americans see our women the same way we see theirs, cheap and vulgar.
Ironically our own communities are just as bad as theirs (or worse). It's just like a pot calling a kettle black.

If I call him wetin I want talk?
Mine thinks I'm a failed project. Likes his money and investments more than me.

Axwell &Ingrossio - Dawn

Deadmau5 - Ghost N Stuff

Avicii - Lay me down

Jay Hardway - Electric Elephant

Madeon - The City

David Guetta ft Martin Garrix and Brooks - Like I Do

Calvin Harris - I'm Not Alone (2019 remix)

Madeon - Pop Culture

Maxwell & Ingrossio - More Than You Know

Don Diablo - We Are Love


and many more...

Damn...I don't know why it turns me on when I see ladies getting fat when they marry.

addictiv:
yeah, I get your perspective but take a look at high-value successful black women who have the academic, physical, and economic wherewithal to get any man of any race they want, they mostly get married to black men or stay single. Only a small number get married to men of different races. The women who rush to be baby mamas for foreigners are probably doing it for economic reasons ...If you bring a rich white guy and a rich black guy to a black woman, she will most likely choose the black guy. But if you bring a rich white girl and a rich black girl to the black man. He will most likely choose the white girl in a heartbeat. The result of this is a transfer of wealth to a different race that didn't contribute to your success and will never fully embrace you and your kids as theirs and the black race suffers the deficit.

I don't know sha, everyone has their personal own reasons for doing what they do. But there is one race we all fall under, and that is the human race. Let us show love and respect to every human being despite the color of their skin. Race and cultural background should not be a determinant of whom we wish to marry.

addictiv:
you just proved my point... black men marry out more than black women. Black women are more loyal to the race than black men. Marriage is not just romance, it's an economic contract. A black man gets supported by the black community till he gets successful and begins to receive global recognition and the first thing he does is to get a woman from a different race who doesn't understand or identify with the black evolution and struggle and to top it the kids gotten from such union may not identify as blacks especially if they are not dark-skinned but that's by the way, the main point is the wealth he accumulates with the help of black support leaves the black community to some other community that did not invest or is not as invested in his success as the community he came from. Hardly will you find a successful Asian or white or Jewish man marry an average black woman, But you will find scores of very successful black men getting married to average women from various races. Thereby transferring the wealth to other races. Which is funny because most of these women would not even look at the black man if he is not successful in the board room and bedroom . In the end, the black race is the loser.

African women of all variations worldwide crave outsiders more than we the men do. But due to lower economic and academic opportunities their choices are limited to only the men of their skin color.
I tell you, many brown skinned girls would rather become a babymama to an Asian or someone of European descent than have a stable marriage with an African man or someone from African descent.

As much I support interracial marriages, dating an Asian woman is at your own risk. These people have homogeneous societies and thus are very wary about foreigners mixing with their gene pool, especially Africans whom they see as subhumans or space aliens.
Most of these Asians fetishize Africans as sexual objects. Their women may just be interested in your rumored big equipment, not your person.
Besides you will have to deal with the racist attitudes her friends and family will give you.

Why must Nigerian youths waste the time they can use to develop a skill, make money, or build a career, just to work as indentured servants under a failed system doesn't care about anybody, all in the name of "promoting national unity"?
What a joke.

Me that I like girls on smooth shave.

It's poverty
Have you been to ghettos, slums or low income areas? You will notice that negative values spreads easily, there is always violence, prostitution, frequent sexual immorality, child abuse, easy circulation of hard drugs, envy, environmental pollution, noise pollution, overpopulation, mediocrity. You will realize that poverty weaponizes religion, especially dark religious doctrines. Poverty breeds corruption, war, tyranny, crime and more poverty etc. In a state of poverty people easily forgo their independent thoughts and cling to tribal mindsets, these "tribes" could be ethnic groups, religion, political parties, ideologies etc, and they tend to see people who do not belong in their "tribe" as enemies, forgetting these people are also human beings like themselves. Poverty sometimes is not the lack of money, its the lack of the physical and mental resources to provide an ideal human living condition.All forms of poverty, both mental and physical is characterized by a craving for something they feel is missing from their lives as a complete human be it money or even sex. And this state reduces one into an animal, that they will join the dark side to get it.
What Nigeria and many third world countries suffer from is poverty, and the best ways to handling poverty is through economics, not politics. But it's surprising that most of our leaders and activists seldom talk about economic development, because even human right and free speech thrives where there is a strong economy.

It's time we learn that there is nothing like common good in Nigeria, especially among ethnicities.
Why don't we just restructure Nigeria, abolish political parties, adopt non partisan democracy and focus on community development that caters on the need of the common man. No politician can save Nigeria, only we the people can.

Who knows. Maybe somewhere in some remote place there might be a tribe that believes Buhari is a deity.

I am a redpiller and a proud member of the manosphere, but I'll say that Nigerian redpiller too dey fall hands sometimes. They only thing most of them talk about women, women and women alone. This makes me want to believe that most of the redpillers here are incels and bitter, sex starved AFCs. I noticed that most we Nigerian men have high sex drives and many of us will fall down to the ground, redpiller or not, to taste pvssy, unfortunately.
When feminists gather, they will talk about men, but most of the time they always talk about how to take over the fcking world and end patriarchy. Feminism has taken over most part of modern society, even the non western societies. They are in business, politics, education, entertainment. They are influential and claim to speak for the right of women, preaching "gender equality" for all.

But what of the redpill manosphere? We're small tribes of men that exist on the internet. We are mostly misunderstood, ridiculed and seen as mysogynsts. Why?
When men are not doing well off, the society fails. Men are leaders, women are followers. I realized that the modern incarnation of feminism (3rd wave feminism) got it's influence from weak men. Men who have lost their power to lust pornography, drugs, rape, video game addiction, gluttony and mindless consumerism. These men have tainted the value of masculinity, unfortunately many men today suffer from these vices. We've become like Samson who fell into the hands of a woman and let her steal his power. What I believe what we redpillers need is money and how to make it. No man in the society is respected if he does not have money and status. Let us leave women, sex and relationship matter to the pickup artists while we discuss on how to make money and more resources and influence society. The manosphere is the new vangaurd of masculinity, let us gather the men together and go on a journey of self improvement and growth, let us discuss business and investment, let us talk philosophy and feed on wisdom, let us help each other out. If a man simps, don't belittle him further, show him the way, feminists do not attack their fellow women who do not buy their ideals. Let us learn to respect ourselves and let go of sex and for a greater. Let us quit complaining and playing the victim, the redpill is about us, not women.
They say, the wisdom of a broke man is despised.
And again, let us see things from the separate angles of both gender

Patrioticman007:
Read more about human resources, before you end your family linage due to mizing.
If higher human population is a curse China should be the world poorest country not second world economy.

However, I believe that population growth has positive effects on societies. These include economic benefits such as expansion of tax bases and increased consumer spending at local businesses, as well as benefits derived from innovations by cultures seeking to keep up with growing populations.

Population growth is important to the economy, yes, but when there are little resources to feed and educate the growing mass for optimum productivity, they become a burden to the society and the economy. A population where people consume a lot but produce very little is a big issue. Nigeria is an example of such.

I will advice we do the opposite.
Break away from the system, make money, go to school, learn a skill, have a career, create jobs etc, let older generation who created this system be the ones to suffer in it.
In Nigeria youths are nothing but tools used by the powerful to achieve their selfish goals. We the youths are one of the most misunderstood people in Nigeria, we are always under attack by our families, the police, the educational sector etc.
Majority of our youths are unemployed, some of them have economic difficulty in running their own businesses, some cannot even feed themselves, and they are talking us into joining politics. Why? 2023 is coming. They need voters, they need pawns and political thugs. Youths everywhere are growing restless and resistant, they need something to keep our minds locked to serving them and seeing each other as enemies.
Besides, what's the difference if youths go into politics? Corrupt ones will rise up among us and continue the destruction the older generation had left. What major impacts have most of our youth led government like Community Youth Government and SUG made outside being pawns to godfathers and syphoning funds like their older counterparts.
The only way Nigerian youths can save Nigeria is through economic freedom, intellectualism, community development, scientific and cultural innovation, free speech and freedom of thought.

You may be trying to find a perfect woman who will fit into the center of your universe. Please don't. The ideal women of our fantasies do not exist, sadly. Rather work on improving yourself, enjoy yourself. If you love western music, enjoy it!. If you love nature, enjoy it!
I too suffered from this dilemma, I understand that many average girls that grows up in the conventional Nigerian society tend to be mediocre, plastic, religious and very materialistic. They know very little but are the highest consumers of the current Nigerian trashy pop culture.
Again environment plays a big role. If you are an intellectual or have a sophisticated taste , and you live in a common, mundane Nigerian community comprised of lower and middle class citizens, weak power supply and bad roads, the kind of girls you'll meet won't meet your standards. It seems you live one of such places. Change your environment, go to highbrow places, go to where the big boys and high class roll, mix with them, worship in churches like House On The Rock, COZA etc. Go to places that exhibit your values, travel, INCREASE YOUR STATUS. And I tell you, you will meet lots of Nigerian ladies that meet your standards.
You are not insane. The average, poverty ridden Nigerian environment doesn't fit your taste and western ideology. You can't be forming Yankee when you live in adjegunle, change your environment and broaden your horizon. Don't let women be the source of your worry, stop searching for them. Let your lifestyle attract them.
Pls native tongue is not a sin, respect it. There are lot of cringey things nigeria has, but native tongue is not one of them, if you can't speak it, don't condemn another who speaks it. English is a borrowed language. Don't let the western mindset eat you doing inside out.

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Look at the bright side, this will provide job opportunities at least for people. When big franchises don't come to do business in Nigeria, we complain. Now that they are coming, we are still complaining.
Unhealthy eating and obesity have always been a Nigerian thing,most of our daily eating standards are unhealthy. Our traditional foods and soup are even fattening by nature.

As a guy who prefers larger women I can tell he's into a fat fetish. Nothing like love or blind love in this case. The guy is obviously trying to fulfill some some fantasy he has for fat chicks, and fat chicks like her are very easy to seduce. When he's done with hogging her, it'll be hell.
I like my women with a lot of meat, but this chick is too damn ugly and with a bad fat proportion.

Hybkay:
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Just pretend you're not interested in her (even if you are), make her jealous, ignore her, friend zone her if possible. Invest in your goals and hobbies instead.
Do not play into her mind games. Many of these church girls are not good o! They are very desperate for husbands.
No simping bro, have a plan B and even a plan C chick around.
I have prescribed some dose of red pills to cure your oneitis
Have you even tried other girls? The world is full beautiful women 100x better than this chick.

Afrobasic:
Sure... please drop the links to their channels if you can.

Rebellious Development
https://youtube.com/channel/UCSz3UT6tXZgBjSvd4c1scyg
Elisha Long
https://youtube.com/c/ElishaLong
Captain Sinbad
https://youtube.com/c/CaptainSinbad

Afrobasic:
10 Black manosphere channels (all red-pilled) you should subscribe to:

1) Kevin Samuels: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLjodVTY_kZzd3cQ7D82DhA

2) Darius M: https://www.youtube.com/user/lastsecshot

3) AnthonySpade: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheSpade123

4) Alpha Male Strategies (AMS): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0it1cu-mt_IcvLTQ4CWcHw

5) StephIsCold: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3n-Hywbms82-FPejNPpnEA

6) Coach Greg Adams: https://www.youtube.com/user/CoachGregAdams

7) Oshey Duke Jackson: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCueWAuV35HS-pkoKt0rmhbA

8 ) MJ GetRight: https://www.youtube.com/user/metalmel16

9) FITXFearless: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4m17whgO_4uf2yCOjtFg_Q

10) Austin Dunham Vlogs: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIz7Zd1ovGTV-2vE26LrJxA

Cool
Can I suggest some other great channels like
1) Elisha Long
2)Rebellious Development
3) Captain Sinbad

Hustle o! So that people will not call you pedophile when you marry a girl young enough to be your granddaughter

Damn! I getting tired of these racist crap!
See how we are putting mouth inside the family affairs of a first world country while our own country is getting f*ck3d up everyday. Leave British people with their wahala abeg!
Racism against the black African man is global. Accept it. The UK is one of the few places in Europe and the world that still takes it easy on black folks.
Sometimes it's funny that people easily ignore the high level of racism and segregation against black people in India subcontinent, southeast Asia, the Arab world, Latin America and even Africa.
I'm not a white man supporter but the western civilizations may have stolen a great deal but at the same time they have developed themselves and impacted their society and the world, whatever they're enjoying today, it was a long process of wars, sacrifice and development. They worked very hard for it. Even stealing is hardwork.

African Americans were never meant to be part of the American dream from day1, their ancestors came to the Americas on slave ships, which is quite an humiliating way to be introduced. Many battles in this world are psychological, white supremacy against black people have always existed in many forms. Sometimes you can control people by making yourself look superior in all ways to the person you want to control, and at the same time make the person look primitive and inferior.
The visions of the founding father's of America did not have any space for black people. It is nightmare to them if african americans start becoming as successful as the Jews or Asians, to them its not racism, it the natural order of things, that is why there are always systems keeping black people below.
After slavery, came segregation, to make the blacks inferior even though they were free men. MLK and other champions of the civil rights movement fought against it and there was equality between the white and the black folks. I've looked at old archives dating as old as 60's and 70's, about the lives of black folks, it was beautiful. The black people were united, self sufficient, they were literate, they had their own businesses, they even had their own entertainment. Some people felt blacks were going to become as successful as the Jews so they introduced poverty and bad values like drugs, violence, crime, prostitution, the things that make up the "ghetto culture" into the black community. It worked and it created a whole new reason for people to look down on black people. It wasn't until the violence began to escalate and affect innocent white people, and some black people grew rich and famous by transforming that negative vibe of the "ghetto culture" into creating modern rap and hiphop. The new strategy now is the "victim mentality", capitalizing on the memories of sufferings the blacks have endured for the colour of their skin, so that they blame innocent white people for their problems in life and not find a way to be liberate themselves. That's why groups like BLM and antifa are popular nowadays. The recent George Floyd protest and the cancel culture is a manifestation of that.
I hate it when I see black folks in America acting like victims and endangered species, and yet practicing the bad values like the ghetto culture, it only degrades them and makes the "white supremacy" they're fighting against stronger. When I see organizations and celebs putting a black screen on their profile or hashtagging #blacklivesmatter, I get angry sometimes because they're just trying to profit from the victimhood of black. Like the Jews, black people are one of the most ostracized group of people on the earth. Let us learn from the Jews.
I feel that those black folks who have made it over there should come and invest in Africa, it is the home every black people. Every problems the blacks suffer world has it's source in Africa. Rather than disturbing the political climate in the west groups like BLM should come to Africa and protest against our oppressive governments.


I have a feeling that one day all blacks shall return back to Africa.

If you have the money to send your children to all these schools, please do! These big schools mean serious business. Some of their curriculums and activities are more advanced than most our conventional schools. They have better teachers, better learning materials, and a better learning environment . During the lockdown most of these institutions had the resources to continue having classes while other conventional schools were still cracking their brain on how to pay their staffs. At the end these schools create would-be Harvard materials, that's why our politicians send their children their children there.
Don't listen to those people who try to demean these private schools. "The man who cannot afford catfish will always say it's too slippery for him to eat"