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If a black woman marries, dates, or even have sex with a white man, society will say she has struck gold
If a black man does the same, society will call it inferiority complex.

Music sometimes can change the dynamics of a society and I believe our hiphop songs have a BIG role to play in this. Most of the songs Davido, Wizkid and many of our mainstream artistes sing is about worshipping a girl and spending huge amount of money on her, just for kitten . Over the years these lyrics have invaded the subconscious, making men to believe they have to be a fool for a girl in order for her to like him, and women to believe that men should spend on them. The Nigerian sexual market place has grown porous, there is an higher demand from the consumers (men) and the suppliers(women) have increased their prices.
My brothers, every Nigerian girl wants a sugar daddy for Christmas. When she calls you "baby", just know you're not the only one.

Women themselves grow boring after getting married. They slowly become less attractive, more crankier, they become too earthly, less exciting, their SMV drops drastically low and they nag more. The older they get, the less appealing they become. Married men are trying.

I'm not a parent but I'll say that there is no such thing like training your child in the "British or American or Asian way". There is good parenting and bad parenting. It's all about raising your child with good and ethical values, giving him/her good formal and informal education, being close to them emotionally, maximizing their strengths and helping them to minimize their weaknesses. But unfortunately parents always tend to display some of the biggest forms of hypocrisy I have ever seen.
African parenting isn't even the most ideal. Families are the core of societies, everyone comes from one family or the other, and family system and culture are one the oldest determinants of how the society is run. We tend to uphold "African parenting" on our head like gala and lacasera , but go out to the Nigerian society you will see a lot of bad values and ethics with people, especially amongst the poor and middle class. Again, i found out that the reason why people here are always afraid to voice out their opinions, fight for their rights, and stand against a bad system has something to do with our parenting system. Parents and schools tend to be autocratic, where order is only gotten through rigid force and beatings, thus we are mostly taught "fear" and never "respect". Over the years the government, the military, the police and different people in power have always utilized that " subconscious fear" in Nigerians to get away with oppressing people and stay in power.
Many of we millenials and gen-Z have embraced counterculture because we've seen that upon all the "african way", it doesn't reflect in the society, there is still so much corruption and poverty.

As society is advancing, cultures are spreading globally and the media is becoming more influential, the coming generation will be more intelligent, more independent, and more complicated than the last.We have to advance our cultures and change our strategies of raising children, because if they cannot come to trust you, the media will be their parent.

This is why today's men need the redpill and go MGTOW.

Oh boy, it is better to hustle in your country and have dignity and self respect. I learnt that most of these European nations ( UK and France being an exception) and Asian countries are very racist to blacks especially when you come from Africa. Their societies are homogenous and thus they see us as beggars, thieves, fetishes, they see us as people who have come to take their jobs, flood their healthcare system and sleep with their women. If you hear what most of these Europeans say about black people you will want to nuke them. For me I will only to such places for business, tourism or education, these guys hate black immigrants.
If Russia wants immigrants they should tell us themselves

I can't say for the whole Africa, but for Nigeria our parenting system is "toxic". Unless you retrain yourself mainstream parenting system in Nigeria creates two types of people: Jagudas and simps. In the Asian and Western world older generations see youngsters as potentials, as seeds to fertilized to bring forth fruits and carry on a legacy. In many Nigerian homes young ones are seen as nothing but tools. Many of us don't teach our young ones good values but when they commit a flaw we are quick to rain beating upon them.

If you think training a child in the "Africa way" is ideal, shebi the family is the core of every society ? Look around you, the characters of many millenials and gen Z in today's Nigeria, you will realize that there have been a lot of flaws in raising children over the past years.

Again these guys outside have a strong family system where family values are shared, both nuclear and extended. It's sad to say that in Nigeria our traditional family system is breaking apart, there is so much envy, segregation, fear and distrust among family members ( fear of village people is a subtle sign of that). In many African homes there are no family values, you just need someone to fear in order to behave.

If you ask me, this NYSC stuff is growing useless year by year and has outlived it's purpose. It's more like a forced patriotism where graduates are indentured servants. Can't youths serve the country in their own way without being forced to work under a failed system?
How does being a primary school teacher in a backwater community school, a place where no qualified teacher would dream of working in, help in the "development" of the nation?

Some Valentine tomorrow eh
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I don't know, but let us learn to think for ourselves, something being legal doesn't mean it's good. Cocaine was once legal, slavery was once legal, even the Holocaust was legal. Many people and organizations supporting LGBTQ in public or in the media or social media are just doing it for promotion or just moving with the herd, generations ago when homosexuality was a taboo these same people would have condemned gays. Look, if samesex marriage can be legal then other deviant sexual behaviors pedophilia, incest, bestaility can also be legalized, it's all a matter of time, use the media, use pop culture, use popular figures, use entertainment, use logic, make people who think these acts are messed up look bad, and change the narrative. One day pedophiles may come out boldly and demand for their own rights. I hope it doesn't come to that.

I do not condemn homosexuals, in my faith, Jesus ate with sinners and gentiles, all kinds of people came to him. In my Christian faith, homosexuality is a classified as a sin, sexual immortality, so is adultery, rape, incest, lust of the eyes, pornography etc. If you do any of those listed above then you have no right to judge gays.

But African countries copying the west in some of their odd ideologies is like a poor kid following a rich kid to commit a crime. When both of them are caught, the rich kid's money would stand for him, while the poor kid will languish in jail. Most of the countries where LGBTQ is flourishing are 1st world countries. They have good education, food, better health care, 24/7 electricity, strong ICT, strong respect for civil rights. They acquired all these first before LGBTQ could come to actualization. 89% of African countries don't even have 20% of these.

Ironically, the men advising other men not to marry or keep a healthy relationship with the opposite sex will be the ones end up enjoying happy marriages, with a loving wife and kids.
Let's not be simps, but at the same time let's be human.

The irony is that the money used for feeding the dog weekly is 5x higher than what some civil servants are paid monthly.

OK, that was disturbing.

If you want to advocate peace for youths, create impartial business and educational opportunities for them. Teach them critical thinking and financial freedom. At the end it's always poverty, hunger and illiteracy that causes youths to carry arms.

Bad - Don Diablo
We Are Love - Don Diablo
Mars - Timmy Trumpet
Make You Mine - Mike Williams
Head and Heart - Joel Corry

smallsmall:
I like your OPTIMISM.

There is a popular and universally true Phrase: WORK and PRAY.
We have prayed and prayed for Nigeria, nothing has changed and it keeps getting worse.
Nigeria is very rich but the few People looting it into oblivion are the problem.
Nigerian Youths TRIED TO GET BACK THEIR COUNTRY, using the #EndSARS, #EndBadGovernment Protests but you and l saw how they were murdered in Cold Blood, using the same Armed Forces they feed and equip with out Tax.
What else do you want Nigerians to do?
Stay and die? Fight and die? Run, live and come back to fight another day?

How do you stand and fight a Govt that turns military Weapons on UNARMED Protesters, without the help of the International Community (ICC, UNHCR, Military Powers) and Nigerians in Diaspora?

It seems most Nigerians still dont understand the kind of enemy they are facing in this country. Enemies of Nigeria are mostly Politicians and Elites Govt, they will not give up without a bloody fight.
Go and read about the History of Ghana, the same country whose Citizens "ran away" from Ghana and came here to be immigrant Shoe-Shiners, teachers, menial labourers. Until Jerry Rawlings of blessed memory decided that the time has come to seize his Country back from these enemies who call themselves "Politicians and leaders".

That is the only hope for Nigeria, prayer session has come and gone.

I'm not saying that we should just pray alone. Action is king. Some kind of situation pass just mere protest. There must be a change in mindset. The visible changes of the nation depends on the invisible changes in the minds of the people. Most of our bad leaders were created by us, by the negative values of our society. Many common Nigerians are as greedy as our leaders, they just haven't gotten the opportunity to unleash, that's why. Many people complain about corruption just because it hasn't favoured them. Many pains Nigerians face everyday are inflicted upon them by fellow civilian Nigerians like themselves. Do a little study on the Nigerian society, and observe carefully how we live, deconstruct some things and you may be surprised how do ourselves. I'm not justifying the government and the politicians but if we continue with our greedy, " cut corner " and oppressive mindsets we will continue to have greedy and corrupt leaders even after a revolution. If we continue to overlook and accept corruption, exploitations and oppression in our homes, our schools, our churches, our social groups, our streets, our communities we will never beat corruption in the government. We the people are the government. We have to take responsibility and support each other

Gerrard59:
Many Nigerians in their twenties and early thirties did that when they were young, today, wetin dem gain? What has changed? BTW, are you saying that prayers develop a country?

But it's better than to complain and curse like most folks do on nairaland. Your believe system controls a lot of things, I'm not talking religion here. 80 percent of the time, Nigerians curse and spread negativity. They say all day "this country is cursed" "Africa is the devil's playground", " the soul of the black man is full of evil " .
Why is it an acceptable mindset for people to believe that dark powers and voodoo is behind a problem, but stupidity to take positive spiritual actions? I'm not saying that we should carry anointing oil and start cabashing then fold our hands and do nothing. If we believe in a devil then we should also believe in a stronger Elohim too.
Little things like faith, blessings, and positive energy go a long way to change things.

Many will people think their father has the smallest farm in the village until they visit other people's farm. Nigeria may be in a deep situation right now but even at that we're better than other nations especially in here Africa. I'm not a buhari supporter but our democracy and freedom better pass some other country.
There is money in Nigeria, but we don't know how to manage the resources to make wealth. All the billions that politicians are looting does not come from thin air, it's from the country, let us get it back!. The are planning to leave this country and so are the commoners, if everyone leaves who will develop Nigeria? The Chinese?
National development is down-upward movement. If all we citizens do is to sulk and curse the nation and the black race, Nigeria will remain the same or worse in 30years. How many people pray for the nation and it's leaders or at least say "God bless Nigeria?" If the little factors of our society are messed up then the big things like education, healthcare, economy, security, roads, housing etc will be messed up. We say "corrupt politicians, corrupt politicians" but I tell you, some ordinary Nigerian are worse, they just haven't gotten the chance.
How many of us have stood up and voiced against the series of injustice and misconduct like child abuse happening in our local communities?
How many people are interested in local community development?
Every great nation was built by it's people not the government. Let us fight for what is ours and invest in our nation positively or else those sneaky Chinese imperialists would get richer and powerful by feeding on our resources, but by then it won't be problem of the buhari and the politicians we're insulting.
Nigeria would be great if we desire it to be. Not just by mere words. God bless Nigeria.

Not that we're not fair to the Ibo's but other tribes are skeptical about them when it comes to trust. The Ibo's are enterprising and are good industrialists, they're innovative and business savvy too but one of their biggest flaw is that they can be very crafty sometimes, especially the ones that grew up in the core ibo environments characterized by business and trade. Get too familiar with some of them and they'll swindle you and even sell you. Even this their Biafra/IPOB stuff is a scam, they just have a common enemy. Let a biafran be enriched and he might even denounce Biafra. They're only loyal to money and power
Just talking from experience.

Asifiwe:
Blood ,Fire, and water ,


This is the the final destination of Nigeria. Those who are still hopeful that the country called Nigeria will somehow find a way out of this nebulous misery without a Bloody Revolution are in denial of the truth. Nigeria is the playground of the most wicked criminals in Politics, the home of the most cruel men in Power and the comfort zone of pathological liars.

Nigeria is founded on Lies and sustained by lies, For those who are hoping that the doom of the country will somehow be averted by routines of Elections and a change of Power either from the East, West of North. I have one word for you, Keep fooling yourselves. It will not happen.

No change of government can prevent the impending doom, Nigeria is seating on a keg of gun powder. It is a time bomb that will explode without warning. Expect the worse. Some may ask, why did i make this hard statement about the country? It is because of a better understanding. We have paddled this boat for over 50 Years and can state without mincing word, that the country's doom is hinging close

When you have a country with wicked men like Buhari, the current impostor who somehow wriggled himself into our existence after his failure in the 80s,

A coup plotter who ousted a “democratically” selected Sheu Shagari and wasted opportunity by his selfish ambition for power, A fanatic, a nepotist and man lacking in intelligence whose only interest in power is to through his clinging to power waste the ambition of Young people while using proxy to rule. With a man such as this, do not expect so much

A country where Babangida a corrupt element who wickedly began the downward trend of the country when he institutionalized corruption, a man who embodies everything evil in the opportunity he had to drive the ship of state, I need not tell you how this criminal who is too afraid to step outside of the country for his wickedness ruined the destiny of many citizens and hid both himself and the resources of the country in Minna, his only stop outseide of Nigeria since stepping out of power is Germany because he knows that there are dossiers of his crime for which justice sleeps endlessly in Nigeria.

A country where crooks the like of Obasanjo, a Liar, a scammer and s double tongued failure who wasted eight years and sought to become the Mugabe with his third term agenda for which bribes was flying around the National assembly in a Ghana must go bags just for this selfish, power drunk criminal of Abeokuta to entrench himself , to imagine that the same Obasanjo is now being regarded through a fraudulent media which they created as a Nationalist by ignorant men is a course to believe that the doomsday is just being delayed, Obasanjo who in revenge of the failure to have a third term ambition, imposed a sick Man on the country so that the failure of the Late Yar adua will make all consider him as a better man, Men who aught to be in Jail if there was justice in the Land keep a constant presence on our conscience. The list of these failure are many, From Goodluck Jonathan under whose nose criminals became relevant, some taking solace away in foreign climes and others being jailed by the criminal in Power to Abdusalami Abubakar, the man who looted the loots after the death of a despot,

The List of these criminals are many, criminals who we call leaders who pocketed the Police and pay them Poverty wage to prevent the rage of the masses, Criminals who uses the Army to fight the citizens, these are the criminals we call leaders


Those who did not understand the history of Nigeria will confuse these criminals as Leaders, Nigeria in her 60 Years of existence has not produced a Leader, we have been very unfortunate to have profligates as Leaders, men without conscience, who sees the country as a Project site, where they loot the treasury and leave the masses worse than they met them.
The resources of the country is enough to feed the whole country, the Oil in Niger Delta, the income and revenue of the government in Tax, the proceed of Aviation, the revenue from Maritime, the huge investment from the Telecoms company, name it, the monies being generated in the country is enough to feed Nigeria, It is enough to create Business and employment fro the citizens, Nigeria is one of the richest countries in the world with Criminals overseeing the resources.
We have no reason whatsoever to Borrow money from any foreign countries, there is not reason to be indebted to China, or the Paris club.

The one reason we are constantly thrown into Debts is because we allowed myopic and incompetent buffoons to seat over the resources of the state.
The clueless criminals both past and present, Killed every infrastructure, maintained Nothing, and created no Jobs for citizens, all the industries of Government was destroyed by bad managers and no one is sentenced to Jail for stealing the resources belonging to all the citizens, the criminals licensed thievery because they themselves are thieves. They broke every Law and used their position to syphone the resources of the country into privates vaults. They had the Police to protect them, they made bribery an accepted norm.

These criminals ruined the lives of the Youths, they made no provision for the growing Youth of the country, Nigerian Youths have the most brilliant and the most talented people across the continent of Africa, who needed little motivation to tap into the wealth of natural endowment deposited in them, But these criminals we called Leader, weaponized Poverty, created a system where parents cannot fend for themselves of compelled to struggle unaided by the government and demoralized the Younger generation. In recent times, It was so shocking to hear of Young people committing suicide, because they got to their extremities and saw no hope in the social condition imposed on them by the criminals we called Leaders


There are lots of untapped skills in the growing population of Nigeria, who hoped on the society to harness their innate gifts but was left unattended, Young people gets out of school disappointed by the society they call home and have had to look to foreign climes where they are subjected to all forms of abuse and disgrace for survival. This is only because wicked criminals made the country's resources their inheritance and seats in power without a clue. Several young people for the failure of these dinosaurs who recycled themselves into power promising a haven of relief which they all disallowed by their tyranny against the masses, through the Police and the army. These wicked Criminals postponed the evil day which is imminent
They witnessed a taste of it in the October #ENDSARS agitation, which they quelled by the guns and are struggling to deny by lies


The Last time we were out in unanimity against a wicked government was during the Brutal reign of the Evil Genus called Babangida and this was the collective protest organized without social media in all the the southern Universities of the Country, It was during one of this protest i propounded the


Theory of Blood, Fire, and Water.


The Blood representing a total Revolution that will see an end to the injustices by these wicked unrepentant dinosaurs, A revolution that will go after the known criminals who ruined us, irrespective of their tribe, religion and affiliations, a revolution that will be deadly, It will spill the Blood of these wicked monsters who prevented the development of the country, men who made us a shame of the whole wide world., men for whose clueless reign and failure one country can regard us as a shithole, we will go after their properties, the ones built from the proceed of corruption, the things by which they differentiate themselves from the other citizens, wicked men who prior to their part in politic are paupers but stole the country so blind and build mansions for themselves and all their generation yet unborn. It will be worse for these men and their offspring who we know. Their Police should be ready, they will soon realize that the Power of the masses is more than the few men hired to protect oppressors.


During the #ENDSARS movement, we saw Police begging for their lives, some took to their heels when the people said enough is enough, This is what happen when the oppressor pushes the masses to their extremities as has been done by the profligates we called Leaders. Some of them are getting old and dying but they should be aware that all the proceed of corruption which they erected for their bastard children will become monument for the museum when the masses take over their loots.


This is a notice to all those who ruined the country from Gowon to the current criminal who is currently looting the country and annexing the North to Niger and is taking a unilateral decision as a dictator that he is to sign a pact with Niger to export crude oil from Nigeria and export the bi-product back to Nigeria, an embarrassing disgrace into which they have consistently wickedly thrown the country into. If this is the Buhari that we knew in 1983 and not the one from Chad or Sudan, we will make him pay for this unilateral foolishness and all the proceeds and resources stolen to build an empire for themselves will be retrieved in a bloody revolution soon to come.

Then Fire, the fire will be the rage of the masses for and the resolve to take back what has been stolen by these failures, it will be the retribution for the wicked, they will be unable to escape as this will be the day of reckoning and the rage of the masses. For those of them who think we are a docile people and have continually ruined the country and gifted themselves all the land and properties from the failure into which the plunged us into by plundering, They will have a time to mourn and regret if they are alive to tell the story. It will happen. Even it it does not happen in my day, It will sure happen and the oppressors should reflect on what their starched ill gotten wealth will become whether dead or alive, all the monies thy looted in bringing Telecommunication, all the Bribe collected by the likes of Dina Melaye who should be stoned like many of the criminals in the useless senate and all their arrogance by which they insulted us, they will loose it when the fire rage across this country

It then we can have water, the cleansing that will begin the rebirth of a nation, if we do not go our separate ways which is likely to happen after the revolution.
This will be the destination of the lie we called a country
an this is a memo to the oppressor and all their military and Police who revel in corruption and are silenced by the misery money they called salary by which they turned on the masses

Complain, complain, complain. That is what we always do. Many nigerians complain because they are victims of the system, not because they care about the country. What happens when they suddenly have millions in their bank account, and living lavishly in mansions, their children are schooling in London and having holidays at Monaco? You won't hear them complain again.
Where do you think bad leaders come from? They come from our society. In Nigeria people mistake craftiness for intelligence - oversense . Look around you in Nigerian society, it's all chaos, we love to break simple rules to achieve selfish goals. We have a way of life that promotes corruption, sometimes we call it "hustling" - corrupt politicians are hustling too.
Revolution comes from a change of mindset, not by fighting - another criminal will emerge from the woodworks later on, and the viscous cycle of corruption continues. How many Nigerians are ready to change their bad habits for the betterment of the nation?
Nation building is a down-up movement, if the everyday things of the common society are messed up, the government will be messed up too because they will repeat what we do in a large scale.

This one is STRONG. Isn't there anyone who can spare a red pill for this brother. I left mine in the house.

Gone Girl

I don't know what to say, I'm just a fence sitter. But this is Nigeria, anything can happen. Almost nothing is impossible In this part of the world. If certain commotions start springing up out of the blues suddenly we should learn to question it.

Disclaimer:
Most of these nairaland redpillers are just pickup artists or frustrated AFCs, always about women and sex. Redpill manosphere is beyond getting laid by the opposite sex, it's also social, political, financial, mental, spiritual. It's about the personal improvement of a man's image of himself and those around him, questioning the regressive rules that govern us and deconstructing the gears of the society and searching for the truth within. Redpillers of the manosphere are like the Neos of the modern day matrix. You cannot grow by busy calling others small and weak if you cannot show them the way.
Apart from the porn industry, what other bodies are so dedicated to meeting the needs of men like that of women?
Very few.
Instead of roasting other betas for their weaknesses, why don't we guys come together and formulate ways to make more money, have financial freedom, get hotter chicks and tackle other issues bothering the masculine society. We are the resistance.

If you're looking for better redpill contents check sites like Illimitable Men or Rebellious Development and some sub reddits on the redpill.
You will mostly find addicted pussey hunters and angry sex starved bros here.

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darasiiimiii:
Might i ask if you have this books in soft copy

Yeah. But you can get them on PDFdrive.com

Salam, fellow redpillers. I am glad that our black brothers are now opening their eyes. Because of misunderstanding people criticise me, saying that I'm following a western concept. But ironically black guys are the ones who need the red pill more. In terms of race black men have the lowest SMV. If a poll is carried out on the most preferred race of men for women to date, black men would be the lowest. It's an uncomfortable truth - that's why it's called the red pill.
Recommended books:
The Rational Male (part 1 to 3) by Rollo Tomassi
The Myth Of Male Power
Manosphere by Ian Ironwood

Lilian Esoro

Where are all the Black Lives Matter crew?

Lesson of the story: The black male is alone. Unless he has money, good looks or power, even the black female will regard him as a final option.
Guys, am I lying?!
How many of you can vouch that your girlfriend won't leave you if a white guy shows interest in her ?