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Not true! Naijans abroad need to get over themselves, people at home are focusing on how to better their lives. No one has the energy to focus emotions on wishing you evil.

25000 naira back in the 90s

You urgently need to toughen up!
Why are you constantly playing the victim?

Lack of money caused you to cheat on your husband and now you’re on the brink (yes you are) of continuing because your oppressor considers you too poor to fight back.

Listen! Sit yourself up and talk to yourself! Are you now going to become a toy to a stray man because of N50k? You don’t fix a mistake by making another one. You tried that already and see where it got you.

Turn the tables on him! Is he texting you this nonsense or calling you on the phone? Have a record of his threats, make sure you know his workplace and tell him you will make sure his story goes viral, two can play the game. Is his job worth losing just so he can continue having sex with another man’s wife? Tell him to go and do his worst, that him and his friend who live there in Aba will see pepper. Don’t you have friends, brothers, sisters, anyone you can confide in? Let him know you have an army. Reactions like yours is what perpetuates nonsense behaviour like this. Time to fight fire with fire. Tell him if he messes you up you will do worse and disgrace him mightily. Go gangsta on him and stop doing smesme. You can be poor and still have dignity. Yes, you sacrificed your dignity the moment you started flirting with him. You got burnt and you’ve learnt your lesson. Instead of begging a predator, FIGHT BACK!

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and losing sleep while he plays cat and mouse with you. He has chopped your body and you’re still allowing him to chop your peace. N50k is not worth your peace!

As for your marriage, you and your husband need to work on it and you need to go to the streets and find work to do with your hands. Stop cheapening your body, using it as a tool for small change.

What I know for sure is that having an excessive number of kids that you can’t cater for is one of the most common pathways to poverty and rapid aging. Your fine boy/gal disappears quickly when the bills encompass you like ocean waves.

OP should be more concerned about those “financial problems” than having a fifth girl.

Merry Christmas Fitzherbert, just clicked on mentions and saw yours Apparently, I don’t get notifications anymore.

FireRain:
Awww,thanks I do understand .

Merry Christmas Firerain! I hope you and the family are well. Best wishes for 2020 and beyond

Merry Christmas, Sowore; very happy at this news!